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Prettygirl200:
You no go ever gree, that's the problem

There are good guys. I m one of them.

Dindondin:
There are good guys. I m one of them.

hummm okay ooo

jfkenny:
I have moved on, another issue is attending a different church after marriage..I think she also want to be in control of the family..

sorry is that girl from anambra

Imo

QueenVaji:
sorry is that girl from anambra

alllivesmatter:
Are you talking about a woman with ego? Lol. Run while you can. She'll drive you nuts as a wife. Again, I repeat, she'll drive you NUTS as a wife.



Women with ego see nothing good in others but themselves. They're always right.

KEY STATEMENT "THEY ARE ALWAYS RIGHT"...

Mine is so proud and selfish..i call her the devil..and i know this will be a very big mistake to settle down with her cos i will never have rest of mind...but then shes well read and educated, beautiful and has a very high standard which are also the things i want...am just so confused bros....i also think it has something to do with anambra

Samantha124:
What do you love about me

And don't tell me about the looks because that would be lust, not love.

It ain't

Been following your mentions and topics for a while and it's drawing me close to you

kinzation:
It ain't
Been following your mentions and topics for a while and it's drawing me close to you

Hmm oga magnetic field welldone oo.

QueenVaji:
KEY STATEMENT "THEY ARE ALWAYS RIGHT"...

Mine is so proud and selfish..i call her the devil..and i know this will be a very big mistake to settle down with her cos i will never have rest of mind...but then shes well read and educated, beautiful and has a very high standard which are also the things i want...am just so confused bros....i also think it has something to do with anambra

"You call her the devil" but you're still so confused?

The ball is in your court Man.

Full Time.

LeeSmart:
Hmm oga magnetic field welldone oo.

Lmao
Guy shift abeg 😂

sheriffindy:
The sisi was a mutual friend, we were just friends for 2 years plus and I wasn't even interested in her and she knew. I knew she had a boyfriend which she confirmed..and all was cool.

Going forward, she chatted me up on Whatsapp one evening and was complaining that I'm harsh and not caring and ended up texting me "if I don't mind, I love you", so I was like let's try besides people were like that we fit each other. I also asked about her boyfriend which she told me that they don't communicate like that again (not that they broke up)...I was like ok oo.

But despite this girl opening up her feelings first to me, I noticed that I was still the one trying to correct her into showing affection and care towards me.

On Val's day..I bought stuffs for her but this girl never sent me a single val text till I complained later in the evening via WhatsApp of which she sent a val message...fine.

The next day..we took some pictures with her phone, as I was using her phone to transfer the pics to my WhatsApp..found out that she sent the message val message to another number..that her same ex she claimed they don't communicate well again.
She later begged n I let it slide due to some circumstances that happened with a mutual friend of ours.

Long story short..she wanted to travel to sort out her school stuffs (according to her oo) kept saying that she is scared that I would break up with her once she travels..I supported her to go ahead to sort out her school stuffs that nothing like break up was on my mind.

She travelled..but later dropped at a friend's place instead of her parents (of which she didn't tell me initially). Told me she forgot her phone charger while travelling ( a charger I bought for her). Like in the 4 days she spent there..we hardly communicate, her reason being that her phone was down and she gives it to her female friend she's squatting with who hardly stays at home at spends most of her time at her boyfriend's house.
This her friend in question, she never allowed me to talk with her or snap pics with her...when I asked her to buy a charger to keep our communication steady, she gave excuses that where it's sold is far and can't afford to trek such distance and moreover she has no cash with her and they don't accept transfers..like she was just saying it with such unseriousness...as usual in the next 5mins, she screenshoted a low battery image n was off again.

The next day .saw her online and was very angry with her and told her that I'm done with her and blocked her, I now used another Whatsapp number she didn't have to chat her up, with that I noticed she was online throughout that day. She later called me n begged me and I unblocked her...but already I've decided within me that she's another street naija girl pretending with an innocent face.

The next morning, she texted me that she's travelling to her parents place..asked her how come she's been online since with no battery issues, she said she has bought a charger, sent a screenshot of the charger, I noticed that the background of the place was different from where she stays. Also mind you, she never mentioned to me that she had plans of buying a charger yesterday.

She travelled to her parents place..gave her mum to speak with me briefly.

Now during our chats..she would be online but would hardly reply me even when she does..it's with short texts..asked her what's up, she said her dad is talking to her and she can't ignore him, I told her if u're busy with your dad why not tell me..she flared up that I'm angry and then said goodnight and went offline.

