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Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by engrrichie92(m): 5:20am On Apr 12, 2023
People get married because of several reasons
I did because I thought I met my partner in destiny...we shared similar vision, goals and aspirations at the time

But 1 year down the line, marriage ain't meeting my expectations at all
It is all about the woman...what she wants and how you must always meet her needs, how you have to make sure she's always happy
The thing here is ...it never ends

Have I spoken to my wife?
Yes, severally
But she never seems to understand me...
Now I realise why men just go mute over the years...we are not quiet, we are just tired
Tired of saying thesame thing without getting result so we would rather just keep quiet

The new song is "I want a child..." and then comes with the child has to be born in US, etc

I am honestly tired in advance
Sometimes I think of leaving this house and not coming back
I pretend to be happy to make her happy...but honestly I am not

Marriage is hard!

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by jogsman01(m): 6:05am On Apr 12, 2023
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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by madampresh(f): 6:19am On Apr 12, 2023
Marriage is not by force.

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Rokiat(f): 6:27am On Apr 12, 2023
In this life everyone has choices. If you are that bitter remain single smh.

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Oluromantic: 6:39am On Apr 12, 2023
Oga. Let your wife get a job. Na housewife dey get endless needs. That's a good way to start.

The women weh dey look you for eyes shout on you from courtship days, no be person weh dem dey marry, na just date and leave. But you men will be saying meehn, that girl fine I swear, she set die.. I will marry her. Now the set don fade just after a year.

Love is blind but marriage opens eyes.

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Reminderz: 6:42am On Apr 12, 2023
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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Carcholce: 6:52am On Apr 12, 2023
No matter how you guys condemn marriage. I am still going to marry two wives, and a third one when the first two are getting old.

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Ireportlive: 7:37am On Apr 12, 2023
Conflicting personality...

Before marriage always check your personality compatibility

Use Zodiac sign

Use Numerology

Use Introvert, Extrovert, Ambevert Quiz

All the compatability quiz are free online and you only need to answer some few questions to get needed results.

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by FORWARDEVERLY: 7:51am On Apr 12, 2023
engrrichie92:
People get married because of several reasons
I did because I thought I met my partner in destiny...we shared similar vision, goals and aspirations at the time

But 1 year down the line, marriage ain't meeting my expectations at all
It is all about the woman...what she wants and how you must always meet her needs, how you have to make sure she's always happy
The thing here is ...it never ends

Have I spoken to my wife?
Yes, severally
But she never seems to understand me...
Now I realise why men just go mute over the years...we are not quiet, we are just tired
Tired of saying thesame thing without getting result so we would rather just keep quiet

The new song is "I want a child..." and then comes with the child has to be born in US, etc

I am honestly tired in advance
Sometimes I think of leaving this house and not coming back
I pretend to be happy to make her happy...but honestly I am not

Marriage is hard!







Pls don't forget to buy and make use of SNIPER...

I have no pity for weaklings who allow others dictate their life for them....
If you like allow a woman to remote you around and manipulate you till you become miserable...
Life goes on with it without you...



All these lily-livered kids these days.. can't look at their women and bark instructions and tell them point blank how their affairs would be conducted...
I remember when Men were Men... Now when a woman sneeze, this Indomie boys would cower... A huge shame..

Go buy Sniper and make use of it and stop disturbing us..
We won't miss you to be sincerely..

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by FORWARDEVERLY: 7:53am On Apr 12, 2023
Oluromantic:
Oga. Let your wife get a job. Na housewife dey get endless needs. That's a good place to start.

The women weh dey look you for eyes shout on you from courtship days, no be person weh dem dey marry, na just date and leave. But you men will be saying meehn, that girl fine I swear, she set die.. I will marry her. Now the set don fade just after a year.

Love is blind but marriage opens eyes.


