Marriage is something I fear so much. Look at the current state of the country now things are very expensive. Salaries are still the same . Feeding yourself alone is a big task but how do married men go about it.. you feed wife and kids, pay little bills , house rent, school fees and you will still save.. hospital bills are there too ooo..



Omo na be ritualist..

I hail na .
I c marriage as a problem to guys because you are indirectly making a lady's Borden your Borden's and it's one of the reasons so many men die before 50 leaving their kids and wife behind.. I usually say this to myself " I can never die or make any ladies wahala my own " that why I kick against marriage...

I cases of divorce the man still looses

So why do men get married ?
She won't return her bride price
She might cheat on you. You will go make money for the family and one idiot will be giving attitude again for coming in late ....


I HAIL MARRIED MEN THAT SHIT ISNT FOR ME

Ask your father why he married your mother. His answer is why men marry.

Whether rich or poor, lifetime partnership (marriage) is a necessity, except for religious celibates.

A good marriage is the highest heaven on earth. A bad marriage is the next to hellfire. The goodness or badness of marriage is not determined by money. Only those who see marriage as a money-making (wealth acquisition) platform find marriage bitter when there is no money.

Marriage is sweet. Forget all the bills and the whole wahala you are afred of, just put God first in everything steps you takes befor and during marriage and see God talking over everything.

I no be pastor but remember God say man abd will come together has one.

Lastly pray for a good loving, peaceful, caring and supporting partners.

Cry me a river, you'll marry at the right time but for now you can keep crying like a chicken over marriage.

Men are Loyal and Responsible beings..
Nigerian gals are bitches and those bitches ain't loyal.

Their is a way out If u want to live long and enjoy Ur marriage...

1) make sure u have a good job that regularly bring in income.

2) don't ever borrow to do wedding, infact if u can skip wedding pls do, don't try to pls any fvcking body, even Ur parents.

3)use the money for the wedding to set another business up for ursef and Ur wife and make sure u invest in Ur wife knowledge or handwork.

4)keep going to work everyday and make sure Ur wife keep going to work everyday as well, u re in it together so no one should sit in front of TV watching zeeworld while the other is slaving away..

5) don't rent a house u know it's money is more than Ur 6weeks income..some will say three months but me, any house rent wey pass my six weeks income a no dey rent am...no a no dey do cus I am not impressing you.

6) let Ur woman always know Ur plan and what u plan to do with Una savings, believe me she would work more with u if she knows Ur good plan.

7) try to let some family problems settle themselves, not all problems should involve you, u have Ur own family as well.

pray Ur woman to always contribute to home expenses but don't ever split expenses for her if her income is way below urs, let her do her best this have reason
A) it reduces pressure on her
B) she's the one that will do majority of house chores and that is work on its own
C) she has kid(s) to look after and she won't be able to meet with her portion of house expenses while taking care if the kids..abeg she no be ketekete

9)Know how to cajole Ur woman and make her happy, if she like sex give it to her even when she's angry with u, if na food make sure u always have good at home, if na movie try to take her to cinema once in a while and so on.




THE OGA PATAPATA OF THEM ALL IS THAT YOU SHOULD MARRY THE PERSON WHO IS HAVING SAME IDEOLOGY WITH YOU...Lobatan.

Billgatessecond:
Marriage is something I fear so much. Look at the current state of the country now things are very expensive. Salaries are still the same . Feeding yourself alone is a big task but how do married men go about it.. you feed wife and kids, pay little bills , house rent, school fees and you will still save.. hospital bills are there too ooo..



Omo na be ritualist..

I hail na .
I c marriage as a problem to guys because you are indirectly making a lady's Borden your Borden's and it's one of the reasons so many men die before 50 leaving their kids and wife behind.. I usually say this to myself " I can never die or make any ladies wahala my own " that why I kick against marriage...

I cases of divorce the man still looses

So why do men get married ?
She won't return her bride price
She might cheat on you. You will go make money for the family and one idiot will be giving attitude again for coming in late ....


