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Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Banbulu(op): 2:24am On Apr 18, 2023

OK, I have this babe, we got flowing since 2 months now, buh wot happened yesterday was that I got to know she has been collecting gift like airtime n money from other dudes, I confronted her that this act is not loyal to me, she ask me wether she shouldn't accept any gift from people, I told her 99% is not wit good intentions,,
To cut the story short I'm confused on wot action to take I have been avoiding her chat since yesterday, though she told me she has even quarrel wit the person, and it's Tru that not all gifts r good intentions, buh tinx never clear to me,
A girl told me one time that if I don't give her attention, other people will do, now if I allow this to happen, statement like If you do not give money other people will

Can anyone help me in this my situation?

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Kobojunkiee: 2:37am On Apr 18, 2023

Banbulu:
■ OK, I have this babe, we got flowing since 2 months now, buh wot happened yesterday was that I got to know she has been collecting gift like airtime n money from other dudes, I confronted her that this act is not loyal to me, she ask me wether she shouldn't accept any gift from people, I told her 99% is not wit good intentions,, To cut the story short I'm confused on wot action to take I have been avoiding her chat since yesterday, though she told me she has even quarrel wit the person, and it's Tru that not all gifts r good intentions, buh tinx never clear to me, A girl told me one time that if I don't give her attention, other people will do, now if I allow this to happen, statement like If you do not give money other people will. Can anyone help me in this my situation?

If you cannot stand her living her life as she pleases, then walk away from the relationship and move on to find someone else who fits your compass. Stop disturbing Nairaland with all these brain farts abeg! Leave the girl alone and go find another who fits your culture and moral levels abeg! undecided

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Banbulu(op): 2:39am On Apr 18, 2023

Kobojunkiee:
If you cannot stand her living her life as she pleases, then walk away from the relationship and move on to find someone else who fits your compass. Stop disturbing Nairaland with all these brain farts abeg! Leave the girl alone and go find another who fits your culture and moral levels abeg!

Na so gold digger take de start

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Kobojunkiee: 2:41am On Apr 18, 2023

Banbulu:
■ Na so gold digger take de start

1. What gold digger? Your ancestors instituted gold digging, if you must know. So, if she no be your type, waka pass and go find yourself one wey go fit you instead. undecided

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by silvoclaira: 2:41am On Apr 18, 2023

Banbulu:
OK, I have this babe, we got flowing since 2 months now, buh wot happened yesterday was that I got to know she has been collecting gift like airtime n money from other dudes, I confronted her that this act is not loyal to me, she ask me wether she shouldn't accept any gift from people, I told her 99% is not wit good intentions,,
To cut the story short I'm confused on wot action to take I have been avoiding her chat since yesterday, though she told me she has even quarrel wit the person, and it's Tru that not all gifts r good intentions, buh tinx never clear to me,
A girl told me one time that if I don't give her attention, other people will do, now if I allow this to happen, statement like If you do not give money other people will

Can anyone help me in this my situation?

Dude, give her ARCHCAF HAKIMI style

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Smartguyboy(m): 2:42am On Apr 18, 2023

Any day you can’t give her someone will give her run away from such girls with that kind of mindset.

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:44am On Apr 18, 2023*

before you expect this already "damaged" woman to be loyal to what you guys have, you have to make her understand WHAT YOU GUYS HAVE... if a woman values gift/toasters more than your relationship then there is nothing you can do to fix that (and just get rid of the liability). remember, some women out there live off the attention, its like their engine/drugs. if a woman still needs validation/attention from strangers while being in a r/ship with you, then good luck in your misery.

as for yeye women who would ask you to provide for their needs if you want them to stop receiving gifts from these men, just get rid of these oloshoes ASAP!

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Elmojiid(m): 4:36am On Apr 18, 2023

You're too young to carry woman matter for head abi you wan die young, am confused as you.. I wan eat sahur jare...

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by larryking78(m): 4:39am On Apr 18, 2023

My Brother, try and take care of her first.
A man must summon courage to take care of a woman. If you like her, and you want a forever relationship with her, take care of her. Forget Hakimi lifestyle, don't copy another man's style because laslas you must marry and if you cannot take care of your home you are worse than an INFIDEL(someone who is useless).

Decide for once, and shoulder up responsibility to take care of her besides how much is airtime that you cannot buy for her. Buy data subscribe for her and even try and sponsor her feeding once in a while.

Give her the impression that she means Well and everything to you. Protect her, provide for her. Don't expose your woman to the world just be a man.

If you know she does not worth your time, if you know there's no peace with her, if you know you cannot endure with her, please leave her with her nature of gift collection in peace.

But if she's intelligent, smart, courageous, and you feel she's a good mother in waiting, my brother, borrow Brain from God for.once, stand up become a man, get yourself a better job enough to take care of a woman.

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by AsomStructures: 5:11am On Apr 18, 2023*

You confronted her about it and she told you if u shouldn't accept gifts from ppl?