The next day,she apologized...but again I noticed that she will be online but whenever I come online and chat with her, she will reply me and then go offline again. One occasion, I got angry and told her that I knew all she has being doing and that she never told me how she got the charger, she cut the phone on me and that was all I needed, found out she blocked me on Whatsapp too which I blocked her as well.

Well,iv sent a text to her that she should not even try talking to me when she returns cos I might beat her Infront of her senior sister (the mutual friend) whom I've told that things are not ok between us and also that she was scared then cos she knew she was going to cheat on me once she travels and I would find out and break up with her.

I just wanted to be sure before calling it quits with her.

What a useless girl

[quote author=LeeSmart post=122288650]We are here to share our experience on our past (last) relationship.
Who was at fault or who brought about the abrute end of the r/ship... I knw that majority of the persons who are going to comment would surely fault their ex-partner (as per say na u holy pass).

As for me, i wasn't comfortable with her being around me. I suddenly realised she's way older than i am, she was 37yrs nd i was barely 26 at that time, so i called it a quite .

Goldenbliss1:
In 2021 by then I was in100lvl, I came across this handsome cute and very friendly guy. He wanted us to be in a relationship which I was totally against because to me I felt that it was too early to be in a relationship as such stage, and perhaps I was preparing for an external examination . He wanted me to be his future wife and not his university girlfriend (so romantic right?) but unfortunately I turned him down (sobbing).

But that does not stop us from becoming friends, he was very caring and matured, but me I was the anxious, immatured and introverted people, at times he would ask me if have eaten (I never knew that was a way/means of showing people that you care about them ) , he also went as far as sending me past questions.

Unfortunately along the way our friendship came to an end as a result of my immatured behaviour. what lead to that was , when he chatted me and I sent him a like thumb ,he gave me a warning never to send him such again that he does not like it, is comments was very harsh to me which I was not pleased with and I blocked him.

In other to starts this year without making an enemy I unblocked him and wished him a happy New year. which he replied, l just wished we could be friends again, but he is in a relationship and I wouldn't want to cause problems between both parties. We see each other almost everyday at times we communicate by waving at each other.

Nice Epitsle though.

So who has been drilling your borehole all those times or you have been doing the servicing by yourself.

This is what i'm really concerned about.

Jubilancy:
Genotype : my worst enemy: sigh leaves me wondering about what would have been

sorry about that, hope u have found another person

MIRACULOUS123:
Met this girl in school.
she's the intellectual type but also shy.
I approached her and she said she would like to know one or two things about my behavior before she can give in.
Girl studied me for 1 month like A.O.C and gave in the following month.

Meanwhile,i didn't know she just left a relationship, naso for one night oh,her ex chatted her and begged for reconciliation. Naso my girl tell me say make i give him space the following week.
The relationship was not up to 3 months,though it was shocking but nigga don move on.

nah bcuz maybe u no Bleep her well

Goldenbliss1:
In 2021 by then I was in100lvl, I came across this handsome cute and very friendly guy. He wanted us to be in a relationship which I was totally against because to me I felt that it was too early to be in a relationship as such stage, and perhaps I was preparing for an external examination . He wanted me to be his future wife and not his university girlfriend (so romantic right?) but unfortunately I turned him down (sobbing).


But that does not stop us from becoming friends, he was very caring and matured, but me I was the anxious, immatured and introverted people, at times he would ask me if have eaten (I never knew that was a way/means of showing people that you care about them ) , he also went as far as sending me past questions.


Unfortunately along the way our friendship came to an end as a result of my immatured behaviour. what lead to that was , when he chatted me and I sent him a like thumb ,he gave me a warning never to send him such again that he does not like it, is comments was very harsh to me which I was not pleased with and I blocked him.


In other to starts this year without making an enemy I unblocked him and wished him a happy New year. which he replied, l just wished we could be friends again, but he is in a relationship and I wouldn't want to cause problems between both parties. We see each other almost everyday at times we communicate by waving at each other.

this totally off point, it's about relationships not friendship

uptownemmygee:
She was complaining about my sugar mummy, sugar mummy wey be say nah she dey give me money wey I dey spend on her.