I HAIL MARRIED MEN THAT SHIT ISNT FOR ME

The reason most men still consider marriage is mainly because they want their children to grow up in a stable household so that the childs psychology wont be affected by having only one parent while missing the other..that's why I'm not a fan of baby mama trend too


Mist marriages would have broken up since if not that they have children together and so they just manage themselves

As for me I'm not paying Bride price for no mans daughter sha..and bride price should even be eliminated totally because we have bandits instead of virgins running about now

I think of women and ladies as buckets, pots, bags, just simply collectors. That's what they are. If you gets the one that worship and adores you, you are luckiest man in Earth because 70% have the tendency to frustrate your life from the day she says Yes to your proposal.

Brothers, think before you fall in love and once you fall in love live with your falling process else love will turn hatred and you will regret it bitterly.

with this your mindset, even if you become a billionaire, you will still marry the wrong person

I pity my neighbor wey get 7 Kids, he still con get like 3 junior brothers and one aunty staying with them.

The wife get canteen sha. Food no suppose be problem

IyaebeTheGreat:
Cry me a river, you'll marry at the right time but for now you can keep crying like a chicken over marriage.

So chicken dey cry for una village.. kaaaii ogoni woman

Billgatessecond:
Marriage is something I fear so much. Look at the current state of the country now things are very expensive. Salaries are still the same . Feeding yourself alone is a big task but how do married men go about it.. you feed wife and kids, pay little bills , house rent, school fees and you will still save.. hospital bills are there too ooo..



Omo na be ritualist..

I hail na .
I c marriage as a problem to guys because you are indirectly making a lady's Borden your Borden's and it's one of the reasons so many men die before 50 leaving their kids and wife behind.. I usually say this to myself " I can never die or make any ladies wahala my own " that why I kick against marriage...

I cases of divorce the man still looses

So why do men get married ?
She won't return her bride price
She might cheat on you. You will go make money for the family and one idiot will be giving attitude again for coming in late ....


I HAIL MARRIED MEN THAT SHIT ISNT FOR ME

very few people enjoy marraige theses days cos its now a burden and nothing more.

God is their strength

there is a huge difference between marrying an uneducated lazy good for nothing wife AND marrying a hardworking educated helpful intelligent wife

Billgatessecond:
■ Marriage is something I fear so much. Look at the current state of the country now things are very expensive. Salaries are still the same . Feeding yourself alone is a big task but how do married men go about it.. you feed wife and kids, pay little bills , house rent, school fees and you will still save.. hospital bills are there too ooo..

Stop hailing foolishness ! Instead try to learn from their mistakes so you don't end up another foolish Nigerian man in marriage.

With economy as e dey so, why should a sane man with human intelligence offer marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme to a grown woman who is physically fit and psychologically able to work and provide for her family?

immortalcrown:
■ A good marriage is the highest heaven on earth. A bad marriage is the next to hellfire. The goodness or badness of marriage is not determined by money. ■ Only those who see marriage as a money-making (wealth acquisition) platform find marriage bitter when there is no money.

1. How many of the over 83% steeped in poverty are experiencing this highest heaven on earth abeg?

2. Marriage as money-making platform? Is that a foreign format or what?

You're what you see. Those things do not make marriage difficult for men. Marrying the wrong woman does. You can clearly see by yourself now that such huge sacrifices should not be made for a woman that do not value them.

You don't need a prophet to tell you now as you could discover by yourself that you need to look beyond beauty for the journey of marriage. "Omo see fine girl... Meehn that girl set die...etc" That's the mentality that some guys of marriageable age have yet they complain they can't bear sacrifices for the women. How will they when they have the wrong motive for the choice of a life partner.

Now you're seeing reality. Mature up and take the hard and true decision about your choice of woman.

