| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by LearningPhilia: 7:30pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Omerta |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by SamOchuko: 7:34pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
SundayNightGist:
Sharing this story with you is risky because it's a true story and it actually happened, but I'm not deterred as I'm on a mission to sanitize our society of all forms of immorality. Now lets get right into it without any further ado.
My office is located in Gwarinpa in Abuja and my boss is a very busy man who hardly stays in the office. We have another branch in Guzape (Asokoro extension) where my boss hired a lady as the manager in charge. This particular lady is fair and very endowed both ways (I mean front and back). She's attractive too, no doubt. She happens to be a single mother with a son. My boss on the other hand is a family man with four kids.
I had just joined the company when I started noticing that this lady usually drives the company's Mazda salon car to our branch (the headquarters) every week (Thursdays to be precise) to hold a "private meeting" with my boss. Word in the office has it that she was coming for weekly "reporting". Honestly I never once bothered to try and find out what was really going on as I'm the type that is very serious with my work.
Not until the guys in the office started bantering in groups and talking about what was actually going on. Again, I shrugged off their conversation because what's my business, and besides, I don't do office gossip. Well, not until one fateful day....
As I was hurrying up a task given to me by my boss in my usual seriousness with my work, I needed to rush to his office to get his final approval on something that he had asked me to do when I ran into the unbelievable!
Was I dreaming? Was my eyes paining me? For Pete's sake, what was this? In broad daylight that evening, as I knocked, my boss answered "come in" nonchallantly. I don't know what he was thinking. Lo and behold, there they were, he and our branch manager both standing on their feet and very close to each other with my boss unzipping her dress with his both hands! I was embarrassed and so were they. Usually, whenever this lady is around my boss would immediately close all his window curtains. This normally happens around or after closing (remember I told you I'm a serious office worker, so I stay back a lot because naturally I work late into the night everyday).
Since that incident, whatever I say in any meeting involving this particular lady is always accepted and approved by her whether it makes sense or not. In fact, she's trying to move close to me and become my friend by force now to the extent that she even chats with me privately now regularly.
While a man has the full right to do whatever he likes, my question is why do this in the workplace? Why would my boss engage in office romance right in the office building? And why is the lady in question now trying to get close to me by force now? Am I in any real danger? I don't want to lose my job. Please what do I do?
So how’s your job at risk according to your heading? |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by simfrost90210: 7:35pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
 .., like i've always said, "The Best Business In Nigeria Is Mind Your BUSINESS.." ... It Pays!!! 1 Like |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by GUNITGuy: 7:39pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Setup Aye
she simply wants to share the guilt with you
Once you get into the trap romantically get ready to see the evil side of that gender |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by linearity: 7:40pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
I don’t know why I am calling this a super story… Your Boss that close every window whenever this lady is around, somehow forgot to lock the door  ? Then while he was in this ‘compromising’ position with this lady and unzipping her dress, he asked you ‘nonchalantly’ to come in when you knocked ? But, they both still acted surprised when you came in ? Or are you trying to insinuate that, they both thought you were a third party (male or female) they were waiting to come and join in on the deed? |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by PremiumTech: 7:44pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
If you are smart, you will become friends with her and get more connections through her.
But it is your amebo that will finally kee you. |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by fortunechy(m): 7:45pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Since I are serious in ur job I'm also serious when I'm browsing |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by promami: 7:49pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
That woman will either set you up or poison you. Avoid physical meetings with her. |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by efficiencie(m): 7:57pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
SundayNightGist:
Sharing this story with you is risky because it's a true story and it actually happened, but I'm not deterred as I'm on a mission to sanitize our society of all forms of immorality. Now lets get right into it without any further ado.
My office is located in Gwarinpa in Abuja and my boss is a very busy man who hardly stays in the office. We have another branch in Guzape (Asokoro extension) where my boss hired a lady as the manager in charge. This particular lady is fair and very endowed both ways (I mean front and back). She's attractive too, no doubt. She happens to be a single mother with a son. My boss on the other hand is a family man with four kids.