Link me to your sugar mummy sister or work mate

Silentgroper:
isn't letsotho (in) south africa

so you finally use your school fees for bet9ja

Cazzim:
sorry about that, hope u have found another person

Thank you for responding to this message : no I haven’t found someone else but I am looking

Jubilancy:
Thank you for responding to this message : no I haven’t found someone else but I am looking

sorry about that.

were did u base?

Jubilancy:
Thank you for responding to this message : no I haven’t found someone else but I am looking

don't worried it's gonna be alright,
were do u base?

Cazzim:
don't worried it's gonna be alright,
were do u base?

I’m based in Lagos

Jubilancy:
I’m based in Lagos

really, well me too,
may I send u email or get your contact?

headbasher96:
well i have been finding hard to date a girl since then. No matter how honest she might been, I only see the bad side in whatever dey Do. it seems something is wrong with me

Kpele

Cazzim:
really, well me too,
may I send u email or get your contact?

An email is fine

This kind just want no strings attached. you re a nice guy. kilokan boss no be to keep you for bleep.

sheriffindy:
The sisi was a mutual friend, we were just friends for 2 years plus and I wasn't even interested in her and she knew. I knew she had a boyfriend which she confirmed..and all was cool.

Going forward, she chatted me up on Whatsapp one evening and was complaining that I'm harsh and not caring and ended up texting me "if I don't mind, I love you", so I was like let's try besides people were like that we fit each other. I also asked about her boyfriend which she told me that they don't communicate like that again (not that they broke up)...I was like ok oo.

But despite this girl opening up her feelings first to me, I noticed that I was still the one trying to correct her into showing affection and care towards me.

On Val's day..I bought stuffs for her but this girl never sent me a single val text till I complained later in the evening via WhatsApp of which she sent a val message...fine.

The next day..we took some pictures with her phone, as I was using her phone to transfer the pics to my WhatsApp..found out that she sent the message val message to another number..that her same ex she claimed they don't communicate well again.
She later begged n I let it slide due to some circumstances that happened with a mutual friend of ours.

Long story short..she wanted to travel to sort out her school stuffs (according to her oo) kept saying that she is scared that I would break up with her once she travels..I supported her to go ahead to sort out her school stuffs that nothing like break up was on my mind.

She travelled..but later dropped at a friend's place instead of her parents (of which she didn't tell me initially). Told me she forgot her phone charger while travelling ( a charger I bought for her). Like in the 4 days she spent there..we hardly communicate, her reason being that her phone was down and she gives it to her female friend she's squatting with who hardly stays at home at spends most of her time at her boyfriend's house.
This her friend in question, she never allowed me to talk with her or snap pics with her...when I asked her to buy a charger to keep our communication steady, she gave excuses that where it's sold is far and can't afford to trek such distance and moreover she has no cash with her and they don't accept transfers..like she was just saying it with such unseriousness...as usual in the next 5mins, she screenshoted a low battery image n was off again.

The next day .saw her online and was very angry with her and told her that I'm done with her and blocked her, I now used another Whatsapp number she didn't have to chat her up, with that I noticed she was online throughout that day. She later called me n begged me and I unblocked her...but already I've decided within me that she's another street naija girl pretending with an innocent face.

The next morning, she texted me that she's travelling to her parents place..asked her how come she's been online since with no battery issues, she said she has bought a charger, sent a screenshot of the charger, I noticed that the background of the place was different from where she stays. Also mind you, she never mentioned to me that she had plans of buying a charger yesterday.

She travelled to her parents place..gave her mum to speak with me briefly.

Now during our chats..she would be online but would hardly reply me even when she does..it's with short texts..asked her what's up, she said her dad is talking to her and she can't ignore him, I told her if u're busy with your dad why not tell me..she flared up that I'm angry and then said goodnight and went offline.

The next day,she apologized...but again I noticed that she will be online but whenever I come online and chat with her, she will reply me and then go offline again. One occasion, I got angry and told her that I knew all she has being doing and that she never told me how she got the charger, she cut the phone on me and that was all I needed, found out she blocked me on Whatsapp too which I blocked her as well.

Well,iv sent a text to her that she should not even try talking to me when she returns cos I might beat her Infront of her senior sister (the mutual friend) whom I've told that things are not ok between us and also that she was scared then cos she knew she was going to cheat on me once she travels and I would find out and break up with her.

I just wanted to be sure before calling it quits with her.

Jubilancy:
An email is fine

have done that

Cazzim:
this totally off point, it's about relationships not friendship

Every relationship starts from friendship