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WantsandMore:
Very true,in addition, op can go out on weekends or holidays to wild out especially if he can afford it then comes back to his Laid back holy kingdom. It's a good plan only if he can endure the lonely days.

I'm not for that kind of lifestyle sir. Check my previous posts, please.

Nyanabo:
You didn't tell us the agreement you had with her before she rented the apartment to you.

Because I know most landlords and landladies state it explicitly that boyfriends and girlfriends are not condone in their house.

Just saying though.

What's bad is bad

She stated she doesn't want a nuisance of a neighbour, who lives a wayward life.

How do you know the woman entering my apartment isn't there on business.

ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.

guy the advice is, leave girls alone, avoid sex till marriage

ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.

Your landlady is right.

If you don't like her decision, go to court.

Xkale1996:
guy the advice is, leave girls alone, avoid sex till marriage

Your advice is salient, sir.
But I got my apartment for promiscuity sake.

ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.

But she already warned you before hand of what she wants now...and even another neighbor told you....if she didn't warn you beforehand and then now started prying in your affairs then that would have been a different case of her not respecting her boundaries...but she made you aware before you moved into her house.

ForG:
She stated she doesn't want a nuisance of a neighbour, who lives a wayward life.

How do you know the woman entering my apartment isn't there on business.

From what you said she doesn't want you bringing different ladies to the house, but a 'known' girlfriend. If the lady is you girlfriend why not let her in on it.

Or do you plan on changing them regularly?

Your business partners mustn't meet you at home.

Promotions:
The problem is the landlady needs a matured man or a decent young man as a tenant but op on the other hand is a young man trying to explore life.. best you get another apartment that approves of your life style cos such apartment will be no fun for you.

You Christian moral crusaders don start again. Which one consign you wit him lifestyle? As long as he is not disturbing his neighbours or breaking any law. His lifestyle is no one's business.
Me when I first rent my first house, adugbo know say player don land. I get different babe for different days of the week.

Nyanabo:
From what you said she doesn't want you bringing different ladies to the house, but a 'known' girlfriend. If the lady is you girlfriend why not let her in on it.

Or do you plan on changing them regularly?

Your business partners mustn't meet you at home.

And how is that the landlady or anyone else's business?

U made mention of animal or object running on d roof or in d ceiling. But u never elaborated on it.
So tell us what u feel....

Rayban25:
But she already warned you before hand of what she wants now...and even another neighbor told you....if she didn't warn you beforehand and then now started prying in your affairs then that would have been a different case of her not respecting her boundaries...but she made you aware before you moved into her house.

This is where I blame the OP. If the landlord put no female visitors or any visitor as conditions for renting her house, he should not have paid for the house.

Its getting out of hand in these times with little boys in the early 20s. Why not bother about being successful other than f^cking in a rented apartment. Why not take your bitch to a hotel and when you are married take your wife to your house

ForG:
I'm not for that kind of lifestyle sir. Check my previous posts, please.

lol. All thesame, why r you now whinning about your landlady behavior if it doesn't bother you that much?

wirinet:
This is where I blame the OP. If the landlord put no female visitors or any visitor as conditions for renting her house, he should not have paid for the house.

Exactly

WantsandMore:
lol. All thesame, why r you now winning about your landlady behavior if it doesn't bother you that much?

Meant no offence sir.

Bridget95:
Its getting out of hand in these times with little boys in the early 20s. Why not bother about being successful other than f^cking in a rented apartment. Why not take your bitch to a hotel and when you are married take your wife to your house

Not of your business who he bleeps. Why will your take your babes to hotel when you rented a flat legally? It doesn't make sense.

Next time you guys will insist person must not drunk beer in his house but go to a bar if he wants to drink alcohol.

Bridget95:
Its getting out of hand in these times with little boys in the early 20s. Why not bother about being successful other than f^cking in a rented apartment. Why not take your bitch to a hotel and when you are married take your wife to your house

A fellow woman condescending on her gender.
Who's getting out of hand now?

ForG:
This is the residence seen on Google map:

1 is tenants block.
2 is landlord's
3 is Gate.

So anybody entering can be seen in full from the landlord's apartment.

Na quit notice them give you abi? Them go soon lock you up. Do you know the legal implication of posting your landlady's house online?

ForG:
Meant no offence sir.

none taking boy.