I had just joined the company when I started noticing that this lady usually drives the company's Mazda salon car to our branch (the headquarters) every week (Thursdays to be precise) to hold a "private meeting" with my boss. Word in the office has it that she was coming for weekly "reporting". Honestly I never once bothered to try and find out what was really going on as I'm the type that is very serious with my work.
Not until the guys in the office started bantering in groups and talking about what was actually going on. Again, I shrugged off their conversation because what's my business, and besides, I don't do office gossip. Well, not until one fateful day....
As I was hurrying up a task given to me by my boss in my usual seriousness with my work, I needed to rush to his office to get his final approval on something that he had asked me to do when I ran into the unbelievable!
Was I dreaming? Was my eyes paining me? For Pete's sake, what was this? In broad daylight that evening, as I knocked, my boss answered "come in" nonchallantly. I don't know what he was thinking. Lo and behold, there they were, he and our branch manager both standing on their feet and very close to each other with my boss unzipping her dress with his both hands! I was embarrassed and so were they. Usually, whenever this lady is around my boss would immediately close all his window curtains. This normally happens around or after closing (remember I told you I'm a serious office worker, so I stay back a lot because naturally I work late into the night everyday).
Since that incident, whatever I say in any meeting involving this particular lady is always accepted and approved by her whether it makes sense or not. In fact, she's trying to move close to me and become my friend by force now to the extent that she even chats with me privately now regularly.
While a man has the full right to do whatever he likes, my question is why do this in the workplace? Why would my boss engage in office romance right in the office building? And why is the lady in question now trying to get close to me by force now? Am I in any real danger? I don't want to lose my job. Please what do I do?
No you are not in danger yet but you could be if you make a false move. One, meet with the lady and let her know you have no problem with her and that as far as you are concerned you saw and heard nothing. Be emotionally present when you are around your oga or his mistress. Be careful of anyone trying to lure you into gossiping about your boss. Two, start looking for a job, faaaast! Mad men like your boss will bankrupt that company or do something stupid that could end the company or damage it's image so start job hunting sharply. Three, up your savings to mitigate the risk from being fired. Cut down on unnecessary expenses and up your resilience of shocks that could hit the company unawares. Lastly, leave the rest to God. |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by Tareq1105: 7:59pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
SundayNightGist:
Sharing this story with you is risky because it's a true story and it actually happened, but I'm not deterred as I'm on a mission to sanitize our society of all forms of immorality. Now lets get right into it without any further ado.
My office is located in Gwarinpa in Abuja and my boss is a very busy man who hardly stays in the office. We have another branch in Guzape (Asokoro extension) where my boss hired a lady as the manager in charge. This particular lady is fair and very endowed both ways (I mean front and back). She's attractive too, no doubt. She happens to be a single mother with a son. My boss on the other hand is a family man with four kids.
I had just joined the company when I started noticing that this lady usually drives the company's Mazda salon car to our branch (the headquarters) every week (Thursdays to be precise) to hold a "private meeting" with my boss. Word in the office has it that she was coming for weekly "reporting". Honestly I never once bothered to try and find out what was really going on as I'm the type that is very serious with my work.
Not until the guys in the office started bantering in groups and talking about what was actually going on. Again, I shrugged off their conversation because what's my business, and besides, I don't do office gossip. Well, not until one fateful day....
As I was hurrying up a task given to me by my boss in my usual seriousness with my work, I needed to rush to his office to get his final approval on something that he had asked me to do when I ran into the unbelievable!
Was I dreaming? Was my eyes paining me? For Pete's sake, what was this? In broad daylight that evening, as I knocked, my boss answered "come in" nonchallantly. I don't know what he was thinking. Lo and behold, there they were, he and our branch manager both standing on their feet and very close to each other with my boss unzipping her dress with his both hands! I was embarrassed and so were they. Usually, whenever this lady is around my boss would immediately close all his window curtains. This normally happens around or after closing (remember I told you I'm a serious office worker, so I stay back a lot because naturally I work late into the night everyday).
