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Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Isabi4lov: 3:41pm On Mar 27, 2023
Gboom:
Let me borrow lines from Asake song " o logbon ju , ogbon, iwo logbon ju, ogbon agbon ama pa ologbon lara" meaning Too much sabi dey make sabinus to Bleep up.
Men that don't talk too much are too dangerous, you cannot easily predict them
I know so but in all nothing spoil , na who give up fvck up.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by jagGedinC2023: 3:48pm On Mar 27, 2023
How do you mean by mistake? the guy was walking pass the street and suddenly the girl became pregnant as she greeted him and he responded and walked away
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by prigoz(m): 4:07pm On Mar 27, 2023
obembet:
Many women have become a single mother today due to mistakes they were force to make by Thier partner.

It's very easy for a man to move one and remarry whenever he desires while many single mothers out there looking for who they will spend the rest of Thier lives with.

So, Should a man be force to marry a lady he impregnated by mistake?

Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CqPlm_Yuau7/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=
When you were cumming, it was a mistake, and when you are force to marry is not a mistake.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by chymeze: 4:31pm On Mar 27, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Was it a mistake sleeping with her? If a man can sleep with a lady then he should be forced to face any consequence from such action. Leave women you don’t like alone, stop sleeping with them only to abandon them when you feel you are done, it’s very bad. They are people’s daughters and one sure thing about life(especially on fornication) is that whatever you do to others will surely be done to you. Sleep with people’s daughters as you like but when it’s your turn for people to sleep recklessly with your daughters, please don’t complain.
You're talking like the girl was raped or like sex is a trophy handed to the guy. Please get this straight...sex is a mutual thing between two consenting adults! Sex is enjoyed by both partners. He's not sleeping with her; they're rather sleeping with each other! Infact I dare say the ladies enjoy it more and more effort comes from the man during sex. Furthermore I guess she wasn't a minor or wasn't raped. I'm sure she had mouth to say no to the guy's advances. The guy is under no obligation to marry her because of pregnancy. What if she has a character which is unfit for marriage? Or what if the guy himself is a devil that will kill her if she eventually got married? Marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured and if he has seen a character in her that he knows would keep him perpetually unhappy and for which she's unwilling to change them he can say no to marriage. Point is, as long as the act was done by two consenting adults then both should be ready for anything that comes which could include pregnancy and the guy's refusal to marry her in such instance.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Mar 27, 2023
chymeze:
You're talking like the girl was raped or like sex is a trophy handed to the guy. Please get this straight...sex is a mutual thing between two consenting adults! Sex is enjoyed by both partners. He's not sleeping with her; they're rather sleeping with each other! Infact I dare say the ladies enjoy it more and more effort comes from the man during sex. Furthermore I guess she wasn't a minor or wasn't raped. I'm sure she had mouth to say no to the guy's advances. The guy is under no obligation to marry her because of pregnancy. What if she has a character which is unfit for marriage? Or what if the guy himself is a devil that will kill her if she eventually got married? Marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured and if he has seen a character in her that he knows would keep him perpetually unhappy and for which she's unwilling to change them he can say no to marriage. Point is, as long as the act was done by two consenting adults then both should be ready for anything that comes which could include pregnancy and the guy's refusal to marry her in such instance.
Two consenting adult indeed. But one consenting adult is refusing to take action from the actions of two consenting adult . My point is men should stop sleeping with ladies they can’t marry, if her character and everything you listed is found in her, then he should free her and not let lust control him. Sex is not free and will never be free irrespective of the angle you view it.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Farfalla(f): 4:48pm On Mar 27, 2023
GloriousGbola:
Yes I am.
Ramadan Mubarak.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by chymeze: 4:54pm On Mar 27, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Two consenting adult indeed. But one consenting adult is refusing to take action from the actions of two consenting adult . My point is men should stop sleeping with ladies they can’t marry, if her character and everything you listed is found in her, then he should free her and not let lust control him. Sex is not free and will never be free irrespective of the angle you view it.
We are still back to the same question... doesn't the adult girl have a mouth to say no to the guy's sexual advances? Or is she still a baby? And as an adult doesn't she know that one of the consequences of sex is pregnancy? Or does the guy have to teach an adult lady that too? The girl as an adult should also be smart and intelligent to refuse a guy once she understands the consequences of the act, especially when not married. You can't force a guy to marry you because of an act that was mutually consentual. And like I said, men don't sleep with ladies! It's not like they walk into her room and meet her naked like a log of wood and just open her legs and have sex with her while she's just there like an inanimate object. There must have been some consentual effort and green light from both parties.
And you say sex is not free. So the girl should also pay for the sex offered by the guy too since it's a mutual thing.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Emdebby2: 4:55pm On Mar 27, 2023
There's nothing like a mistake. If both agreed to sleep together, they should expect a baby and not a rock.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Gboom: 4:56pm On Mar 27, 2023
Isabi4lov:
I know so but in all nothing spoil , na who give up fvck up.
Just watch and pray so that you don't fall into temptation
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Isabi4lov: 5:07pm On Mar 27, 2023
Gboom:
Just watch and pray so that you don't fall into temptation
Thanks and amen 🙏
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by karmaolu1(m): 5:48pm On Mar 27, 2023
Rubish. pregnancy can't be a mistake. as u de Bleep her what was in your mind?
You must marry her.
else...
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Juniorangel(m): 5:53pm On Mar 27, 2023
Most women manipulate their way into pregnancy thinking that with pregnancy marriage must come. You see all this single mum avoid them like a plague, they are always looking for someone to carry their burden, I repeat avoid them.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Otsam(m): 5:58pm On Mar 27, 2023
If he wasn't raped, there is nothing like he mistakenly had sex. Don't sleep with whom you can not accept her pregnancy