She's not into you, in as much as it's not utterly out of place to receive gifts from friends, she wasn't supposed to be all defensive since it doesn't make u happy. Talk with her about it and if she persists ask her hope she wouldn't get angry if you collect gifts from females folks also?
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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by idu1(m): 5:35am On Apr 18, 2023

I don't know how you can actually stop her from taking gift from guys.

And i don't have any issue with this much except it is becoming embarrassing. Trying to sleep with them for gifts. Nigeria women naturally likes to obtain from guys. I still give airtime, Data and little little things to my old female friends and colleagues.

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by idu1(m): 5:58am On Apr 18, 2023

larryking78:
My Brother, try and take care of her first.
A man must summon courage to take care of a woman. If you like her, and you want a forever relationship with her, take care of her. Forget Hakimi lifestyle, don't copy another man's style because laslas you must marry and if you cannot take care of your home you are worse than an INFIDEL(someone who is useless).

Decide for once, and shoulder up responsibility to take care of her besides how much is airtime that you cannot buy for her. Buy data subscribe for her and even try and sponsor her feeding once in a while.

Give her the impression that she means Well and everything to you. Protect her, provide for her. Don't expose your woman to the world just be a man.

If you know she does not worth your time, if you know there's no peace with her, if you know you cannot endure with her, please leave her with her nature of gift collection in peace.

But if she's intelligent, smart, courageous, and you feel she's a good mother in waiting, my brother, borrow Brain from God for.once, stand up become a man, get yourself a better job enough to take care of a woman.

He tell you say he no dey give her something ni?

There's no way he can satisfy that one. Beside, why must he take care of her in the first place? Because she be em girlfriend?

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by ThatrealestApex: 6:05am On Apr 18, 2023

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Banbulu(op): 6:14am On Apr 18, 2023

larryking78:
My Brother, try and take care of her first.
A man must summon courage to take care of a woman. If you like her, and you want a forever relationship with her, take care of her. Forget Hakimi lifestyle, don't copy another man's style because laslas you must marry and if you cannot take care of your home you are worse than an INFIDEL(someone who is useless).

May God continue to bless you, for this
Decide for once, and shoulder up responsibility to take care of her besides how much is airtime that you cannot buy for her. Buy data subscribe for her and even try and sponsor her feeding once in a while.

Give her the impression that she means Well and everything to you. Protect her, provide for her. Don't expose your woman to the world just be a man.

If you know she does not worth your time, if you know there's no peace with her, if you know you cannot endure with her, please leave her with her nature of gift collection in peace.

But if she's intelligent, smart, courageous, and you feel she's a good mother in waiting, my brother, borrow Brain from God for.once, stand up become a man, get yourself a better job enough to take care of a woman.

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Banbulu(op): 6:17am On Apr 18, 2023

larryking78:
My Brother, try and take care of her first.
A man must summon courage to take care of a woman. If you like her, and you want a forever relationship with her, take care of her. Forget Hakimi lifestyle, don't copy another man's style because laslas you must marry and if you cannot take care of your home you are worse than an INFIDEL(someone who is useless).

Decide for once, and shoulder up responsibility to take care of her besides how much is airtime that you cannot buy for her. Buy data subscribe for her and even try and sponsor her feeding once in a while.

Give her the impression that she means Well and everything to you. Protect her, provide for her. Don't expose your woman to the world just be a man.

If you know she does not worth your time, if you know there's no peace with her, if you know you cannot endure with her, please leave her with her nature of gift collection in peace.

But if she's intelligent, smart, courageous, and you feel she's a good mother in waiting, my brother, borrow Brain from God for.once, stand up become a man, get yourself a better job enough to take care of a woman.

May God continue to bless you for this, I believe she just saw it as common notin buh wen I use mature words to let her know that some gifts from men majority comx wit bad intentions she understood n agreed

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Saviourfresh: 6:19am On Apr 18, 2023

Dude, forget about her and focus on your life.

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Banbulu(op): 6:20am On Apr 18, 2023

idu1:
He tell you say he no dey give her something ni?

There's no way he can satisfy that one. Beside, why must he take care of her in the first place? Because she be em girlfriend?

This issue happened the day I sent 1k airtime, buh I believe na this guys the force themselves into her, from all angle the guy sent even willingly wen not ask to

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by labake1(f): 6:21am On Apr 18, 2023

OP, are you insecure. Relationship never go deep, you don dey give yourself trouble. HBP is real

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by idu1(m): 6:44am On Apr 18, 2023

Banbulu:
This issue happened the day I sent 1k airtime, buh I believe na this guys the force themselves into her, from all angle the guy sent even willingly wen not ask to

Just play along if she's not someone you can settle down with till you get a better person. Reduce how much you give her codedly. Reduce your emotional investment in the relationship as well. Don't trust any of these bitches too much.

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 6:49am On Apr 18, 2023

I don't understand how and why you dudes give yourself headaches over with these girls with wide pussies and enormous body counts. angry

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by squash47(m): 7:01am On Apr 18, 2023

Banbulu:
Na so gold digger take de start

If you don't want her to accept gifts from other guys, spend so much money on her so that she will have no need to beg.
Don't tell me you're too broke to spend at least 100k on ur woman every month.

