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advanceDNA:
So what is it....??
The funny thing is u are justifying it with words like harmless date, he's just a friend, yet u are hiding the full details from ur man, cos u wont take the same from him

two..u are the one creating excuse of federal connection the man ddnt say he will help u with.... u are already thinking of what u will gain but u dont think the man is thinking of what he will gain....because in ur mind...he's just lookimg for where to spend money abi...u think u are wise...

The summary is that u miss ur single life when u used to freely jump on dates for fun and free food...i like free food too...who doesnt like awoof and adventure?? .old habits die hard

u want that life once in a whil...so own up with ur full chest and enjoy.....and accept wateva comes out of it as well... dont hide under harmless date

Pure prejudice!

Ogun Dey kill this one ooo which 1 be harmless date and you are married.Never marry a prostitute u go hear whinnnn

KanuSE:
Is it okay if she used the phrase 'hold a meeting' instead of harmless date?

It's actually beyond me how most of you summarily concluded Op is going to have sex with her friend.

It show the society is messed up and you people are the society.

you too na part of the messed up society,oga or madam,if it was a meeting she wouldn't need coming here to tell us because na meeting....for her to come here come talk am be say she dey find justification from us to make her cheat,so that wen e cast she go see who to blame... Normal women style of not always taking the blame even wen caught red handed.....her motives is very clear even for the blind to see,stop defending her

rowland545:
serial fornicator and a prostitute spotted

This is the point exactly. You don't know me but here you are calling me unprintable names.

Not okay at all. go on date with your husband, Ashewo oshi

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery



Advices needed thank you….

youngreezy:
you too na part of the messed up society,oga or madam,if it was a meeting she wouldn't need coming here to tell us because na meeting....for her to come here come talk am be say she dey find justification from us to make her cheat,so that wen e cast she go see who to blame... Normal women style of not always taking the blame even wen caught red handed.....her motives is very clear even for the blind to see,stop defending her

Op has only succeeded in exposing the rot in our society, where prejudice is so rife.

Can you actually prove Op is going to fvck her friend?

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

I don't see anything wrong in that......just knw what you want .......

KanuSE:
Op has only succeeded in exposing the rot in our society, where prejudice is so rife.

Can you actually prove Op is going to fvck her friend?

oga stop twisting the story and stay on the lane,a married woman going on a "harmless date"with another man and you're saying another thing...if it was a normal official meeting or business meeting,she wouldn't be seeking our opinion because who cares anyway?but for her to come here dey find our thoughts shows you she knows something is about to happen and she id excited about it.what if your wife/husband goes in a "harmless date"with someone else without you knowing? infact you win,I don Taya....

KanuSE:
Pure prejudice!

Prejudice....?? U clearly dont know when to use that word .....ask he if she will be happy her husband is taking other women out on "harmless dates" before u come here and pull prejudice card....
She should do as she expects her husband to do to her.......thats the law of life

youngreezy:
oga stop twisting the story and stay on the lane,a married woman going on a "harmless date"with another man and you're saying another thing...if it was a normal official meeting or business meeting,she wouldn't be seeking our opinion because who cares anyway?but for her to come here dey find our thoughts shows you she knows something is about to happen and she id excited about it.what if your wife/husband goes in a "harmless date"with someone else without you knowing? infact you win,I don Taya....

Op's post may be suggestive but not a basis for prejudice. She mentioned some other reasons she might be considering meeting up for the said 'harmless date' but y'all are not just having it....lol 😆

Most comments here from men and women reeks of insecurity and mistrust....SIMPLE !

Can you prove Op is going to fvck her friend?

advanceDNA:
Prejudice....?? U clearly dont know when to use that word .....ask he if she will be happy her husband is taking other women out on "harmless dates" before u come here and pull prejudice card....
She should do as she expects her husband to do to her.......thats the law of life

Lol 😂 so there's actually a perfect time to use the word 'prejudice'...inukwa!

This life is actually simple to live.

Live and let live.

Harmlesss date will turn to harm divorce.... Dis have seen.... D baba willl bang u.. If u don't stop diz friendship asap..

No, if responding based on the content and connotation of your message, given that a date, whether harmless one or not, literally bears an impression that you won't mind being involved romantically, now or in the future, with him subject to his package and/or what he can offer.

Yes, if your question, submission here, and true intention are to network with him on principle - hangout.

In summary, there is nothing wrong if you wish to hangout with him, but there is almost everything wrong if you wish to go on a date with him, especially if it's against your marriage principle/vow not to be involved romantically with another man while in marriage.

KanuSE:
Op's post may be suggestive but not a basis for prejudice. She mentioned some other reasons she might be considering meeting up for the said 'harmless date' but y'all are not just having it....lol 😆

Most comments here from men and women reeks of insecurity and mistrust....SIMPLE !

Can you prove Op is going to fvck her friend?

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Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

A man and a woman can't be friends,una no deh hear.You have started hiding things from your husband,you didn't tell him the full truth.Na so e dey start.I guess you like him a bit and you are scared that if you tell your husband, you husband might kick against it.


Soon,you will start going on dates with him and you won't tell your husband.You will start getting emotionally attached to him.You will give yourself excuses that he is married.Nothing will happen blablabla

Latter you guys will go on a date get a little drunk and voom you will be on his bed.At first you will say it is mistake but before you know it second,third to the tenth time.

