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palmshots:
Bro I was just in your shoes few months ago. I met the girl around November at magic land in Abuja. If you live in Abuja you should visit that side weekends... 😂
Same 23y/o, truth is bro many of this girls I've discovered to have low-key sponsors..
Honestly you need not take this things personal, just play the game.
Meanwhile you shoulda been automatically done in your mind the moment you discovered that side of her.
From this your post I discovered she had even subtly billed you for house rent sef cuz the simping in you won't want her with the man again hence you'll want to bail her out of her accomodation crisis.
If you want to continue with her subtly continue to let her know through your actions she's just for play, then it's up to her if she's feeling your rod and wants to continue.
In my own case our lust keeps getting stronger sha....
Modern men should get out of their emotions tho cuz situations like this shouldn't even bother you at all

Smiles... Noted man thanks

Dexter08:
Guy no matter what you do in this life, never ever blackmail a person. Blackmail is a very serious crime in every part of the world.

It can land you in prison, not only land you in prison, should things go awry when trying to deal with the said man, you may lose your life in the process, for you don't know if he "belongs" or something.

Stay away from blackmailing boss.

If you must succed, do it with the works of your hands. Nothing beats success that comes with rest of mind.

As for the lady, continue your work in the "other room" while she takes from the man and give to you. A win-win situation for you, if you ask me.

But never give her your commitment. Never ever wife her!!! She is for the street boss.

But if your heart cannot take it, then discard her boss.

Thanks brotherly..noted

Cadexa:
Oga keep fucking her . Don't take relationship serious with her. Besides u talk say Ur are not bouyant

Abi, way to Go..it okay man.thanks

palmshots:
You're wrong bro.
Yes girls love money no doubt but who's that you without the money that's what matters most.
Let me tell you a true life scenerio , I have a cousin brother older than me.
He's very tough in the family I mean he can be tagged a good for nothing. He used to live with us but my mum won't let us get close so he won't influence me ,I guess was her reason.
He gave birth while in Secondary school, he's always found wherever there's trouble so he had to vacate our house due to this issues
He then left back to the village to live in the family house (grandparents house), fast forward to when one university cited their campus in our village, he met this "very" beautiful young rich girl note the very in quote..😂
This girl wud bring him food, money fight off his other chics and even comfortably live with him in that dead house.Everybody including myself thought na jazz or he's lucky. Just that now I know better.
Right now they're married with a little girl.
The lady is now in abroad,I guess it's her parents trying to separate them, she recently sent him an iPhone 13promax and currently processing his visa alongside her little girl.
She's even ready to adopt the previous girl he had before they met.
Well,the summary of the whole story is he's her alpha fvck.
The guy still score different chics altho he recognised that hes married now..

Good thing is you dont have to be a good for nothing to achieve this. Just the right frame of mind

I watch some of my friends say I'm lucky with the type of girls I get they don't know it's not luck. It's has to do with your frame of mind .
Sometimes I chip in some red pill awareness subtly in our gathering but I know they're just irredeemable. I just sip my Arabian Tea in peace

Damn some of these stories surprise me sometimes

How was your cousin able to meet and get her plus the other chics?
For example the beautiful girl he married... how did he meet and game her?

And is she as fine as these girls below?

Alvelt14:
Your last statement though.

Do you know some girls actually do pay guys to sleep them.

Do you know some guys do get the coochie for free.

Do you even know some girls sleep with other guys and return the money to her guy

Dey Play

There is some level to this redpill shit

That’s why it is always better to be the best version of yourself, a version you could be proud of and not some weaklings. Having your own money is important no doubt but it should not be criteria for pleasing or getting girls, it will only attract leaches

you spoke all facts

leocollins:
Abi, way to Go..it okay man.thanks

yeah . No dey attach emotion when dealing with a woman. If that girl should leave that man tomorrow you won't be able to give her the money she normally receive from that man.
Enjoy the fun while it last

leocollins:
Good morning redpillars, guys please i need an advice on what next to do in these situation.