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by EriMma1: 7:04am On Apr 18, 2023

Shey you go buy dog and not Feed it and still stop it from collecting food from other people willing to feed it?

It's simple. If you don't want her to be collecting cash gifts and what other guys give her, then fill in the gap in your own little way.

Girls are different. Some want to be showered with gifts. while others, all they want is your attention. So you wen go pick the one that likes gifts, you have to be showering her with gifts and if you can't, pick another girl who is not moved by such and let the guys who match her lifestyle take over so you can have peace of mind.

You can't be telling someone to reject what they like and not provide it for them and still expect them to stick with you. You're wasting your time because she won't stop.

All this aka gum of a boyfriend sef. Make una dey try dey mefu aka. tongue

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Banbulu(op): 7:10am On Apr 18, 2023

squash47:
If you don't want her to accept gifts from other guys, spend so much money on her so that she will have no need to beg.
Don't tell me you're too broke to spend at least 100k on ur woman every month.

U mek me laf grin

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by sonofanarchy(m): 7:48am On Apr 18, 2023

No allow woman kill you oh

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Baronthecelebri(m): 7:49am On Apr 18, 2023

Leave that girl 😎 my man

Xhhsdhdh

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by squash47(m): 7:49am On Apr 18, 2023

Banbulu:
U mek me laf

but can you do it for her?

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Foodqueen(f): 7:54am On Apr 18, 2023

How much are you giving her huh

U can only stop her from collecting gift if u give her everything.

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Shantyken(m): 8:11am On Apr 18, 2023

Banbulu:
OK, I have this babe, we got flowing since 2 months now, buh wot happened yesterday was that I got to know she has been collecting gift like airtime n money from other dudes, I confronted her that this act is not loyal to me, she ask me wether she shouldn't accept any gift from people, I told her 99% is not wit good intentions,,
To cut the story short I'm confused on wot action to take I have been avoiding her chat since yesterday, though she told me she has even quarrel wit the person, and it's Tru that not all gifts r good intentions, buh tinx never clear to me,
A girl told me one time that if I don't give her attention, other people will do, now if I allow this to happen, statement like If you do not give money other people will

Can anyone help me in this my situation?

Is hard in nigeria for a guy to just dash woman gift or money just like that guy so use ur tongue and count ur teeth

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by headofschool: 8:17am On Apr 18, 2023

make una focus on studies but no, una go deh active for sex pass book. shiorrr 😟 you no get money, you no sabi book, and you still want to be doing boyfriend with pocket money from your parent, you are inconsiderate 🤷 . Better build your life, get those distinctions and scholarship to change your history forever

Banbulu:
OK, I have this babe, we got flowing since 2 months now, buh wot happened yesterday was that I got to know she has been collecting gift like airtime n money from other dudes, I confronted her that this act is not loyal to me, she ask me wether she shouldn't accept any gift from people, I told her 99% is not wit good intentions,,
To cut the story short I'm confused on wot action to take I have been avoiding her chat since yesterday, though she told me she has even quarrel wit the person, and it's Tru that not all gifts r good intentions, buh tinx never clear to me,
A girl told me one time that if I don't give her attention, other people will do, now if I allow this to happen, statement like If you do not give money other people will

Can anyone help me in this my situation?

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Fidecoo(m): 8:45am On Apr 18, 2023

Banbulu:
OK, I have this babe, we got flowing since 2 months now, buh wot happened yesterday was that I got to know she has been collecting gift like airtime n money from other dudes, I confronted her that this act is not loyal to me, she ask me wether she shouldn't accept any gift from people, I told her 99% is not wit good intentions,,
To cut the story short I'm confused on wot action to take I have been avoiding her chat since yesterday, though she told me she has even quarrel wit the person, and it's Tru that not all gifts r good intentions, buh tinx never clear to me,
A girl told me one time that if I don't give her attention, other people will do, now if I allow this to happen, statement like If you do not give money other people will

Can anyone help me in this my situation?

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Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by Charismatic107: 9:33am On Apr 18, 2023

Banbulu:
OK, I have this babe, we got flowing since 2 months now, buh wot happened yesterday was that I got to know she has been collecting gift like airtime n money from other dudes, I confronted her that this act is not loyal to me, she ask me wether she shouldn't accept any gift from people, I told her 99% is not wit good intentions,,
To cut the story short I'm confused on wot action to take I have been avoiding her chat since yesterday, though she told me she has even quarrel wit the person, and it's Tru that not all gifts r good intentions, buh tinx never clear to me,
A girl told me one time that if I don't give her attention, other people will do, now if I allow this to happen, statement like If you do not give money other people will

Can anyone help me in this my situation?

How old are you boy?

Re: Am Confused Since Yesterday In My Relationship With Her by imagrg(m): 9:40am On Apr 18, 2023

Leave her and focus on yourself.

E get why. cool

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