You will become fuxk buddies you will stop giving your husband sex and become nasty towards him because you don't love or respect him anymore.Poor man.

When you later get caught your eyes will not quickly open.Your lover will end up leaving you when the secret comes out.You might not be remorseful because you are still in the affair fog but when it settles you will realise that you have lost your husband and destroyed your family.


Affairs don't start over night,,it starts innocently or unintentionally.Use your sense.

KanuSE:
Lol 😂 so there's actually a perfect time to use the word 'prejudice'...inukwa!

This life is actually simple to live.

Live and let live.

Another word u ddnt use at the right time..
In marriage.. u cant do wateva u like, pulling the "live and let live" card, cos ur actions can affect ur spouse...

advanceDNA:
Another word u ddnt use at the right time..
In marriage.. u cant do wateva u like, pulling the "live and let live" card, cos ur actions can affect ur spouse...

Ok

jimmychang:
A man and a woman can't be friends,una no deh hear.You have started hiding things from your husband,you didn't tell him the full truth.Na so e dey start.I guess you like him a bit and you are scared that if you tell your husband, you husband might kick against it.


Soon,you will start going on dates with him and you won't tell your husband.You will start getting emotionally attached to him.You will give yourself excuses that he is married.Nothing will happen blablabla

Latter you guys will go on a date get a little drunk and voom you will be on his bed.At first you will say it is mistake but before you know it second,third to the tenth time.

You will become fuxk buddies you will stop giving your husband sex and become nasty towards him because you don't love or respect him anymore.Poor man.

When you later get caught your eyes will not quickly open.Your lover will end up leaving you when the secret comes out.You might not be remorseful because you are still in the affair fog but when it settles you will realise that you have lost your husband and destroyed your family.

Affairs don't start over night,,it starts innocently or unintentionally.Use your sense.

Africa Magic don finally wire your brain 🧠...😂

KanuSE:
Africa Magic don finally wire your brain 🧠...😂

Lol,na life experience ooh.Seen it a lot of times bro.

jimmychang:
Lol,na life experience ooh.Seen it a lot of times bro.

I think Nigerians are just insecure and paranoid.

frozen70:
Read second to my last paragraph

I read it clearly and understood it.........last last you still blamed the consequence that might arise on men as usual.

Men this day dnt know if a woman is married, whenever they like her, they would like to go down with her

That's ur words...... nothing stop you to blame OP alone and not shifting blame to men for OP foolish steps she about to take

KanuSE:
Darling, please don't mind all these insecure commenters masturbating on your thread - They simply cannot comprehend.

They quickly forgot that you specified it was a harmless date but they're here foaming in their mouths. They wouldn't even respect the fact that you're an adult with an independent mind.a



Ignore all of them please

Arse licking simp

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

our people said that"the sea no chop person way him no see him leg".

Lamanii22:
It’s not about money lol… it’s about the connection… pardon me 😂😂😂

Indeed. Guess what's gonna be connected?

Fiscus105:
I read it clearly and understood it.........last last you still blamed the consequence that might arise on men as usual.

Men this day dnt know if a woman is married, whenever they like her, they would like to go down with her

That's ur words...... nothing stop you to blame OP alone and not shifting blame to men for OP foolish steps she about to take

I don't need to blame anyone one rather I will caution the woman

Besides when a man plays his role at home, I can't see any reason why a married woman will seek for help from a married man who plays his role

And if she is still misbehaving while you as a man have played your role and you ha e a prove that she is misbehaving

Take her back to her family and defend the reason of bringing her back

No one will blame you

But if a man is really irresponsibile, what do expect

You should expect nonsense

KanuSE:
I think Nigerians are just insecure and paranoid.

I like how you use insecure and paranoid to gaslight people when they have doubts or feel certain way about things.

You don't know what insecure or being paranoid means.Dont ever dismiss people's feelings like that.

GeeM:
lead us not into temptation

...but deliver us from evil Mathew 6:13

ErnestNc:
Arse licking simp

Hahahaha 🤣🤣😂😂

There's nothing wrong with that too

Supposed you are that man's wife or maybe your husband was that man, how would you feel?
If you feel okay that should answer your question

jimmychang:
I like how you use insecure and paranoid to gaslight people when they have doubts or feel certain way about things.

You don't know what insecure or being paranoid means.Dont ever dismiss people's feelings like that.

How are you even able to love and marry the person you don't trust?

Tell me bro!

frozen70:
I don't need to blame anyone one rather I will caution the woman

Besides when a man plays his role at home, I can't see any reason why a married woman will seek for help from a married man who plays his role

And if she is still misbehaving while you as a man have played your role and you ha e a prove that she is misbehaving

Take her back to her family and defend the reason of bringing her back

No one will blame you

But if a man is really irresponsibile, what do expect

You should expect nonsense

I have learned how to blame myself first before anything and anybody, long time ago, that has been force making not to cross my boundaries. If everyone can be doing that, the world will have peace more than what we are withnessing.


A married woman wants to hang out with another married man........ U HARDLY WARNED HER, WHEN YOU SHIFTED MORE BLAMES ON MEN BEDDING MARRIED WOMAN.

bye.

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

Ashewo dey ur eyes