The guy na spineless weakling...
He would soon get depressed and suicidal..
Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Sweetvie: 8:08am On Apr 12, 2023
Marriage is not by force

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by youngreezy(m): 9:19am On Apr 12, 2023
FORWARDEVERLY:



The guy na spineless weakling...
He would soon get depressed and suicidal..
you observe say all the women wey dey view the thread dey shout"marriage is not by force"?to show you say these bitches know wetin den dey do and Dem no send oooo, it's all Abe themselves and nothing else....well na the weak bastards wey call themselves men I dey laff,for me?my happiness and peace of mind comes first before even my mama wey born me sef, anybody wey know like am make he/she getat.....omor as I dey talk to you like this,I don go meet my momsy make she give me the money's wey I borrow am oooo, normally I for shun the money for her but right now,I broke so I need am...she dey frown her face since but e no concern me oooo!!me I no fit die for another person abeg

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by FORWARDEVERLY: 9:28am On Apr 12, 2023
youngreezy:
you observe say all the women wey dey view the thread dey shout"marriage is not by force"?to show you say these bitches know wetin den dey do and Dem no send oooo, it's all Abe themselves and nothing else....well na the weak bastards wey call themselves men I dey laff,for me?my happiness and peace of mind comes first before even my mama wey born me sef, anybody wey know like am make he/she getat.....omor as I dey talk to you like this,I don go meet my momsy make she give me the money's wey I borrow am oooo, normally I for shun the money for her but right now,I broke so I need am...she dey frown her face since but e no concern me oooo!!me I no fit die for another person abeg


My Gee... We are of same stock...
But pls.. Let your mom be an exception... I didn't say you should mellow to all she says or wants you to do but don't use same perimeters we use in dealing with all these modern (use!ess) Gyals for your mom..

One love bro...
Keep being a King...

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Blupen969(m): 9:39am On Apr 12, 2023
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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by youngreezy(m): 10:49am On Apr 12, 2023
FORWARDEVERLY:



My Gee... We are of same stock...
But pls.. Let your mom be an exception... I didn't say you should mellow to all she says or wants you to do but don't use same perimeters we use in dealing with all these modern (use!ess) Gyals for your mom..

One love bro...
Keep being a King...
that's why I said"I fir shun the money for her"based on say na momsy but I dey broke right now and she dey expect me to leave the money for her.... normally momsy na exception from the way we dey treat these girls

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by efewizey(m): 11:29am On Apr 12, 2023
engrrichie92:
People get married because of several reasons
I did because I thought I met my partner in destiny...we shared similar vision, goals and aspirations at the time

But 1 year down the line, marriage ain't meeting my expectations at all
It is all about the woman...what she wants and how you must always meet her needs, how you have to make sure she's always happy
The thing here is ...it never ends

Have I spoken to my wife?
Yes, severally
But she never seems to understand me...
Now I realise why men just go mute over the years...we are not quiet, we are just tired
Tired of saying thesame thing without getting result so we would rather just keep quiet

The new song is "I want a child..." and then comes with the child has to be born in US, etc

I am honestly tired in advance
Sometimes I think of leaving this house and not coming back
I pretend to be happy to make her happy...but honestly I am not

Marriage is hard!

My brother. Life is short. Get out now before it's too late. I speak from experience. Walking out hurts but your sanity matters





Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Kriss216: 11:33am On Apr 12, 2023
Marriage is sweet. Enjoy the sweetness.

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by engrrichie92(m): 12:53pm On Apr 12, 2023
FORWARDEVERLY:



Pls don't forget to buy and make use of SNIPER...

I have no pity for weaklings who allow others dictate their life for them....
If you like allow a woman to remote you around and manipulate you till you become miserable...
Life goes on with it without you...



All these lily-livered kids these days.. can't look at their women and bark instructions and tell them point blank how their affairs would be conducted...
I remember when Men were Men... Now when a woman sneeze, this Indomie boys would cower... A huge shame..

