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Nice2023:
It is really not easy any where in Nigeria of today.

Sometimes,we expand our problem more the problem itself.

No doubt u are very hard working man but I think u have added problem to urself than this woman is adding.

If I am not doing anything,I can't impregnate wife honestly,because the thoughts of pampass,baby milk and clothes would kill me before my time.

I wish u the best my brother.
Just use wisdom and follow ur wife...remember say life no get duplicate.

The bold is easier said than done
Remember this is her first pregnancy, so that urge to have a child must be there, else she will start calling the man impotent. Truth is, it is extremely difficult to live with a woman in the same house & not get her pregnant after sometime. If u don't want to get a woman pregnant, it is best not to even marry

Op, it is well with your soul… 🙏

NotAMan:
My brother, she wasn't o. She was very loving and peaceful.

She might be going through severe mental/emotional stress... bringing a child into financial instability is very worrying for women. Try to get some counselling for her to help her manage the stress better... like church counsellors/elders.

Rubbiish:
The bold is easier said than done
Remember this is her first pregnancy, so that urge to have a child must be there, else she will start calling the man impotent. Truth is, it is extremely difficult to live with a woman in the same house & not get her pregnant after sometime. If u don't want to get a woman pregnant, it is best not to even marry

People says those things, thinking it is easy done as said. It is selfish, yes, but being broke and not having a child as well would make a home very depressing.

ItisWell22:
Op, it is well with your soul… 🙏

Amen. Thank you.

NotAMan:
My brother, she wasn't o. She was very loving and peaceful.

They are usually like that

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

You're truly not a man as you screen name says.

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

Bro!

Do you want to listen the bitter truth?

Run from that marriage.

Save the message so you can refer to it when the worst comes. I pray you will have eyes to read then.

A woman who can go that length can set you ablaze if provoked.

You shouldn't have gotten her pregnant.

Next she'll burn you

Congratulations you don jam Wetin pass you

ahnie:
Stop shifting the blames on her pregnancy,she's a toxic person,and I fear she will harm this man sooner after effeminating him.

Exactly

Divorce her

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

Why did you marry a poor woman?

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

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Go back and look at your wedding pictures.

Compare it with your regrets now.

Wedding vs Marriage.

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Ofemmanu1:
Is that woman is a flattino, I mean potopoto Jew.

My bloda run for your life o.

You will be in the fire next.

You're a foolish man for going tribal , you're foolish

Can I see the pictures?

If a woman does that kind of thing, you don't run online to seek for advise, you divorce her immediately for your own peace of mind. Sometimes I think these stories I see online can't be true. Why do people give their partners too much privilege?

RepoMan007:
Manage her pants with her until God see you through this phase, it could be hormonal changes mixed with financial issues you facing.

manage her pants with her ? You wicked oooo

Baba Run for your life.

She go burn you some day.

If my woman tries this with me, I swear on heaven , na her mama house she go born that pikin . Which kind rubbish be this? I get money na him I no give you ? Weak men everyday .


And don’t come here to talk of pregnancy hormone rubbish, my mama no do that to my papa. She no fit even try am ni .

Oga you are not a man! Men like you don’t realize in marriage, loyal men are the prize, because marriage favors women more than men. So, it is her loss if she loses you.
You are a simp that need women like her to teach you a lesson, so you stop making real men look bad.
Marriage is not do or die, so if you got a Jezebel warn her to change her ways. Ensure you don’t take minor insults, so major insults don’t come up!
If she refuses to change, kick her out of your life & leave the toxic marriage.

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

Oga check sombodi
Sompastorprenuer dey do am
Na so e de start
Bros just run away, e go kill u

RepoMan007:
Manage her pants with her until God see you through this phase, it could be hormonal changes mixed with financial issues you facing.

,quit the marriage

OP was dancing and smiling on his wedding day...
Young single men, learn oo..

What does men benefit from marriage?
Someone should enlighten me?
This is the second complaints from men seeing shege today

Modern day wife

mariahAngel:
Borrow some money if you have to, and give her to go see her mother, if that'll cause peace to reign.

By the way, what inspired your moniker?
Why did you decide to tag yourself that?
Na so una carry negativity wear for neck like bling-bling, when e begin manifest, una go start to dey lament.

@his moniker

He says it means God is NOT A MAN

frozen70:
Pls if you have half of the money let her go and see her mum

When she comes back you guys can talk about the boxer and let her know that she is becoming toxic

Then keep eyes on her, if she is remores about it, counsel her

Pregnancy can make a woman behave in a naughty way

Pls don't take this advise

Your cross… carry it but be sure you don’t end up dying before your time.

garriAndsugar:
Any person planning to get married to a poor Nigerian lady should make sure he has an escape route( alternative apartment) where you can run to when she misbehaves.
Now she has burnt your boxers you will now start moving tubeless

chai!! Which one be tubeless again oo nairaland