Early January i met a girl, around 23 yyears,i approached her and we exchanged contact, then we started vibing, we had sex on the second day of our meeting and she latered slept over that night, to be candid i just wanted to hit and run, but guys this babe became nice to me, all of a sudden she wil go to market and buy food stuffs and come and cook, we have bleeped couples of times tho.she washes my clothes and takes good care of me.tbh guys shes nice.
Actually all these times, there is a contact that she saved as her uncle, tho i was skeptical about it, finally last week i discovered that the man isnt her uncle but she was having an affair with the man before she met me, when I confronted her she started crying and begging me that she is just with the man because he gives her money, the man looks wealthy, that she loves me that's why she's with me, that i make her happy,menh I was devastated even tho have nt really spent much on her, because at the moment am not financially stable.
I told her to stop all form communication with the man in which she agreed to.but yesterday i
Night while going through her phone I heard a converulsion she had with the man, and i noticed lot of things in that conversation.
I noticed she do call the man sir, and she is always tensed when talking to the man and Also during the conversation the man was asking her to send him nice nice pictures and videos, can you imagine, he was really emphasising on the pictures. I called her that night and played the tape for her, she told me she wouldn't have sent him those pictures that she was just playing along in order to get her house rent from him just that, she begged for forgiveness that i shouldnt leave her that she loves me.

Please guys am confuse , should i just keep her and allow her to be billing the man and we chop the money together, because to be sincere the gal dey take care of me wella no lies, and I do like her she's loyal and respectfull, but the thought of another man fucking the pussy is always getting me mad..
Also i wanted to use the record tape against the man, like billing him or should I just forget about them and enjoy the fun while it last,
Advice needed thanks

We all are living in a simp world.

You shouldn't be happy enough scoring another man's babe. Yeah, you love the fun and the sex. I get.

What you should be more concerned about is the safety of your life than what a woman does with her pvssy. Especially when her sugar daddy uncle discovers she is cheating on him. Woe betide you if you all stay in the same city. Good for you if you can defend yourself.

You may think you're the exception. But a jealous man knows no boundary.

And in your mind, the babe just loves taking care of you because she saw a blue angelic moon in January. Genuine desire indeed.

Wait till still starts her manifestation. Any woman that can cheat on her spouse will never have any regard for you. Her lovey-dovey now are facades. Every love is conditional. You pay now, or you pay later. Nothing on this planet is free.

I'm not trying to scare you. Neither am I accusing you. However, you'll be at rest when you score a woman from a place of comfort. If you have a vacillating mind towards your woman, she's not for you. You must be cautious.

Enjoy yourself. Have fun. But don't jeopardize your life in the process.

Thanks.

dvkot:
nah.. I'm good, tell me one famous red Piller who ain't rich? from future, to Tate to c.ronaldo to Kevin Owens they don't be getting if they ain't rich. Rp is like a frame men needs to have.
Work on yourself, get rich and the hoes will fall in line.
I Know lots of rich men that ain't suckers for women, I still know some rich men who are suckers

Kevin Owens 🤣🤣
Too much of WWE

Herculex03:
Kevin Owens 🤣🤣
Too much of WWE

lol... That was supposed to be Samuel Owens I do confuse their names

✅

Karlifate:
1:
This thread does not preach hatred against the female folks.

2:
This thread opens your eyes to the female nature that's being hidden in plain sight.

3:
This thread doesn't encourage you to go about boasting on your RP knowledge in the real-life.

4:
You don't have to fake anything, because the female folks can even perceive a false confidence before you get close to them.

5:
I'm glad you took your self-development as a priority, but it doesn't mean you won't relate with women at all. This can be detrimental to you in the long run — Think long-term, bro.

6:
In real-life, you don't go about declaring & displaying your indifference or animosity towards the female folks, you'll be striked down when you least expect it, especially when you work in the midst of females or have female clients

7:
Read & practise the 48 Laws of Power as you navigate through life, and as you put your "monk mode" into practise.


Happy Palm 🌴 Sunday.

Talking about the hatred toward women

No matter who you're, the moment you know about redpill your gonna have hatred for girls because it make you know you be fool all these years since your birth.
It take sometime before you blend into redpill that hatred toward women is the pain is just like the pain during first time of working out.
With time man go understand

luvyaself95:
Talking about the hatred toward women

No matter who you're, the moment you know about redpill your gonna have hatred for girls because it make you know you be fool all these years since your birth.
It take sometime before you blend into redpill that hatred toward women is the pain is just like the pain during first time of working out.
With time man go understand

konji often reduces the pain and over time you'll know how to balance it all.

Just got to page 1000. Catching up gradually

....

For those of you that have bumped into a nice girl who's still nice to you (probably buys stuff and cooks for you) etc. and suddenly discovered she has a daddy for cash:

One thing you should have picked from these pages is that that nice girl will be whatever she is whether with you or not.

