SIONKPO1:

Believe me you are a Small boy,S one of we guys already have child)Ren) out of wedlock but still wants to marry virgins,its same we guys that deflowers. young ladies but still wants virgins.
what if your sister gets pregnant and the man changes his mind in marrying her,would you treat her like a thrash?

Lol..
...u dont even know how to dialogue in context.....what are u yapping about.??... called me a small boy??...then u went on about, one of the guys, then u jumped to virgins, and then ended up talking about sister....

.i have no business with the op....
.my comment is specifically about u assuming most men want what u want.... beyoncé and cardi B ....

Qatar2022:
All this long epistle is for useless single Nigeria girl?

Not for them bro, they ain't worth shit. But for men who are not married and are willing to marry

greenermodels:
In Igbo culture, sterile men usually go for single moms with kids and automatically adopts the children as he marries their mom giving the children right to inherit his properties. There's nothing wrong with adoption as far as I'm concerned especially for sterile men without hope of biologically producing their own children.

In this case I think the Woman is getting all of the benefits. What if she kills the man knowing her children are the soul beneficiaries of the man's will and boom the real father shows up, and at the end of the day, it was all setup??

You Mofos talking about single mothers being someone's sister and all, find your peace by marrying one Amigo but the one I tried, it nearly became my end. Issues like
1. Payment of school fees, if am a bit cash trapped and I tell her to hold on, she reminds me If it's my family, I won't say such, that's it's because he is not mine
2. Assuming I want to discipline the boy, I tend to be extra careful make matter no come burst for my head... You are not always 100% with your options. Every move is second guessed.
3. You must always attend to the child before the ones you had yourself, else the mother will complain
4. The woman will always choose the child before your own children, keep that in mind. She will want to secure some things for the future, your life will never be complete believe me
5. The thought of the real father showing up any time after all your investment will ALWAYS hunt you, keep that in mind
6. No matter how much you love your wife , okafors law will always come to hunt you when the ex comes to town or wants to see the child
7. Your family is complicated as it stands, take my word for it. No matter how much you try to love the child, blood will be thicker than water.
From the foregoing, I honestly did not want to discourage you from it, you need to test the waters too, it will be your personal experience but I won't advice anyone I love to do it. The world and this life is already hard, why make it more bleeped up for yourself abi them swear for you niiii.... It may be rosy initially due to the fact that she wants to make you commit to the relationship but last last, these signs will manifest. Take some time to ask elders who took that part and you will understand it's your life and you owe it to yourself to have this peace that money cannot buy.

FRANCISTOWN:


In this case I think the Woman is getting all of the benefits. What if she kills the man knowing her children are the sole beneficiaries of the man's will and boom the real father shows up, and at the end of the day, it was all setup??

it doesn't work that way besides, it hardly happens rather it's the wife that bore one's biological children that kills him so she can take over his properties, I know of a recent case of a woman with full grown children who poisoned her wealthy husband but as the man didn't die instantly as expected, she strangulated him to death with the help of her boyfriend and then proceeded to sell two of the man's houses to sponsor her travelling to the USA with her much younger boyfriend but the man's relatives were able to smell a fish and paid policemen who provided hard evidence through investigation, the woman and her lover were arrested and confessed to the crime in details, the story made the news then,however, the woman's children were able to have her released on bail and flown to the USA (to continue her whoring) while her male lover was left to rot away in a Nigerian prison. The man was an only son who married early so they were relatively young despite having grown up children. The moral of this story is that a cheating wife would still kill her husband to inherit his wealth through his children regardless of whether he's the biological father of the children or not. A cheating wife is a real danger.

tiger2080:
NICE WRITE UP.IT ONLY A GUY WHO WANT TO BE FOOLISH AND MISERABLE ALL HIS LIFE WILL MARRY A SINGLE MOM AT THE END U WILL REGRET.WHEN U HEAR THE NAME SINGLE MOM RUN FOR UR DEAR LIFE THEY ARE BITTER,WICKED,SELF CENTRED,HEARTLESS,OLOSHO,NAGING.RELATIONSHIP EXPERT AS SPOKEN.HE WHO HAVE EARS SHOULD LISTEN.

I have two first hand experience. One was very brutal so lemme share the less terrible.

When I was in school right, many years ago, there was this girl (let's call her Charity) that was so much in lust with me, though I had other girlfriends which I told her, yet, she was still very much in lust.

Lemme tell you something, she was even a virgin, we did all kinds of things but we didn't have sex though she wanted it badly(I'm so glad we didn't).

I didn't just feel like having sex with her(for some other reasons that I wouldn't wanna share here, not that I was a saint), though she was sexually appealing and my type(dark skinned).
So one day I thought to myself, "if I kept this girl around, we would definitely have sex". Now, see what I did, I blocked her number both on WhatsApp and phone call.

