If you marry at or below your level, it won't be much of a struggle. If you find a woman in a hut with straw roof, she will be a great wife because you will elevate her level to yours. Don't try to impress any woman with what you don't have, because it will always come back as a problem.

However marriage is not compulsory. Many people in the Western world are moving away from marriage because women want equality. Women are working and providing, so they cannot be fulfilling a traditional role in such circumstances. The key to marriage is HONEST communication and knowing what you want before you jump into. Be TRUTHFUL with your partner so she can understand your desires before marriage.

Rayban25:


The reason most men still consider marriage is mainly because they want their children to grow up in a stable household so that the childs psychology wont be affected by having only one parent while missing the other..that's why I'm not a fan of baby mama trend too


Mist marriages would have broken up since if not that they have children together and so they just manage themselves

As for me I'm not paying Bride price for no mans daughter sha..and bride price should even be eliminated totally because we have bandits instead of virgins running about now

I think you understand me better then marriage use to be a good thing. That y there's a saying he who finds a wife finds a good thing.. In this current world now it he who finds an hustler girl finds a good thing..
Most marriage aren't what it used to be in those days ...

I also have this believe that 90% of women don't have the ability to love anymore they are all looking who will change their life not love...

If you think your wife loves you get broke like extremely and see what happens next..
Women are opportunity seekers ...

The best advice I can give to a guy like me even if you want kids is to have a written agreement before getting into any shit with any lady ...

anthonyuncle:
with this your mindset, even if you become a billionaire, you will still marry the wrong person

If I am a billionaire I will only have a baby mama cus I can't let any lady suck me dry .. I will have a child and train my child the way I want and spend on my child the way i want .. I will always tell him never to be. Fool to any lady, never to trust any lady and he should never feel he needs a lady to make him happy bcs that the beginning of weakness

larryking78:
I think of women and ladies as buckets, pots, bags, just simply collectors. That's what they are. If you gets the one that worship and adores you, you are luckiest man in Earth because 70% have the tendency to frustrate your life from the day she says Yes to your proposal.

Brothers, think before you fall in love and once you fall in love live with your falling process else love will turn hatred and you will regret it bitterly.

Imagine paying bride price for what others had for free ....

MrBrownJay1:
there is a huge difference between marrying an uneducated lazy good for nothing wife AND marrying a hardworking educated helpful intelligent wife

Very true at the same time you can marry an educated illiterate or an educated entitled lazy woman

flokii:
If your financial standing no strong as man in this present economy and you go chook head
put for marriage.. aswear na body go tell you.

Not with the ungrateful crop of ladies we have out there now.. always wanting to buy the best and use the best without considering the man they are putting the bills on.

WITH ALL YOU MIGHT STILL HEAR WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME

NaBanga:
If you marry at or below your level, it won't be much of a struggle. If you find a woman in a hut with straw roof, she will be a great wife because you will elevate her level to yours. Don't try to impress any woman with what you don't have, because it will always come back as a problem.

However marriage is not compulsory. Many people in the Western world are moving away from marriage because women want equality. Women are working and providing, so they cannot be fulfilling a traditional role in such circumstances. The key to marriage is HONEST communication and knowing what you want before you jump into. Be TRUTHFUL with your partner so she can understand your desires before marriage.

Very true

NaBanga:
■ If you marry at or below your level, it won't be much of a struggle. If you find a woman in a hut with straw roof, she will be a great wife because you will elevate her level to yours. Don't try to impress any woman with what you don't have, because it will always come back as a problem.
■ However marriage is not compulsory. Many people in the Western world are moving away from marriage because women want equality. Women are working and providing, so they cannot be fulfilling a traditional role in such circumstances. The key to marriage is HONEST communication and knowing what you want before you jump into. Be TRUTHFUL with your partner so she can understand your desires before marriage.

1. You mean the about 83% of men who embraced hypogamy in marriage and now find themselves struggling financially and in marriage are what, illusions?

2.

Billgatessecond:

Imagine paying bride price for what others had for free ....

And the worst part is you will never know that people had her for free in time past, cos such trait don't show up at the beginning, the power of love at first sight will be-cloud your thoughts process. You cannot think straight. However, be it as it is, if a woman gives you peace for life, that's all you need my man. Living with a woman who kept all the world's Virginity but with CRAZE FOR HEAD lying on the same bed is the worst forever nightmares till death do them part.

I pity young men most and not married men.

I pity young men who are dating liabilities and planning to marry such person.

Are u a young girl dating a man who is nothing doing anything same with a man...e go tough oh.

Married men have found a way to alleviate their sufferings but I doubt if young people have.