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Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Magnoliaa(f): 5:44pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Do you want to be its godparent? π |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Kobojunkie: 5:44pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
bugatti02:Na mumu ideas like this one dey always backfire on the man worst. |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by BRATISLAVA: 5:45pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: Yes. |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by limcar: 5:45pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
olamilarks:she dey give you sex? |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by do4luv14(m): 5:45pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Magnoliaa(f): 5:46pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: π |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by limcar: 5:46pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
ukaface:when I marry, you will contribute 50% if not I send you back to your father's house |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by BRATISLAVA: 5:46pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: I won't be around to change the diapers, and that's the best kind of baby. Your baby. |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Biglittlelois(f): 5:49pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Klass99: Lol I'm not surprised. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by fortunateme: 5:49pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:The law I sited for you covers all forms of marriage recognized by law. Check out VAP act again. |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Kobojunkie: 5:51pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
fortunateme:1. Can you provide a reference to this VAP where it states that it is illegal for a man to sit as a traditional husband β 100% financial responsibility β in marriage when the woman earns income? |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Magnoliaa(f): 5:53pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Why do I feel like you're referring to something else entirely? π€£ I don't know. Anyhow...well, let me go and breast-feed it. C U L8er. π€ |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by correctguy101(m): 5:56pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Your opinion makes sense to this ancestor. I support every man who spends even lavishly on their women but if you no get and you wan dey force yourself dey do wetin your power no reach, smh, I pity your future..... If you had given her a wrong impression about your financial status, Mr man, go and clear yourself and confess your sins so the small girl no go dey think say the money dey and you no wan show her love Married people and their wahala sef... |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by BRATISLAVA: 5:58pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: Catch you later. |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by fortunateme: 6:02pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:No the law says that if both parties are working then both parties should contribute to family upkeep. Check section 12 subsection 2 https://lawnigeria.com/2019/11/violence-against-persons-prohibition-act-2014/ |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by JoyousFurnitire(m): 6:02pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
EriMma1: |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by ukaface(f): 6:04pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
limcar:OYO |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Kobojunkie: 6:06pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
correctguy101:1. Love ke? Love does not sit as if a god over another abeg! That whole traditional arrangement where the man sits as king over his woman was never about love but about making sure the man's ego is at least pumped in marriage. |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Mystery9(m): 6:07pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Greetings sir, I just the pity you. Your wife have the potential of dumping you if you go broke. I wonder whether you been no notice all these before marrying her. Show her that marriage is not the sole duty if a man. Shikina. |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by sharone21(f): 6:09pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
limcar: Na wa ooo for 50% What is the MAIN role of a man: LOOK FOR MONEY as it is easier being a man than a woman. Say na u go carry pregnancy and born 2-4 kids? Because woman will play ALL her roles and still look for money. Some women can do more than this depending on the husband's initial LOVE and CARE for her. To the Op : For now, she may not get anything or little pocket money after all person when u go dey sleep with supposed dey happy. Later, u can increase this pocket money( not salar y) a bit for peace sake. |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Kobojunkie: 6:11pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
fortunateme:1. Are you certain you got the right section? OP is in a traditional marriage, not a forced situation.
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Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by chiefolododo(m): 6:11pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
PARADIZEPRIEST:
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Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by phemmyfour: 6:12pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Femmyfamous4u:yes According to financial law governing marriage Your money = our money Her money = her money (Any support you get from her is voluntary not under compulsion.) |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Mystery9(m): 6:14pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
EriMma1:Stupidity |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by duduade: 6:16pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
As a man all I see from most of the men who have commented here are that most men are leaches β¦ what happened to footing your bills without eyeing your wife s salary Tufiakwa on my sex 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by SalJay(m): 6:20pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
EriMma1: This mentality of yours will do you no good |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Dskillful(m): 6:21pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Bros give her entitlement ooo |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Dskillful(m): 6:22pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
But if she's earning 6 figure salary her conscience should tell her that you have tried enough |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by correctguy101(m): 6:23pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: This daddy does not remember talking anything about love in his earlier post. Ah yes, like I said before, your post makes sense and the second part of this post I quoted resonates heavily with this ancestor. Marriage in the first place was as exactly as you put it, to subdue, possess, and yes maybe satisfy the vanity of man to feel superior over the women folk. That was why it was created in the first place . Well, today we all know that's a failed project. So everybody just dey act on their own now. We now subconsciously understand marriage is just a ceremony. Most of us can skip the ceremony if we want to or even postpone it indefinitely. As for you, your eye too open, I dey suspect say you be another daddy wey dey form small boy for NL. Old man talk true o... |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by Kobojunkie: 6:27pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
correctguy101:1. Wait a second...No let the "marriage is glory" crew hear this one ooo! ROFLMAO
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Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by MartinsD12(m): 6:28pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
emmanuelewumi:Read what op posted there, the woman is not planning for any future of their children at least the writer didn't tell us so |
Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by MartinsD12(m): 6:30pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:It's wrong though such notion is wrong, a house wife is a big no for me |
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