LikeAking:
Op u acted like a man, but in case of next time, know ur rights.


By right: She is supposed to give you 3 months quit notice...

Next time no just quit like that.



Secondly, you dey follow the land lady play.

I swear, he dey play with am...

youngsahito:
Their are laws guiding house rent, you can't just sleep and wake up to make a stupid decision base on somebody privacy.
He be like say landlord never frustrate u b4 n I can tell that u haven't leave in a rented apartment b4.

Why live in a rented house when I have mine. The thing is that country get as I'm be, if anything happens to any of those visitors in his house na landlord them go hold first before tenant. Just get another apartment but this time make sure the landlord doesn't live in same compound with you. That would be better

Na person Wey give landlord face sha.
But my own landlord doesn't stay with us, and on days they come by,I'm rarely at home.
But you listed up there that you are man,so I expect you to do as a man.

Na we be your best plug for everything Sexual enhancement tho

ForG:


Once heard her tell her husband that he had no right to enter her kitchen and dish food for a visitor. She wasn't around, visitor was hungry.

Husband of over 30 years laughed it off. She a control freak.

She's a very wicked woman. Find any means possible to leave that apartment for your own well-being..

Blupen969:
At age 23 you already have your own apartment?? wow congrat op it is not easy

it’s no big deed actually , living and renting house alone as a single young guy is extremely easy . Wait until he’s married with wife and kids at that age, that’s when I’ll believe he’s man enough

ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.

When will foolish people learn to mind their business in Nigeria.
She has no fvking right to tell you how to live your life as long as you didn’t commit any crime.
Is she mad??

SUPERPACK:
Why live in a rented house when I have mine. The thing is that country get as I'm be, if anything happens to any of those visitors in his house na landlord them go hold first before tenant. Just get another apartment but this time make sure the landlord doesn't live in same compound with you. That would be better

You’re on point 100%. God bless u.

@ForG, Besides at that your age, I don’t think it’s that bad being policed by an elderly woman. Me and you know say na because of pussy exploration na why u go rent that house , take this from me, there’s no big deed there. Carrying girl or girls while you’re still finding your feet is you stabbing yourself on the back .

This is coming from a guy who’s fhucked nothing less down 100 girls in my career
You’re still young my brother , don’t take decision they’ll mar your future.





However , if you still insist on exploring , disguising with “ wanting privacy “ then next time don’t rent apartment where the landlord/landlady lives. Also dress and speak in a very mature manner ( no be by speaking grammar) but trust me the way you carry yourself is the way you’ll be addressed.
Be respectful , be ready to unlearn and relearn, don’t be too forward because you get small change for acct, trust me, na change. If you’re rich you’ll get your own house


This is Africa, kill that ‘woke’ mentality, it’ll do you no good.




And finally , try to create physical - offline business and attribute your money to it. You know why ? This is Nigeria , you still have to conform in some ways with society ‘standard ‘.


You can attack me that I’m a local bush man, trust me, I woke pass u

I wish you success brotherly

ForG:


I moved in March 15th. She was actually against leasing the property to me when she heard I preferred staying on my own than socialising.
She was convinced by my guarantor, who knew her for decades.

Do you sign any paper that you will not do that?

ForG:


I don't think one has any no right if they are being offered a full refund.



No written agreement.

Stand my ground at this age? Bro I've been the head of my family since 15. Every thing passes through me to get to them.

There's actually no documented quit notice, it's just word of mouth.

Brother, drag her to court? No need to burn bridges. She has already offered a full refund.

Not everything is fire and brimstone, some issues require diplomacy.

Full refund!

Can he find another house over night..

seanwilliam:


You’re on point 100%. God bless u.

@ForG, Besides at that your age, I don’t think it’s that bad being policed by an elderly woman. Me and you know say na because of pussy exploration na why u go rent that house , take this from me, there’s no big deed there. Carrying girl or girls while you’re still finding your feet is you stabbing yourself on the back .

This is coming from a guy who’s fhucked nothing less down 100 girls in my career
You’re still young my brother , don’t take decision they’ll mar your future.





However , if you still insist on exploring , disguising with “ wanting privacy “ then next time don’t rent apartment where the landlord/landlady lives. Also dress and speak in a very mature manner ( no be by speaking grammar) but trust me the way you carry yourself is the way you’ll be addressed.
Be respectful , be ready to unlearn and relearn, don’t be too forward because you get small change for acct, trust me, na change. If you’re rich you’ll get your own house


This is Africa, kill that ‘woke’ mentality, it’ll do you no good.




