Pls everyone, I have a problem.
I started living with my siblings since October and I got a job by December that pays 30k per month and ever since then, they want me to foot the whole bills.
Mind you, the three gals I'm living with don't wanna work. They are into hookup and want me to pay for everything thinking I'm hiding cash.
The first month, I got 15k for half month and I gave them 8k for food, they went and bought cosmetics for themselves. I pretended as if I was dumb. Then after dat day they didn't give me food anymore. I hard to feed myself that month with the 7k.

The next month I got 30k and I gave them 14k for food, they went and bought cosmetics and food for themselves. After that week, there was no more food for the month.


It seemed as if they were using my head.. Then the third month, I got the 30k again and I bought foodstuffs worth 8k for the house and some clothes cos they didn't want me touching their stuffs and they got angry and went to tell my neighbors that I don't wanna give them money. After they have fed themselves and their cousins with the foodstuffs they still want me to be bringing 2k every time before they cook at home and house rent is expiring next month which we will pay same quota

PS: I'm a housekeeper for one hospital.
Pls I need advice cos this stuff is driving me crazy

Pls someone should help me cos I'm about to lose my savings

Cc.
ThinkSmarter
Pansophist

SonOfHercules:
Pls someone should help me cos I'm about to lose my savings

Become homeless for a month and prove them wrong

Blupen969:
Become homeless for a month and prove them wrong

So should I give them all my money and still pay rent to make them happy

Keep helping the poor. Your reward is in heaven

SonOfHercules:


So should I give them all my money and still pay rent to make them happy

Women are very emotional beings, sit dem down, tell dem a touching story of how life is hard for you.

Arouse their emotional part. If u don't know how to do it, go online and search for now to manipulate people.

They will fall if u play your tricks very well. 😁

SPAMBOX7:
Keep helping the poor. Your reward is in heaven

Mind you, they are nt poor...
They have money but don't want me to share since I'm working. I think it is envy

squash47:

Women are very emotional beings, sit dem down, tell dem a touching story of how life is hard for you.

Arouse their emotional part. If u don't know how to do it, go online and search for now to manipulate people.

They will fall if u play your tricks very well. 😁

No be my sis.. Those ladies are bloody greedy.
They will pretend at that moment then go and spread shit about you.
You can't believe that all those while they were telling people that I haven't drop any money since I started working 😣😣😣

If they are truly your siblings, then i can say they don't care about you. Make arrangement to start living alone and focus on your work. Only dash them money once in a while and ignore their drama. They are already wild, u can't tame them now

Wait, the three girls are your sisters and they are all into hookup?

SonOfHercules:

Mind you, they are nt poor...
They have money but don't want me to share since I'm working. I think it is envy

Keep helping them. Your reward is in heaven

ThinkSmarter:
If they are truly your siblings, then i can say they don't care about you.
Make arrangement to start living alone and focus on your work.
Only dash them money once in a while and ignore their drama.
They are already wild, u can't tame them now

Thanks a lot big bro🙏🙏🙏
They are actually my step sisters and I've been thinking about what you just said..
Thanks once again

SonOfHercules:


So should I give them all my money and still pay rent to make them happy

Do you really have a choice??

Cutehector:
Wait, the three girls are your sisters and they are all into hookup?

As in to work just tire them...
They just love extravagant life.

Blupen969:
Do you really have a choice??

Hmm... Im just in my early 20s.
Don't you feel dis could lead to my downfall in future.

SonOfHercules:

Hmm... Im just in my early 20s.
Don't you feel dis could lead to my downfall in future.

Lol bros life no easy too many wicked, bitter and heartless people out there, just do what you gotta do to survive now forget about your future, they only thing that matters is NOW

stop paying for food at home and eat outside...dont touch their food and your life will be easier from that point on. let them fend for themselves. stop being a fool, NO MORE CHOP/COSMETICS MONEY FOR THEM!

Find another place and live. It will solve all your problems. If you stop giving them money, it won't end the mental and emotional blackmail and torture youll pass through, so move out.

Also you don't cast pearls to swines, meaning you don't give valuables to pigs. They lack the ability to appreciate it, they just can't. And you must accept that the pigs you hate outside can be your family.

They said blood is thicker than water, that true, but do you know what's thicker than blood? It's love. Love is thicker. They don't treat you like someone they love. You should not tolerate it.

Also, you must be comfortable being in people's bad book. You should always act right, but if anyone gets angry when you please yourself and treat yourself like you matter, it's their problem. Putting yourself first and refusing to be their beech is acting right. Leave them, and move on.

Blupen969:
Lol bros life no easy too many wicked, bitter and heartless people out there, just do what you gotta do to survive now forget about your future, they only thing that matters is NOW

I don't think you are alright at all

SonOfHercules:

Hmm... Im just in my early 20s.
Don't you feel dis could lead to my downfall in future.

