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Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by doneback04: 9:30pm On Mar 27, 2023
Go and write it down that woman is a witch, you better park out poo she is using that Christians home to cover up,
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by bassdow: 9:33pm On Mar 27, 2023
ForG:


There's no agreement form, not even receipt.
Only bank statement.

then you've got the leverage.

So long as you weren't given any agreement document to sign, the state's version e.g lagos state takes over.
Just ennsure you not silly enough to be played. At end of thhe day, I doubt they really mean giving you back the money.

Also watch out, they might give you quitNotice at expiration of your rent.

To avoid such, start the work now, draw up a report and submit it at the nearest police station. Make it known that your landlady is being problematic and you fear they might issue you quitNotice at end of the year. They would take it up from there. You just ensure your side remains very clean and you're never found wanting. pay your compund bills (e.g PHCN, compound sweeping, etc) on time. Should they increase bills fraudulently, over look what you could and ignore those you don't want to overLook.

If you're dynamically inteligent, Rent Laws favours the tenants more than it does the landLord/landLady. Just ensure you do not abuse things.

Meanwhile, I don't know where this apartment is BUT should they serve you invitation letter to come see the Oba, or Baale, never honour such. You owe no one such invitations. If they want to settle things, there are small courts (Civil Mediators I think) in most local governments. it's either that or the major court. if dem threathen to throw your things outside. Just lock your door and ignore them. Keeping mute alone would scare thhem to some extent.

if you're soft hearted, please don't take (all) my suggestions above.

NEXT TIME, before paying for any apartment, visit the compound as a stranger and try to do some subtle investigations. Ask simple questions (though e get some kind tenants wey prefer to lie so you come suffer with them), also inspect the room/apartment. if it's not been remodeled or redesign, it's state could give you some IDEAs to if thhe previous occupant left happilly or not.

na hand wey you take start with them, na wetin dem take follow you BUT it's not late to change and let them understand they don't know you well enough.

For me, I'm very honest + silly + stu-pid gentle idi0t. That means it's easy to want to take advantage of me. and when you do, I decide if to ignore you (so you think you've won) or not. Woe onto you when I choose not to. I gentle, till I no gentle.

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Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by bassdow: 9:33pm On Mar 27, 2023
doneback04:
Go and write it down that woman is a witch, you better park out poo she is using that Christians home to cover up,

na wa for una sha
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by SimpleGuy001: 9:34pm On Mar 27, 2023
ForG:


210.

210 for a mini flat? Abi you mean self contain (a room kitchen and toilet).

And total package (rent and agency fees together) of 210k is cheap
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by GindoX(m): 9:56pm On Mar 27, 2023
seanwilliam:


You’re on point 100%. God bless u.

@ForG, Besides at that your age, I don’t think it’s that bad being policed by an elderly woman. Me and you know say na because of pussy exploration na why u go rent that house , take this from me, there’s no big deed there. Carrying girl or girls while you’re still finding your feet is you stabbing yourself on the back .

This is coming from a guy who’s fhucked nothing less down 100 girls in my career grin
You’re still young my brother , don’t take decision they’ll mar your future.





However , if you still insist on exploring , disguising with “ wanting privacy “ then next time don’t rent apartment where the landlord/landlady lives. Also dress and speak in a very mature manner ( no be by speaking grammar) but trust me the way you carry yourself is the way you’ll be addressed.
Be respectful , be ready to unlearn and relearn, don’t be too forward because you get small change for acct, trust me, na change. If you’re rich you’ll get your own house grin


This is Africa, kill that ‘woke’ mentality, it’ll do you no good.




And finally , try to create physical - offline business and attribute your money to it. You know why ? This is Nigeria , you still have to conform in some ways with society ‘standard ‘.


You can attack me that I’m a local bush man, trust me, I woke pass u grin

I wish you success brotherly

Best advice so far.. I wan be like you when I grow up grin



Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by alphaNomega: 10:34pm On Mar 27, 2023
ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.
You don dey enter landlady eye cheesy
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Armanipounds: 11:13pm On Mar 27, 2023
Wetin you find go house or compound wey landlady dey stay together for inside? That's one red flag I try to avoid when renting an apartment. I ask if the landlord and landlady lives inside, if YES.... then am gone!
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by ashawopikin(m): 12:13am On Mar 28, 2023
Why are you prolonging the issue? Collect your full refund and get out asap, if you stay in that house, you won't grow, avoid toxic landlord/landlady in the future
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Pharaohny: 12:25am On Mar 28, 2023
E no go better for that landlady
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Jurncj(m): 3:19am On Mar 28, 2023
Wawelexy:
Lol... I can relate, some landlord behaves like a demi god... OP if the house favours you in other aspects except for bringing in different girls, I would advise you stay, plead with her and adjust to the kind of lifestyle she wants, moreover it's for your own good sincerely speaking... Getting a good house nowadays is by the grace of God, especially in Lagos, some people predicament is as a results of renting the wrong apartment... God go help you oo...