Since that incident, whatever I say in any meeting involving this particular lady is always accepted and approved by her whether it makes sense or not. In fact, she's trying to move close to me and become my friend by force now to the extent that she even chats with me privately now regularly.
While a man has the full right to do whatever he likes, my question is why do this in the workplace? Why would my boss engage in office romance right in the office building? And why is the lady in question now trying to get close to me by force now? Am I in any real danger? I don't want to lose my job. Please what do I do?
Your days are numbered in that office. Start looking for another job bcoz she's going to flush you out. Bcoz, she's not comfortable with you and whenever she see you with anyone, she would think you're discussing her. |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by LastProphet: 7:59pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Seagodess:
There's what we call a steeping mind stone in my world.. allow her get close to you.. make her yr friend but don't try to woo her... make her see you as a confidant.you going to enjoy that job. Gbam! And don't talk unnecessary holy holy, never she hear you yab immoral acts otherwise you done for. And las las what makes them immoral? My only grouse with your boss is why didn't he take her elsewhere? Sex in office is even spiritually negative and that business will fail ultimately. Just like having sex in car it causes accident |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by mrblessed(m): 8:04pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Tell her you didn't see anything and that she should relax because you got her completely covered. She is only afriad because she thinks you will telltale what you saw.
And, next time, when writing about yourself please reduce the rate at which you deodorise your ability as a competence or "serious" worker. It's highly gratuitous. |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by malaria(f): 8:05pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Congratulations poster, you have finally find out your oga secret . Pls mind your business do your work, collect your pay and go home. Avoid that lady as much as possible. In anyway you can either by actions or words , let your oga and the lady know that what you saw is not your business. What you owe the lady is just respect period. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by steveekeoma(m): 8:10pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
SundayNightGist:
Sharing this story with you is risky because it's a true story and it actually happened, but I'm not deterred as I'm on a mission to sanitize our society of all forms of immorality. Now lets get right into it without any further ado.
My office is located in Gwarinpa in Abuja and my boss is a very busy man who hardly stays in the office. We have another branch in Guzape (Asokoro extension) where my boss hired a lady as the manager in charge. This particular lady is fair and very endowed both ways (I mean front and back). She's attractive too, no doubt. She happens to be a single mother with a son. My boss on the other hand is a family man with four kids.
I had just joined the company when I started noticing that this lady usually drives the company's Mazda salon car to our branch (the headquarters) every week (Thursdays to be precise) to hold a "private meeting" with my boss. Word in the office has it that she was coming for weekly "reporting". Honestly I never once bothered to try and find out what was really going on as I'm the type that is very serious with my work.
Not until the guys in the office started bantering in groups and talking about what was actually going on. Again, I shrugged off their conversation because what's my business, and besides, I don't do office gossip. Well, not until one fateful day....
As I was hurrying up a task given to me by my boss in my usual seriousness with my work, I needed to rush to his office to get his final approval on something that he had asked me to do when I ran into the unbelievable!
Was I dreaming? Was my eyes paining me? For Pete's sake, what was this? In broad daylight that evening, as I knocked, my boss answered "come in" nonchallantly. I don't know what he was thinking. Lo and behold, there they were, he and our branch manager both standing on their feet and very close to each other with my boss unzipping her dress with his both hands! I was embarrassed and so were they. Usually, whenever this lady is around my boss would immediately close all his window curtains. This normally happens around or after closing (remember I told you I'm a serious office worker, so I stay back a lot because naturally I work late into the night everyday).
Since that incident, whatever I say in any meeting involving this particular lady is always accepted and approved by her whether it makes sense or not. In fact, she's trying to move close to me and become my friend by force now to the extent that she even chats with me privately now regularly.
