ErnestNc:


She will make it back in a second. Lol

That's not my problem, I've taken my money back

PJtech:
Send me 5k from the 18k to celebrate your breakup ... The girl wan turn you to atm

lol boss

Finitin:
Bro, show me way.. What do you do to make money?

Web and graphic design on the side, also a government contractor

make i drop pls.. nothing is too small

Lee99:
lol boss

Mccallistas:

If say you no be woman, I for bow for you.

This is a fantastic way of ending any fruitless relationship.
That's if won't she won't seize you, kneel down and start begging...

Lol
so as I be woman, you no go bow for me, lol

Anyway, there are ways that you can end a relationship and the other party will develop tension headache immediately

Samantha124:
Sometimes you guys also think with your stupid childish ass too.

The first thing to do is ask the person why, but most of you guys here wouldn't know anything about being in relationship because the only thing that you know is having sex... You're better off sleeping with prostitutes rather than being in a relationship.

Babe, I understand your point, the guy should at least asked her to know the grounds she was giving her contact.

Note,the guy didn't have issue with her giving out her number( he locked up) it was when she kept him waiting at the fish point (meeting with the other guy) that's when the guy got upset


Her action was actually disrespecting, hence condemnable,

She even went back to have a better arrangement with the toaster.


If I was the guy I won't take the 15k from her, afterall I took her out,

I will make sure she's gotten home safely then I'll make known to her that I knew all what happened but it's a choice of life she has chosen and at this point I'm calling off our relationship and then hand over her card to her.

Noo, you don't understand.

The op said while he was at the fish point, the girl decided to quickly go to her place to drop a few things that she bought, promising to return ASAP but she took too long that he ended up assuming that she went to meet with the guy he saw her with at the pool side.

There's no proof that she went to meet with the guy she met at the pool side, she just took too long to return from her place... The op is just being insecure.

Are you sure you read and understood everything the op said

brightDdon:



Babe, I understand your point, the guy should at least asked her to know the grounds she was giving her contact.

Note,the guy didn't have issue with her giving out her number( he locked up) it was when she kept him waiting at the fish point (meeting with the other guy) that's when the guy got upset


Her action was actually disrespecting, hence condemnable,

She even went back to have a better arrangement with the toaster.


If I was the guy I won't take the 15k from her, afterall I took her out,

I will make sure she's gotten home safely then I'll make known to her that I knew all what happened but it's a choice of life she has chosen and at this point I'm calling off our relationship and then hand over her card to her.

You won 1 - 0.

But wait for the next round....you may be picked up by the police for theft.

Samantha124:
Noo, you don't understand.

The op said while he was at the fish point, the girl decided to quickly go to her place to drop a few things that she bought, promising to return ASAP but she took too long that he ended up assuming that she went to meet with the guy he saw her with at the pool side.

There's no proof that she went to meet with the guy she met at the pool side, she just took too long to return from her place... The op is just being insecure.

Are you sure you read and understood

everything the op said

Hmm

Lee99:
my bro, this girl wan chop my eye, but e hook am, funny enough she had only 20k in her account now she has 2k 😂

,😂😂😂Guy wicked is an understatement for what you did everything will be look like film in her eyes abeg return her money ooo

Lee99:
my bro, this girl wan chop my eye, but e hook am, funny enough she had only 20k in her account now she has 2k 😂

There are too many broke men on Nairaland

cos e collect him money back nah broke man? you wey no broke you fit give man your 10 kobo without any condition

PussyGalore:


There are too many broke men on Nairaland

frozen70:



Lol
so as I be woman, you no go bow for me, lol

Anyway, there are ways that you can end a relationship and the other party will develop tension headache immediately

You study psychology for school?

Mccallistas:

You study psychology for school?

No dear, lol

I don see shage wey give me plenty experience

Especially from marriage and family

Now am on top of my game I no dey shake because I have gone pass the worst stage of a woman's life

Am now comfortable as God made if for me and my family

Hardly a thing I don't have experience of

I have gone through the burning furnace and came out stronger

frozen70:


No dear, lol

I don see shage wey give me plenty experience

Especially from marriage and family

Now am on top of my game I no dey shake because I have gone pass the worst stage of a woman's life

Am now comfortable as God made if for me and my family

Hardly a thing I don't have experience of

I have gone through the burning furnace and came out stronger

I'm happy your experiences made you a strong woman.

Although it's easier for me to type that because there are some things in life that's better imagined than going through it...

I'll be needing your help always. Hahahaha..

Have a wonderful evening!

Mccallistas:


I'm happy your experiences made you a strong woman.

Although it's easier for me to type that because there are some things in life that's better imagined than going through it...

I'll be needing your help always. Hahahaha..

Have a wonderful evening!

Is alright

Childish

Good one, God bless you. Hakimi mandate we follow

Mccallistas:

You study psychology for school?

Pls can you tell me why you were asking me if I studied psychology in the university

frozen70:


Pls can you tell me why you were asking me if I studied psychology in the university

That strategy you dropped there can't come from underutilized brain.

You know a psychologist can read humans and animals, depending on the special field of study....

Good morning 🌞

Mccallistas:

That strategy you dropped there can't come from underutilized brain.

