koladata:
Men were never designed to sleep with one woman for the rest of their lives. That's why there's a virginity seal on women at birth while there's no seal on men. Even in basic biology, men's sexual anatomy is completely different , the hormones and desires are referent. most of us have only come to accept this one man one woman thing because someone wrote it in the bible which i'm sure God didn't write that thing, he's not an author of confusion because that would have contradict his designs.

linearity:


I beg, you fit show us where dem write am for Bible say, one man, one wife?

I don find am tire oh!

Earthstorms:
It hurts when the trust is broken that is why some women leave a cheating husband.

However life later force such women to either become someone else side chick or a second wife. So the women do not really escape sharing the men.

What can the women really do? It is a man's world in Africa so it is more difficult for women to survive and take care of the kids alone. The first mistake they make when leaving is that they take the kids along.

To me, if a woman is leaving a man because he is cheating, she should leave the kids for him and bother only about herself.

OloYeOfEgbE:
This one touch me where my hand no fit scratch..

CHOI

Donjazet2:
My only question for the original poster is this;

If the man is allowed to have a side chic and sleep outside the marriage, is the woman also given that same free roam?

Because what you've outlined here seems to be one-sided and caused by financial patrimony.

I hope all women reading this understand that they must strive to be financially independent, don't let yourself or your source of money be from any man even your husband.

Love and cherish any man you have, be obidient and respectful to him but make sure you are earning in your own right. Find something legit that pays you.

godliman:
If you know the long term consequences of this side chic nonsense you won't be saying this. Side chocking can lead to
1. The chic using juju to turn the husband's heart from his wife for good. The make men abandon their real wives.
2. It leads to baby mama. The husband can simply marry the side chic on the long run and begin raising another set of family elsewhere.
3. The promiscuous husband can bring home HIV and other STIs to finish his innocent wife.
4. The side chic might kill him if she wants to.
5. The side chic might kill the real wife and reign without rival.
Don't blame wives who quit, aside the pain, the life is not safe.
The solution is marry as genuine christians with premarital sex. A man who only eats his wife's soup is content but the one who eats about compares.

Bvlgari:


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02WzkPoRshg1erM6yrvCqs2hCEb15uX6w5nM4Q9mkXZvJ24PTuptmWN35tv2z2kznwl&id=100001099643107&mibextid=Nif5oz

BOSSkesh:
God knows that if my partner ever sleeps with another person I’ll remove my self the relationship
You’ll only be seeing my shadow

Bvlgari:


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02WzkPoRshg1erM6yrvCqs2hCEb15uX6w5nM4Q9mkXZvJ24PTuptmWN35tv2z2kznwl&id=100001099643107&mibextid=Nif5oz

linearity:


I beg, you fit show us where dem write am for Bible say, one man, one wife?

I don find am tire oh!

Kiddogarcia:
God this analogy get as eee be.
Never had I saw it from this point.
Valid point made,but the emotional torture in it is just too much to bear.
Loving someone who has decided to make an idiot of you can be gut-wrenching sha.
It's better to leave and end up with someone you are not real deep innit with tho.
The pains won't be much in their other relationship and most times it is for the financial gain not emotional wahala.
Win-win I say

linearity:


I beg, you fit show us where dem write am for Bible say, one man, one wife?

I don find am tire oh!

Donjazet2:
My only question for the original poster is this;

If the man is allowed to have a side chic and sleep outside the marriage, is the woman also given that same free roam?

Because what you've outlined here seems to be one-sided and caused by financial patrimony.

I hope all women reading this understand that they must strive to be financially independent, don't let yourself or your source of money be from any man even your husband.

Love and cherish any man you have, be obidient and respectful to him but make sure you are earning in your own right. Find something legit that pays you.

seanwilliam:


Ok it’s good as she quits atleast it’s better to become second wife or side chick elsewhere .. lol.
Dey play

Bvlgari:


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02WzkPoRshg1erM6yrvCqs2hCEb15uX6w5nM4Q9mkXZvJ24PTuptmWN35tv2z2kznwl&id=100001099643107&mibextid=Nif5oz

PhenomenalMorgan:

When I see the many nonsenses men type here in the name of superiority and men are polygamous in nature, I wonder if they can condone it if the reverse is the case, bunch of hoorny men without self control hiding under the carpet of “All men are polygamous in Nature”

Kiddogarcia:
God this analogy get as eee be.
Never had I saw it from this point.
Valid point made,but the emotional torture in it is just too much to bear.
Loving someone who has decided to make an idiot of you can be gut-wrenching sha.
It's better to leave and end up with someone you are not real deep innit with tho.
The pains won't be much in their other relationship and most times it is for the financial gain not emotional wahala.
Win-win I say

Persephone1:
At least she won't be emotionally invested in a man she thinks is hers and she wouldn't experience betrayal like a dagger to her heart. You all just don't get it do you? A woman cheated on can never be the same. Only a fool will think a woman cheated on stays married out of love and loyalty. LoL