For good 3 months I didn't hear nothing about her though. I bought a new phone then but I couldn't retrieve many of my contacts as they were not backed up on gmail. I was still running after my supervisor for my project review about that time. In the fourth month; one day I had to go to the bank for some one or two, so I had to fly bike to and fro, and as I was on the bike, I heard someone call my name and when I turned, damn! It was this girl.

`Bros! She don fine die(though she fine before too) that her dark skin come dey look darkish for on top bike wey she dey`. Thinking about my supervisor who wouldn't stay one place had almost made me forgot about her when an unsaved number called me.

I picked up and it was her, we talked blah blah blah on phone and I simply explained how I got another phone and shit.

We later decided to meet up,so, I went to her house and the moment she saw me she jumped on me immediately, but fortunately that day too we didn't have s*x.

About a week later she came to my house, and i didn't know how I slept off while she was talking though she was still very attractive.

Later, I got to know from one of her friends that she was pregnant (Was she trying to pin the pregnancy on me??)

When the tummy started protruding, she had no other choice but to tell me herself, and hear what she said, she said "You made me this way, you broke my heart so much that I was desperate into finding anything that seems half as you. But I was disappointed. If anything should go wrong with me. I'll hold you responsible".
In my head I was like "were, dey whine yourself mental"

Her guy was definitely richer than me back then right, I was just preparing for my NYSC then. The guy already had money. She told me herself that the guy was spending on her, takin her to clubs skibiripapapa and all.

I heard that even before we met again, they already did introduction and engagement yet she wanted to sleep with me.

Long story short, she got a kid now and she's no longer with the guy because she accused the guy of being promiscuously unfaithful. Up till date, she's still giving me close marking not knowing that I already washed my hands off anything girls or dating or sexual relationship.

Okay lemme shock you , she left her man because he was promiscuous but she's currently dating a married man herself.

You see, women are the evidence of their wrong decisions

SIONKPO1:

Are you a Virgin?
My point is that the Discrimination melted out to Single Mother's is too much.I disagree that lots of our Ladies messed up while at their Prime Age but they can take back their Life and Live a fulfilled Life.
What if you gets a Lady Pregnant would you be happy if Ladies jilts you

If they didn't mess up at their prime age, then it means they are simply unlucky.

In Robert Greene's 48 laws of power
Law No 10: Avoid the UNLUCKY

Haven't you heard that "Whatever you follow, follows you"?

Follow the "unlucky" and become unlucky yourself

swagguElite:
Anytime you enter PH, OP two bottles of beer for you. My Ex i broke up with last year to focus on my personal pursuit of life, got pregged this year. I was happy coz she had accused me of destroyin' her womb. So many times. That paranoia came coz we dated 4+yrs, mad romps, no pregnancy scare. I was very careful and days I feel I wasn't sure, I used morning after pills.

So we had discussions on how I should impregnate her. I always told her I'm not givin' anybody my kids. I intend to raise my kids myself and teach them the same things I learnt for my Dad and Granddad. I owed them that. We had these issues, and she started naggin' n shii. So I had to make the call.

Now, she pregged. And I don't usually block my Exes so we still talk. Now, she was hella scared when her new man called her to abort.

So they have that issue and she wagers conversation on this. She has introduced the idea me comin' to visit whenever I want to. I know those are just Hot calls. She's goin' to be a single mother.

Coz she loves kids, but nothin' should ever make a man settle for a single mother. The baby daddy is the landlord.

I don't have any babe now out of choice coz omoh this is the first time since 2013 that I'm on my own, no woman. Omoh, I just flirt and leave it at that. A single lady is work already, con imagine a single mother.😂 lmaoo, "wtf is it because he is not your son".

Bruhh, that pityparty can't work on me. "Yeahh, he's not my son. I only came here coz you wanted a good time and I'm a shameless person. No relationship with a single mom is fvckin' serious and you know that, don't play stupid with me."

You think they don't know waht they doin'. Any guy that falls for fumble & emotional blackmail needs to fvckin' read your thread as a Bible.

Have you ever wondered that, ladies find it very difficult to leave their ex who is very good at sex . The point is, that your ex still wants you. I'm glad you already found the right path of life, you have achieved enlightenment. But wait o, Abeg whine that your ex, tell her "I hope that guy really does not take that child so I can take you back and the child". Judging from your post, if she hear that kind thing, she go wan craze with JOY .

And for the bottles of beer, if I enter PH we go relate boss.

advanceDNA:


Sorry...how did u arrive at this very dirty, fallacious conclusion....??



Its okay if u want an oloshó like cardi b and beyoncé, another man's wife....thats ur choice

but assuming everyone wants the same dirty things u want is witchcraft

SIONKPO1:

Believe me you are a Small boy,S one of we guys already have child)Ren) out of wedlock but still wants to marry virgins,its same we guys that deflowers. young ladies but still wants virgins.
what if your sister gets pregnant and the man changes his mind in marrying her,would you treat her like a thrash?

