I love my gf. But when shes having her period she becomes completely unreasonable. Everything i say is suddenly wrong, she gets skeptical of everything and she demands i make her feel better because she feels bad. Then a week later she apologizes for being like that.
Is this normal?

There are few things you have to overlook in women and this is one of those things, stop complaining about everything.

Ask her if it's normal…
She's nuts...
You already said that.


I'll advice you get her some medications that can help ease the pains instead of calling her nuts.
There are some I know of… very effective that she won't even know until it's time.

pretty normal... many women become insane people just before/during their perod... its not their fault, its their bodies playing tricks on them.
just ignore anything they say during that time. they truly

Na she go first menstruate? Make she learn how to handle the menses with proper relationship

Oluromantic:
Na she go first menstruate? Make she learn how to handle the menses with proper relationship

I tire o!

😂 Something that happens every month, you can't handle the pain. I think some women are just using period as an excuse to behave anyhow.

Maybe u are giving her space during her period

She may not like it

I don't sleep in the same bed with a menstruating woman and I seldom eat from them, but I make them understand why, I will rather be the cook

We are cool

LittleBigDick:
I love my gf. But when shes having her period she becomes completely unreasonable. Everything i say is suddenly wrong, she gets skeptical of everything and she demands i make her feel better because she feels bad. Then a week later she apologizes for being like that.
Is this normal?

Like first quote said Stop complaining about everything over look it

When she's done with her menses and apologizes I'd start my own and also lose my senses

Funny stories on Nairaland

LittleBigDick:
I love my gf. But when shes having her period she becomes completely unreasonable. Everything i say is suddenly wrong, she gets skeptical of everything and she demands i make her feel better because she feels bad. Then a week later she apologizes for being like that.
Is this normal?

Its normal
You will experience more when she becomes pregnant

LittleBigDick:
I love my gf. But when shes having her period she becomes completely unreasonable. Everything i say is suddenly wrong, she gets skeptical of everything and she demands i make her feel better because she feels bad. Then a week later she apologizes for being like that.
Is this normal?

It is not normal, she is very manipulative and controlling and you are seeing the red flags already and she is very insecure with low self esteem, which make for a very bad combo.

Her period shouldn't be an excuse to manipulate and control you. There are too many low quality women in Nigeria that see nothing wrong in putting their boyfriends through something like this.

frozen70:


Its normal
You will experience more when she becomes pregnant

It is not normal.

Period or Pregnancy shouldn't be an excuse for women to be controlling and manipulative.

Nia69:
😂 Something that happens every month, you can't handle the pain. I think some women are just using period as an excuse to behave anyhow.

This is the only woman that tell you the truth


That girl is using her period to control and manipulate you and it is not going to end there. It is a big sign you are dating a very manipulative woman

MrBrownJay1:
pretty normal... many women become insane people just before/during their perod... its not their fault, its their bodies playing tricks on them.
just ignore anything they say during that time. they truly

It is not normal you know nothing about women if you think that is normal. Menstration doesn't make a woman insane and crazy, that woman is just using Menstration as an excuse to be controlling and manipulative, she is not the only women that menstrate and if she can't put herself in check during her menstration it mean she is not ready for a long time relationship, the standard is so low that many men take shits from women.

I understand occasional mood swings during her menstrual circle here and there but excessive behavior like that is not normal and shouldn't be tolerated.

He can not ignore it because it will get worse moving forward.

PureFace1:


It is not normal.

Period or Pregnancy shouldn't be an excuse for women to be controlling and manipulative.

Dey play

frozen70:

Dey play

yeah dey play because most women don't want to take responsibility for their shitty behaviors.

It may be normal to get occasional mood swings here and there but excessive and crazy behavior like that is not normal and acceptable, not all women act crazy and treat their guys like shit during their menstrual period so what make her think the guy would keep taking that treatment from her?

It is just like guys that got drunk and started beating their women or maltreat her whenever they are drunk then apologize later , is it every guys that get drunk that beat their women and maltreat her ? many guys can drink and still put themselves in check.

The emotional torture the woman is putting her boyfriend through every menstual period is like her physically beating her boyfriend and you say it is normal. There are so many women out there that won't act crazy when they are on their mentrual period so why should the Op keep taking that kind of treatment from his girlfriend ?

When a lady is having period, don't talk until you're asked to. The only time you reach out is can I rub your stomach to stop the pain or boil warm water to bathe. Anythin' else na offense. When they go through pain, they transfer aggression.

