Romanoff:
If you're a Christian, the only grounds Jesus allows for a divorce is infidelity, that's if you can't get past the betrayal.

If you're a Christian woman, divorcing your husband over his infidelity isn't wrong. What's wrong is If you now start a sin of immorality, fornicating, especially with married men.

That's why it's good to be independent so you can care for yourself and kids. That's why as a woman, it's good to agree with your partner about the number of kids each of you can take care of incase of a death or any eventuality that will make one person alone care for the kids. (God forbid).

koladata:
Men were never designed to sleep with one woman for the rest of their lives. That's why there's a virginity seal on women at birth while there's no seal on men. Even in basic biology, men's sexual anatomy is completely different , the hormones and desires are referent. most of us have only come to accept this one man one woman thing because someone wrote it in the bible which i'm sure God didn't write that thing, he's not an author of confusion because that would have contradict his designs.

Odebayo4010:


1 Corinthians 7 :: NIV. But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband.

You're now Glorify stupidity because you lack word of God

Rizzputin:
I totally agree with this.

Most women leave a man they love for cheating only to go with another man that will still cheat and they don't really like.

As long as your man (husband, bf etc) takes care of you then you shouldn't have much to be worried about.


P.S Men don't abuse this privilege. It's not an excuse to rub it in her face or to fùck the house maid or your spouse relatives

Romanoff:
If you're a Christian, the only grounds Jesus allows for a divorce is infidelity, that's if you can't get past the betrayal.

If you're a Christian woman, divorcing your husband over his infidelity isn't wrong. What's wrong is If you now start a sin of immorality, fornicating, especially with married men.

That's why it's good to be independent so you can care for yourself and kids. That's why as a woman, it's good to agree with your partner about the number of kids each of you can take care of incase of a death or any eventuality that will make one person alone care for the kids. (God forbid).

koladata:
Men were never designed to sleep with one woman for the rest of their lives. That's why there's a virginity seal on women at birth while there's no seal on men. Even in basic biology, men's sexual anatomy is completely different , the hormones and desires are referent. most of us have only come to accept this one man one woman thing because someone wrote it in the bible which i'm sure God didn't write that thing, he's not an author of confusion because that would have contradict his designs.

Donjazet2:
My only question for the original poster is this;

If the man is allowed to have a side chic and sleep outside the marriage, is the woman also given that same free roam?

Because what you've outlined here seems to be one-sided and caused by financial patrimony.

I hope all women reading this understand that they must strive to be financially independent, don't let yourself or your source of money be from any man even your husband.

Love and cherish any man you have, be obidient and respectful to him but make sure you are earning in your own right. Find something legit that pays you.

koladata:
[/b]Men were never designed to sleep with one woman for the rest of their lives[b]. That's why there's a virginity seal on women at birth while there's no seal on men. Even in basic biology, men's sexual anatomy is completely different , the hormones and desires are referent. most of us have only come to accept this one man one woman thing because someone wrote it in the bible which i'm sure God didn't write that thing, he's not an author of confusion because that would have contradict his designs.

Donjazet2:
My only question for the original poster is this;

If the man is allowed to have a side chic and sleep outside the marriage, is the woman also given that same free roam?

Because what you've outlined here seems to be one-sided and caused by financial patrimony.

I hope all women reading this understand that they must strive to be financially independent, don't let yourself or your source of money be from any man even your husband.

Love and cherish any man you have, be obidient and respectful to him but make sure you are earning in your own right. Find something legit that pays you.

seanwilliam:
we’re saying the same thing. Atleast she’ll know she’s just a sex and disposable object to the new man

At least she will know she gets sexual and monetary satisfaction from the man. 🤷

Last time I checked it takes two to tango, sexual dominance shouldn't be something to brag of in this time and age. They are both sex and disposable object to one another.

dawnomike:
Every woman, especially wives should endeavour to be financially empowered!!!

Bvlgari:


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seguno2:


Do women go to the groom’s family to marry their husbands

linearity:


I beg, you fit show us where dem write am for Bible say, one man, one wife?

I don find am tire oh!

dawnomike:
Every woman, especially wives should endeavour to be financially empowered!!!

novia22:
This Axe swings both ways. Society always makes it look as if the must be the woman to suffer when she leave a cheating man. My dear, If a woman is financially stable and has a cheating spouse, and decides to leave, all this story here will not befall her. And if truly the man knows the value of what he lost, he is going to be a side cock too. The woman can comfortably move on with her life and her children. It's the man's loss and since she can afford anything she wants, she can also afford to get a side cock to do her bidding.

See eeeh in this life, Just have money, alot of problems won't be problems anymore.

Persephone1:
I remember having this conversation (the bolded) with a friend and her response was I overthink and I'm planning for the end of something that hasn't happened yet. That was the only time I ever discuss such topic with anyone.

Most times people are never true with themselves. Change is constant, nothing is permanent. Lol

novia22:
Is it about going to grooms family? Do you know how many women have paid for everything the men used to come to the bride's family? Is it because they are not "louding" it?

Is that enough reason for him to be a community prick in the name of being a man?

Persephone1:
At least she will know she gets sexual and monetary satisfaction from the man. 🤷

Last time I checked it takes two to tango, sexual dominance shouldn't be something to brag of in this time and age. They are both sex and disposable object to one another.

talk2hb1:
Female Gender don suffer

koladata:
Men were never designed to sleep with one woman for the rest of their lives. That's why there's a virginity seal on women at birth while there's no seal on men. Even in basic biology, men's sexual anatomy is completely different , the hormones and desires are referent. most of us have only come to accept this one man one woman thing because someone wrote it in the bible which i'm sure God didn't write that thing, he's not an author of confusion because that would have contradict his designs.

Earthstorms:
To me, if a woman is leaving a man because he is cheating, she should leave the kids for him and bother only about herself.

Persephone1:
I remember having this conversation (the bolded) with a friend and her response was I overthink and I'm planning for the end of something that hasn't happened yet. That was the only time I ever discuss such topic with anyone.

Most times people are never true with themselves. Change is constant, nothing is permanent. Lol

superCleanworks:
Hello wives
please don't mind this guy and his one sided logic. who says you can't leave with your kids and be alright? please leave that marriage as soon as you sense the slightest hint of cheating no matter how much your husband begs you to stay. Leave and don't look back.

We need more single mothers independent women in the society 😁

seanwilliam:
I agree with you .
Just that one of the two will feel ‘used’ and object of ridicule, consequently becomes a bittered soul

linearity:
I beg, you fit show us where dem write am for Bible say, one man, one wife?

I don find am tire oh!

adewale2011:
No where o!!!