She is trying to help u focus bt u want to quarrel with her because she said no multiple female partners?

at 23 u should be husling or having serious gf.

Stop bringing different random girls or hoes to ur house.

as for the roof issue complain to the agent to talk to her to sort it out or u will live if it causes u discomfort.

VIKTO83:
U made mention of animal or object running on d roof or in d ceiling. But u never elaborated on it.
So tell us what u feel....

They say its a lizard. I think its too big for that.
It's also too quiet to be a rat.

Was thinking snake, monitor lizard.

ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.

The green quote got me laughing, peeing in my pants.

jaxxy:
She is trying to help u focus bt u want to quarrel with her because she said no multiple female partners?

at 23 u should be husling or having serious gf.

Stop bringing different random girls or hoes to ur house.

Focus should be on her life my dude.

PROPEACE:
The green quote got me laughing, peeing in my pants.

In her actual words: "women will kill your destiny."

alizma:
Na quit notice them give you abi? Them go soon lock you up. Do you know the legal implication of posting your landlady's house online?

Google Images is public already, nothing illegal about that.

Wawelexy:
Lol... I can relate, some landlord behaves like a demi god... OP if the house favours you in other aspects except for bringing in different girls, I would advise you stay, plead with her and adjust to the kind of lifestyle she wants, moreover it's for your own good sincerely speaking... Getting a good house nowadays is by the grace of God, especially in Lagos, some people predicament is as a results of renting the wrong apartment... God go help you oo...

I'm a landlord and I swear to God majority of you tenants are super ignorant upon all the education and exposure you pack.

Let me let you in on an open secret.. the law in this country favors tenants not landlords

9jagovernor:
Exactly what I'm facing In my newly rented apartment.
Although I've spent a month plus but this particular incident happened when I just spent about 2 weeks in the house.
I brought my gf to know where I'm now staying and as soon as we entered into the house, the landlady whispered but I ignored since she knows my name why not call me by my name.
The second day as my gf and I were going out she started ranting that I should not be bringing ladies into her house that her house is not a brothel.
I was like since I parked into this house how many girls or ladies as she seen with me? I kept quiet and let her say all her nonsense. I just told my gf let's go.
Thank God I only paid 6 month plus agreement... Cos I can't see myself staying in that kind of house for long.

Haha I had a nasty experience in Aba Ogbor hill.I paid 4 a mini flat ,was enjoying my house till ladies started coming was hell,infact ladies come,I take shoes inside,This woman will go take fuse out,heat go dey do me till I buy generator.

The thing cum much I knew where d lady was going ,one day I cooked ,bought drink we ate and drink,we fkkkkd ,since she de royal was happy but no more girls in my flat.She cooks 4 me,other tenants never knew ,my flat and her palor have connecting doors.Wow I lived there 4 years free,day I packed out was day she travelled.i heard was behaving like a lunatic cos she no see my free dk again.

Was not married was a property she inherited from the fada

ForG:
Focus should be on her life my dude.

isn't she married with her family? Na she get house meaning she's doing well.. Na help she dey help u reduce some nonsense.

why should different women come and sleep over in ur house? it's wrong.

ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.

my landlady even worse pass your own. Na me be tenant wey manage stay 10 months of 1 year rent. Others tenants b4 me, some stay 2 months. 2 particularly, stayed 2 weeks, abandone house and one year rent. The person who moved in the flat after I came in stayed 4 months run go rent another apartment. She has 4 kids from 4 men. Upon all the wahalla she manufactures, she dey beg me for sex. She also sleeps with teenagers, she doesn't want to see me with any female. She gets upset. Me am packing out on 31st.... 5 days time...My rent expires may 31st. everyday new trouble

Since you've collected money from her , is better you move on.

ForG:
This is the residence seen on Google map:

1 is tenants block.
2 is landlord's
3 is Gate.

So anybody entering can be seen in full from the landlord's apartment.

Lol, u don vex o! These genZ folks sef.

Anyway she will give u 3months to look for another apartment. And finally, don't rent a place where landlord lives too, no matter how fantastic the pace is. E get why!

Isabi4lov:
Since you've collected money from her , is better you move on.

Not collected yet. My guarantor, one of the pioneers in the area advised that I always go through the husband rather than her.

Advised against me leaving.