1. If you let her go, she leaves and start giving another guy the life
2. If you get serious with her, and she gets bored, she'll start give you attitude (as every other girl)
3. If you get married you'll still spend many days of the rest of your life regretting your choice (as with almost every other woman)

The takeaway here is:
Weigh your gains.

Even in marriage: weign your gains.
In life generally, just weigh your gains.

Be careful out there, HIV is spreading in Nigeria at a fast pace nowadays.. You mustn’t have sex with every girl you meet and if you do, practice safe sex. 👍

luminouz:
pukkalolo

You made nice points!!

Yes...you can be the Alpha guy or the third guy who walks out instantly. For me, the alpha guy doesn't have to spit that wordplay scenario you quoted everytime. He can simply walk off if the girl's energy is off.

I am not Drake's level. I still don't tolerate bullshit from any woman because of abundance mindset. Oneitis is a very crazy thing. It messes up your mind and gives you no backup plans.

Lastly, every woman shit test you. Your wife, your mother, sister, aunt and grandma!!! Every woman!! You won't walk off everytime, would you? So you need how to learn to pass that test, simply by not playing their game. Play yours by staying in your own frame.

Luminouz... Great input. You obviously seem like a smart dude. I feel you for that.

But try and read this open mindedly so you can get my point.


Shit test is a made up concept... Some nerdy fellas pick out certain kinds of behaviors from women, label it as shit test, then say passing this test is what is gonna get you laid...

Isn't it contradictory how those nerdy fellas say you should never put women on pedestal, but they still put women back on that same pedestal by saying you need to pass women shit test in order to get laid.

The nice guy feels he needs to spend cash and simp for women in order to get the pussy. The redpill junkie think he need to pass women shit test in order to get the pussy.

The redpill junkie may beef on the nice guys and call them simp, but he and the Nice guy are the same: they are both hoping to be rewarded with the pussy. And that's one of their fundamental dating problem.

*Taking a deep breath*

I'm just starting....

Pussy is similar to money in a particular aspect:


Money only has value because the government says it does and its citizen agree that it does...Basically, Money only has value because everybody thinks it’s valuable.
Money, which is just paper is practically created from thin air, without any effort. It was just printed. Government can print as much copy.

We believe that money such as dollars, pounds naira and so on are actually of value, but in reality money is only a store of value and not the actual value...but, sadly, many of do not understand this. This is why the rich concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is Asset.

Pussy only has value because the media, society and women say it does and then the men agree that it does....

Pussy is mainly for enjoyment and procreation. And that is. But we make it seem more valuable than that. No wonder men attach their self-worth to getting pussy. Pussy is overrated.

The other day, a lady was telling me that anytime she's taking her bath and she looks at her pussy, she wonders why almost every guy she meets are dying to have a taste of it...

She was like, "What is even special about this pussy that all this men are chasing...Men are just so foolish"

Although, I found what she was saying a bit funny, but she's absolutely right. There's nothing special about the pussy. The pussy is for enjoyment, but there are other enjoyable activities. But men attached so much special value to the pussy, and that's a big problem.

Basically, pussy only has value because everybody thinks it’s has. And women are taking advantage of that. But the high quality guy that actually understand pussy knows that there's nothing special about the pussy, this is why he concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is, Attention.

The girl was born with pussy, she didn't have to work hard to own a pussy...it was given to her for free. When she reach her teenage years, she realized that guys are competing to get a taste of it. Then she assume this pussy must be so much valuable for these men to be dying to have a taste of it.

These make her start acting like an entiled bitch and start acting saucy towards men.

The nice guy sees her saucy, rude and entiled behavior, then he thinks, "I needs to spend money and try to please her so I can get her valuable pussy."

The redpill junkie sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a "shit test", then he think " I needs to pass her shit test so I can get her valuable pussy.

The high quality guy sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a crap, then he thinks, "if she doesn't behavior right, I'll channel my attention somewhere else."

The average guy think pussy is valuable, that's is why he strategize is dating game around "acting" a certain way so he can be giving the pussy.

The high quality guy think attention is valuable, that's why he strategize is dating game around adjustment to the amount or intensity of attention he gives or withholds from her.

Attention is everything. Attention builds popularity. It sells products and services, and it builds wealth…

Attention gives value to something. It makes something worthless seem worthy. Pussy seem worthy because men give so much attention to pussy. The value of Pussy has overblown due excessive attention from men.

