Fineman2:
What do you think about this situation that she has found herself in? What would you advice?

Hello Omajuwa. I am a 28-year-old orphan who got married about a year ago. I had to resign my job so as to relocate to Ibadan after our wedding. 5months into our marriage, my husband was laid off his job. His family has since been there for us. Even his best-friend who was not in support of our union before we got married has been helpful.

Since my husband lost his job, he gets angry at the slightest provocation and we fight almost everyday of the week. The fight we had few weeks ago was the most heated we have ever had. He slapped me and said a lot of hurtful things such as calling me bad luck, then locked me outside. I had nowhere to go.

So I called his best-friend to plead with him. It was futile. His friend who is single took me to his home. My tears were uncontrollable. While trying to be supportive, one thing led to another, and we had sex. Since then, we have all been living like that night never happened. My husband never apologized and things are still the same.


However, a few days ago, I found out that I am pregnant. How do I tell my husband who does not have a job that we are about to have a child in our condition? How do I know who the child belongs to between them? Do I get rid of it? Could the pregnancy be a chance at a better life with his friend who is financially bouyant? Is this marriage still worth saving? What do I do? Please help me.

dawnomike:
In Ibadan, this is what they call Ogbenutan...

SAMUEL1947:
Women......fear that gender. A prostitute, I wish am not married. They are all same especially those kogi woman, am regretting mine

SAMUEL1947:
Women......fear that gender. A prostitute, I wish am not married. They are all same especially those kogi woman, am regretting mine

Fineman2:
She made a serious mistake by getting pregnant for another man

cocolacec:

There was no mistake here.The friend took advantage of her vulnerable state to have sex with her.

Sonnobax15:

Something led to another and it all ended up in sexxx? . I pray your husband shouldn't have the balls to accept you back knowingly or unknowingly of what transpired between you and his best frienemy

Runnerzz:
That was how like 3days back a friend of mine slapped his babe at my place after inviting her over probably to spend time with him once we're done at my place. He now left angrily and swore not to let her in once she comes knocking. True to his words she came back to my place knocking. Me I dey inside kitchen dey chop chicken from pot cos we were high before she even came. I left the kitchen and opened for her but when I saw her countenance I just knew letting her in would be bad. So I told her to let me meet her outside. Went back in to continue eating from the pot until I slept off. Only for my guy to come to my compound very early around six. I saw him when I went to get water from the kitchen through the window blinds that were slightly apart. Thank God I used my head. Women can be very vulnerable during such times and can easily be taken advantage of. It's why u should try not to push them too far. I think she already knows what to do as it seems she's already thought it out to be a better option to go with the rich friend.

Wait oo she's even a married woman not just a girlfriend 🙆🏽‍♂️

cocolacec:


Men are more promiscuous than women.Stop shaming women.If any gender is to be called prostitute,it should be men whose John Thomas have no control once they sight a beautiful women,bakassi or Man U.

Not all men fancy bakassi or the Man u as mentioned.



If you married a promiscuous women, ask her if she was a product of rape by a man at a tender age.Men create promiscuous women.

SAMUEL1947:
Women......fear that gender. A prostitute, I wish am not married. They are all same especially those kogi woman, am regretting mine

Benki003:
Tales by moonlight


It's very easy to know it's made up

Brownshoe:
Fictional

Fineman2:
No, this is true life story

Brownshoe:
that's means the lady's eye is on that guy right from onset

Fineman2:
What do you think about this situation that she has found herself in? What would you advice?

Hello Omajuwa. I am a 28-year-old orphan who got married about a year ago. I had to resign my job so as to relocate to Ibadan after our wedding. 5months into our marriage, my husband was laid off his job. His family has since been there for us. Even his best-friend who was not in support of our union before we got married has been helpful.

Since my husband lost his job, he gets angry at the slightest provocation and we fight almost everyday of the week. The fight we had few weeks ago was the most heated we have ever had. He slapped me and said a lot of hurtful things such as calling me bad luck, then locked me outside. I had nowhere to go.

So I called his best-friend to plead with him. It was futile. His friend who is single took me to his home. My tears were uncontrollable. While trying to be supportive, one thing led to another, and we had sex. Since then, we have all been living like that night never happened. My husband never apologized and things are still the same.


However, a few days ago, I found out that I am pregnant. How do I tell my husband who does not have a job that we are about to have a child in our condition? How do I know who the child belongs to between them? Do I get rid of it? Could the pregnancy be a chance at a better life with his friend who is financially bouyant? Is this marriage still worth saving? What do I do? Please help me.

SAMUEL1947:
Women......fear that gender. A prostitute, I wish am not married. They are all same especially those kogi woman, am regretting mine

dawnomike:
In Ibadan, this is what they call Ogbenutan...