While a man has the full right to do whatever he likes, my question is why do this in the workplace? Why would my boss engage in office romance right in the office building? And why is the lady in question now trying to get close to me by force now? Am I in any real danger? I don't want to lose my job. Please what do I do?
Just go close to her but use your head |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by naturefellow(m): 8:16pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
lecturerdabo:
Who defines professional and unprofessional behaviour in a private organization, the employee or employer?
if you have ever worked in a structured private organization or corporate setting, you wouldn't be asking a question as clueless as this. You don't even need to work in one to have this knowledge. It's just common sense. Inasmuch as sex/sexual favours for grades is rife in tertiary institutions, is it still acceptable, pr justifiable under the tag of "consenting adults"?  |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by Seagodess(f): 8:56pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
LastProphet:
Gbam! And don't talk unnecessary holy holy, never she hear you yab immoral acts otherwise you done for. And las las what makes them immoral? My only grouse with your boss is why didn't he take her elsewhere? Sex in office is even spiritually negative and that business will fail ultimately. Just like having sex in car it causes accident but then I begin to wonder.. why is sex causing so much doom in places of business? Sex is suppose to be a good thing 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by Kaytixy: 9:04pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
SundayNightGist:
Sharing this story with you is risky because it's a true story and it actually happened, but I'm not deterred as I'm on a mission to sanitize our society of all forms of immorality. Now lets get right into it without any further ado.
My office is located in Gwarinpa in Abuja and my boss is a very busy man who hardly stays in the office. We have another branch in Guzape (Asokoro extension) where my boss hired a lady as the manager in charge. This particular lady is fair and very endowed both ways (I mean front and back). She's attractive too, no doubt. She happens to be a single mother with a son. My boss on the other hand is a family man with four kids.
I had just joined the company when I started noticing that this lady usually drives the company's Mazda salon car to our branch (the headquarters) every week (Thursdays to be precise) to hold a "private meeting" with my boss. Word in the office has it that she was coming for weekly "reporting". Honestly I never once bothered to try and find out what was really going on as I'm the type that is very serious with my work.
Not until the guys in the office started bantering in groups and talking about what was actually going on. Again, I shrugged off their conversation because what's my business, and besides, I don't do office gossip. Well, not until one fateful day....
As I was hurrying up a task given to me by my boss in my usual seriousness with my work, I needed to rush to his office to get his final approval on something that he had asked me to do when I ran into the unbelievable!
Was I dreaming? Was my eyes paining me? For Pete's sake, what was this? In broad daylight that evening, as I knocked, my boss answered "come in" nonchallantly. I don't know what he was thinking. Lo and behold, there they were, he and our branch manager both standing on their feet and very close to each other with my boss unzipping her dress with his both hands! I was embarrassed and so were they. Usually, whenever this lady is around my boss would immediately close all his window curtains. This normally happens around or after closing (remember I told you I'm a serious office worker, so I stay back a lot because naturally I work late into the night everyday).
Since that incident, whatever I say in any meeting involving this particular lady is always accepted and approved by her whether it makes sense or not. In fact, she's trying to move close to me and become my friend by force now to the extent that she even chats with me privately now regularly.
While a man has the full right to do whatever he likes, my question is why do this in the workplace? Why would my boss engage in office romance right in the office building? And why is the lady in question now trying to get close to me by force now? Am I in any real danger? I don't want to lose my job. Please what do I do? Oga face your front nothing concern you. Is it your office? No so why the worry. If they like, let them do it in front of the office is none of your business. Just be free with her that's all
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| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by Kaytixy: 9:06pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
If you have the opportunity, make you knack ur own too make u no dull 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by Truthshscrazy: 9:06pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
So na same meat 🥩when ya bigger boss dey chop u sef wan chop! .
Nna run 🏃♂️ as far as ya legs can carry ya. Many fishes in ocean.nna escape from her. Even if u chop and clean mouth, she can get u fired. |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by vickydevoka(m): 9:09pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Kobicove:
I really do not understand why some CEOs do this!
