₦airaland Forum

phorget:
Fear woman.

you guys should stop this rubbish narration, na watin de make dem do nonsense... He should report the idiot to police, make she go jail go get sense!

Controlla123:
Man, I just had to be civil with the woman sha

She is even coming up with the I am an elder mantra SMH. She thinks she is still in Nigeria where people who are being cheated cower when she says that! If I were you, I am definitely reporting this woman to the police for fraud and for being a fraudster, make hand touch am small for cell for a few days! An "elder" that doesn't respect herself shior!

exactly!
you just said my mind.

rooftops:
I am sure that remaining 100dollars is what she was after all through.
I can't imagine how many people she has/and will be doing this thing to.

Dedeity:
Many Nigerians are demons in human form. In my next world, I would not want to near Africa instead make I no come at all

Hahahhah.

I just checked the list,u will soon return here.

I saw ur name boldly written.

Never you have any deal with nigerians abroad they are evil ,best to deal with indians , white or asian than nigerians they re cunny and not straight forward always avoid them.

Controlla123:
If I report her, dem go say I dey find the downfall of my fellow Nigerian

Ignore what people will say! That is the reason why this country never better when people dey misbehave and we no dey treat dem fvkups based on wetin people go say!

You think US is like Nigeria? She will be arrested! If he sues her, she'll pay thousands.

1Sharon:
You messed by getting rude to her. Now she'll cling onto that and use it as an excuse to not refund your deposit.

If there's a way to leave a review do that.

Just let her be man, you bigger than the cash you took from you, she messed up big time and nobody knows how she might have gotten a better help from you, but with this now, you can't look anymore her side..

Do have a nice time out there

There is no defense, she will beg if the guy threaten to report.

1Sharon:
We all know rudeness is no excuse. The woman is devious. As soon as OP got rude, she jumped on it. That will now be her defense.

Goodman247:
Any time you hear l am a Nigerian in d diaspora, run, run run for your dear life

The ones wey dey for 9ja dey better? Na religion den dey use scam people wey dey loose guard. Den dey go church and mosque pass but their behaviour no even close to the place wey den dey worship!

Zorn:
Please that's no how to treat issues, you don't treat dubious people with respect. The guy was never disrespectful in the first place the woman's attitude prompted it. I don't know why you people reason upside down in this country. Gosh

seanwilliam:
your comment na balderdash . No Dey put mouth for thing wey u no understand. U hear?
Person scam u, u Dey reason say she go capitalize on the insult ?


Indeed most of y’all have distant reasoning mentality .

Now you have two options ,
Ignore my quote or buy 1 and get 10 for free

Do you know what country I'm in?

Have you ever watched crime documentaries before? Even detectives know not to get rude to rape and murder suspects at the start.
In interviews they ease them into it. And they eventually snitch and implicate themselves. They pretend to be their friend and make them comfortable to open up.

Same concept here. Same concept with kidnappers and their victims. Complementing and pretending to befriend your attacker helps keep you alive.



Being rude to that thief of a landlady is understandable. But it's just gonna give her an avenue to refuse refunding him.

I know it's hard to understand because nigerians are easily led their instincts and emotions.

1Sharon:
You messed by getting rude to her. Now she'll cling onto that and use it as an excuse to not refund your deposit.

If there's a way to leave a review do that.

Trust me he will get his full money back plus the court cost and emotional distress if he decided to sue her, we are taking about America and mot Naija

intruder15:
You are part of the problem. Na this mentality de make some idiots create bad name for Nigerians.

Give her a reasonable date to refund you and tell her you will have to report her to the police if she no refund you on the stated date.

On that date, go and report her with immediate alacrity. What if it's a white man she scams next? Na so they go say all Nigerians are fraudster because of some few elements.

Abi. Na also that mentality dey for 9ja and elders go dey misbehave and no action go dey against them. Kon dey wonder why the contiri na shithole. Na your answer dey dere.

samtol4:
Please report the woman to the police. I am sure this is the way she usually dupes people.

Abi. Once den dey get defensive, dey use all this I am an elder mantra wey dey stop people complain for 9ja, just know say dey don dey the scammy game since.

1Sharon:
You messed by getting rude to her. Now she'll cling onto that and use it as an excuse to not refund your deposit.

If there's a way to leave a review do that.

Part of the people who fall for the I am an elder mantra for 9ja SMH. Unfortunately, na her type plenty for 9ja.

Smh. Injustice

Controlla123:
If I report her, dem go say I dey find the downfall of my fellow Nigerian

Ogbenj..this is the USA not the yeye Nigeria. Show her pepper. E no concern anybody. That's not an excuse. E be like say you no need money...sue her and get more .

Dedeity:
Many Nigerians are demons in human form. In my next world, I would not want to near Africa instead make I no come at all

Abi o. Especially Nigerians.

FiremanX:
Report her to the police, if you don't she would also do the same to another person, unscrupulous and dishonest Nigerians should be taught a bitter lesson.

Exactly!

lereinter:
From NL you want job connect in NJ

Is this showboating or just naivety

This is a travel thread.

Many foreign based Nigerians lurk around.

He may not be connected but there's no harm in asking.

pocohantas:
After she called you “MY BROTHER”

I knew she was about to rip you badly.

When I hear my brother or Because it is you

Slynation:
You ladies has a distant reasoning mentality, so because he said his mind, the woman has the right not to refund...

Wow..

You are just knowing that about their ilk?

Controlla123:
But then, in case anyone has connect to jobs in Newark New Jersey. Don't hesitate to reach out!!

Abeg oo🤲🏿

Always try to calm down sha.
Although she didn’t do well, but you are just settling down, try to always calm down

when someone is pressing ur unnecessary fir financial commitment to what ideally can/should wait u should immediately see it as a red flag until further background checks or reciprocal commitment is guaranteed to prove otherwise.

if u had moved in or gotten the keys when u paid the security deposit will open her stupid mouth the tell u her daughter is coming and won't like it or be giving u excuses.

Khafsun:
What are you saying? You sef are part of the problem. Defense? Really?
Someone os trying to scam another person and you're saying you shouldn't be "rude". I no even know the rudeness wey you dey talk. So in court she will tender her justification that she held on to someone else's money because she didn't like how he spoke to her Really

She's meant to send him 1200 minimum, for the tome wasted, money to move stuff again and generally frustrating his effort. That's why Nigeria is the way it is today, someone will be doing something very bad, stealing, killing and you speak against it and you will be claiming you're older than the person. Silly people around to will join to say "she fit born am now". Someone is stealing and actively trying to destroy the lives of others and what the silly persons are concerned about is that "you spoke in a rude way"

Chai

I said the same thing too. Too much elders misbehaving in society and people defending them from being criticized especially is why the country is a shithole. Thank God that is changing in our generation.

😎

Don't trust anyone.
Trust only God. That's the key 🗝️🔐

1Sharon:
You don't even comprehend my post and you want to talk about "distant reasoning mentality"

I'm not responsible for your lack of comprehension.

your comment na balderdash . No Dey put mouth for thing wey u no understand. U hear?
Person scam u, u Dey reason say she go capitalize on the insult ?


Indeed most of y’all have distant reasoning mentality .

Now you have two options ,
Ignore my quote or buy 1 and get 10 for free

I'm a Nigerian but the way I run from anyone Nigerian abroad is like Usain Bolt.

BigCowHornn:
This is why Nigeria doesn't wok

Perhaps your papers are not right

No bonafide student of a US university doesn't have his/her papers.

Anyway

If you didn’t see the woman face to face , na one guy from okokomaiko scammed u.