obembet:
Many women have become a single mother today due to mistakes they were force to make by Thier partner.

It's very easy for a man to move one and remarry whenever he desires while many single mothers out there looking for who they will spend the rest of Thier lives with.

So, Should a man be force to marry a lady he impregnated by mistake?

Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CqPlm_Yuau7/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by vince96w2(m): 5:59pm On Mar 27, 2023
obembet:
Many women have become a single mother today due to mistakes they were force to make by Thier partner.

[b]It's very easy for a man to move one and remarry whenever he desires while many single mothers out there looking for who they will spend the rest of Thier lives with.[/b]Did they do mistake to pull their pants? Climb the bed and be making annoying noises? It's not mistake..If they could not abstain, what of condoms or morning after pill? The pleasure was not a mistake so u should marry oo and treat they should treat each other nice too..Both of them helped each other in times of konji needs

So, Should a man be force to marry a lady he impregnated by mistake?

Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CqPlm_Yuau7/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Solocoin: 6:11pm On Mar 27, 2023
Who will take care of their irresponsibility if they can't marry the person? Nobody get pregnant by mistake. If you have unprotected sex you'll be pregnant or pregnant someone. If you have illegal sex be ready to take responsibility.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Bluesearoll(m): 6:15pm On Mar 27, 2023
If she's good enough to sleep with then she should be good enough for marriage
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by achimendy(m): 6:16pm On Mar 27, 2023
obembet:
Many women have become a single mother today due to mistakes they were force to make by Thier partner.

It's very easy for a man to move one and remarry whenever he desires while many single mothers out there looking for who they will spend the rest of Thier lives with.

So, Should a man be force to marry a lady he impregnated by mistake?

Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CqPlm_Yuau7/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=
No, he shouldn't be forced. I can't forcefully allow my daughter get married to a guy that got her pregnant, except the love is there and the guy is ready to do the needful.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by chaseblack(m): 7:11pm On Mar 27, 2023
Munachimso30:
What about me mistakenly getting ya sis pregnant
Mr English teacher 🤔
Stop acting like a kid. Be logical!
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by chaseblack(m): 7:13pm On Mar 27, 2023
Munachimso30:
Did he mistakenly put his dick in there too
Mad people everywhere
Having sex leads to procreation but you can want one without wanting the other.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Munachimso30(m): 7:24pm On Mar 27, 2023
chaseblack:
Having sex leads to procreation but you can want one without wanting the other.
Wow definition of mistake pregnancy
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Munachimso30(m): 7:26pm On Mar 27, 2023
chaseblack:
Stop acting like a kid. Be logical!
Not here for logic man or woman
He got someone’s daughter pregnant and he’s here saying it’s a mistake as if he’s prick fell in there by mistake
😂
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Mar 27, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Was it a mistake sleeping with her? If a man can sleep with a lady then he should be forced to face any consequence from such action. Leave women you don’t like alone, stop sleeping with them only to abandon them when you feel you are done, it’s very bad. They are people’s daughters and one sure thing about life(especially on fornication) is that whatever you do to others will surely be done to you. Sleep with people’s daughters as you like but when it’s your turn for people to sleep recklessly with your daughters, please don’t complain.
Abeg try dey calm down... These days a lot of single ladies go about hunting down guys they like to have babies for with the sole intention of becoming single mothers. So they can still be frolicking about and also be a "mother".
They don't need any man or so they think. They just want babies. They are walking traps from hell. Stop making it about like the woman is the victim. These days men are victims of such settings. They go on to milk the guy for child support and use it to enjoy with their numerous sex mates. They plenty for NL sef but I will keep that to myself. I know them and they know me. And no man should be made to marry a manipulating, scheming bitcch from hell regardless of what she's carrying in her womb
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Fuckyoumod: 7:31pm On Mar 27, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Was it a mistake sleeping with her? If a man can sleep with a lady then he should be forced to face any consequence from such action. Leave women you don’t like alone, stop sleeping with them only to abandon them when you feel you are done, it’s very bad. They are people’s daughters and one sure thing about life(especially on fornication) is that whatever you do to others will surely be done to you. Sleep with people’s daughters as you like but when it’s your turn for people to sleep recklessly with your daughters, please don’t complain.
shut up, read and pass, if you don't have anything meaningful to say.

Marriage can never be forced on anybody.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Truthsbitter: 7:39pm On Mar 27, 2023
Women sef.. Na wa for them o..

So the girl no follow fvck?
Abi Na only the guy fvck?

If a girl is impregnated by someone she doesn't want to marry, should she be forced to marry him? ..
All these mumu nairaland feminist will come and shout "No"

But them dey here dey say "if she is good enough to have sex with she should be good enough to marry" ..

Women wey dey fvck anything these days just to cash out.. Why them no dey force them to marry anybody them fvck? ..


E just dey pain me how many of my Nigerian sisters dey lack common logic.. Irritating.

The guy should take shared responsibility for the child finish.. Abi una no know the meaning of feminism again?
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by GloriousGbola: 8:08pm On Mar 27, 2023
Farfalla:
Ramadan Mubarak.
Thank you. smiley
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Zodiac61(m):
How do you impregnate a woman by mistake?
You trip up and fall in her hole?
What a stupid Post.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Mar 27, 2023
Fuckyoumod:
shut up, read and pass, if you don't have anything meaningful to say.

Marriage can never be forced on anybody.
Same way you should stay away from women if you think marriage should never be forced on anyone. I won’t shut up, come and beat me
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Mar 27, 2023
Killbillz:
Abeg try dey calm down... These days a lot of single ladies go about hunting down guys they like to have babies for with the sole intention of becoming single mothers. So they can still be frolicking about and also be a "mother".
They don't need any man or so they think. They just want babies. They are walking traps from hell. Stop making it about like the woman is the victim. These days men are victims of such settings. They go on to milk the guy for child support and use it to enjoy with their numerous sex mates. They plenty for NL sef but I will keep that to myself. I know them and they know me. And no man should be made to marry a manipulating, scheming bitcch from hell regardless of what she's carrying in her womb
Hmmm, this our nairaland? Is like I’m slacking ooo grin . I agree that men are victims some times sha. How was your day
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 8:47pm On Mar 27, 2023
What do you mean by impregnated by mistake?
obembet:
Many women have become a single mother today due to mistakes they were force to make by Thier partner.

It's very easy for a man to move one and remarry whenever he desires while many single mothers out there looking for who they will spend the rest of Thier lives with.

So, Should a man be force to marry a lady he impregnated by mistake?

Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CqPlm_Yuau7/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by babajero(m): 9:03pm On Mar 27, 2023
obembet:
Many women have become a single mother today due to mistakes they were force to make by Thier partner.

It's very easy for a man to move one and remarry whenever he desires while many single mothers out there looking for who they will spend the rest of Thier lives with.

So, Should a man be force to marry a lady he impregnated by mistake?

Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CqPlm_Yuau7/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=
Please explain the meaning of mistake in pregnancy, because I wonder how a girl can get pregnant without penetration, and there is no penetration that is by mistake.
Re: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by eroticecstasy: 9:29pm On Mar 27, 2023
SPAMBOX7:
Capital NO.

No sane man will marry a non-virgin Nigerian girl angry
Where can we find the virgins?
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