Having a sexual relationship with a subordinate in my company is that absolute last thing I would ever do...that is the best way to kill a business you have laboured so long to build! I swear I don’t believe this things. I rather sleep with the ugliest lady outside than finest lady inside. Men are their own problem. That’s y I don’t pity some people in life |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by Adebowale89(m): 9:12pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Your boss is having romance with your colleague at the building in his office and so what? were you employed as a Supervisor in the company
some guys get time sha, Alaye do your job, the lady is getting close to you to either deal with you if what you saw get leak or trying to buy you with friendship, never think she want to make advances
get sense and concentrate on your job, you should be thinking of creating your own firm no matter how little and not bother about another man's wealth building empire |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by prciouschika(f): 9:12pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Please 🙏 I'm in gwarnipa Abuja, kindly help me with a job. Thank you |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by OgbeniOja1: 9:16pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Ebbe like to dey jobless dey hungry you goon Don't mind your business. SundayNightGist:
Sharing this story with you is risky because it's a true story and it actually happened, but I'm not deterred as I'm on a mission to sanitize our society of all forms of immorality. Now lets get right into it without any further ado.
My office is located in Gwarinpa in Abuja and my boss is a very busy man who hardly stays in the office. We have another branch in Guzape (Asokoro extension) where my boss hired a lady as the manager in charge. This particular lady is fair and very endowed both ways (I mean front and back). She's attractive too, no doubt. She happens to be a single mother with a son. My boss on the other hand is a family man with four kids.
I had just joined the company when I started noticing that this lady usually drives the company's Mazda salon car to our branch (the headquarters) every week (Thursdays to be precise) to hold a "private meeting" with my boss. Word in the office has it that she was coming for weekly "reporting". Honestly I never once bothered to try and find out what was really going on as I'm the type that is very serious with my work.
Not until the guys in the office started bantering in groups and talking about what was actually going on. Again, I shrugged off their conversation because what's my business, and besides, I don't do office gossip. Well, not until one fateful day....
As I was hurrying up a task given to me by my boss in my usual seriousness with my work, I needed to rush to his office to get his final approval on something that he had asked me to do when I ran into the unbelievable!
Was I dreaming? Was my eyes paining me? For Pete's sake, what was this? In broad daylight that evening, as I knocked, my boss answered "come in" nonchallantly. I don't know what he was thinking. Lo and behold, there they were, he and our branch manager both standing on their feet and very close to each other with my boss unzipping her dress with his both hands! I was embarrassed and so were they. Usually, whenever this lady is around my boss would immediately close all his window curtains. This normally happens around or after closing (remember I told you I'm a serious office worker, so I stay back a lot because naturally I work late into the night everyday).
Since that incident, whatever I say in any meeting involving this particular lady is always accepted and approved by her whether it makes sense or not. In fact, she's trying to move close to me and become my friend by force now to the extent that she even chats with me privately now regularly.
While a man has the full right to do whatever he likes, my question is why do this in the workplace? Why would my boss engage in office romance right in the office building? And why is the lady in question now trying to get close to me by force now? Am I in any real danger? I don't want to lose my job. Please what do I do?
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| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by biggie73(m): 9:38pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
You're not serious. You are creating problems where there is none. |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by purples25(f): 9:40pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
So people can be in the office and mind their business or not poke hands into someone's office romance.
I didn't know. That's interesting. |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by ejimatic: 9:42pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
SundayNightGist:
Sharing this story with you is risky because it's a true story and it actually happened, but I'm not deterred as I'm on a mission to sanitize our society of all forms of immorality. Now lets get right into it without any further ado.
My office is located in Gwarinpa in Abuja and my boss is a very busy man who hardly stays in the office. We have another branch in Guzape (Asokoro extension) where my boss hired a lady as the manager in charge. This particular lady is fair and very endowed both ways (I mean front and back). She's attractive too, no doubt. She happens to be a single mother with a son. My boss on the other hand is a family man with four kids.