No.1 In the manosphere, men should resist communicating with pride.The person you called a small boy might be more advanced than you in age, exposure, funds and achievements. This is a faceless forum.

No. 2 Let's say you got a child out of wedlock, the person who bore you the child, did you deflower her? How can you be satisfied if you've not gotten you fair share of life? Even if yes, what stops you from getting as many virgins as possible? Ned Nwoko said he married all his wives undeflowered.There will always be 2 types of people in life. People who get the best of life and the people who get the remnants. You can choose where you want to be.

No.3 My sister should bear the consequences of her misselection if she would be stupid enough to tour the wrong path.

Johnweeked12:
You Mofos talking about single mothers being someone's sister and all, find your peace by marrying one Amigo but the one I tried, it nearly became my end. Issues like
1. Payment of school fees, if am a bit cash trapped and I tell her to hold on, she reminds me If it's my family, I won't say such, that's it's because he is not mine
2. Assuming I want to discipline the boy, I tend to be extra careful make matter no come burst for my head... You are not always 100% with your options. Every move is second guessed.
3. You must always attend to the child before the ones you had yourself, else the mother will complain
4. The woman will always choose the child before your own children, keep that in mind. She will want to secure some things for the future, your life will never be complete believe me
5. The thought of the real father showing up any time after all your investment will ALWAYS hunt you, keep that in mind
6. No matter how much you love your wife , okafors law will always come to hunt you when the ex comes to town or wants to see the child
7. Your family is complicated as it stands, take my word for it. No matter how much you try to love the child, blood will be thicker than water.
From the foregoing, I honestly did not want to discourage you from it, you need to test the waters too, it will be your personal experience but I won't advice anyone I love to do it. The world and this life is already hard, why make it more bleeped up for yourself abi them swear for you niiii.... It may be rosy initially due to the fact that she wants to make you commit to the relationship but last last, these signs will manifest. Take some time to ask elders who took that part and you will understand it's your life and you owe it to yourself to have this peace that money cannot buy.

Senior man, your own no go spoil.If we could take out our precious time to educate people on matters like this, they should understand that it is serious. We are not just here to speak some grammar.
We are talking about real-life things which have made some people commit suicide. Things we see day after day, not just some fictions written in books.

Anyone who has ears let him hear what the spirit says to the church.

But @The emboldened dey make me laugh . Maybe them swear for them true true

greenermodels:
it doesn't work that way besides, it hardly happens rather it's the wife that bore one's biological children that kills him so she can take over his properties, I know of a recent case of a woman with full grown children who poisoned her wealthy husband but as the man didn't die instantly as expected, she strangulated him to death with the help of her boyfriend and then proceeded to sell two of the man's houses to sponsor her travelling to the USA with her much younger boyfriend but the man's relatives were able to smell a fish and paid policemen who provided hard evidence through investigation, the woman and her lover were arrested and confessed to the crime in details, the story made the news then,however, the woman's children were able to have her released on bail and flown to the USA (to continue her whoring) while her male lover was left to rot away in a Nigerian prison. The man was an only son who married early so they were relatively young despite having grown up children. The moral of this story is that a cheating wife would still kill her husband to inherit his wealth through his children regardless of whether he's the biological father of the children or not. A cheating wife is a real danger.

What This is just ... Man! I also have similar stories. I'm thinking of compiling them together into one thread so everyone can see and be on their best guard. I'd like to mention you, I hope you wouldn't mind to share this story again.

FRANCISTOWN:


What This is just ... Man! I also have similar stories. I'm thinking of compiling them together into one thread so everyone can see and be on their best guard. I'd like to mention you, I hope you wouldn't mind to share this story again.

sure, I might even share the link to the news if I can find it,it has the pictures and full names of those involved.

You spitting some hard-core truths right there. I feel like giving you my right biceps. 🤔

FRANCISTOWN:


Have you ever wondered that, ladies find it very difficult to leave their ex who is very good at sex . The point is, that your ex still wants you. I'm glad you already found the right path of life, you have achieved enlightenment. But wait o, Abeg whine that your ex, tell her "I hope that guy really does not take that child so I can take you back and the child". Judging from your post, if she hear that kind thing, she go wan craze with JOY .

And for the bottles of beer, if I enter PH we go relate boss.

🤣🤣 You like violence. She will say; i should say it again so that she can record it and jump ship almost immediately.

FRANCISTOWN:


If they didn't mess up at their prime age, then it means they are simply unlucky.

In Robert Greene's 48 laws of power
Law No 10: Avoid the UNLUCKY

Haven't you heard that "Whatever you follow, follows you"?

Follow the "unlucky" and become unlucky yourself

And our fellow men are getting them pregnant?

