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Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Mbenny(m): 6:03pm On Apr 20, 2023
Samantha124:
You guys are just not my cup of tea.. you're just way too different for my liking.

No matter how nice you maybe, there are always those common traits that you guys have and I'm sorry to say that I just can't stand them.
if you talk of traits, then it also implies to south Africans as long as you are black.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Nobody: 6:32pm On Apr 20, 2023
You see? This is what I don't like about you guys.

You tell me not to just jump into conclusions, but you're already jumping into conclusions about SA guys... I know them better than you.

I love my SA brothers and nothing you say it's gonna change that, they may not be perfect, but nobody is perfect at the end of the day.

You guys are also hypocritical.
Mbenny:
you said Nigeria guys are dramatic and arrogant? we are hard working while SA guys are just lazy. don't just jump into conclusion about Nigeria guys just because you had an experience with one.

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Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Nobody: 6:35pm On Apr 20, 2023
But you guys are just way too different, you should stick to your Nigerian ladies because only they understand you guys better and know how to handle you guys.

As for me, I have a feeling that I won't survive being in a relationship with a Nigerian.
Mbenny:
if you talk of traits, then it also implies to south Africans as long as you are black.

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Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Mbenny(m): 6:48pm On Apr 20, 2023
Samantha124:
You see? This is what I don't like about you guys.

You tell me not to just jump into conclusions, but you're already jumping into conclusions about SA guys... I know them better than you.

I love my SA brothers and nothing you say it's gonna change that, they may not be perfect, but nobody is perfect at the end of the day.

You guys are also hypocritical.
you have said it all dear. i also love my fellow Nigeria guys, just as you said no one is perfect as we all human everyone with his or her own way of life.
i have never meet or chatted with any SA girl before, you are the first one, but that doesn't mean that i should believe just anything that been said about you guy just because of bad experience they may have had in the past.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Mbenny(m): 6:49pm On Apr 20, 2023
Samantha124:
But you guys are just way too different, you should stick to your Nigerian ladies because only they understand you guys better and know how to handle you guys.

As for me, I have a feeling that I won't survive being in a relationship with a Nigerian.
you are wrong i dear.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Karleb(m): 7:03pm On Apr 20, 2023
Some people don't actually love good things.

Infact, some people feel left out when others are talking about their patners infidelity and they can't say anything. Some peer pressure shit.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by ruffhandu: 7:20pm On Apr 20, 2023
Samantha124:
You guys are just not my cup of tea.. you're just way too different for my liking.

No matter how nice you maybe, there are always those common traits that you guys have and I'm sorry to say that I just can't stand them.
You've not mentioned any of those traits that put you off.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by ItisWell22(f): 7:37pm On Apr 20, 2023
ruffhandu:

Hahahahahahaha. Woman no fit leave me o, I tell you. On top of the things I listed up there, i am very handsome.


Very handsome? πŸ€”

Such confidence.

I hope it doesn’t get deflated soonest… πŸ₯±
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Nobody: 7:55pm On Apr 20, 2023
But you guys are everywhere in the world and we see you, we don't just say things about you guys based on hearsay.

If not for the accent and some facial features, I'm very sure that I can identify a Nigerian guy from a distance by his behavior because you guys are just way too different from us.

You're dramatic and arrogant, to mention the few.
Mbenny:
you have said it all dear. i also love my fellow Nigeria guys, just as you said no one is perfect as we all human everyone with his or her own way of life.
i have never meet or chatted with any SA girl before, you are the first one, but that doesn't mean that i should believe just anything that been said about you guy just because of bad experience they may have had in the past.

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Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Nobody: 7:58pm On Apr 20, 2023
If I was to get married to a Nigerian, I have a feeling that we'll end up getting a divorce even before our marriage clocks twelve months... grin grin grin
Mbenny:
you are wrong i dear.

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Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Nobody: 8:00pm On Apr 20, 2023
You're just not my type.
ruffhandu:

You've not mentioned any of those traits that put you off.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Mbenny(m): 8:06pm On Apr 20, 2023
Samantha124:
But you guys are everywhere in the world and we see you, we don't just say things about you guys based on hearsay.

If not for the accent and some facial features, I'm very sure that I can identify a Nigerian guy from a distance by his behavior because you guys are just way too different from us.

You're dramatic and arrogant, to mention the few.
hmmmm.. i don't just know what to say
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Mbenny(m): 8:10pm On Apr 20, 2023
Samantha124:
If I was to get married to a Nigerian, I have a feeling that we'll end up getting a divorce even before our marriage clocks twelve months... grin grin grin
there are good guys in Nigeria from a good family background. it's just unfortunate that you have not meet anyone yet.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Nobody: 8:43pm On Apr 20, 2023
I'm not saying you guys are bad, but I guess every person's behavior is determined by the kind of society he or she was raised in.

And we all have our own preferences, there are different strokes for different folks.

So don't take it personal.
Mbenny:
there are good guys in Nigeria from a good family background. it's just unfortunate that you have not meet anyone yet.

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Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Mbenny(m): 9:30pm On Apr 20, 2023
grin angry
Samantha124:
I'm not saying you guys are bad, but I guess every person's behavior is determined by the kind of society he or she was raised in.