I had just joined the company when I started noticing that this lady usually drives the company's Mazda salon car to our branch (the headquarters) every week (Thursdays to be precise) to hold a "private meeting" with my boss. Word in the office has it that she was coming for weekly "reporting". Honestly I never once bothered to try and find out what was really going on as I'm the type that is very serious with my work.
Not until the guys in the office started bantering in groups and talking about what was actually going on. Again, I shrugged off their conversation because what's my business, and besides, I don't do office gossip. Well, not until one fateful day....
As I was hurrying up a task given to me by my boss in my usual seriousness with my work, I needed to rush to his office to get his final approval on something that he had asked me to do when I ran into the unbelievable!
Was I dreaming? Was my eyes paining me? For Pete's sake, what was this? In broad daylight that evening, as I knocked, my boss answered "come in" nonchallantly. I don't know what he was thinking. Lo and behold, there they were, he and our branch manager both standing on their feet and very close to each other with my boss unzipping her dress with his both hands! I was embarrassed and so were they. Usually, whenever this lady is around my boss would immediately close all his window curtains. This normally happens around or after closing (remember I told you I'm a serious office worker, so I stay back a lot because naturally I work late into the night everyday).
Since that incident, whatever I say in any meeting involving this particular lady is always accepted and approved by her whether it makes sense or not. In fact, she's trying to move close to me and become my friend by force now to the extent that she even chats with me privately now regularly.
While a man has the full right to do whatever he likes, my question is why do this in the workplace? Why would my boss engage in office romance right in the office building? And why is the lady in question now trying to get close to me by force now? Am I in any real danger? I don't want to lose my job. Please what do I do?
. Yiu know something is going on between them yet yiu bulged into their office because you heard "come in " It seems yiu have seen another job with the NNPC. Remember yiu are in a private sector and yiu can be dismissed at anytime for your childish and thoughtless behaviour. Be careful and face yiur work. Also don't say what you saw with anybody. Both of them are free to do what they like. They are adults. As to whether the place is right for the romance ,it is not yiur business. Leave them. If yiu are in their shoes go to a hotel. Always let the sleeping dog lie! |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by Lasthope543: 9:55pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
SundayNightGist:
Sharing this story with you is risky because it's a true story and it actually happened, but I'm not deterred as I'm on a mission to sanitize our society of all forms of immorality. Now lets get right into it without any further ado.
My office is located in Gwarinpa in Abuja and my boss is a very busy man who hardly stays in the office. We have another branch in Guzape (Asokoro extension) where my boss hired a lady as the manager in charge. This particular lady is fair and very endowed both ways (I mean front and back). She's attractive too, no doubt. She happens to be a single mother with a son. My boss on the other hand is a family man with four kids.
I had just joined the company when I started noticing that this lady usually drives the company's Mazda salon car to our branch (the headquarters) every week (Thursdays to be precise) to hold a "private meeting" with my boss. Word in the office has it that she was coming for weekly "reporting". Honestly I never once bothered to try and find out what was really going on as I'm the type that is very serious with my work.
Not until the guys in the office started bantering in groups and talking about what was actually going on. Again, I shrugged off their conversation because what's my business, and besides, I don't do office gossip. Well, not until one fateful day....
As I was hurrying up a task given to me by my boss in my usual seriousness with my work, I needed to rush to his office to get his final approval on something that he had asked me to do when I ran into the unbelievable!
Was I dreaming? Was my eyes paining me? For Pete's sake, what was this? In broad daylight that evening, as I knocked, my boss answered "come in" nonchallantly. I don't know what he was thinking. Lo and behold, there they were, he and our branch manager both standing on their feet and very close to each other with my boss unzipping her dress with his both hands! I was embarrassed and so were they. Usually, whenever this lady is around my boss would immediately close all his window curtains. This normally happens around or after closing (remember I told you I'm a serious office worker, so I stay back a lot because naturally I work late into the night everyday).