And finally , try to create physical - offline business and attribute your money to it. You know why ? This is Nigeria , you still have to conform in some ways with society ‘standard ‘.


You can attack me that I’m a local bush man, trust me, I woke pass u

I wish you success brotherly

Local bush man.... Stop forming tight man...

As u explore life when u are young, allow him to also explore in his youth.


Their is nothing wrong with.him been policed by an elderly woman. Has she policed her life?

No real nigga will make this statement.

The woman is wrong. You too know how Nigerian land Lords and ladies behave.


Face the truth, that woman is infringing on his rights. Make I tell you: Right to Bleep.

seanwilliam:
it’s no big deed actually , living and renting house alone as a single young guy is extremely easy . Wait until he’s married with wife and kids at that age, that’s when I’ll believe he’s man enough

You are looking at it the wrong way oga, life no be competition

ForG:


I made enquiries, and was warned by a married tenant of 5 years. Just didn't understand the ramification.

Eyaah that's bad, guess you will have to live with the rules or collect a refund and move out

Pat081:
Do you sign any paper that you will not do that?

No sir.

Kiddogarcia:
Na person Wey give landlord face sha.
But my own landlord doesn't stay with us, and on days they come by,I'm rarely at home.
But you listed up there that you are man,so I expect you to do as a man.

Na we be your best plug for everything Sexual enhancement tho

They are retired. Always at home 24/7.

ForG:


I made enquiries, and was warned by a married tenant of 5 years. Just didn't understand the ramification.

bro. You based in Lagos?

Wawelexy:
Lol... I can relate, some landlord behaves like a demi god... OP if the house favours you in other aspects except for bringing in different girls, I would advise you stay, plead with her and adjust to the kind of lifestyle she wants, moreover it's for your own good sincerely speaking... Getting a good house nowadays is by the grace of God, especially in Lagos, some people predicament is as a results of renting the wrong apartment... God go help you oo...

Very true,in addition, op can go out on weekends or holidays to wild out especially if he can afford it then comes back to his Laid back holy kingdom. It's a good plan only if he can endure the lonely days.

U no get sense! that's all I have to say to u,

Lol

I have just been scammed on the Opay app. Please, do not link your bank card to your opay account or better still ignore the Opay app completely. All attempt to get opay customer care for help has not been successful. This makes me feel they are colluding with the fraudsters. I'm in pain.

ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.

accept a refund n look for somewhere else, note that any house owner that lives with you on same property is a red flag 🚩 you will be controlled like a child

What is your academic status.
I'm impressed with you English presentation.

You refused to hid to warning

ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.

Sometimes it's good to ask all her requirement. I've had a landlady that only allows your visitor to stay overnight as long as you pay for a night accommodation of guest. Business is business to her.

Your first sex. Then landlady giving you notice over a girl. Na wah oo no wonder nairaland is filled with tribalistic foolish people.

Rubyjade:
You refused to hid to warning

Not really a warning, he pitched it as a red flag. That I create a distance with the home owners, the wife especially.

Mikeeytools:
Your first sex. Then landlady giving you notice over a girl. Na wah oo no wonder nairaland is filled with tribalistic foolish people.

The grilling begins.

Excellent! She did the very wise and right thing. You didn't marry the girl, you brought her in for demonic Immorality through which hosts of Hell would Legitimately have right to besiege the Pure House. She is Spiritually Conscious, she must never allow you to come and use your useless directionless Sinful like to put sandsand for her Garri. If you are not yet aware of what Time this World is, or you are still Pretending like you don't know that this Life is fast becoming Extremely Spiritual, she should kick you out quickly to go and waste your Life somewhere else. Not under her Prayerful Spiritually Conscious Household.

ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.

ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.

The Irony is that if you are an su type guy, the woman may even become almost like a mother to you.

She clearly does not need the money. She is a comfortable aggressive mummy go type. And you were warned

Shezzman:
What is your academic status.
I'm impressed with you English presentation.

I'm a full-time writer, that's why sir.
No tertiary education.

GlobalWay:
Excellent! She did the very wise and right thing. You didn't marry the girl, you brought her in for demonic Immorality through which hosts of Hell would Legitimately have right to besiege the Pure House. She is Spiritually Conscious, she must never allow you to come and use your useless directionless Sinful like to put sandsand for her Garri.

You have a point sir.

You didn't tell us the agreement you had with her before she rented the apartment to you.

Because I know most landlords and landladies state it explicitly that boyfriends and girlfriends are not condone in their house.

Just saying though.

What's bad is bad