And we all have our own preferences, there are different strokes for different folks.

So don't take it personal.
i understand grin
Samantha124:
I'm not saying you guys are bad, but I guess every person's behavior is determined by the kind of society he or she was raised in.

And we all have our own preferences, there are different strokes for different folks.

So don't take it personal.
i understand
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Mbenny(m): 9:32pm On Apr 20, 2023
Samantha124:
I'm not saying you guys are bad, but I guess every person's behavior is determined by the kind of society he or she was raised in.

And we all have our own preferences, there are different strokes for different folks.

So don't take it personal.
alright, take care.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by efficiencie(m): 10:20pm On Apr 20, 2023
ruffhandu:
If your husband doesn't cheat (you are 100% sure of this), and he doesn't beat you (over 6 years of marriage he has never lifted a finger on you), and he is financially ok, not wealthy but has two cars and able to provide for the family. Also, he can knack for life (has a relatively big dick and can use it). What else could make you disrespect him or want to leave him.

His body odour. The monthly allowance is too small compared to the ones that she gets from Yahoo boys. The house is not big enough cos she is thinking of a mansion. His dick is big but not as big and long as Ahmed's the gateman. He is not as fair complexion as the next block neighbor. He does not eat pucci. He does not rim anus. He is too much of an alpha male to do BDSM. He doesnt want to be dominated by a dominatrix. He is too God fearing. He is too good. He is too caring and not man enough. He is too loving and chatty. He is...He is...He is... the leech has two daughters. Give. Give, they cry. Proverbs 30:15
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by ruffhandu: 10:48pm On Apr 20, 2023
efficiencie:


His body odour. The monthly allowance is too small compared to the ones that she gets from Yahoo boys. The house is not big enough cos she is thinking of a mansion. His dick is big but not as big and long as Ahmed's the gateman. He is not as fair complexion as the next block neighbor. He does not eat pucci. He does not rim anus. He is too much of an alpha male to do BDSM. He doesnt want to be dominated by a dominatrix. He is too God fearing. He is too good. He is too caring and not man enough. He is too loving and chatty. He is...He is...He is... the leech has two daughters. Give. Give, they cry. Proverbs 30:15
Oh men, which one be this " He does not rim anus."?
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by ruffhandu: 10:49pm On Apr 20, 2023
ItisWell22:


Very handsome? πŸ€”
Such confidence.
I hope it doesn’t get deflated soonest… πŸ₯±
Lol, I no hide mouth talk am.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by ruffhandu: 10:51pm On Apr 20, 2023
Samantha124:
You're just not my type.
Lol. I doubt if you know exactly what you are saying. Or perhaps just xenophobia. You can't just hate a people without reason, it doesn't happen.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Nobody: 12:00am On Apr 21, 2023
ruffhandu:
If your husband doesn't cheat (you are 100% sure of this), and he doesn't beat you (over 6 years of marriage he has never lifted a finger on you), and he is financially ok, not wealthy but has two cars and able to provide for the family. Also, he can knack for life (has a relatively big dick and can use it). What else could make you disrespect him or want to leave him.

Maybe you are a boring person.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by ruffhandu: 12:44am On Apr 21, 2023
fortyishcouga:

Maybe you are a boring person.
is that what will be a problem? Fire up things then if so.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Nobody: 9:29am On Apr 21, 2023
You see? This is the reason why I don't like you guys.

You have behavioral issues and you are so God damn arrogant that it pisses me off.

Already you're starting to sound emotional.
ruffhandu:

Lol. I doubt if you know exactly what you are saying. Or perhaps just xenophobia. You can't just hate a people without reason, it doesn't happen.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by ruffhandu: 11:07am On Apr 21, 2023
Samantha124:
You see? This is the reason why I don't like you guys.
You have behavioral issues and you are so God damn arrogant that it pisses me off.
Already you're starting to sound emotional.

Hahaha, You said you just don't like them, they are not your type,... What else can be attributed to that? I simply made deductions, simple. No emotions here, just being objective. Now you listed one (arrogance), but earlier on you said they are not just your type. you may see what one of you said about Nigerians.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ja522tu3mc
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Nobody: 11:33am On Apr 21, 2023
Yes, you guys are not my type and nothing you say or do is gonna change that.

Just because one South African said something nice about you, it doesn't mean all South Africans feel the same way... He's just trying to boost your fragile egos so that he can use you guys to support him and then throw you under the bus once he's gotten what he wants.. isn't that what politics is all about?

This is how you guys keep voting for bad leadership just because of a simple meaningless praise and now you feel special.

This is the same man who ridicules white South Africans, but his kids go to only white South African schools, yet you guys are way too blind to see what this man is trying to achieve... By the time you realize it, it'll be too late..πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I always pity you guys whenever I hear you praise Julius Malema.
ruffhandu:


Hahaha, You said you just don't like them, they are not your type,... What else can be attributed to that? I simply made deductions, simple. No emotions here, just being objective. Now you listed one (arrogance), but earlier on you said they are not just your type. you may see what one of you said about Nigerians.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ja522tu3mc
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by ruffhandu: 1:52pm On Apr 21, 2023
Samantha124:
Yes, you guys are not my type and nothing you say or do is gonna change that.