Pussy will become worthless when men stop giving so much attention to it. A LACK OF ATTENTION FROM MEN can pratically make a woman go insane. Even if a womam is not interested in fucking or dating you, she still want you to give her attention.


If you’re willing to give any woman your attention, then you are in for a lot of troubles. One of the best dating skill that will increase a woman desire for you is your ability to know when to withdraw and give attention to a woman.

I learnt the power of attention years ago... Just like most guys here, I noticed that when I pay less attention to certain girls around me, they seem to want me more... Suddenly light bulb goes on in my head. I began thinking, "If this lady, want me more when I give her less of my attention, then my attention must definitely be valuable to her."

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes to giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women

Then I was struck with an ingenious paradigm, I started thinking: "If a woman give her pussy to a man as a reward for behaving right, then how can I increase the value of my attention in a woman eyes, so I can give her my attention as reward for behaving right towards me?"

Now, I command the respect of almost all ladies in my life because they know my attention is scares and valuable and they know they must not joke with it: I'm very stingy with my attention. As a lady, you should be happy I'm giving you more of my attention.

The ladies know this about me, and they always make sure they be at their best behavior around me.

A lady was telling me a week ago, "you are difficult guy."

I said, "how?"

In her own different words, she said, "I don't just know what to say that will please you or turn you off..You are just unpredictable. I just have to be careful with my words and actions around you."

In my mind, I smiled. That's the exact psychological situation I want girls to be in when dealing with me. I want ladies to be scared of messing with me.

The nice guy thinks, "How can I impressed her enough so I can get the pussy?"

The red pill junkie thinks, "how can I pass her shit test, so I get the pussy?"

But I think, "she needs to prove to me that she's worth it, or else I'll withdraw my attention from her."

When you stop being pussy focus and start being attention focused, you'd suddenly realized that female shit test doesn't matter. It's now your test that matters now.

I'm attention focused, that's why I can quickly identify the type of ladies that are most likely to waste my VALUABLE ATTENTION . In few seconds or minutes of interacting with a woman, I can immediately tell if she worth it or not.


I treat my attention the way women treat their pussy. I do the shit testing, not women. If a woman pass my shit test, then I'll give her access to more of my attention. That's a mindset shift.

Stay blessed brothers...

Pukkalolo:
Luminouz... Great input. You obviously seem like a smart dude. I feel you for that.

But try and read this open mindedly so you can get my point.


Shit test is a made up concept... Some nerdy fellas pick out certain kinds of behaviors from women, label it as shit test, then say passing this test is what is gonna get you laid...

Isn't it contradictory how those nerdy fellas say you should never put women on pedestal, but they still put women back on that same pedestal by saying you need to pass women shit test in order to get laid.

The nice guy feels he needs to spend cash and simp for women in order to get the pussy. The redpill junkie think he need to pass women shit test in order to get the pussy.

The redpill junkie may beef on the nice guys and call them simp, but he and the Nice guy are the same: they are both hoping to be rewarded with the pussy. And that's one of their fundamental dating problem.

*Taking a deep breath*

I'm just starting....

Pussy is similar to money in a particular aspect:


Money only has value because the government says it does and its citizen agree that it does...Basically, Money only has value because everybody thinks it’s valuable.
Money, which is just paper is practically created from thin air, without any effort. It was just printed. Government can print as much copy.

We believe that money such as dollars, pounds naira and so on are actually of value, but in reality money is only a store of value and not the actual value...but, sadly, many of do not understand this. This is why the rich concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is Asset.

Pussy only has value because the media, society and women say it does and then the men agree that it does....

Pussy is mainly for enjoyment and procreation. And that is. But we make it seem more valuable than that. No wonder men attach their self-worth to getting pussy. Pussy is overrated.

The other day, a lady was telling me that anytime she's taking her bath and she looks at her pussy, she wonders why almost every guy she meets are dying to have a taste of it...

She was like, "What is even special about this pussy that all this men are chasing...Men are just so foolish"

Although, I found what she was saying a bit funny, but she's absolutely right. There's nothing special about the pussy. The pussy is for enjoyment, but there are other enjoyable activities. But men attached so much special value to the pussy, and that's a big problem.

Basically, pussy only has value because everybody thinks it’s has. And women are taking advantage of that. But the high quality guy that actually understand pussy knows that there's nothing special about the pussy, this is why he concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is, Attention.

