E don red. E don be

Definitely marriage should be sweet from what I observed from my parents, but same can't be said of today's marriages. As for your statistics on less than 1 percent of marriages having issues, I may not agree with you on that.

Flier:
marriage is sweet,just less than 1% are having issue and that is perfectly normal

OUT OF COURT SETTLEMENT

This man wants to leave the legal to the traditional! I hope Madam has been fair to Oga O!
Otherwise, something go happen O!

Emeks008:
Am sure, he's an Idoma man from his name.

Most people don't understand other people tradition before saying yes to their partner.

In Idoma land according to what I heard, if you are married to their sons, you must not cheat on him no matter what happens in the marriage. The moment you cheat, you will be dragged to the ALEKwu to take an oat. The outcomes of the oat can be Death.

Most times, their men are not faithful to their wives but the so called Deity' will not harm them but the moment the lady cheat, she can face terrible sickness or die if care is not taken.

Pls let's ask questions before we do inter tribal marriage. It's very important. Ask questions before jumping in. Don't be clouded by love. If you know you can't be faithful, pls stay away from Idoma / igala men. E get why!

Questions like , if we marry and I cheat on you, will I swear an oath or die? :

benjackugo:
I Will Not Grant My Wife Divorce Until She Swears Before Deity - Man Tells Abuja



https://igberetvnews.com/1442187/will-grant-wife-divorce-swears-deity-man-tells-abuja/

You have two options;
1) Let go and forgive her.
2) Go to the gods you named and they will send an invitation or notify her.
If she refused to go anything she see she take.

But make sure you didn't commit the same adultery.

Hmmmm...Gbese

Don't bother, she no go come..

kaludestiny10:
Definitely marriage should be sweet from what I observed from my parents, but same can't be said of today's marriages. As for your statistics on less than 1 percent of marriages having issues, I may not agree with you on that.

Just forget the noise online,marriage is sweetie! As I said it’s just like 1% disturbing our peace
Just look at your church or your street and ask yourself how many divorce in 10 years

If enejo is an igala man the woman is as good as dead

Emeks008:

In Idoma land according to what I heard, The moment you cheat, you will be dragged to the ALEKwu to take an oat. The outcomes of the oat can be Death.

Most times, their men are not faithful to their wives but the so called Deity' will not harm them but the moment the lady cheat, she can face terrible sickness or die if care is not taken.!

What kind of Oat ? Quaker Oats ?

Edoreborn:
Bleeding gender

The bleeding is the reason why you’re alive.
Mumu boy

I don't think is wise to put the women's life in danger and public shame if eventually the "Aniku" finds her engaging in extramarital affair. Sir, in ur mind of mind, u no long trust the woman and her affection for u,not doubt has dwindled a great deal.
Trust to me is the bedrock of every marriage. Just grant her her request or desire and move on with ur life.

Jlow2:
If enejo is an igala man the woman is as good as dead

Lol, see these idiots.

If you say so. But my argument is not based on online opinions but from my observations around.

Flier:
Just forget the noise online,marriage is sweetie! As I said it’s just like 1% disturbing our peace
Just look at your church or your street and ask yourself how many divorce in 10 years

Loser she says she's divorcing you, you're still living in the past! No wonder she's seeking for divorce you're not a responsible man. What's the usefulness of swearing when there's no marriage again?

BABANGBALI:
Married women are the sweetest and safest people to date. No fear of commitment or unwanted pregnancy

Don't be deceived bro,,some are carriers of HIV..

All these deities no get power again, politicians have corrupted them.

Where was Alikwu and all the deities in Idoma land when Fulani terrorists were killing their people?

Na only where women and ordinary people dey deities dey get power, when them see guns them go mute

Ashley86400:

Lol, see these idiots.

your generations re idiots, in igala culture do you know what happens to a woman that has extramarital affiars, bastards without traceable bloodline.

This one dey too loud oo! Baba still wants her swollen kpekus

That is not the truth. If the husband is Aware that is wife is cheating and do nothing the husband will die not the wife. So I believe the husband is trying to prevent harm happening to him but I don't know why a Sunday will be going to Alekwu anyway Even in the old Testament there is what is called the spirit of Jealousy, when the Lord God almighty allows it to fall on an isrealite the wife will take an oath.

Emeks008:
Am sure, he's an Idoma man from his name.

Most people don't understand other people tradition before saying yes to their partner.

In Idoma land according to what I heard, if you are married to their sons, you must not cheat on him no matter what happens in the marriage. The moment you cheat, you will be dragged to the ALEKwu to take an oat. The outcomes of the oat can be Death.

Most times, their men are not faithful to their wives but the so called Deity' will not harm them but the moment the lady cheat, she can face terrible sickness or die if care is not taken.

Pls let's ask questions before we do inter tribal marriage. It's very important. Ask questions before jumping in. Don't be clouded by love. If you know you can't be faithful, pls stay away from Idoma / igala men. E get why!

Dey play

When you tell dem do proper traditional marriage rites, dem go say no "we are Christians" na the result be this.

The people of old did not come up with traditional rites from the blue. They were created as safeguards to arrest events that were probably prevalent in their day.
Now we abandon those rites and expect the issues they were curbing not to resurface.

The man should move on. Next time do the rite thing

If the court decides to dissolve the marriage without her swearing to the deity there might be a return match.


Oga is desperate to kill the woman or render her completely useless.....I can smell the bitterness and anger in his heart from here.

Emeks008:
Am sure, he's an Idoma man from his name.

Most people don't understand other people tradition before saying yes to their partner.

In Idoma land according to what I heard, if you are married to their sons, you must not cheat on him no matter what happens in the marriage. The moment you cheat, you will be dragged to the ALEKwu to take an oat. The outcomes of the oat can be Death.

Most times, their men are not faithful to their wives but the so called Deity' will not harm them but the moment the lady cheat, she can face terrible sickness or die if care is not taken.

Pls let's ask questions before we do inter tribal marriage. It's very important. Ask questions before jumping in. Don't be clouded by love. If you know you can't be faithful, pls stay away from Idoma / igala men. E get why!

Even okposi people of ebonyi state, you don't even need to confess, as a woman, once you cheat, sickness from nowhere will just hold you down until you open mouth and confess.
Immediately after the confession is death...

Whatever makes you happy

He knows that the wife has done something

Is he going to swear too🙄

benjackugo:
I Will Not Grant My Wife Divorce Until She Swears Before Deity - Man Tells Abuja



https://igberetvnews.com/1442187/will-grant-wife-divorce-swears-deity-man-tells-abuja/

The court will not grant this but I am with the man on this. Women today are too useless. I have 3 married ones on my whatsapp disturbing my life including one who used to be my doctor.

The man is sick .is it by force to remain married?

benjackugo:
I Will Not Grant My Wife Divorce Until She Swears Before Deity - Man Tells Abuja



https://igberetvnews.com/1442187/will-grant-wife-divorce-swears-deity-man-tells-abuja/

Idoma people again.?