FRANCISTOWN:
So you mean among all the ladies in the world, you wanna settle for a single mom, a single mom bro, a single mom, like WTF?? I'm not even sure I can hold hands with a single mom not to talk of "....." not to talk of settling down with. Thinking about it alone makes me wanna throw up. Damn shit. So wether she was raped or her husband died on her ain't none 'your business bro. She 'already a victim of an unlucky situation, one of the rules of power says "AVOID THE UNLUCKY".

According to the topic: Why you should marry, care and love single moms ? The answer is simple; so that you can be unfortunate (I'm sorry, it's only an unfortunate man that will marry a single mom) the answer is just that , so that you can die bitterly.
Bro you 'a king, you 'a champ . There are so many fruits on the mango tree, do not settle for a fruit half eaten by another dude. That dude ain't got two heads bro.

Bro I don't even know how to thank you for this. You are indeed a wise fella. "The unfortunate and unhappy often brings misfortune to themselves and if you stick around them, they will definitely bring it upon you too".

Johnweeked12:
You Mofos talking about single mothers being someone's sister and all, find your peace by marrying one Amigo but the one I tried, it nearly became my end. Issues like
1. Payment of school fees, if am a bit cash trapped and I tell her to hold on, she reminds me If it's my family, I won't say such, that's it's because he is not mine
2. Assuming I want to discipline the boy, I tend to be extra careful make matter no come burst for my head... You are not always 100% with your options. Every move is second guessed.
3. You must always attend to the child before the ones you had yourself, else the mother will complain
4. The woman will always choose the child before your own children, keep that in mind. She will want to secure some things for the future, your life will never be complete believe me
5. The thought of the real father showing up any time after all your investment will ALWAYS hunt you, keep that in mind
6. No matter how much you love your wife , okafors law will always come to hunt you when the ex comes to town or wants to see the child
7. Your family is complicated as it stands, take my word for it. No matter how much you try to love the child, blood will be thicker than water.
From the foregoing, I honestly did not want to discourage you from it, you need to test the waters too, it will be your personal experience but I won't advice anyone I love to do it. The world and this life is already hard, why make it more bleeped up for yourself abi them swear for you niiii.... It may be rosy initially due to the fact that she wants to make you commit to the relationship but last last, these signs will manifest. Take some time to ask elders who took that part and you will understand it's your life and you owe it to yourself to have this peace that money cannot buy.

Manchi wallahi you be bad guy . Na only person wey dem swear for na him go chop leftover

Badmashii:


Manchi wallahi you be bad guy . Na only person wey dem swear for na him go chop leftover

But you like Nikki Minaj

SIONKPO1:

But you like Nikki Minaj

I like her songs na nothing else. Person wey don old finish. You sef you dey mad o

Lol this guy you bad sha..he say na the reason why you should marry a single mother is that you can be unfortunate in life ;Dlaugh wan burst my belle🤣🤣🤣

Badmashii:


I like her songs na nothing else. Person wey don old finish. You sef you dey mad o

hahahaha,you lie.
Put your sisters in their shoe

SIONKPO1:

hahahaha,you lie.
Put your sisters in their shoe

Which yeye shoe? Guy you don craze finish o

Badmashii:


Bro I don't even know how to thank you for this. You are indeed a wise fella. "The unfortunate and unhappy often brings misfortune to themselves and if you stick around them, they will definitely bring it upon you too".

You have spoken nothing but the absolute truth. Misfortune is contagious

Badmashii:


Which yeye shoe? Guy you don craze finish o

It's painful but you are only thinking one sided,imagine it's your sister that has a baby child

You’re confusing my confusion..The bad dream you will have tonight must result into you head butting the wall..Your head no correct.

SIONKPO1:

Are you a Virgin?
My point is that the Discrimination melted out to Single Mother's is too much.I disagree that lots of our Ladies messed up while at their Prime Age but they can take back their Life and Live a fulfilled Life.
What if you gets a Lady Pregnant would you be happy if Ladies jilts you

Women won't ask why a man is not high value
Women will never make excuses for your brokenness
Women will never tolerate broke irrespective of no jobs in country.
Women will actively shame and discriminate broke men
Women don't tolerate poverty even if armed robbers rob all your money or fire guts your shop or whatever reason for your losses.
Women are ruthless and advice other younger women to avoid broke men
Women won't take excuses even if a fellow woman made you go poor in life. They don't care and won't date you.
Even if the previous woman ate your money, they don't care. They won't tolerate your new financial difficulties.

Just dey fool yourself with stupid questions about who disvirgined those sluts.

Eeya, who hurt you little child? Loool

Be like say dem don show you shege, Pele dear. So you just woke up and decided to type this nonsense to paint single mothers bad. If you like cry from now till kingdom come, person wey go like them go like them. The nonsense you spewed here is not going to anything. Again, Pele dear Lol.