The girl was born with pussy, she didn't have to work hard to own a pussy...it was given to her for free. When she reach her teenage years, she realized that guys are competing to get a taste of it. Then she assume this pussy must be so much valuable for these men to be dying to have a taste of it.

These make her start acting like an entiled bitch and start acting saucy towards men.

The nice guy sees her saucy, rude and entiled behavior, then he thinks, "I needs to spend money and try to please her so I can get her valuable pussy."

The redpill junkie sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a "shit test", then he think " I needs to pass her shit test so I can get her valuable pussy.

The high quality guy sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a crap, then he thinks, "if she doesn't behavior right, I'll channel my attention somewhere else."

The average guy think pussy is valuable, that's is why he strategize is dating game around "acting" a certain way so he can be giving the pussy.

The high quality guy think attention is valuable, that's why he strategize is dating game around adjustment to the amount or intensity of attention he gives or withholds from her.

Attention is everything. Attention builds popularity. It sells products and services, and it builds wealth…

Attention gives value to something. It makes something worthless seem worthy. Pussy seem worthy because men give so much attention to pussy. The value of Pussy has overblown due excessive attention from men.

Pussy will become worthless when men stop giving so much attention to it. A LACK OF ATTENTION FROM MEN can pratically make a woman go insane. Even if a womam is not interested in fucking or dating you, she still want you to give her attention.


If you’re willing to give any woman your attention, then you are in for a lot of troubles. One of the best dating skill that will increase a woman desire for you is your ability to know when to withdraw and give attention to a woman.

I learnt the power of attention years ago... Just like most guys here, I noticed that when I pay less attention to certain girls around me, they seem to want me more... Suddenly light bulb goes on in my head. I began thinking, "If this lady, want me more when I give her less of my attention, then my attention must definitely be valuable to her."

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes to giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women

Then I was struck with an ingenious paradigm, I started thinking: "If a woman give her pussy to a man as a reward for behaving right, then how can I increase the value of my attention in a woman eyes, so I can give her my attention as reward for behaving right towards me?"

Now, I command the respect of almost all ladies in my life because they know my attention is scares and valuable and they know they must not joke with it: I'm very stingy with my attention. As a lady, you should be happy I'm giving you more of my attention.

The ladies know this about me, and they always make sure they be at their best behavior around me.

A lady was telling me a week ago, "you are difficult guy."

I said, "how?"

In her own different words, she said, "I don't just know what to say that will please you or turn you off..You are just unpredictable. I just have to be careful with my words and actions around you."

In my mind, I smiled. That's the exact psychological situation I want girls to be in when dealing with me. I want ladies to be scared of messing with me.

The nice guy thinks, "How can I impressed her enough so I can get the pussy?"

The red pill junkie thinks, "how can I pass her shit test, so I get the pussy?"

But I think, "she needs to prove to me that she's worth it, or else I'll withdraw my attention from her."

When you stop being pussy focus and start being attention focused, you'd suddenly realized that female shit test doesn't matter. It's now your test that matters now.

I'm attention focused, that's why I can quickly identify the type of ladies that are most likely to waste my VALUABLE ATTENTION . In few seconds or minutes of interacting with a woman, I can immediately tell if she worth it or not.


I treat my attention the way women treat their pussy. I do the shit testing, not women. If a woman pass my shit test, then I'll give her access to more of my attention. That's a mindset shift.

Stay blessed brothers...

nice one bro.

heartofcity12:
Be careful out there, HIV is spreading in Nigeria at a fast pace nowadays.. You mustn’t have sex with every girl you meet and if you do, practice safe sex. 👍

3 weeks and she was already so confident it was him?

Why not wait 3/6 months?

What if na she gets am infect the dude or na false accusation?

luminouz:
3 weeks and she was already so confident it was him?

Why not wait 3/6 months?

What if na she gets am infect the dude or na false accusation?

Exactly.. That’s why guys have to be careful out there..

Pukkalolo:
Luminouz... Great input. You obviously seem like a smart dude. I feel you for that.

But try and read this open mindedly so you can get my point.


Shit test is a made up concept... Some nerdy fellas pick out certain kinds of behaviors from women, label it as shit test, then say passing this test is what is gonna get you laid...

Isn't it contradictory how those nerdy fellas say you should never put women on pedestal, but they still put women back on that same pedestal by saying you need to pass women shit test in order to get laid.

