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Do charity for ur fellow brothers ah ah

His name must be Darlington, Uche, Obinna, Kelechi... Only these fools can do that for ugly women like this one.

Bro in Nigeria? 4 years? Where you keep ASUU

VinnyBaba:
Any Lady that is Trained by a man in the University or Polytechnics,
Her Parents should NOT even collect Dowry from him when he wants to marry her.

Infact, They should WORSHIP the Ground he walks and obey his words as Law! 🙁

Doing PARENTAL DUTIES for a Girl for 4 years no be Joke@all. 😒

MikeofAfrica:
Are there not educated ladies that he can marry?

If he so much love the lady, then he should have exercise authority over her before and while training her in school.

He should have collected all the Original copies of her WAEC and other certificates. Her admission letter into the University and all receipts and documents that she will need to get her University certificate should be in his possession as he is paying the school fees.

Hence if she develops wings after graduation, she will eventually fly away empty handed.

Exactly 💯

yusufmurry:
Unfortunately, no girl is commenting.

A Gender that once they go into a friendship or whatever SHIP.

They are in for what they will gain ,and then once it backfires and you outsmart them, they come out to cry that you used and dump them. How would you not dump a liability?

People that doesn't want to do anything in life to add value to themselves but looking who to feed them or used marriage as retirement plan

Any man wey wan foolish where a Nigerian girl dey, can go on at his detriment.

And u were busy collecting the monies and not talking then. Now u know u cannot marry darlington, Oga aaasi... aaasi Oga, go and settle ur depths young woman.
Fo..olish babes everywere, when dem see ur corpse for roadside now, na that time u go receive sense for land beyond.

blackpanda:
If this happens to your brother, will you still have this opinion

Cos she just sounded like pesin wey get stark illitrate brother for house.

blackpanda:
When some women marry and their womb closes, or they give birth and the child becomes a vagabond, they will be wondering where the curses came from.

The lady has dugged his grave, if it doesnt happen now, it will happen later.
Me sef no get joy shaa, if na me i will stop at nothing until everything that concerns her becomes useless.

Ransomware:
Ok young blood, allow me to break this down into crayons for you.




1. The man started training her in school hoping to marry her after school.

- Hope is not a strategy, dont confuse the 2

2. His family objected to the idea

- When you throw money from a moving car, I bet your family will object to that as well, does it mean the people who picked the money owe you marriage or whatever you were hoping for?

3. But he did (girl's statement of appreciation confirmed that).

- He made that decision, the girl did not force him. He got advice from his family but decided to go with his erection, now you lot are here flapping your gum. The lack of personal responsibility and accountability is what is holding Nigeria down. the absolute need to blame others when you were the one who made the decision and acted on that decision.

4. Despite knowing the family's position, she still accepted the offer

- If you know that the person tossing 1000 naira bills from a moving car on the highway is drunk, will you not pick up the money because he is drunk?

5. Done with school now, she suddenly looked back to Babylon like the biblical lot's wife.

- Do you know that people walk away from marriage at the altar? after all the money spent on the occasion.
If it doesn't feel right then it's not right. Money is not everything

From all that you have written here, all I can see is that you are either the type that will get a girl by the material thing you can offer her or you are the "come and save me type".
here is my advice. No one is coming, the earlier you know that the faster you will pull yourself up by the bootstraps. If you think that another human being owes you marriage because you paid her fees, then you are in for a miserable life in that marriage.
If you are confident in yourself as a man, then you will never hinge marriage on material things or your monetary income.

Another quick piece of advice for you boys and girls out there. go into marriage thinking of what you can offer not what you will get. It is a life of service, as a man, you will do most of the work, that woman and the kids live in your domain, you don't lord over them because you paid their fees, its your bleeping job. it is a life of service. it is not a show of dominance.
To you young bulls looking at older couples outside and you see the wife kneeling and being submissive by her husband, that did not come by him lording over her or reminding her of all the things he did for her. That came from that man being a caregiver, a helper, a listener, a provider, a firm person, an intelligent decision-maker, and a faithful man at home. The wife will worship him outside but you young boys think it is because he acts like a tyrant. love does not come from fear, pretense to survive is what you get.

have a productive day

I will advise you read through your submission again.

I don't blame her. It's the SIMP of a man who sponsored her that should be blamed. Despite all the warnings we have given about sponsoring a woman who isn't your wife to school, these SIMPS don't listen. This is what happens when you have don't value yourself as a man and believe that the only way to get a woman is by spending money on her. The maga's own family warned him against helping her and he still proceeded to act a fool. Idiot.

ShaqFu:
was it part of the agreement to marry them in the first place?

Depends on the individuals. For instance, was marriage part of the agreement between the man and the girl when he agreed to sponsor her education?

ShaqFu:
When a guy ask you out, do you bother to ask him where the relationship will lead to?

I don't know about other women, but during my dating days, I would scout for a potential life partner only. Never bothered myself with any guy who had a different vision for me. So, yes. When I'd meet a guy, I'd tell him very early what my expectations were.

Klass99:
Your jackassery is becoming legendary. I like

They don't have a monopoly on selfishness.

Farfalla:
Depends on the individuals. For instance, was marriage part of the agreement between the man and the girl when he agreed to sponsor her education?

from the way the women talked, I believe it was.

The man took her to see his mom and sisters and informed them he wants to marry her, even though the, were nasty to her, still doesn't mean she should deceive him the way she did.

I don't know about other women, but during my dating days, I would scout out a potential life partner only. Never bothered myself with any guy who had a different vision for me. So, yes. When I'd meet a guy, I'd tell him very early what my expectations were.

Good for you.

Hope you won't accept his gifts after you discover he doesn't meet your expectation(s)

Farfalla:
They don't have a monopoly on selfishness.

Actually, they don't have monopoly of madness.

ShaqFu:
Hope you won't accept his gifts after you discover he doesn't meet your expectation(s).

Yeah. Same way you refrain from having sex with the women you're sure you'll never marry.

Farfalla:
Yeah. Same way you reject sex from the women you're sure you'll never marry.

yeah right. When have you females ever initiated sex in a relationship? 😁😁😁

That is true. That how one uncle keep on ordering food for me and im too lazy to pick it up so he will go to the restaurant and pick it up for me. Told him im going back to school soon. Uncle wanna pay for my lodge fees and also to decorate my house for me he even ask me how much the school fees is. Lol I stop him at once oo. Yes i’m eating free food oo but I don't want when I finish my school now someone will open mouth waah and start telling me “now u are done schooling let get married “ If u wanna do anything for me pls let me know what you want in return.

emexnaija:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MERjyDu_uGU

Serves Darlington right. Next time e go dey nzuzu. Investor Darlington have invested in nonsense. I can imagine the countless fools that are sponsoring this olosho's education.