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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by EdiskyHarry: 3:45pm On Apr 16, 2023

Is it now you know?

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Angelfrost(m): 3:45pm On Apr 16, 2023

Marriage is not dead... But, the values are fast eroding.

Thunder will fire the first set of Simps that gave gold diggers the opportunity to start the downgrade of this sacred union!

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by HEBEI: 3:45pm On Apr 16, 2023

Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Globad(f): 3:45pm On Apr 16, 2023

More people believed in marriage as an institution a century ago than do today

More and more people are losing faith in marriage and questioning the rationale behind it

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by DARLINGTON869(m): 3:46pm On Apr 16, 2023

Is marriage dead? Answer is No. There are still a few people out there, male and female who still understand what the concept of marriage is all about. They know marriage is about commitment and not just open face love. They know marriage is about sacrifice, patience, teaching each other, making mistakes and learning from them, giving to each other. ETC

I actually understand where nedu is coming from. You see these things called Social media, Hollywood and Bollywood. They have succeeded in rewiring the brains of a lot of youth to make them think marriage is all sharwama and softy lofty. Even the very celebrities they watch mostly have broken homes. Standard of expectation has increased and most young girl out there want an already made man to settle down with (without being ready to contribute a quota) . During the days of our fathers, inlaws gave out their daughters on the basis that the man had a good name and will guarantee 3 square meals to their daughter. Presently, even the so called inlaws are not trying. If they discover that the man asking for their daughters hand in marriage is a teacher in a secondary school, they begin to look down on him and discourage their daughter from marrying him.
Should I talk about the adverse effects from Yahoo boys and fraudsters

All in all, it is well. I still believe in marriage even with the never ending marital issues and divorces flying everywhere. Thing is one has to be patient, prayerful and intelligent in selecting a life partner. My 2 cents though

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by endsarrrs(f): 3:47pm On Apr 16, 2023

onthehill:

https://igberetvnews.com/1443206/marriage-dead-women-turned-poverty-alleviation-scheme-oap-nedu/

See wahala

Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by blowjohn(m): 3:48pm On Apr 16, 2023

Righteousness2:
Lies from the deep pit of Hell.
God's institution of Marriage is very much alive.
What is dead is humans who have decided to turn their backs to God's laws and commandments.
When you turn your back on God you open yourself to all sorts of things

U didn't get his point Sir. Infact u ironically agreed with him.
If the human is dead to marriage, then that marriage is dead.

He wasnt generalizing it. Marriage as an institution ofcos will continue.

But what it stands for in the world we live in has changed.

Woman was created to be a helper. So I ask u, sir, how many ladies are playing the part of a helper in marriage these days?

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Nehamo: 3:48pm On Apr 16, 2023

If u can afford it go for it . No two ways about it

Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Rubyjade: 3:48pm On Apr 16, 2023

Nedu, please shut up

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by judedwriter(m): 3:49pm On Apr 16, 2023

Givemehope:
Sadly enough but truth.

Yes, sadly the truth.

Many women see marriage as an escape route out of poverty.

Not all though.

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by gabbasin: 3:49pm On Apr 16, 2023

When you have a failed marriage, you'll assume it's so for everyone and think marriage isn't worth it just because a bitch of a wife gave you a child fathered by someone else

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by ppogba: 3:49pm On Apr 16, 2023

Don't use your own failure as a yardstick.

You wey MUMU so tey, dem carry another man pikin give you.

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by jeff1607(m): 3:49pm On Apr 16, 2023

Righteousness2:
Lies from the deep pit of Hell.
God's institution of Marriage is very much alive.
What is dead is humans who have decided to turn their backs to God's laws and commandments.
When you turn your back on God you open yourself to all sorts of things

Are you married?

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Reelmii: 3:50pm On Apr 16, 2023

..marriage is not dead,, its the 2 people involved that has problems..
There are still married couples who have grown old together,,,it is not because they are perfect but its because they decided to make it work...

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Rubyjade: 3:50pm On Apr 16, 2023

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Rubyjade: 3:50pm On Apr 16, 2023

ppogba:
Don't use your own failure as a yardstick.

You wey MUMU so tey, dem carry another man pikin give you.

Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by slimmax: 3:50pm On Apr 16, 2023

Majority of our girls have a particular mind set.

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Suspect33(m): 3:50pm On Apr 16, 2023

Fiscus105:
LET SET THE RECORD STRAIGHT PLEASE.

Marriages are jointly carried in recent time, wives put their money to surport husband in preparing food, house jointly built, car and most important, children jointly sponsored in the universities.

Just because few wives are gold digger doesn't mean every wife is a gold digger ooo

forget talk, provision in marriage is SOLELY the responsibility of the Man

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Slayar: 3:51pm On Apr 16, 2023

I had this thought too,Nedu has articulated it.

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Rubyjade: 3:51pm On Apr 16, 2023

judedwriter:

Yes, sadly the truth.

Many women see marriage as an escape route out of poverty.

Not all though.

Humans marry for the following reasons
Sex
Money
Affection to name a few

Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Rubyjade: 3:51pm On Apr 16, 2023

Suspect33:
forget talk, provision in marriage is SOLELY the responsibility of the Man

In Africa

Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by DennisEche(m): 3:52pm On Apr 16, 2023

Speak for yourself.....

Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Spiritualsdeeps: 3:52pm On Apr 16, 2023

TOTOnigga:
Did you know that Venezuela has the largest oil reserve in the world? Or that Australia has the highest minimum wage?This 2 minutes video shows you which countries has the highest of different things. See video below, very educational....

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Please SUBSCRIBE to the channel if you enjoy our kind of content, Thanks and God bless you.

He said d truth which Hurts You Badly

Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by efficiencie(m): 3:52pm On Apr 16, 2023

onthehill:

https://igberetvnews.com/1443206/marriage-dead-women-turned-poverty-alleviation-scheme-oap-nedu/

This is why I am skeptical of taking advice from those who have failed because their advise will be based on their experience when the failed forgetting that we all fail differently. Oga Nedu no be everybody marry olosho like you and Ashraf wey straf milf. If you are looking for anything in a woman other than submission, loyalty, sexual purity, purpose and piety you are on your own. You will pay the price of fools. Wa'a san'wo omo'go!

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Rubyjade: 3:52pm On Apr 16, 2023

Globad:
More people believed in marriage as an institution a century ago than do today

More and more people are losing faith in marriage and questioning the rationale behind it

Most female go into marriage for the wrong reason.

Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by sterlingD(m): 3:53pm On Apr 16, 2023

Alhaji Musa

Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Suspect33(m): 3:53pm On Apr 16, 2023

Rubyjade:
In Africa

that's why the rate of divorce over here is considerably lesser than the western world. Men and women have different roles to play in the family

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by Rubyjade: 3:53pm On Apr 16, 2023

efficiencie:

This is why I am skeptical of taking advice from those who have failed because their advise will be based on their experience when the failed forgetting that we all fail differently. Oga Nedu no be everybody marry olosho like you and Ashraf wey straf milf. If you are looking for anything in a woman other than submission, loyalty, sexual purity, purpose and piety you are on your own. You will pay the price of fools. Wa'a san'wo omo'go!

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Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by seanwilliam(m): 3:54pm On Apr 16, 2023

This guy talks too much tbh .

Re: Marriage Is Dead, Women Have Turned It Into Poverty Alleviation Scheme— OAP Nedu by ogawisdom(m): 3:54pm On Apr 16, 2023

Exactly

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