Go buy Sniper and make use of it and stop disturbing us..
We won't miss you to be sincerely..

Foool
Men were men...yen yen yen

You are not half the man I am...
Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by FORWARDEVERLY: 4:08pm On Apr 12, 2023
engrrichie92:


Foool
Men were men...yen yen yen

You are not half the man I am...

I am not half the Man you are
Yet ordinary woman dey use you play tinko..
See as you dey cry upandan for Nairaland over a woman...
You have zero guts nor persona to command respect hence a woman is taking you for a ride..
Like I said earlier... Feel free to use Sniper...
You won't be missed..
Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Iceberg3: 11:22pm On Apr 12, 2023
Ireportlive:
Conflicting personality...

Before marriage always check your personality compatibility

Use Zodiac sign

Use Numerology
nkan wa ninu ori e die sha..orie to n fokasibe mo so grin
Use Introvert, Extrovert, Ambevert Quiz

All the compatability quiz are free online and you only need to answer some few questions to get needed results.
Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Kobojunkie: 11:33pm On Apr 12, 2023
engrrichie92:
■ People get married because of several reasons. I did because I thought I met my partner in destiny...we shared similar vision, goals and aspirations at the time. But 1 year down the line, marriage ain't meeting my expectations at all
It is all about the woman...what she wants and how you must always meet her needs, how you have to make sure she's always happy
The thing here is ...it never ends. Have I spoken to my wife?
Yes, severally But she never seems to understand me... Now I realise why men just go mute over the years...we are not quiet, we are just tired. Tired of saying the same thing without getting result so we would rather just keep quiet. The new song is "I want a child..." and then comes with the child has to be born in US, etc., I am honestly tired in advance. Sometimes I think of leaving this house and not coming back. I pretend to be happy to make her happy...but honestly I am not. Marriage is hard!
1. What similar visions, goals, and aspirations did you confirm you both share cause it seems you are talking about your own in this. Were you both clear from the start on these aspirations or did you simply assume these things? Or were you just instead to bow to your demands in marriage? undecided

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Nobody: 11:37pm On Apr 12, 2023
Popular opinion; you are a weak simp

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Teeneyo(m): 11:44pm On Apr 12, 2023
Female= i want a child
Female= the child must be born in d US

Me =ti ba gba eti iya e..wa pora niwaju mi...u don dey ment


Dont hit her
Bt put d fear of God in her
She cant take it
Let her leave


Abi she dey whine my nipple
Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Paramount01(m): 11:47pm On Apr 12, 2023
Rokiat:
In this life everyone has choices. If you are that bitter remain single smh.


Honestly, most men enjoy singlehood more than being married

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by flokii: 12:42am On Apr 13, 2023
Learnt something new today.. people can actually get tired in advance.

@OP You don marry, you should make yourself happy in marriage.
Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Kobicove(m): 12:57am On Apr 13, 2023
Paramount01:



Honestly, most men enjoy singlehood more than being married

Fact!

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by IbrahimSkiba(f): 2:23am On Apr 13, 2023
Carcholce:
No matter how you guys condemn marriage. I am still going to marry two wives, and a third one when the first two are getting old.


Forever Young grin
Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by IbrahimSkiba(f): 2:24am On Apr 13, 2023
FORWARDEVERLY:



Pls don't forget to buy and make use of SNIPER...

I have no pity for weaklings who allow others dictate their life for them....
If you like allow a woman to remote you around and manipulate you till you become miserable...
Life goes on with it without you...



All these lily-livered kids these days.. can't look at their women and bark instructions and tell them point blank how their affairs would be conducted...
I remember when Men were Men... Now when a woman sneeze, this Indomie boys would cower... A huge shame..

Go buy Sniper and make use of it and stop disturbing us..
We won't miss you to be sincerely..