There nothing more troubling and witch-crafting than this type of landlord,nothing like bad house or good house,if you comfortable with the atmosphere of the house. Work and pray you will proper regardless of any whatever you feel the house is,in life there’s ups and down if you don’t work,pray and plan for the rainy day. I don’t believe anyone anywhere as the monopoly to detect direct one’s life
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Alal(m): 5:24am On Mar 28, 2023
This is where the problem is,the girl's ring tone was too loud.
ForG:


The reason I left home in the first place to explore life a little, then factory reset to home training.

If I needed to be policed about, I return home.

For goodness sake, had my first sex this month. And it was with a potential life partner not prostitute.

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Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Ladymillion(f): 6:03am On Mar 28, 2023
NEVER LIVE IN THE SAME COMPOUND WITH YOUR LANDLORD / LANDLADY , UNA NO GO HEAR
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by hakym619(m): 6:29am On Mar 28, 2023
ForG:
This is the residence seen on Google map:

1 is tenants block.
2 is landlord's
3 is Gate.

So anybody entering can be seen in full from the landlord's apartment.

Please how did you generate house pictures on Google maps. Please tell me the steps. Thanks
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Wawelexy(m): 6:51am On Mar 28, 2023
Jurncj:


There nothing more troubling and witch-crafting than this type of landlord,nothing like bad house or good house,if you comfortable with the atmosphere of the house. Work and pray you will proper regardless of any whatever you feel the house is,in life there’s ups and down if you don’t work,pray and plan for the rainy day. I don’t believe anyone anywhere as the monopoly to detect direct one’s life

I will not like to call you a kid cos you might actually not be one... but this your comment shows you have little or no experience about life.... No matter how I try to explain it to you, you won't understand, so I heard what you said....
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by godofuck231: 7:06am On Mar 28, 2023
uuzba:

If you are strong, build your own house.
She knows the strength of her husband who followed to build the house. and mr SIMP strength is not up to that.
So you just settle in your provided position as child/simp and live under her command till you can use sense, run and build your own house.
on point
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Billgatessecond: 7:29am On Mar 28, 2023
ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.



You never see anything . When you start progressing in life you will see how she will run after you like . Do this and that get a car and see the jealousy in their eyes especially when she has female children
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Hifeylove: 7:35am On Mar 28, 2023
Only a female friend landlady don vex what if you are smoking Igbooo? Just asking ooo!!!!

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Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by GloriousGbola: 8:04am On Mar 28, 2023
wirinet:


You Christian moral crusaders don start again. Which one consign you wit him lifestyle? As long as he is not disturbing his neighbours or breaking any law. His lifestyle is no one's business.
Me when I first rent my first house, adugbo know say player don land. I get different babe for different days of the week.

i can't stop laughing at this cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by linearity: 8:42am On Mar 28, 2023
Her property, her rules as long as they have disclosed upfront, which from your narrative you pretty know her kind of person more so, she is offering full refund.

We should come to terms that, in life and in the real world, not everyone is rational, not everyone is fair, not everyone is kind, not everyone is sympathetic, not everyone have common sense, etc.

If you know the above and let it guide you practically every single day, you will be the happiest person on earth!
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by ForG(m): 8:45am On Mar 28, 2023
Alal:
This is where the problem is,the girl's ring tone was too loud.

No. I doubt that, sir. Generator on all through.
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by ForG(m): 8:46am On Mar 28, 2023
alphaNomega:
You don dey enter landlady eye cheesy

She has a newly married son.
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Faposky95: 9:18am On Mar 28, 2023
Once women pester men.....
It could be they like them.....
But black woman with gragra .....
...Wetin you expect ?
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by CCC2(m): 10:53am On Mar 28, 2023
What does she have that your landlady does not have?
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by narite: 11:45am On Mar 28, 2023
Bridget95:
Its getting out of hand in these times with little boys in the early 20s. Why not bother about being successful other than f^cking in a rented apartment. Why not take your bitch to a hotel and when you are married take your wife to your house
It everywhere now. Sometimes, I feel like a stranger in this world; completely different from what I was birthed in. Kids of nowadays, I find them scary and fascinating at the same time.

Honestly, it is good to explore life and it is our own individual experiences that really matters.
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by seglabsy(m): 4:24pm On Mar 28, 2023
ForG:


In her actual words: "women will kill your destiny."
that ur landlady is a good woman and a religious person,i guess
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Pat081: 6:33pm On Mar 29, 2023
ForG:


Alright sir. My guarantor also a landlord two houses away. Said I should stay and deal with the husband himself.
Better
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by FREDCLSSICO7(m): 12:35am On Mar 31, 2023
Rokiat:
Sounds like a miserable soul. If audacity was a person da f..ck. I pity her husband. I stay far away from such negative grumpy no good folks like this.

Get out of there ASAP.


My rokky
It seems you're a newcomer here on NL
Good to have you in here
You're highly wlcum
Do you Care for a bottle of wine?
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by alphaNomega: 1:01pm On Apr 02, 2023
ForG:


She has a newly married son.

Eh even though cheesy mama dey reason you
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Xkale1996(m): 11:07am On Apr 26, 2023
ForG:


Your advice is salient, sir.
But I got my apartment for promiscuity sake.
then you will regret it continues undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Xkale1996(m): 11:08am On Apr 26, 2023
Xkale1996:
then you will regret it continue undecided undecided undecided undecided

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