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tmxme:
Na the girl I feel sorry for

pocohantas:
Every single lady that left Nigerian men is regretting it way into her 70s. I bet my friend's ex in Ijagemo is saying the same thing while she is happily married to another guy with two boys. If the homebased guy had created a thread here, you people would still claim she would regret it for living him to marry a diasporan. Please, get over yourselves and stop waiting for your EXes to regret.

Regret indeed. Na the ones wey dey with una for 200yrs while pursuing better suitors no regret am. All this story when women leave, but men leave their gfs and wives everyday.

Regards

BeigJawnson:
If long distance relationship doesn't work for you never means it doesn't work for people. So why calling him mumu. Even those who got married from same village still get heart broken. Those that mean they are mumu too as well for believing in close distance relationship? Abi eyin you wan talk again?

Dancebreaker:
Poco, one thing you do often is to generalise. Maybe you just make up things here, so you believe other fantasize too.
A woman whose 9ja hubby now has several other wives/concubines outside and hardly come home? Well, maybe that's normal thing for some women in marriage.

What matters to me is that it was a blessing in disguise. At least she had the chance to follow another man and she took it. Enjoying or regretting it is immaterial. Nobody can blame me for holding her down. I wish her well.

I have remained close to her birth family who have always been good to me since childhood. I have always told them to support her, even when they were livid.

You have your rights to your opinions. Good luck!

doggedfighter:
UK based coming back to Nigeria to propose to a Nigerian girlfriend that will kick him out of his house once she gets there.


Our brother didn't see oyinbo women ? Haba !!

I thought you you guys said oyinbo women rush you people there.


They didn't see this man or what ?

He still came back for a Nigerian girl.

The young lady went to her ex boyfriend and started a family which is what's important to her.

She doesn't want to wait for an abroadian.

Go back ,sir

Praxis758:
Any dog that lives above 2.5 years in either Ondo town or Calabar should automatically make it to the Guinness book of records.

CaptainFM1:
I never dated nor marry Oyinbo girls in my over 20years of travelling round the world. My point is it's absolutely not worth it coming back to Nigeria for the sake of picking a love.
The rot in our girls has peaked since the advent of smart phones. On the other side, 9ja babes abroad are far worse and don't come to their senses until they've reached the left over age.

aremubabs:
It is not about sex all the time.



This is the mistake men make.



They think a woman is all about sex and money all the time.



Sometimes, a girl wants more than that. She wants love. She wants talks. She wants just you.




At least, I had a girl like that whom I lost. It is still hurting me terribly.

jaxxy:
Don't know who or what ure talking about. I see black guys bagging white girls with no single stress. Just look good and athletic and ure a winner in their books.

Stop crying over black men cos we are now desirable allover the western world rather Nigerian girls should go work on the character, arrogance and entitlement mentality cos it's demarketing u guys even to other African countries when they hear how Nigerian men lament about ur attitude. Nobody wants to fall in love with wahala.

Ogechi98:
Oga rest abeg Shea na only white uk babes dey UK? Other European babes no dey there?

Lexusgs430:
In your very myopic, bitter, twisted and limited scope, twined with the unnecessary vile to insult on a peaceful saturday morning........

Is it only white girls that exist abroad....... Travelling they say, is another form of education........

CaptainFM1:
I believe him, cos similar thing happened to me. In my case I visited America and found out she was pregnant. It's the main reason why even if they dash me American visa, I will never accept it. I guess it's the only place I won't want to ever visit again.

I know what pain he will be going through. My advise to him is to move on. Make he find another babe for this 9ja. Home and Abroad, na the same wahala though.

Tadadobe:
Well,I agree with you on this. The dating market in the west favor men that are good looking and tall. If you're not within this bracket, you'll never be successful in the dating market in the west,you will never. That said,the statement about Nigerian women getting demarketed ain't true. Tell a prospect you want to ask out where you're from ; Nigeria and watch her disappear. I've seen it happen everytime. They see you this as wretched and opportunist. Go and verify this

CondenseMilk:
You didn't know she was pregnant within same year!

Big lie!

UK has wifi in all homes.

You want to marry a girl and you didn't do video call with her for 1 year.

Yoighaman:
So because of one woman wey do you strong thing, you will never visit the US again? Doesn't sound logical bro.

Victor2707:
You are clueless.

grandstar:
I'm Ondo and our dogs live more than that

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
I saw 32years old dog in portugal, world oldest dog

Tadadobe:
Well,I agree with you on this. The dating market in the west favor men that are good looking and tall. If you're not within this bracket, you'll never be successful in the dating market in the west,you will never. That said,the statement about Nigerian women getting demarketed ain't true. Tell a prospect you want to ask out where you're from ; Nigeria and watch her disappear. I've seen it happen everytime. They see you this as wretched and opportunist. Go and verify this

Beebah321:
Him even get strength add UK flag sef

BeigJawnson:
Clueless as how? Even people in close distance relationship get hesrt breaks ... Will you still call them mumu cos they believe in close distance relationship?

Victor2707:
Long-distance relationships can never work.

You have difficult understanding English language or you are just one emotional being.

I never said anything about close distance relationships or any other form of relationships.

BeigJawnson:
Can you just calm down and stop acting too hot here. Yes you never made mention of close distance relationship, but I am asking you. Do people don't have heart breaks in close distance relationship? Cos you are saying I I have difficulty in understanding English .... And who told you long distance relationships don't work? I am asking you? Omini-knowest. If long distance relationship can't work with you doesn't mean it can't work with others....

Victor2707:
You are chaotic.

Dreamhighnow:
So u believe the story lol