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Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by oliverwrites: 8:40am On Mar 23, 2023 |
My mom can beat more than Mike Tyson but I no die instead I am better for it. My teacher in secondary school will beat me if I buy complete sports and today's sports, he will still beat me the next day if I do not buy because apparently he thought I was going to buy hence he didn't. Today I regard him as one of my best teachers and was telling my daughter about him few days ago. Beating when done for correctional purpose and in love is very very good especially for stubborn cows like myself. 7 Likes |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by Exponental(m): 8:40am On Mar 23, 2023 |
If it's corrective....good, otherwise bad |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by DonTattaglia: 8:41am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Go and ask one slowpoke, an Idiot drug junkie..A bastard whose urchins are as stupid as a GOAT. His name is Tinubu a criminal whom some F00LS are sheepishly supporting. They will shocked after d court finishes with him. I can't wait to see them jump into d lagoon. |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by ayo2008: 8:41am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Is good for good reasons You spare the rod, u have a spoilt brat 2 Likes |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by jeff1993: 8:41am On Mar 23, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:..... No wonder u turned out the way u are. If ur senior brothers had disciplined u .... maybe sense would have not departed your life.l and u would have not been hate filled and yuseless as u are 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by Kobicove(m): 8:42am On Mar 23, 2023 |
If a child steps out of line you give him\her a good spanking! 2 Likes |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by Blesphil(f): 8:44am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by Kobicove(m): 8:44am On Mar 23, 2023 |
vastolord4: I'm scratching my head trying to understand what you actually mean |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by siofra(f): 8:44am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Don't spank your child except it's absolutely necessary. In very very rare cases. Very rare. But I think you shouldn't do it at all. 1 Like |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by ariesbull: 8:45am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Very good for the African child but to the woke and modern confused parents it's bad Na your pikin train am anyhow but if he fo anyhow around my side he go see anyhow 4 Likes |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by ariesbull: 8:46am On Mar 23, 2023 |
siofra:na this one dey spoil pikin Wait make he grow up ... 3 Likes |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by BABYBULLETIN: 8:47am On Mar 23, 2023 |
The only spanking i know,is spanking of banny ass during sex,nothing or more. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by arantess: 8:49am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Billionaire2: This one works too 5 Likes |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by jayAjoku(m): 8:49am On Mar 23, 2023 |
If you want a good answer to your questions look at the American Society then compare |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by chukwuibuipob: 8:49am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Cos we pampered nowadays kids, see their behavior compare to 80s kids.Ask yourself why some of us born in the 70s removed our eyelids,head hair and put it under the carpet /doormouth for our parents to step on? Why do we do wrong and hide under the bed/ran go grandma for protection? The FEAR of KOBOKO /cane is the beginning of WISDOM. In those good days, it is compulsory to come to school with that brown long cane. Flog that demon of uselessness outta ur kids now b4 they become unruly, brats tomorrow. Imagine u talk to ur son and he slap u. Train ur kids now 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by jayAjoku(m): 8:53am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Apply Wisdom to Your spanking make sure it’s for behavior that is utterly unacceptable and totally unruly, Don’t over do it Na your pikin Na Jones e Jones e no kill person, As a parent you should try as much as possible to understand the different phases of your childs life and be able to wisely dish out punishments that will suit the situation REMEMBER YOU WERE ONCE A CHILD 1 Like |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by Kingofhoes: 8:53am On Mar 23, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:what does a 4 year old know that you want to "talk" to him/her? 2 Likes |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by mrsqueen: 8:56am On Mar 23, 2023 |
I just spanked my 9 years old boy last night when I came back to here that he had the effronty to slide the gate open, and joined some neighboring kids in playing just outside the gate. He was the eldest in the house as at that moment so no one to fear. But when the younger ones reported him to me, he felt so bad and was already crying. I almost pitied him. But it was already too late as the Cain had to come out. And "Sorry..." was his new name when I was done with him. He also had to write an undertaking declaring that he will never open the gate and step outside again whenever Daddy and Mummy are not at home. We will have to look at the letter later today because of his ongoing exams in school. The letter will be read out and signed in The presence of everyone in the house tonight. This letter will go into his file and come out again whenever he does such a thing again. Of course he can never try that again. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by Nobody: 8:56am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Kingofhoes:You can even communicate with a 1yr old and he/she will understand. All you have to do is to device a means. A 4yr old is old enough 3 Likes |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by obinna58(m): 8:57am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Torture or spanking? See their mouth like spanking Torture is evil, no one deserves to be tortured, to all my teachers and seniors who tortured me thunder fire una Well parents own is forgivable sha |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by cunny88(m): 8:59am On Mar 23, 2023 |
In Western culture it is not permitted, but do we av a law in Nigeria dat prohibits spanking kids? IMO I think kids really need it to instill discipline 1 Like |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by hustla(m): 9:00am On Mar 23, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: dey play 1 Like |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by Bahamas95(m): 9:00am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Blesphil:
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Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by BigYash: 9:01am On Mar 23, 2023 |
I saw one mother spanking her daughter days ago,the little girl was spanking the mom back and even added inductive words. The woman matter just tire me.. As little as the girl children was,she don spoil now now.. God forbids.. Some parents dey over pamper their kids,the kids go come turn disaster later. Caning is very important, cux some no dey fear spank .. Buy those masquerade çane full hux.. They will be afraid to misbehave.. Na why olden days kids them,dey disciplined pass these indomine kids now.. I wonder how d next generation go be walai 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by Nobody: 9:04am On Mar 23, 2023 |
hustla:Not playing. My parents do not believe in spanking |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by Ogegod87: 9:04am On Mar 23, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: The reason your dad gave them such warnings was not because they could inflict injuries on you, it was because he didn't want them to grow up and become women beaters. It wouldn't have stopped with you. They probably would grow up and end up beating their wives and see it as normal, after all their sister collect from their hands and nobody admonished them. Kudos to your dad. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by Dada4me: 9:04am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Spanking is biblical and morally justified. Those that were not spanked yesterday are the problems of today. Many young parents of today do not know how to train their kids even when they want to, simply because their parents did them a disservice by sparing the rod while raising them. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by mezebel(f): 9:05am On Mar 23, 2023 |
woginid967:jahahahahajah 1 Like |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by xynerise: 9:05am On Mar 23, 2023 |
All these "woke" mothers of today see spanking as torture and violence. Silly people forming civilized 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by Probz(m): 9:07am On Mar 23, 2023 |
I’m certainly not inherently against it but there’s a limit. I hate to see parents disrespect their kids and channel all their anger to them. Luckily Nigerians have thick skin but nonetheless there’s a stark difference between discipline for the sake of discipline and abuse. 1 Like |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by DrDunamis(m): 9:13am On Mar 23, 2023 |
EmekaStanley:Lovely piece you've written here, even though a good spanking is needed from time to time as the Spirit leads, most persons really don't under what the scriptures mean by "rod of correction". Its not actually a physical rod with which to beat or whip, it's actually the tongue. You'd be amazed that they know and understand fully well what you're communicating to them regardless of their age. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't trash them good when they over do 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Spanking A Child Good Or Bad? by Geovanni412(m): 9:13am On Mar 23, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: Parenting is a skill. Sometimes the fear of being spanked is enough to make kids behave. You spank some kids and you give some other kids harsh dressing down. It all depends on how the child responds to you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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