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vickydevoka:
Pregnancy makes current young Nigerian women behave anyhow because they think they are untouchable. My mama no misbehave for once. I fit swear

During your mums time, women were more disciplined and submissive

Now I can't really tell what's happening and some men are not helping matters all in the name of my babe

Trust women they love it when they get a good opportunity to be pet

abobote:
Pls don't take this advise

Let's read your own advice

This is the danger of marrying a slay Queen! Now your eye Don clear. show her more love be transparent with her about money. And make sure u do DNA to confirm if na really your pikin. U wey no get money how u go even get money for DNA. Oga na Demons and pregnancy hormones de control her. Show her more love. Be prayerfull, if u get side chicks na God de purnish u soo. Oga live a righteous life, and pray to God for mercy, your home will be restored In Jesus name.

I share your view. Besides is she her mother's doctor that she must travel at all cost to go see her at her husband's expense(it's better they send fund to her than for the travel if they/he have/has it) without being considerate about his current financial state? It is sad the way some ladies are brought up to exhibit devlish tendencies/entitlement mentality in the guise that a mr husband must rightly provide for the house. May our young men stop falling in stupid love to wicked souls and vice versa.

ahnie:
Stop shifting the blames on her pregnancy,she's a toxic person,and I fear she will harm this man sooner after effeminating him.

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

Run! Burning your clothes is a terrible red flag. Your boxers? She will set you ablaze one day or pour acid on you. What kind of woman is that? My brother, run o. You hear.

Buy other one naaa or go without one 😂😂😂

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

Honestly, this is a serious matter that l don't know what to say . Me as a man if l get threatened by a woman this way, my love for that woman will die straight away and that's d end because l will never beat a woman in my life.

Men benefit alot but as a man you must open your head more than your eyes before you propose to anyhow woman. I won't say more than that.

shantti:
What does men benefit from marriage?
Someone should enlighten me?
This is the second complaints from men seeing shege today

Jozilinn:
is it a must to visit her mum knowing fully well about the financial problem at home,if she can see 10k to send to the mum no problem, teaching work na another thing entirely I don't blame her besides she's also pregnant... try to get a better paying job,hmm it going to be fyn anyways just make sure you talk to her,shey if you die now na she go suffer am, everywhere na manage, what of her siblings?

The teachers I know are always angry, my brother.

RepoMan007:
That's an option too but it could be very much hormonal something mixed with financial something. He should slimfit her undies and share with her, love is boundless.

Those women who use pregnancy hormones as excuse for bad attitude will not dissipate such energy when it comes to their bosses at work or their customers.

During our parents era, our fathers are really Alpha male not we men of today that it is only our middle leg that we can boast of.

frozen70:
During your mums time, women were more disciplined and submissive

Now I can't really tell what's happening and some men are not helping matters all in the name of my babe

Trust women they love it when they get a good opportunity to be pet

Foodqueen:
Get out of that space early.

Life outside that space ain't easy.In church for example, they will say "singles,stand up".. You will be seated.they will say " married people, stand up"..you remain seated.You are almost 50 yrs.neither here nor there.emotional jangolova.Chai..no dey commot space anyhow ooo..

I hope you can get a soft loan so she can travel and see her mum. Women at times act like kids. Try your best because if her mother mistakenly answer the supreme call your wife may be more angry that you didn't allow her to see her mother.

As for your boxers, I pray God answer your prayer with a good paying job so the matter will be something to always laugh about.

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

Mumu man. You people will see a stupid person and still go and marry her.
How you guys put yourselves under a fool in the name of marriage baffles me.
How did you marry someone that can't manage a downtime in a home and work with you to change things? Mumu man.

frozen70:
During your mums time, women were more disciplined and submissive

Now I can't really tell what's happening and some men are not helping matters all in the name of my babe

Trust women they love it when they get a good opportunity to be pet

It's so annoying, my brother. Too many simps everywhere - making excuses for ill mannered women.

nedu666:
Oga are u aware that even pregnant women can be slapped around. If u don't want to slap her for doing silly shit. Then kick her out of ur house. As it stands she has see you finish as a weak somebody who takes any nonsense. You have two options

1. Slap her into reality. I dont mean beat her till she lose pregnancy. Just 5 slaps on each cheek.

2. Wake u at 2a.m and give her a dirty slap while she is sleeping.. if she wakes up and ask are u mad, follow up with another slap, after which u pack her things and throw her and her things outside. Let she call her family. When they come exaggerate her offence, accuse her of saying and doing things she did not. Turn the case on her head. Be a man

Werey

Chill, it might just be an answered prayer

Next time, she will burn you. Use your head now

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

bro, see your woman is frustrated. I understand you are as well but you just need to find a way out of your financial situation. Even though it means getting a paid job. Just get something of consistent cash flow

Arizoner:
shut up your dirty mouth. Your animalistic gender burnt his hubby's undies and this is all you have to say. Can I destroy your bra and go scot free? monkey!

You will be alright.

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

Apply newton's third law.....locate her pants and do justice to them

Na for where una de see this kind women marry self?

HarunaWest:
You want to use poverty to kill her. She will burn you eventually. Make una leg strong small before una go Marry, una no go hear word. Sorry ooo

So i dont know but what made you think if your leg strong small or well well self it will remain strong well in marriage... Honestly you dont know anything about life... Person wey no get today fit get tomorrow, person wey get today may no get tomorrow, sheybi you no know that one, dey there

una dey make this marriage thing fear me o. where has the love gone. Thank God no be your AMU she burn. pele.

Rubbiish:
The bold is easier said than done
Remember this is her first pregnancy, so that urge to have a child must be there, else she will start calling the man impotent. Truth is, it is extremely difficult to live with a woman in the same house & not get her pregnant after sometime. If u don't want to get a woman pregnant, it is best not to even marry

so do you think it's what you do, earn that caters for you ... No be the money wey you get dey solve your problem.. God no just wan disappoint you ... If one small thing do you now, you go see say your money no reach to take care of you

Why some people find it difficult to understand
Dis current Nigeria na is not dat easy. It is well, just be doing ur best and support wen cash comes in Bt if she do otherwise invite family members

Shame to many poor married couples

Who tell u to.go.marry such a liability ...comon 30l she demanded from.you and at d moment you dont have instead of the slowpoke to go borrow she tend to bring violence pga go and report her to her parents if she tries it any more .....report her to police

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

Next she will burn up your properties

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

HOPE YOU ARE NOT PART OF THOSE WHO VOTED FOR APC?, JUST ASKING BECAUSE THE EVIL THAT MEN DO LEAVE WITH THEM.

Run 4 ur dear life

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

Carry your cross..... you must have seen the handwriting on the wall before you get married to her but kpekus will not let you see clearly.

Carry your cross I repeat....