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Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Burgerlomo: 6:27pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
alfa666: It's a civil matter and the court can make her pay back the money plus court cost and emotional distress 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by dru23(m): 6:28pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Controlla123: This why I avoid dealings with Nigerians abroad. They are not straight forward. The worse ones are the ones that since they are older than you . they feel that u have to give them special respect. I treat everyone with respect the same respect I give a baby is the same I give to adults regardless of age. I notice on the chat with the woman you are saying ma to her etc.. She don see you finish. I would kept it on a business level with her. For Yankee I don't call anybody ma or sir . if I have to address anyone na my name or Mr. / Mrs with respectful tone of voice........ Nigeria culture na scam in terms of respecting your elders .. The elders themselves don't respect themselves. I am talking from experince 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by yemi1504: 6:28pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
EgunMogaji2: You are just getting to know that your people are bad people? Ever since I came back to this country, I already knew that. 2 Likes |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by dru23(m): 6:29pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Burgerlomo: I was about to say that.. Na civil matter |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by FireUpNow(m): 6:29pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Even on Nigeria here a lot of people are not sincere. I am having issue at the moment with nin photo modification. I paid for it of which the guy told in 2 weeks it will be ready now over 2 months is one story to another. I called him the idiot was telling me that he works for government that I cannot arrest him, I just laughed. I am planning to hit his office with two soldiers soon for refund of my money as he claims that he made payment to REMITA and that remita doesn't refund money. I go collect my money back. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by DanAugust2021: 6:29pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
1Sharon:Avenue to refuse refunding him for what? The scenario you painted is quite different from the case of the OP. There's enough evidence the OP can use against her, hence no police officer will ' befriend ' her to get evidence. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Aurelius1(m): 6:30pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Controlla123:Mehnnn! Damn Nigerianship and get the freaking idi.o.t arrested. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Exmilitant(m): 6:31pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
AbdulMagaji:hey, the niggar is studying for his masters program 'abroad'. 1 Like |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by yemi1504: 6:31pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
iammolise: Abi |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by kpolli(m): 6:32pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Controlla123: If you signed a leasing agreement, take her to small claims court and collect your money back, Wait this is America, a text can act as a contract so use your text to take her to court 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Mancala: 6:34pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
OP, don’t waste much time with the police. They will write a report and inform you that this is a civil case. Go and file suit at a small claims court. Keep all the written communications and all the receipts for expenses you incurred moving your stuff from her premises to your new place. You will need this as evidence in court. Keep all the text messages between y’all on your phone. Do not delete anything. They like to see the message on your phone rather than print outs. You should be able to get all your money back and prove intent to defraud that could get you punitive damages. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by baddest04: 6:35pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Controlla123:chat me 07066634127 |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by 1Sharon(f): 6:35pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
DanAugust2021: His deposit duh!! What else could it be? It's the same concept. You Nigerians dont understand that you can be assertive and firm without being rude. You don't even know what you're talking about.The OP's case is civil, not criminal. No police officers. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by wiloy2k8(m): 6:35pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Did you meet her face to face |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by sharpwriter(m): 6:35pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20:You took these words outta my mouth directly.... E never ready.... When they teach him more sense, hin go wise for life, he's still a youngster. Let him forfeit his money. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by jedisco(m): 6:37pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Controlla123: Excessive begging and yes ma yes sir makes you come acroos as naive abd easy to dupe. For a 40yr old, why can't you call her by her first name? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Chiraq77(m): 6:38pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
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Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by yemi1504: 6:38pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Exodus15v11: Me too! I hate injustice with every fiber of my being! Especially when it comes from so-called "elders"! That one even makes my blood boil! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by fkj950ax(m): 6:39pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
anthonyuncle: The english dey confusing pass the matter. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by okerekingsley90: 6:39pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Les: The guy daft 😀😀😀 1 Like |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by yemi1504: 6:41pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
dru23: So right about the last paragraph! 1 Like |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Eriokanmi: 6:47pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Rdfactor:Nobody said he should be quiet. He made the right move. I only harped on his decision to pay so much on a rent as a student when there were cheaper options for him as suggested by the moniker i responded to. He can't even confront the police in that case cos his source of funds would he questioned. He'd be exposing himself to needless issues , if he does that. As a student, you have a whole lot of options available to you, when it comes to cheaper accommodation. I guess he wantedprivacy and do big boi, the naija style, which doesn't work for many. You cut your coat according to your material. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by DanAugust2021: 6:47pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
1Sharon:It is you that spoke about the police not being rude so as to get evidence from the culprit/ scammer. It's obvious you think the case is in Nigeria where elders will come and start scolding the OP for being "rude" to his elder. Even in Nigeria that things don't work, I can assure you that the rude stuff you are stressing will not hold water. In the documentaries you said you watched, when someone is rude to his debtor, does he forfeit the debt owed? |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by bewla(m): 6:49pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Controlla123:You must be high on fufu Just in case you want some one to replace you come back to Nigeria Who she heap 1 Like |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by dru23(m): 6:49pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Controlla123: Na civil matter .. From now when dealing with people especially Nigerians.. You need to be firm with them and any business transaction keep a receipt or record. Forget Ma or Aunty level things or bros.. You need to be firm and be respectful.... At all cost avoid speaking your native tongue. You will thank me later...... |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by 1Sharon(f): 6:49pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
DanAugust2021: I gave you examples and I've already explained to you. Being rude is never a way to get someone to do your bidding. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by moshino(m): 6:51pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: What do you think the police will do? |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Qc1(m): 6:52pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
EgunMogaji2: I'm sure you still remember how I was planning to relocate back to naija after 27 years in America. My so- called cousin scammed me to ship 3 of my cars to naija. I just stopped talking to him. I'm not surprised tho....I knew dealing with naija can never end with a smile. BTW....are you still in naija? 2 Likes |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by linearity: 6:52pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Controlla123: Not true, report her to the Newark Police, any precinct closer to you. PM, I know Newark very well. Newark police are very lax, max they will give you a report, they might investigate it as there are too many other stuff to do there that are high priority, but if you press they will pay her a visit and she will return your stuff and money….you can also take her to small claims court. Next time don’t waste your energy writing all those long episodes with a lady, don’t sink to their level and return insult for insult, you will never win that battle especially with someone in Newark and you will feel dirty yourself afterwards with regrets…just stay professional and straight to the point. If you care to share, what is the street address or street name? 2 Likes |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by dru23(m): 6:52pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
1Sharon: From experince when you do that . they will say you are rude and disrespectful etc .. Me I no send them all. And to top it off I avoid the yoruba elders. I can speak it very well , but na English I dey speak to them. But once you start speaking that Yoruba language omo forget o , they go wan use that to ride you .......i don't tell them which tribe I belong to 4 Likes |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by rickleye: 6:57pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Controlla123: If you report her nothing is going to happen. Unless you go Judge Judy - Highest you will get is 5000$ Me, I hear you Nigerian, I am walking the other way. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by rickleye: 7:00pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
EgunMogaji2: I have made the same number and I am very proud. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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