stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

Marry her

There's nothing wrong in dating/marrying her but i will advise you get approval from both families to avoid story that touch later.

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

Nothing wrong. You can marry her. You're not related by blood.

So what is your plan for her?

Ask your kinfolks

stopthecycle:


Can you explain why its an abomination?

Must you marry from that same family?

There's absolutely nothing wrong with dating your sister in law, you're not blood related.

Then go ahead With what's on your mindd

N3TRAL:
It's legally okay to marry your Sister-in-law.

This Tinubu/APC Man.

Dont you EVER criticize the OP.

U lack the moral Justification.

While Tinubu is Greedy for Money and Positions, this OP is Greedy for the Young girl's Towtow.

Eyinju112:
How is it a taboo? Well ask the elders as we learn everyday. But I feel nothing bad about it.

same elders wey dey help government dey rig election you wan go ask? haba

Second wife her...ASAP

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

Knew them for about two months and you've been talking for a long time?

Not allowed in yoruba culture. One of my cousins inlaw wanted to marry her sister. The guy was scolded o. Them say na abomination

soundOsonic:

Nothing wrong, brothers can marry other family sisters

forget it jare. Both his brother and sister in law will oppose. Which love? That's a circumstantial love jare

Infobase101:
So what is your plan for her?

Which Plan Monkey Get for Banana?
The OP dey Deceive himself.

Nothing wrong cartel......................brothers marry same sisters. Follow your heart

What's the problem? Is it an abomination?

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

No worries dating your sister inlaw...
But this kind of dating is not a regular dating partner you mess around with...

However u treat her in the relationship will be open to the family and if u mess her up.. ur bros wife may never forgive again...

So, think before u go for it

Is it chop and clean mouth or real relationship?

Gboom:
Look elsewhere, don't let infatuation lead you to abomination

What or where is the abomination here, please?

I have fvcked my sister in-law tho

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

There are so many unwritten laws.
There are things that are against the law which are not crime.
There are also crime that are not against the law.

What I am saying is that you dating your sister inlaw may not be wrong.
At the same time, it may not be morally acceptable.
Women do not like such thing as it bruises their ego.
It hardly work to marry two sisters in one family.
The love they have for each other will certainly get strained.
Will you marry someone that will put you into tension in ur home when u have opportunity to pick a wife from so many other places?
Forget about what you feel for the girl now.
When you are done accessing her kpekus, you will start feeling differently.

So, please be careful.

stopthecycle:


In Yoruba culture, can't two brothers marry two sisters at the same time? Like in the case of twins marrying twins?

It is not proper, modernization is causing this to happen. If you go by the way of culture values and norms, it supposed not to be like that

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

Wetin be your problem?

What is taboo about brothers getting married to two sisters...

Abeg, go talk to the young lady jare. What do you mean by people telling you it is taboo? Are those people chief priests of deities?

I hold virgin with high esteem, I hope u don't lose it carelessly if you still have it intact

Eyinju112:
How is it a taboo? Well ask the elders as we learn everyday. But I feel nothing bad about it.

Bro u and i knw wetin u want from that girll but u dnt want to tell the world truth

My brother, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Go ahead with any plan to marry her.
But before you do that, find out if their family/culture forbid it which I doubt anyway.

Good luck

It is lust nd infatuation.

Ask about their traditions, people wey fine dem be hot cakes .

In Igbo land, it’s not a taboo

It’s a thing of joy if a family gives their two daughters to a particular family in the land.
It shows that they really understand each other.


It shows that the girls are from good family and the boys are well behaved.

I see it as a thing of great joy.

Go ahead and get your woman!

But you people should always know your culture

You silly Africans!

dustmalik:
So, humans are still getting married even in the year 2023... Interesting.

Bet how u won take hav kids?
Abi na surrogate level

Blood no join una