Oluromantic:
■ You're what you see. Those things do not make marriage difficult for men. Marrying the wrong woman does. You can clearly see by yourself now that such huge sacrifices should not be made for a woman that do not value them.
■ You don't need a prophet to tell you now as you could discover by yourself that you need to look beyond beauty for the journey of marriage. "Omo see fine girl... Meehn that girl set die...etc" That's the mentality that some guys of marriageable age have yet they complain they can't bear sacrifices for the women. How will they when they have the wrong motive for the choice of a life partner. Now you're seeing reality. Mature up and take the hard and true decision about your choice of woman.

1. How can she be the wrong woman when you picked her as the right woman? It seems it is convenient to blame the woman when reality hits, isn't it?

2. This here already stands against your claim in the first part that it is the fault in a bad marriage is from having the wrong woman. If the man is the one doing the choosing as you pretend then it is the man's ability to choose that is to blame for when the assembled blocks of the marriage crashes, and not the woman he chose.

Kobojunkie:
1. How can she be the wrong woman when you picked her as the right woman? It seems it is convenient to blame the woman when reality hits, isn't it?

2. This here already stands against your claim in the first part that it is the fault in a bad marriage is from having the wrong woman. If the man is the one doing the choosing as you pretend then it is the man's ability to choose that is to blame for when the assembled blocks of the marriage crashes, and not the woman he chose.

Kindly re-read my post and comprehend it. It's majorly the men's fault. I said no blame to women at all

Oluromantic:
■ Kindly re-read my post and comprehend it. It's majorly the men's fault. I said no blame to women at all

Look at your first two statements where you indicate the woman being wrong.

Oluromantic:
You're what you see. Those things do not make marriage difficult for men. Marrying the wrong woman does. You can clearly see by yourself now that such huge sacrifices should not be made for a woman that do not value them.

Shouldn't it instead indicate the fault being of the man's foolishness in choice of a partner. That same "wrong" woman could turn out another man's heavenly bliss in marriage. So, I do think that you erred when you indicated a bad marriage is the fault of the marrying of what you refer to as a "wrong" woman. Basically , there are no right or wrong men or women, there are simply bad choices people make majorly as a result of focusing on the wrong indicators, as you tried to explain in your second paragraph there.

Marriage was a social agreement that ensured that a man's genes are passed on, and ensured a woman will be taken care of & provided for.

Marriage these days is a gamble, where a man risks half his wealth & a woman risks becoming a single mother. 😂😂

This institution is finished.

Kobojunkie:
Look at your first two statements where you indicate the woman being wrong. Shouldn't it instead indicate the fault being of the man's foolishness in choice of a partner. That same "wrong" woman could turn out another man's heavenly bliss in marriage. So, I do think that you erred when you indicated a bad marriage is the fault of the marrying of what you refer to as a "wrong" woman. Basically , there are no right or wrong men or women, there are simply bad choices people make majorly as a result of focusing on the wrong indicators, as you tried to explain in your second paragraph there.

My point is clear. Yours is different

In Nigeria, if you don't take time, marriage will be like a nightmare

OlawaleBammie:

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God bless your home… 🙏🤲

That's my fear too.

When I see my MD and his wife... Best of friends. Their stories inspires alot and how they manage their challenges

Beyond the challenges of marriage, establish good communication and understanding

If your financial standing no strong as man in this present economy and you go chook head
put for marriage.. aswear na body go tell you.

Not with the ungrateful crop of ladies we have out there now.. always wanting to buy the best and use the best without considering the man they are putting the bills on.

ItisWell22:


God bless your home… 🙏🤲

Amen mum.

Religion aside, what's the benefit of marriage to a man?

Na God o

Rayban25:


The reason most men still consider marriage is mainly because they want their children to grow up in a stable household so that the childs psychology wont be affected by having only one parent while missing the other..that's why I'm not a fan of baby mama trend too


Mist marriages would have broken up since if not that they have children together and so they just manage themselves

As for me I'm not paying Bride price for no mans daughter sha..and bride price should even be eliminated totally because we have bandits instead of virgins running about now

Bandits