The nice guy feels he needs to spend cash and simp for women in order to get the pussy. The redpill junkie think he need to pass women shit test in order to get the pussy.

The redpill junkie may beef on the nice guys and call them simp, but he and the Nice guy are the same: they are both hoping to be rewarded with the pussy. And that's one of their fundamental dating problem.

*Taking a deep breath*

I'm just starting....

Pussy is similar to money in a particular aspect:


Money only has value because the government says it does and its citizen agree that it does...Basically, Money only has value because everybody thinks it’s valuable.
Money, which is just paper is practically created from thin air, without any effort. It was just printed. Government can print as much copy.

We believe that money such as dollars, pounds naira and so on are actually of value, but in reality money is only a store of value and not the actual value...but, sadly, many of do not understand this. This is why the rich concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is Asset.

Pussy only has value because the media, society and women say it does and then the men agree that it does....

Pussy is mainly for enjoyment and procreation. And that is. But we make it seem more valuable than that. No wonder men attach their self-worth to getting pussy. Pussy is overrated.

The other day, a lady was telling me that anytime she's taking her bath and she looks at her pussy, she wonders why almost every guy she meets are dying to have a taste of it...

She was like, "What is even special about this pussy that all this men are chasing...Men are just so foolish"

Although, I found what she was saying a bit funny, but she's absolutely right. There's nothing special about the pussy. The pussy is for enjoyment, but there are other enjoyable activities. But men attached so much special value to the pussy, and that's a big problem.

Basically, pussy only has value because everybody thinks it’s has. And women are taking advantage of that. But the high quality guy that actually understand pussy knows that there's nothing special about the pussy, this is why he concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is, Attention.

The girl was born with pussy, she didn't have to work hard to own a pussy...it was given to her for free. When she reach her teenage years, she realized that guys are competing to get a taste of it. Then she assume this pussy must be so much valuable for these men to be dying to have a taste of it.

These make her start acting like an entiled bitch and start acting saucy towards men.

The nice guy sees her saucy, rude and entiled behavior, then he thinks, "I needs to spend money and try to please her so I can get her valuable pussy."

The redpill junkie sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a "shit test", then he think " I needs to pass her shit test so I can get her valuable pussy.

The high quality guy sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a crap, then he thinks, "if she doesn't behavior right, I'll channel my attention somewhere else."

The average guy think pussy is valuable, that's is why he strategize is dating game around "acting" a certain way so he can be giving the pussy.

The high quality guy think attention is valuable, that's why he strategize is dating game around adjustment to the amount or intensity of attention he gives or withholds from her.

Attention is everything. Attention builds popularity. It sells products and services, and it builds wealth…

Attention gives value to something. It makes something worthless seem worthy. Pussy seem worthy because men give so much attention to pussy. The value of Pussy has overblown due excessive attention from men.

Pussy will become worthless when men stop giving so much attention to it. A LACK OF ATTENTION FROM MEN can pratically make a woman go insane. Even if a womam is not interested in fucking or dating you, she still want you to give her attention.


If you’re willing to give any woman your attention, then you are in for a lot of troubles. One of the best dating skill that will increase a woman desire for you is your ability to know when to withdraw and give attention to a woman.

I learnt the power of attention years ago... Just like most guys here, I noticed that when I pay less attention to certain girls around me, they seem to want me more... Suddenly light bulb goes on in my head. I began thinking, "If this lady, want me more when I give her less of my attention, then my attention must definitely be valuable to her."

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes to giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women

Then I was struck with an ingenious paradigm, I started thinking: "If a woman give her pussy to a man as a reward for behaving right, then how can I increase the value of my attention in a woman eyes, so I can give her my attention as reward for behaving right towards me?"

Now, I command the respect of almost all ladies in my life because they know my attention is scares and valuable and they know they must not joke with it: I'm very stingy with my attention. As a lady, you should be happy I'm giving you more of my attention.

The ladies know this about me, and they always make sure they be at their best behavior around me.

A lady was telling me a week ago, "you are difficult guy."

I said, "how?"

In her own different words, she said, "I don't just know what to say that will please you or turn you off..You are just unpredictable. I just have to be careful with my words and actions around you."

In my mind, I smiled. That's the exact psychological situation I want girls to be in when dealing with me. I want ladies to be scared of messing with me.

The nice guy thinks, "How can I impressed her enough so I can get the pussy?"

The red pill junkie thinks, "how can I pass her shit test, so I get the pussy?"