PureFace1:


It is not normal, she is very manipulative and controlling and you are seeing the red flags already and she is very insecure with low self esteem, which make for a very bad combo.

Your fellow man will say this buh when he sees the quality of your babe, he will bend some principles for her. Na men dey do men in this life.

That's why am happy being single. Only me, no woman wahala, I sleep & wakeup in peace. Go anywhere I want to go, be with any woman I want to be with no strings attached.

I love my peace of mind more than anything. It's rare to see a naija woman that will give you peace of mind, they like money, quarrel, fight & insult like sumtin else...lol

swagguElite:
When a lady is having period, don't talk until you're asked to. The only time you reach out is can I rub your stomach to stop the pain or boil warm water to bathe. Anythin' else na offense. When they go through pain, they transfer aggression.

Your fellow man will say this buh when he sees the quality of your babe, he will bend some principles for her. Na men dey do men in this life.

So many weak guys in Nigeria that make excuses for women treating them like trash.

I understand occasional mood swings but mentruation shouldn't be an excuse for women to treat you like trash unless she do not have enough respect for you to begin with.

My woman don't treat me like that during her period because she know i won't tolerate such and why should i lol. I understand the care aspect but not letting you speak or transferring aggression on you that's excessive and should not be tolerated unless you are a man with no value that enjoy being treated like trash.

You will know the level of respect your woman have for you by how she treat you during her period.

If you are nasty, you're nasty. The fact that you are having your period no mean say you go disrespect your man.

Simply ask him to give you space, you're not in the mood very simple. So anytime u hving period, your guy will just avoid you or help out. But naija woman, for were they go form quarrel & insult at the slightest provocation.

Women are just very crazy set of creatures and the ones in my family arent excluded.

My girl did something I told her not to , she still got mad that i reacted and tried manipulating me after trying to justify her actions

It took her oveer an hour to admit she was wrong and started apologising.. she admitted that she kneew what she did was wrong riggt frm the start , but imagine this is till the same girl getting abusive when I complained about what she did at first.

Im not gonna marry her or any bicth and no need to inform them your intentions, those creatures arent worth it, they jjust wanna mess up ur energy and kill ur hustling spirit, be wise guys

I can only tolerate such behaviour if she is from a very wealthy home.

PureFace1:


yeah dey play because most women don't want to take responsibility for their shitty behaviors.

It may be normal to get occasional mood swings here and there but excessive and crazy behavior like that is not normal and acceptable, not all women act crazy and treat their guys like shit during their menstrual period so what make her think the guy would keep taking that treatment from her?

It is just like guys that got drunk and started beating their women or maltreat her whenever they are drunk then apologize later , is it every guys that get drunk that beat their women and maltreat her ? many guys can drink and still put themselves in check.

The emotional torture the woman is putting her boyfriend through every menstual period is like her physically beating her boyfriend and you say it is normal. There are so many women out there that won't act crazy when they are on their mentrual period so why should the Op keep taking that kind of treatment from his girlfriend ?

Dey play

frozen70:


Dey play

But he's not wrong. Menstruation is no excuse to misbehave and manipulate anyone. I guess it's her nature and she sees it as an avenue to maltreat the guy. I have been around girlfriends in their periods and I have never experienced anything close to that shiid. It's not pregnancy

IyaebeTheGreat:
There are few things you have to overlook in women and this is one of those things, stop complaining about everything.

And there is never anything to overlook in men abi? Continue being onesided ma'am

Nia69:
Something that happens every month, you can't handle the pain. I think some women are just using period as an excuse to behave anyhow.

Ur type no plenty 4 naija again oo, u're a rare gem. Friendly offer, how can i get 2 hav dinner with u?

PureFace1:

It is not normal.
Period or Pregnancy shouldn't be an excuse for women to be controlling and manipulative.

Bros i for like deal with u but how i wan take trust u @siggy

Killbillz:

But he's not wrong. Menstruation is no excuse to misbehave and manipulate anyone. I guess it's her nature and she sees it as an avenue to maltreat the guy. I have been around girlfriends in their periods and I have never experienced anything close to that shiid. It's not pregnancy

When they say women are drama queens

Do you think they it's a joke

If a woman want to be funny while with you

She will start a drama that will keep you in suspense

Real men that understands that don't have issues with that