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Court wedding is 50k, do that one.

oloriooko:
Bro buy a land in choice area
Continue using your old car so long it moves
Marriage is expensive better be prepared

Have my own house

ednut1:
Court wedding is 50k, do that one.

Really?....but i hear court wedding favours the wife as regards divorce and inheritance.

advanceDNA:
Oga...take her to registry with a few family members....organize small food for eatry when u leave registry....u go still get enough to buy your car.......una too like wahala for this country...

Money wey u suppose u buy convinience..u wan use am feed 200pple that dont give a shiit about u.... dey play ooo.......dey play u hear

Lol.....i hear you

GEJDHERO:
Really?....but i hear court wedding favours the wife as regards divorce and inheritance.

Nigerian law is not like American law. Have you heard of any law judgement in Nigeria where assets were split 50/50 in divorce case?
If you are scared of court wedding, you can still do prenuptial agreement and go ahead with the court wedding.

GEJDHERO:
Really?....but i hear court wedding favours the wife as regards divorce and inheritance.

this is Nigeria. No one can take your properties na. Which court or police will enforce it

Invest in property even if u have your own house

GEJDHERO:
Have my own house

oloriooko:
Bro buy a land in choice area
Continue using your old car so long it moves
Marriage is expensive better be prepared

10years now

Bros buy urself the car if u love urself, people that are married now are looking for a way to run from it but u want to rush in I sorry for u ooo mk u no go talk Waka ooo, Nigeria don't have good women like dat ooo

Nairalander248:
Wawu.. so she won't appreciate the 10year old car?

kevwemike:
Bros buy urself the car if u love urself, people that are married now are looking for a way to run from it but u want to rush in I sorry for u ooo mk u no go talk Waka ooo, Nigeria don't have good women like dat ooo

GEJDHERO:
Pls expansiate

to the best of my knowledge, as a man, 90% of whatever you acquire is not only for yourself .
For example now, if you build house, buy car , learn skills, acquire certificates etc, all these will add the MOST value to your family . The only enjoyment you give yourself in the real sense is the food you eat and the cloth you put on. If you are social , maybe vacations and expensive gagdets and body accessories . But trust me bro, the bolded is never most men’s fantasies .

Think of most things men worry about, it’s mostly for the family ( parents, wife and children ) at the end of the day.


For example now, I’m Husling with every drop of sweat in me to ensure I prepare the future for my prospective family , to ensure they don’t lack anything atall.

If it’s about wetin I go chop alone or wetin to boost my ego, tbh, I’ll be sleeping most of the time cos I have what can sustain only me till end.

At the op, please get yourself the car,



The reality of life, especially in Nigeria is that, chances of enjoying life as a man is low the moment you get married. Responsibility might choke u to the extent that you’ll even forget to buy yourself a new boxer




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Except luck and grace shine on you and you have more than enough ,

GEJDHERO:
PLS I NEED ADVICE .Am on a crossroad..i know i have to settle down soonest but i also desperately need to buy a new car.I HAVE BEEN USING MY OLD CAR FOR 10YRS NOW

If the car is so important that you uses it to run your work or business, get a car, sell the old one use the money to marry

akpunda86:
RUN AWAY FROM REGISTRY LOVE FADES AWAY AND THE COURT WILL HOLD YOU.JUST DO DOWRY FOR EASY DIVORCE.SEE MEE DOWRY RETURNED COURT CASE STARTING
BE CAREFUL

That Boy wey you Quote na MuMu.

What Man in his Right Sense still engage in Court Marriage these days.

MasterJayJay:
Nigerian law is not like American law. Have you heard of any law judgement in Nigeria where assets were split 50/50 in divorce case?
If you are scared of court wedding, you can still do prenuptial agreement and go ahead with the court wedding.

who no go no know,try am first u go come hear come share testimony

Ok

GEJDHERO:
PLS I NEED ADVICE .Am on a crossroad..i know i have to settle down soonest but i also desperately need to buy a new car.I HAVE BEEN USING MY OLD CAR FOR 10YRS NOW

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I take God beg you, go buy motor

IyaebeTheGreat:
Get married please, this is how you keep wasting somebody's daughter's time.

This woman just dey talk rubbish for this Nairaland



Seun pls do the needful

GEJDHERO:
PLS I NEED ADVICE .Am on a crossroad..i know i have to settle down soonest but i also desperately need to buy a new car.I HAVE BEEN USING MY OLD CAR FOR 10YRS NOW

What makes you think you will get the best advice on this issue right here on this forum?

You should be aware that this issue is a personal issue and you should be in the position to know what fits you best.

Build house instead

The two are not related, how could you compare a wife to a car

Get married first.

Simple...

Both na the same thing. Except that, one is a non-living thing the other is a living thing

Give her Bella and use your money to do something better for your self bros

doggedfighter:
Kindly buy a new car.


You can marry later.

Your wife when you eventually marry will appreciate you and the car.


What car is the old one ?

hmmmm, he should marry first, car can come any time, but one will age if he or she keeps postponing when he or she will marry.

No woman, no matter how beautiful and well-mannered, is worth the price of a Tokunbo car!

GEJDHERO:
PLS I NEED ADVICE .Am on a crossroad..i know i have to settle down soonest but i also desperately need to buy a new car.I HAVE BEEN USING MY OLD CAR FOR 10YRS NOW

Both options sef get as e be.

Buy car oooo cus all these girls wey dey outside now na werey full inside

pls everyone on nairaland, i am apealling to you all. pls can anyone help,me with 1k, just 1k nothing more than that. i am very very hungry, i havent eaten since saturday last week. At least let me get something to eat today, so i can have energy to go out and look for money or hustle. PLS SAVE A HUNGRY BROTHER

Autobot05:
If the car is gonna be an asset... go for it

Take your time before jumping into marriage mate

Both are depreciating assets though. liabilities also.

Instead of buying a new car, why can’t you buy a tokunbo car and also do a low key marriage.
It will be a win-win situation for you!