My guy don't listen to that person that adviced you to give them all your money. The only thing you can do now is look for a new place to stay.
Look for any of your guys that you can pair with and pay half the rent

squash47:

Women are very emotional beings, sit dem down, tell dem a touching story of how life is hard for you.

Arouse their emotional part. If u don't know how to do it, go online and search for now to manipulate people.

They will fall if u play your tricks very well. 😁

I hope you're joking sha, if not, this is nonsense. Firstly, you don't negotiate with someone that carries none of your responsibility. Same way you don't negotiate with your child which school he has to go, or if he will eat at Dominos or at home.

To negotiate with such ungrateful, materialistic and unloving sisters is a very bad foundation. He should leave the house. Let them deal with themselves. He is like a fish in the midst of crocs. You don't negotiate, you evacuate.

odinson1:


I don't think you are alright at all

Odinson1 nwanem i don't give a shit about what you think

odinson1:


My guy don't listen to that person that adviced you to give them all your money. The only thing you can do now is look for a new place to stay.
Look for any of your guys that you can pair with and pay half the rent

You are telling him to look for a new place to stay, you give am any new place to stay abi you think say na nigerian film be this?

pansophist:


I hope you're joking sha, if not, this is nonsense. Firstly, you don't negotiate with someone that carries none of your responsibility. Same way you don't negotiate with your child which school he has to go, or if he will eat at Dominos or at home.

To negotiate with such ungrateful, materialistic and unloving sisters is a very bad foundation. He should leave the house. Let them deal with themselves. He is like a fish in the midst of crocs. You don't negotiate, you evacuate.

That niqqa can't survive on d streets with 30k a month. Even he himself knows that, that's why he is looking for a way to tweak d situation.

MrBrownJay1:
stop paying for food at home and eat outside...dont touch their food and your life will be easier from that point on. let them fend for themselves. stop being a fool, NO MORE CHOP/COSMETICS MONEY FOR THEM!

Thanks big bro🙏🙏

pansophist:
Find another place and live. It will solve all your problems. If you stop giving them money, it won't end the mental and emotional blackmail and torture youll pass through. And you should also not be living with people like that.

I've written it here a lot of times that you don't cast pearls to swines, meaning you don't give valuables to pigs. They lack the ability to appreciate it, they just can't. And you must accept that the pigs you hate outside can be your family.

They said blood is thicker than water, that true, but do you know what's thicker than blood? It's love. Love is thicker. They don't treat you like someone they love. You should not tolerate it.

Also, you must be comfortable being in people's bad book. You should always act right, but if anyone gets angry when you please yourself and treat yourself like you matter, it's their problem. Putting yourself first and refusing to be their beech is acting right. Leave them, and move on.

You are a bag of wisdom🙏🙏
Cos the last time I collected my pay without giving them for a week, they told the neighbors shit about me.
The neighbors were angry when they heard the truth.

SonOfHercules:
Pls everyone, I have a problem.
I started living with my siblings since October and I got a job by December that pays 30k per month and ever since then, they want me to foot the whole bills.
Mind you, the three gals I'm living with don't wanna work. They are into hookup and want me to pay for everything thinking I'm hiding cash.
The first month, I got 15k for half month and I gave them 8k for food, they went and bought cosmetics for themselves. I pretended as if I was dumb. Then after dat day they didn't give me food anymore. I hard to feed myself that month with the 7k.

The next month I got 30k and I gave them 14k for food, they went and bought cosmetics and food for themselves. After that week, there was no more food for the month.


It seemed as if they were using my head.. Then the third month, I got the 30k again and I bought foodstuffs worth 8k for the house and some clothes cos they didn't want me touching their stuffs and they got angry and went to tell my neighbors that I don't wanna give them money. After they have fed themselves and their cousins with the foodstuffs they still want me to be bringing 2k every time before they cook at home and house rent is expiring next month which we will pay same quota

PS: I'm a housekeeper for one hospital.
Pls I need advice cos this stuff is driving me crazy

That's Nigeria girls mentality for you, find friend or some space In your place work to stay for now

SonOfHercules:


So should I give them all my money and still pay rent to make them happy

No , hang around

SonOfHercules:

Mind you, they are nt poor...
They have money but don't want me to share since I'm working. I think it is envy

That money you bring from your salary from the first month is the problem they thought you have more than enough, they shouldn't have known the day you received salary

Blupen969:
You are telling him to look for a new place to stay, you give am any new place to stay abi you think say na nigerian film be this?

What if I save 10k per month while staying with them and still look for another job that pays at least 40,won't dat be a better option?