You know a psychologist can read humans and animals, depending on the special field of study....

Good morning 🌞

Ok good morning

Ogba
Ogbana
Ogbanachoko

Bad guy

Lee99:
So I'll be brief.... My ex and I got into a nasty argument last month and we broke up... We didn't talk until my birthday last week, she reached out and said we should fix things, I said fine, we got talking and met today abi yesterday, Sunday sha, so I took her swimming at a nice hotel with a nice pool, bought what she wanted and stuff, while there I don't have an ATM card but she did so I sent money to her account and used her card to pay, because she was in the water she couldn't type her pin so she told me... Here's the turning point, while in the pool I caught her giving one guy her number, I just lock up like I no see, we left and I said I wanted to buy fish, she said let her drop some things she brought at home and she'll meet me there at the fish spot, I said ok, while waiting this girl started taking time, I called and she didn't pick, I kuku took my fish and left, then I texted her and told her that so she left me to go see that guy she gave her number and her reply was I'm sorry, well I no too send, I just went to a POS across the road and withdrew the 15k I spent on her today from her card.. and yes it's from her own money, babe wey I don already relegate wanted to come back and wreck me, as a guy man I no dey dull, I've taken my money back sha and I'm very happy, I even took extra 3k for the fish I bought making 18k... When she's ready she can come and pick up her ATM card. I blocked her on WhatsApp too... If that isn't instant karma then I dunno what Karma is 😂😂😂

Bro just so you know you can be charged for theft. Thou, my friend, art a thief. You are not a real man. When a real man breaks up he breaks up for good. Only small boys return to their vomit.

Samantha124:
Noo, you don't understand.

The op said while he was at the fish point, the girl decided to quickly go to her place to drop a few things that she bought, promising to return ASAP but she took too long that he ended up assuming that she went to meet with the guy he saw her with at the pool side.

There's no proof that she went to meet with the guy she met at the pool side, she just took too long to return from her place... The op is just being insecure.

Are you sure you read and understood everything the op said

Shut your mouth if you cannot read where i asked her if he went to meet the guy and she said she was sorry, meaning she went there, i even called her and repeatedit and she admitted to it, so please shut up if you dunno what to say or better still gtfo my thread

PJtech:
cos e collect him money back nah broke man? you wey no broke you fit give man your 10 kobo without any condition

You dey answer that olosho?

efficiencie:


Bro just so you know you can be charged for theft. Thou, my friend, art a thief. You are not a real man. When a real man breaks up he breaks up for good. Only small boys return to their vomit.

Get out and don't mention me again, you want to score cheap points with NL ladies, tueh, I spit on your forehead, bloody simpson

Samantha124:
Noo, you don't understand.

The op said while he was at the fish point, the girl decided to quickly go to her place to drop a few things that she bought, promising to return ASAP but she took too long that he ended up assuming that she went to meet with the guy he saw her with at the pool side.

There's no proof that she went to meet with the guy she met at the pool side, she just took too long to return from her place... The op is just being insecure.

Are you sure you read and understood everything the op said

There was also the part he mentioned asking why she didn't return after dropping off stuff at home and her response was an apology instead of a reply.

If she apologized instead of explaining, it's safe to assume she went to cheat

That's insecurity speaking... So if she's late for something it means she's been cheating... Wow!!!

Maybe she didn't explain because she was already fed up with the guy's insecurities, always asking for her whereabouts and assuming that she was cheating.

I'd do the same thing if I was her... I'd just apologize and keep quiet because there is no guarantee that even if she told the guy the truth about what she has been doing, the guy would believe her.

Sixfeetbelle:


There was also the part he mentioned asking why she didn't return after dropping off stuff at home and her response was an apology instead of a reply.

If she apologized instead of explaining, it's safe to assume she went to cheat

So just because she said she's sorry, it now means she went to meet the guy? Wow! Wonders shall never end.

Since when does saying sorry translates to admitting to cheating?

It's good thing that you freed that girl because she really doesn't deserve an insecure guy like you.. you're too dramatic and you wouldn't give her any peace of mind.

Lee99:
Shut your mouth if you cannot read where i asked her if he went to meet the guy and she said she was sorry, meaning she went there, i even called her and repeatedit and she admitted to it, so please shut up if you dunno what to say or better still gtfo my thread

Samantha124:
That's insecurity speaking... So if she's late for something it means she's been cheating... Wow!!!

Maybe she didn't explain because she was already fed up with the guy's insecurities, always asking for her whereabouts and assuming that she was cheating.

I'd do the same thing if I was her... I'd just apologize and keep quiet because there is no guarantee that even if she told the guy the truth about what she has been doing, the guy would believe her.

Probably true.

OR

She really was cheating and he had to cut her off.


I don't condone his method, but to each their own, I guess.

Samantha124:
So just because she said she's sorry, it now means she went to meet the guy? Wow! Wonders shall never end.

Since when does saying sorry translates to admitting to cheating?

It's good thing that you freed that girl because she really doesn't deserve an insecure guy like you.. you're too dramatic and you wouldn't give her any peace of mind.

I like how you ignored the part where i said she admitted to it lol you're a clown