Minimini manimo undecided
Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by frozen70(f): 4:07am On Apr 13, 2023
engrrichie92:
People get married because of several reasons
I did because I thought I met my partner in destiny...we shared similar vision, goals and aspirations at the time

But 1 year down the line, marriage ain't meeting my expectations at all
It is all about the woman...what she wants and how you must always meet her needs, how you have to make sure she's always happy
The thing here is ...it never ends

Have I spoken to my wife?
Yes, severally
But she never seems to understand me...
Now I realise why men just go mute over the years...we are not quiet, we are just tired
Tired of saying thesame thing without getting result so we would rather just keep quiet

The new song is "I want a child..." and then comes with the child has to be born in US, etc

I am honestly tired in advance
Sometimes I think of leaving this house and not coming back
I pretend to be happy to make her happy...but honestly I am not

Marriage is hard!






You never knew that marriage has its own challenges

Its now dawning on you that you are in for it

Well get her pregnant first and once that is done, that's when she will resume her going to give birth in USA which is a good idea

If you can afford it, good and fine, it's for the child future

If you can't afford it just relax by the time the pregnancy has gone half way

Seat her down and let her understand that you don't have the financial capacity to afford that

But you will appreciate if she has the capacity to do that from her own end,

That's all

Worst case she will go Gaga but still carry the pregnancy to full term and deliver successfully anywhere she wants home or abroad

You men should learn not to allow people to push you to the wall, if they think it's easy they can as well do that themselves

Let me give you an example
There was a time my husband was disturbing my life that he wants us to travel home for Christmas

I kept quiet, he keeps repeating it

I just brought out paper one Saturday and list out the following points

Cost of traveling with car, fuel amd maintenance

Cost of feeding through out our stay in the the village

Cost of entertaining people that will come to visit us

Cost of buying Christmas clothes for the children

Cost of school fees in January and provisions for them to go back to school

Then cost of Traveling with a chattered bus incase we don't want to travel with our vehicle, plus extra cash at hand for local transportation to market and all movements in the village

They were six points I asked him to choose three and give me three

As I am typing this message, that was the end of such demand till today, he never brought the issue up again

So i just kept quiet and never asked him how far 🙄🙄

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Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by FORWARDEVERLY: 7:34am On Apr 13, 2023
IbrahimSkiba:



Minimini manimo undecided

Cada oveja Consu pareja 💯💯
Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by Truvelisback(m): 8:31am On Apr 13, 2023
engrrichie92:
People get married because of several reasons
I did because I thought I met my partner in destiny...we shared similar vision, goals and aspirations at the time

But 1 year down the line, marriage ain't meeting my expectations at all
It is all about the woman...what she wants and how you must always meet her needs, how is you have to make sure she's always happy
The thing here is ...it never ends

Have I spoken to my wife?
Yes, severally
But she never seems to understand me...
Now I realise why men just go mute over the years...we are not quiet, we are just tired
Tired of saying thesame thing without getting result so we would rather just keep quiet

The new song is "I want a child..." and then comes with the child has to be born in US, etc

I am honestly tired in advance
Sometimes I think of leaving this house and not coming back
I pretend to be happy to make her happy...but honestly I am not

Marriage is hard!





Ur marriage is hard because ur wife is jobless while u foot the bills.
Re: Unpopular Opinion: Marriage Is For Women Alone by OtuologyProf(m): 10:27am On Apr 13, 2023
Ireportlive:
Conflicting personality...

Before marriage always check your personality compatibility

Use Zodiac sign

Use Numerology

Use Introvert, Extrovert, Ambevert Quiz

All the compatability quiz are free online and you only need to answer some few questions to get needed results.


If you like use togovert, congovert, panyavert , there's no single manual for marriage because of confounding factors.
A nagging wife will nag whether you cheat on her or not. If there's a specific cause of an action in relationships, then you may decide to study all those laughable signs.
A rich woman who gets diked outside may seem weird. Someone from a distance would say she's not being provided for, so lack of money becomes a confounding factor.

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