Since that incident, whatever I say in any meeting involving this particular lady is always accepted and approved by her whether it makes sense or not. In fact, she's trying to move close to me and become my friend by force now to the extent that she even chats with me privately now regularly.
While a man has the full right to do whatever he likes, my question is why do this in the workplace? Why would my boss engage in office romance right in the office building? And why is the lady in question now trying to get close to me by force now? Am I in any real danger? I don't want to lose my job. Please what do I do?
OP just mind your business and do your work Talking from experience. |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by greggng: 9:57pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Is there a way you cab snatch that woman from your boss ...so that together both of you can sack him and you become the boss . Life is survival of the fittest... |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by koolaid87: 9:59pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Op, have you considered a possibility of 3some?? Thats your ticket to the assistant managing role  Awon Oga ngbadun oo |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by udoh2k: 10:00pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
vincenteger:
Learn to protect people's privacy
Why mention the locations of your offices.
Please be smart enough to know the details of what you share online.
Wat if your boss or the lady in question is reading this.
Learn to mind your business
For the fact that maybe you haven't been caught doesn't make you a saint. Yes, I agree with you. It is better he edits the story, if possible and remove the office locations. Your safety and people's privacy is paramount |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by Xkale1996(m): 10:42pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
SundayNightGist:
Sharing this story with you is risky because it's a true story and it actually happened, but I'm not deterred as I'm on a mission to sanitize our society of all forms of immorality. Now lets get right into it without any further ado.
My office is located in Gwarinpa in Abuja and my boss is a very busy man who hardly stays in the office. We have another branch in Guzape (Asokoro extension) where my boss hired a lady as the manager in charge. This particular lady is fair and very endowed both ways (I mean front and back). She's attractive too, no doubt. She happens to be a single mother with a son. My boss on the other hand is a family man with four kids.
I had just joined the company when I started noticing that this lady usually drives the company's Mazda salon car to our branch (the headquarters) every week (Thursdays to be precise) to hold a "private meeting" with my boss. Word in the office has it that she was coming for weekly "reporting". Honestly I never once bothered to try and find out what was really going on as I'm the type that is very serious with my work.
Not until the guys in the office started bantering in groups and talking about what was actually going on. Again, I shrugged off their conversation because what's my business, and besides, I don't do office gossip. Well, not until one fateful day....
As I was hurrying up a task given to me by my boss in my usual seriousness with my work, I needed to rush to his office to get his final approval on something that he had asked me to do when I ran into the unbelievable!
Was I dreaming? Was my eyes paining me? For Pete's sake, what was this? In broad daylight that evening, as I knocked, my boss answered "come in" nonchallantly. I don't know what he was thinking. Lo and behold, there they were, he and our branch manager both standing on their feet and very close to each other with my boss unzipping her dress with his both hands! I was embarrassed and so were they. Usually, whenever this lady is around my boss would immediately close all his window curtains. This normally happens around or after closing (remember I told you I'm a serious office worker, so I stay back a lot because naturally I work late into the night everyday).
Since that incident, whatever I say in any meeting involving this particular lady is always accepted and approved by her whether it makes sense or not. In fact, she's trying to move close to me and become my friend by force now to the extent that she even chats with me privately now regularly.
While a man has the full right to do whatever he likes, my question is why do this in the workplace? Why would my boss engage in office romance right in the office building? And why is the lady in question now trying to get close to me by force now? Am I in any real danger? I don't want to lose my job. Please what do I do?
don't gossip and don't do anything stupid by hanging out together Just continue to be friends with her Sha Becareful |
| Re: My Job Is At Risk Because Of Office Romance Involving My Boss by kaywhy09(m): 11:26pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Focus on what you're in for. Mutual romance between adults isn't a crime. |