Just because one South African said something nice about you, it doesn't mean all South Africans feel the same way... He's just trying to boost your fragile egos so that he can use you guys to support him and then throw you under the bus once he's gotten what he wants.. isn't that what politics is all about?

This is how you guys keep voting for bad leadership just because of a simple meaningless praise and now you feel special.

This is the same man who ridicules white South Africans, but his kids go to only white South African schools, yet you guys are way too blind to see what this man is trying to achieve... By the time you realize it, it'll be too late..πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I always pity you guys whenever I hear you praise Julius Malema.
Nobody is changing anything. People look for who looks for them. Save the pity for yourself bro.

You may also look at this. https://www.nairaland.com/5695530/why-south-african-women-love
All these you do seem to be out of jealousy.

Check this too. https://ng.opera.news/ng/en/entertainment/a1fc559e90ee2273ba89450abbe222c3

you need more? They all come from Julius malema? Deal with the reality.

Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Nobody: 6:05pm On Apr 21, 2023
Continue supporting him... I just hope you know what you're doing..πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

The man is power hungry, angry, and desperate times calls for desperate measures.

You guys can't see what is right in front of you and mark my words when I say if ever the man gets the power that he needs, all African nationals are going to leave this country running and you guys will never want anything to do with SA ever again.

That's how you keep voting for bad leadership because you're easily bought and blinded.. All it takes is nice few words and you'll be voting for the person.

You're supporting the same man who was encouraging the July unrest back in 2021 and you think he'll care about you guys if he becomes president

I don't give a damn about your YouTube videos or Google screenshots, I'm a South African and I don't need you to tell me about what is happening in my country.

And I need you to do me a favor and take a screenshot of this conversation, so that when the time comes, you will know that I told you so.
ruffhandu:

Nobody is changing anything. People look for who looks for them. Save the pity for yourself bro.

You may also look at this. https://www.nairaland.com/5695530/why-south-african-women-love
All these you do seem to be out of jealousy.

Check this too. https://ng.opera.news/ng/en/entertainment/a1fc559e90ee2273ba89450abbe222c3

you need more? They all come from Julius malema? Deal with the reality.

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Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Nobody: 6:10pm On Apr 21, 2023
And what does my dislike for dating Nigerian guys has to do with Julius Malema??

Did he say he likes dating Nigerian men
ruffhandu:

Nobody is changing anything. People look for who looks for them. Save the pity for yourself bro.

You may also look at this. https://www.nairaland.com/5695530/why-south-african-women-love
All these you do seem to be out of jealousy.

Check this too. https://ng.opera.news/ng/en/entertainment/a1fc559e90ee2273ba89450abbe222c3

you need more? They all come from Julius malema? Deal with the reality.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by ruffhandu: 6:18pm On Apr 21, 2023
Samantha124:
And what does my dislike for dating Nigerian guys has to do with Julius Malema??

Did he say he likes dating Nigerian men
Because the reason you dislike them is that you perceive them to be arrogant. Julius has a different opinion.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by ruffhandu: 6:20pm On Apr 21, 2023
Samantha124:
Continue supporting him... I just hope you know what you're doing..πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

The man is power hungry, angry, and desperate times calls for desperate measures.

You guys can't see what is right in front of you and mark my words when I say if ever the man gets the power that he needs, all African nationals are going to leave this country running and you guys will never want anything to do with SA ever again.

That's how you keep voting for bad leadership because you're easily bought and blinded.. All it takes is nice few words and you'll be voting for the person.

You're supporting the same man who was encouraging the July unrest back in 2021 and you think he'll care about you guys if he becomes president

I don't give a damn about your YouTube videos or Google screenshots, I'm a South African and I don't need you to tell me about what is happening in my country.

And I need you to do me a favor and take a screenshot of this conversation, so that when the time comes, you will know that I told you so.
I don't like him, just pointing you to what he said. I don't care what he does, if he sends Nigerians parking, they should look elsewhere. those in S.A know what they are looking for, not for every Nigerian.
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Fmghewzy(m): 6:30pm On Apr 21, 2023
Samantha124:
I'd rather be single all my life than date a Nigerian man.
.
We have Johnby Drilled oo😎🀣
Re: Women What Else Could You Ask For In A Man by Nobody: 7:46pm On Apr 21, 2023
Any politician would say anything to appear relevant, that's the game of politics.

Look, I'm not saying I hate you guys, no, I've had wonderful Nigerian friends back in varsity and I only have good things to say about them.

One of them still remembers my birthday every year even after so many years that we've been apart.. Most of those Nigerian friends were ladies of course, but they were really great people.

So I don't hate you guys, I just don't think I can be in a relationship with a Nigerian guy, but I wouldn't mind being just a platonic friend.
ruffhandu:

I don't like him, just pointing you to what he said. I don't care what he does, if he sends Nigerians parking, they should look elsewhere. those in S.A know what they are looking for, not for every Nigerian.

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