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Single mothers are always lovely and caring.

This is the catch!

Please don't waste her time by telling her anything because you are not yet a MAN.

AliEzeOlu:
So before the COVID era, I worked as a marketer in one of the multinationals in Lagos state.

One day, my work took me to a Federal Government establishment in the state for a presentation.

When I was done with the presentation, I happened to meet a lady who worked there. She opted to patronize me, and we got talking.

I must say I had a crush on her but was turned back when I discovered she had a baby out of wedlock. She and her baby daddy weren't together as at the time we met (I don't know if they've gotten back together now, or If they are now married). As a result, I never told her of my feelings.

Years later, I lost contact with her. Am out of the company where I used to work when we met. I've been wondering how I can get reconnected to her.

But as fate would have it, just recently, she called me on the phone to ask how I was doing. I felt stupefied. This was someone whose number I've longed to have.

She's the kind of woman I want to marry.

Now again, I didn't reveal my feelings to her. However, I have saved her number now. The question is, should I just call her and open up my feelings for her?

She still works in Lagos, while I've relocated to a core northern state.

Please my people, how do I go about this? I still feel the same way I felt years ago.

How do I start to tell her my feelings when, for years, I didnt call her at once. Won't it be like I only feign feelings for her because she called me to ask about my wellbeing?

How do I even Start? Honestly I'm lost

Someone please give me a clue

I am still wondering what's difficult about telling her how you feel about her

Anyway invite her over but make sure you send Tfare to her for the visit and her going back

When she comes the atmosphere will speak for itself

Na una sabi oooo

Omo this kind post dey vex me, the only thing I want to hear men chase is money.

Kiddogarcia:


I'm sorry if I derailed your thread.
But I expect you to be more definite in your quest,a simple "hi,I know I've not reached out for years,life has not been smooth sailing. I've had to move to the north in search of a more fulfilling life,and in the hustle and bustle of life,I lost your number. nothing can really quantify the joy I felt the day you called and I've never been more sure of what I want. I know this may seems too early, but I've always loved you and I'll love to have something worthwhile with you".
Simple.

Now I've made sense right,so when it's time for sex,if you don't reach out,even seun no go fit separate me and you for this app sir.
Sorry I derailed your thread again.

Na we be your best plug for everything Sexual enhancement tho

Haha haha... This just made my morning

Affairs is like a super magnet,either lust or love, fornication or fidelity, see immediately two of you connect

But that's not where it end

It may turn out good or worst

AliEzeOlu:


Hmmm, won't that be rather too risky? Breaking my sim again, and one more time, losing her number

Bro, trust me I ain't doing any of such no more. I'm just thinking, like how do I start to let her know I want to wife her after I've not called her all these years.

Won't it be like I'm bringing up all these talks because she called to check on me?

But you said you don't want anything doing wan after one mother

What suddenly change

Bahamas95:
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The elders have spoken

AliEzeOlu:
So before the COVID era, I worked as a marketer in one of the multinationals in Lagos state.

One day, my work took me to a Federal Government establishment in the state for a presentation.

When I was done with the presentation, I happened to meet a lady who worked there. She opted to patronize me, and we got talking.

I must say I had a crush on her but was turned back when I discovered she had a baby out of wedlock. She and her baby daddy weren't together as at the time we met (I don't know if they've gotten back together now, or If they are now married). As a result, I never told her of my feelings.

Years later, I lost contact with her. Am out of the company where I used to work when we met. I've been wondering how I can get reconnected to her.

But as fate would have it, just recently, she called me on the phone to ask how I was doing. I felt stupefied. This was someone whose number I've longed to have.

She's the kind of woman I want to marry.

Now again, I didn't reveal my feelings to her. However, I have saved her number now. The question is, should I just call her and open up my feelings for her?

She still works in Lagos, while I've relocated to a core northern state.

Please my people, how do I go about this? I still feel the same way I felt years ago.

How do I start to tell her my feelings when, for years, I didnt call her at once. Won't it be like I only feign feelings for her because she called me to ask about my wellbeing?

How do I even Start? Honestly I'm lost
Someone please give me a clue

Infactuation

joinnow:


Infactuation

LoL ... Ok

You must have your reasons to think this is 'infatuation'. And of course, I respect your opinion.

But no, I bet I'm not infatuated. I know what I just started.

Thanks for stopping by, tho.

lereinter:


But you said you don't want anything doing wan after one mother

What suddenly change

Can't recall saying this anywhere. Anyway, in case I ever did, change is constant.

lereinter:



Affairs is like a super magnet,either lust or love, fornication or fidelity, see immediately two of you connect

But that's not where it end

It may turn out good or worst

I pray it turns out positive.

Konjiboii:
Omo this kind post dey vex me, the only thing I want to hear men chase is money.

When love jam you, you go know say both chases are crucial

frozen70:


I am still wondering what's difficult about telling her how you feel about her

Anyway invite her over but make sure you send Tfare to her for the visit and her going back

When she comes the atmosphere will speak for itself

Hmmm, ok o

Gadafii:
Bluudd start by building genuine friendship with her first, with a little bit of romantic moments, like complimenting her hair or dress, have genuine conversations with her in diverse topics to know her level of intelligent, no be by if she’s pleasant to your eyes and hearts only, if she pleasant to your senses??

Don’t dive in headlong confessing love for her like your life depended on her, you will loose your element of mystery, and women don’t like men that are easy to read or predict, you will bore them to death, trust me

The more mysterious you are the more she desires you and wants to unravel you, if your game is solid and tight, she will never be able to unravel you completely, you will find her pretty submissive and attentive to you, she would want to know what you are up to next, what your feelings are, tho you still got to show affections in the masculine way, not like sissy’s

Your actions towards her should be genuine and pure, put her on pedestal, show interest in her career and kid, and offer brilliant advises and suggestions for her.

You have got to be a man of all seasons and weather, not a desperate man

How ever I listed all of these because I believe you don’t have issue with single mom. That you think you can deal with that, if not let her know asap your mind asap no waste her time, pretty women no Dey ever finish for this life and there is no woman of your dream, you build them

Also this advise is for men who no Dey fear women, men who still wanna have a commitment with ladies, 🥰😂😂😂😂😂😂

Savage! This is one in a milli

AliEzeOlu:


Can't recall saying this anywhere. Anyway, in case I ever did, change is constant.

LoL

Read your story nao

Your mind is already made up

Do your findings, pray, and involve a counsellor