But I think, "she needs to prove to me that she's worth it, or else I'll withdraw my attention from her."

When you stop being pussy focus and start being attention focused, you'd suddenly realized that female shit test doesn't matter. It's now your test that matters now.

I'm attention focused, that's why I can quickly identify the type of ladies that are most likely to waste my VALUABLE ATTENTION . In few seconds or minutes of interacting with a woman, I can immediately tell if she worth it or not.


I treat my attention the way women treat their pussy. I do the shit testing, not women. If a woman pass my shit test, then I'll give her access to more of my attention. That's a mindset shift.

Stay blessed brothers...

You made nice points.

But men have testosterone. Unless it's mastered, Men will ALWAYS give attention to women and their pussy.

That's the blessing and curse of testosterone!!! So men must master it. You were able to master your own by equating it to your ATTENTION and seeing women as organic beings not angels dripped in honey,senses befuddled by lust. Most men never break that matrix sadly and die being enslaved by their lust.

Ketapu:
They always find God when they are done enjoying their party years.

This is what society want you to do. To be ready to save her when she has hit the wall.

Religion is one of the avenues they use to set men up for this.

Don't be like this man.

Link to thread:
https://twitter.com/bornagainsteph/status/1641521074566209537

Continuation 😁

https://mobile.twitter.com/AJA_Cortes/status/1643455315403218944

Karlifate:
One of the scariest thing for a woman, is to see her ex doing better than her current dude.

Let's assume you played a bet with a 1million potential win, but you were offered a cash out of 100k because the bet was already losing. You cashed out the 100k happily.

Now my brother, would you want the bet to eventually win and you later regret you missed out winning a million, or be justified for making the right decision of cashing out the 100k?
There lies your answer.👌

One thing I do is try to understand the motive behind peoples' behavior, it will make you understand their next move. 😊

First time coming across the Andrew tate fella.

Must say ,his tweets are cringe asf.

Don't know what the hype is all about 🤷

Smartb0y:
First time coming across the Andrew tate fella.

Must say ,his tweets are cringe asf.

Don't know what the hype is all about 🤷

try YouTube.
Search for podcast...fresh&fit and others,you'll find the rest.

The way a man gets hornny when he sees a woman he's sexually attracted to, is the same way a woman will shit test a man to prove his worthiness.

It's a wild natural instinct.

It cannot be tamed but it can be mitigated.

You're not the exception. She'll shit test you to eternity.

Stay alert.

The entire manosphere/red pill/blue pill/sigma/alpha is cringe.To think I thought being an incel is peak masculinity

Smartb0y:
First time coming across the Andrew tate fella.

Must say ,his tweets are cringe asf.

Don't know what the hype is all about 🤷

Bruh you just mad people get bleeped up and still can settle

Ketapu:
They always find God when they are done enjoying their party years.

This is what society want you to do. To be ready to save her when she has hit the wall.

Religion is one of the avenues they use to set men up for this.

Don't be like this man.

Link to thread:
https://twitter.com/bornagainsteph/status/1641521074566209537

Shit

Go outside; test your strength.

Pukkalolo:
Luminouz... Great input. You obviously seem like a smart dude. I feel you for that.

But try and read this open mindedly so you can get my point.


Shit test is a made up concept... Some nerdy fellas pick out certain kinds of behaviors from women, label it as shit test, then say passing this test is what is gonna get you laid...

Isn't it contradictory how those nerdy fellas say you should never put women on pedestal, but they still put women back on that same pedestal by saying you need to pass women shit test in order to get laid.

The nice guy feels he needs to spend cash and simp for women in order to get the pussy. The redpill junkie think he need to pass women shit test in order to get the pussy.

The redpill junkie may beef on the nice guys and call them simp, but he and the Nice guy are the same: they are both hoping to be rewarded with the pussy. And that's one of their fundamental dating problem.

*Taking a deep breath*

I'm just starting....

Pussy is similar to money in a particular aspect:


Money only has value because the government says it does and its citizen agree that it does...Basically, Money only has value because everybody thinks it’s valuable.
Money, which is just paper is practically created from thin air, without any effort. It was just printed. Government can print as much copy.

We believe that money such as dollars, pounds naira and so on are actually of value, but in reality money is only a store of value and not the actual value...but, sadly, many of do not understand this. This is why the rich concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is Asset.

Pussy only has value because the media, society and women say it does and then the men agree that it does....

