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Manoftheyear:
I have been defeated by my emotions, but this is my last battle for survival

Persephone1:


What a woman can not do ....

The problem with you supposed Nl redpillers is when your pills fail you are almost irredeemable.

Nah Martinez39 I dey fear for

Reminderz:
at any posts signifying relationship issues, na redpiller you go first call, I nor sure whether you read the post sef... you nor like them, yet you don't let them rest, yet they are still the one shifting the wombs of women like you...

tell me you're 🤡 without telling me you're 🤡

And you are pained because....
If them dey shift your mama womb no mistake her for other women.

Just a piece of advice. Bye.

Persephone1:
And you are pained because....
If them dey shift your mama womb no mistake her for other women.

Just a piece of advice. Bye.

Greenkim:
I've been in such situation before although it wasn't a love relationship but with my best friend.....i thought i couldn't do without her bcs she was the only friend i had, at first it was very hard to let go bcs i wasnt even focused in school, but then with time i overcame it and that happened to be one if my best academic year.

Reminderz:
my mama isn't parading the thread like you and your likes crying about being dumped by redpillers 🤡

Manoftheyear:
■ Many times I hear voices in my head telling me to end it all so I will be at peace but when I remember my beloved ones, I keep fighting on. Please I need people to talk to, weather male or female. Someone should help me out of this misery. I don't know if it's my pass life that's catching up on me or not. I feel so hurt with everything happening to me, it wasn't my plan to be in such situation, I have always guard my heart until I met this lady because of my quest for serious relationship, I would have remain a player if I know it's going to be this way. I'm in pain.

Persephone1:


E go shock you. I'm really terrible at making friends, I hardly keep up.

Manoftheyear:
I have tried this countless times but her image keep appearing in my head, paid a hook up girl last 2 Sundays, but immediately she wears me condom, I Lost interest in the whole thing, my gbola no rise again till morning and I was full of guilt of infidelity, my condition is not a nice one but I tried always wearing fake smiles. People around me don't know what I'm going through because I make them assume all is well and I hate telling people my personal problem especially neighbors because I don't know who to trust. But thanks anyway, your contribution is well appreciated sir

Godada:
I had to read your first submission to really catch your drift.

No. You are not doing what I said you should be doing.

I did not say hook up.

I said chase. Look for beautiful girls and go after them with the intention of actually dating them.

Avoid hook up girls.

That girl is like poison in your system that needs to be purged.

Self defeat won't do.

You need to get busy removing her from the deepest recesses of your mind.

So get busy: I never said it was going to be a walk in the park.

Word of caution.

Never hand over the keys of your happiness to anyone.

You cannot be loving someone who simply do not give a 🚫 fūck.

It's counterproductive.

Now get yourself out of the mess you got yourself.

If you get out....get a side chick. E get why.

Here's the fact of the matter.

If you love someone so so much it's detrimental if that person doesn't return that love. So either you exit at it's infancy.....your best option.....too much gash around to bounce or you get multiple gals.

That's how our fathers handled the situation. Get more ladies. Our fathers suffer from this sort of emotional wreck.

That way any bullshit she dishes won't upset.

I would advise you to focus on building yourself now and actively seek out new friends and challenges.

Tenrack:
Op. You need leave that area for a while. Let her be. Make you get yourself

Manoftheyear:
But I don't have any other place to go, no friends I can go and stay with for sometime, and she knows when I'm giving her space, that's when she will start acting normal again, but not this time around, thank you brother

dontrulee:
You're sounding like you've a personality disorder pointing towards cluster C, dependency syndrome.

The voices telling you to end your life, that sounds like auditory hallucinations.

Well, ruling out psychiatric disorders or mental illness, love or it's associated feeling can be crazy at times. Love someone is like giving them the power to destroy your soul hoping they'll not.

Love is not for the weak.

Bro, focus on yourself, pack yourself and move on jare. What if the lady dies tomorrow, will you die too? If your love or whatever you think it is is strong to that extent, sorry you're irredeemable. Enjoy your misery while it lasts

Tenrack:
nawa. Just try
.

Dexter08:
So sir, you want to end your life because of a woman

Your forefathers didn't conquer lands, marrried more than three women to produce offsprings that would be depressed because of a woman na.

Guy man up!! She has moved on, you too move on!! True it is indeed hard or tough to move on but believe me you won't die if you don't message her or love her.

You won't boss!!!!

When we tell people to be Redpill aware they do think we are mad or something, now look at you boss. Look at you

Same woman you are depressed for, is who another man is disrespecting and having s*x without a single care of the world with.

Sir better wise up and focus on your business, no allow your business spoil because of woman. You see hunger, hunger bad o!!!!

Hunger bad pass break up

Dust yourself up and move on. You won't die if she doesn't love you no more.

Manoftheyear:
My main reason of creating this thread is because I'm all out to put an end to the whole madness, I just need few people in the form of friends to help me on this because I realized that's what I'm lacking at the moment, she is the only one I'm friends with, so when I need someone to talk, she is the only one I can always go and I am more of an introvert, so I need to meet new people

dontrulee:
Gee, I understand you but trust me, you don't need to meet any new people. People will always disappoint you, that's guaranteed in life. Fall in love with yourself first, develop yourself. People are always available and around but when you work on yourself first, quality people will surround your Life

Manoftheyear:
I'm more of a street guy who patronize sex workers because I'm trying to guard my heart, I have never had good experience with love and that's why I went for a matured lady, and now this is happening, though I know I broke some heart but I'm not a redpiller

Manoftheyear:
You won't understand honestly, that's I mentioned the unstable emotions, sometimes it seems like everything is getting better but boom, everything scattered again