Pussy is mainly for enjoyment and procreation. And that is. But we make it seem more valuable than that. No wonder men attach their self-worth to getting pussy. Pussy is overrated.

The other day, a lady was telling me that anytime she's taking her bath and she looks at her pussy, she wonders why almost every guy she meets are dying to have a taste of it...

She was like, "What is even special about this pussy that all this men are chasing...Men are just so foolish"

Although, I found what she was saying a bit funny, but she's absolutely right. There's nothing special about the pussy. The pussy is for enjoyment, but there are other enjoyable activities. But men attached so much special value to the pussy, and that's a big problem.

Basically, pussy only has value because everybody thinks it’s has. And women are taking advantage of that. But the high quality guy that actually understand pussy knows that there's nothing special about the pussy, this is why he concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is, Attention.

The girl was born with pussy, she didn't have to work hard to own a pussy...it was given to her for free. When she reach her teenage years, she realized that guys are competing to get a taste of it. Then she assume this pussy must be so much valuable for these men to be dying to have a taste of it.

These make her start acting like an entiled bitch and start acting saucy towards men.

The nice guy sees her saucy, rude and entiled behavior, then he thinks, "I needs to spend money and try to please her so I can get her valuable pussy."

The redpill junkie sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a "shit test", then he think " I needs to pass her shit test so I can get her valuable pussy.

The high quality guy sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a crap, then he thinks, "if she doesn't behavior right, I'll channel my attention somewhere else."

The average guy think pussy is valuable, that's is why he strategize is dating game around "acting" a certain way so he can be giving the pussy.

The high quality guy think attention is valuable, that's why he strategize is dating game around adjustment to the amount or intensity of attention he gives or withholds from her.

Attention is everything. Attention builds popularity. It sells products and services, and it builds wealth…

Attention gives value to something. It makes something worthless seem worthy. Pussy seem worthy because men give so much attention to pussy. The value of Pussy has overblown due excessive attention from men.

Pussy will become worthless when men stop giving so much attention to it. A LACK OF ATTENTION FROM MEN can pratically make a woman go insane. Even if a womam is not interested in fucking or dating you, she still want you to give her attention.


If you’re willing to give any woman your attention, then you are in for a lot of troubles. One of the best dating skill that will increase a woman desire for you is your ability to know when to withdraw and give attention to a woman.

I learnt the power of attention years ago... Just like most guys here, I noticed that when I pay less attention to certain girls around me, they seem to want me more... Suddenly light bulb goes on in my head. I began thinking, "If this lady, want me more when I give her less of my attention, then my attention must definitely be valuable to her."

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes to giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women

Then I was struck with an ingenious paradigm, I started thinking: "If a woman give her pussy to a man as a reward for behaving right, then how can I increase the value of my attention in a woman eyes, so I can give her my attention as reward for behaving right towards me?"

Now, I command the respect of almost all ladies in my life because they know my attention is scares and valuable and they know they must not joke with it: I'm very stingy with my attention. As a lady, you should be happy I'm giving you more of my attention.

The ladies know this about me, and they always make sure they be at their best behavior around me.

A lady was telling me a week ago, "you are difficult guy."

I said, "how?"

In her own different words, she said, "I don't just know what to say that will please you or turn you off..You are just unpredictable. I just have to be careful with my words and actions around you."

In my mind, I smiled. That's the exact psychological situation I want girls to be in when dealing with me. I want ladies to be scared of messing with me.

The nice guy thinks, "How can I impressed her enough so I can get the pussy?"

The red pill junkie thinks, "how can I pass her shit test, so I get the pussy?"

But I think, "she needs to prove to me that she's worth it, or else I'll withdraw my attention from her."

When you stop being pussy focus and start being attention focused, you'd suddenly realized that female shit test doesn't matter. It's now your test that matters now.

I'm attention focused, that's why I can quickly identify the type of ladies that are most likely to waste my VALUABLE ATTENTION . In few seconds or minutes of interacting with a woman, I can immediately tell if she worth it or not.


I treat my attention the way women treat their pussy. I do the shit testing, not women. If a woman pass my shit test, then I'll give her access to more of my attention. That's a mindset shift.

Stay blessed brothers...

Ha!!! This here is gold. Everyone should read it.

Pukkalolo:
Luminouz... Great input. You obviously seem like a smart dude. I feel you for that.

But try and read this open mindedly so you can get my point...

Wow! Just learnt something new. Bro, you're good