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I’m not the one who made the comment but I’ll answer your question

Who knacks 50 year olds? Their husbands/wives if they are married. If not married, then willing sex partner/s. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Also women peak sexually in their 40s compared to men to who do in their 20s. Now don’t respond if you don’t understand what peaks entails

jamesversion:
Maybe i need to remind you of your comment where you insinuated that when a woman comes of age (early 50s upwards) she gets an unprecedented amount of knacks.

I'm asking you as a woman who knows the workings of the female category to explain why you feel you're in season in your 50s as compared to fresher, juicer 19-25 year old ladies.

Who knacks you at that age, your age mates or small boys. I'm only asking to know. Don't take my comment personally.

May his soul rest in peace. Amen

TheMostComplex1:
His problem was that he couldn't do without the luxury he has experienced hence he refused to go back to acting and when some producers were trying to relaunch his career he was demanding for 10m

How do you know this?

The moment I read "Goodbye Tomorrow," I stopped reading. Indomie generation won't understand. That movie title just took me decades back in nostalgia. The people who were with me in those days, some of whom are dead now. Chai. That movie, Goodbye Tomorrow, was incredibly emotional. Hilder Dokuba ran for office last year, but she died of AIDS in that movie. Long time things.

cococandy:
I’m not the one who made the comment but I’ll answer your question

Who knacks 50 year olds? Their husbands/wives if they are married. If not married, then willing sex partner/s. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Also women peak sexually in their 40s compared to men to who do in their 20s. Now don’t respond if you don’t understand what peaks entails

Given Nigeria's sugar daddy culture, a 50yr old woman will most likely get lesser sex compared to a 50yr old man. Most young actively seek out sugar daddies.

And that your women peak sexually in their 40s is a hoax. After menopause, women's sexual drive goes downhill. They become less attractive and more irritant. Who haS time to fvck such specimens... Well, everyone doesn't have same standards.

jamesversion:
Given Nigeria's sugar daddy culture, a 50yr old woman will most likely get lesser sex compared to a 50yr old man. Most young actively seek out sugar daddies.

And that your women peak sexually in their 40s is a hoax. After menopause, women's sexual drive goes downhill. They become less attractive and more irritant. Who haS time to fvck such specimens... Well, everyone doesn't have same standards.

So all the men you know stopped sleeping with their wives as soon as they turned 50 and started sleeping around with 18-25 year olds?

Yes or no

Wealthoptulent:
Lobatan... obviously the sisters to 'SAINT OBI' are bad blood, Gender backing gender!

Don't misquote me, good ladies are out there, but discovering them is like a business of GOLD & DIAMOND MINNING!

Very soon, the TABLE go Turn, na dem go dey Pay GROOM'S PRICE with us SIGNING "PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT" .. MARRIAGE is LIKE A ROUND ABOUT WITH FOUR LANES JUNCTIONS, u miss am na 3rd mainland bridge no quick u turn oo.
CHOOSE YOUR DEVIL WISELY


Don't get confused, its Saint Obi's Sisters [ one in Jos & USA].

If they were his sisters, how could he blamed his wife for doing nothing?

Go and read it again, this time without sentimental emotions.

cococandy:
So all the men you know stopped sleeping with their wives as soon as they turned 50 and started sleeping around with 18-25 year olds?

Yes or no

Yes, All the men I know. And I'm towing that line. The past 8yrs, I've only had things with 19-24yr old ladies. And I'm in my mid 30s.

Odingo1:
Don’t you know that you can emotionally kill someone by the words you tell them or by your altitude towards someone, the person will be heartbroken and cannot sleep at night, mental illness coupled with depression will set in, then the person become sick and die. Haven’t you see people that commit suicide because of bullying.

One can cause someone death indirectly through their actions towards someone.

You are asking what the wife did, the wife allows his brothers to constantly come to his house to beat his husband. They are from rich family so the husband was bullied to death.

Don't bother yourself bro, it's obvious cococandy cannot relate - after all she is a woman.

jamesversion:
Yes, All the men I know. And I'm towing that line. The past 8yrs, I've only had things with 19-24yr old ladies. And I'm in my mid 30s.

Ah. My condolences to the women in your family

cococandy:
Ah. My condolences to the women in your family

Nobody died na. Afterall, some women are catholic Nuns. The most important thing for women at that age is to eat and live healthy, be Godly and manage whatever amount of sex they get from their partners. They have almost practically run their sexual race, its time to watch and pray. The aim is to make heaven.

I hope you get, preach the message.

DrOBD:
He had health challenges and non of his big men friend could help him?

He has gone to rest now, may God rest his soul, amen.

Didn't you read the path where Zik said he had become a recluse and separated himself from his friends. How were they supposed to help him when they could not even reach him.

Lincolnburrows:
Are you the wife?

Yes, I am.
Can you rest now.

cococandy:
How do you know he was a gold digger ?

Smh.

Use your sense.
He could not live without his wife who was source of his money.

Despite he left her house with three CRV, he still could not maintain it and live his own independent life.
But continuously became sick and sick till he died.

jamesversion:
Nobody died na. Afterall, some women are catholic Nuns. The most important thing for women at that age is to eat and live healthy, be Godly and manage whatever amount of sex they get from their partners. They have almost practically run their sexual race, it’s time to watch and pray. The aim is to make heaven.

I hope you get, preach the message.

Are the men exempt from making heaven?

Or does God have separate rules for them?

I feel like I should ask. How many 19 year olds almost became your step-moms ?

juman:
Use your sense.
He could not live without his wife who was source of his money.

Despite he left her house with three CRV, he still could not maintain it and live his own independent life.
But continuously became sick and sick till he died.

You’re creating your own narrative now

When he realized he could not live without a rich wife, why cant he look for another rich woman?
Certainly it would have been easy for him getting another one.

Acidosis:
Old age favour women? This is really new considering the rate at which old men become sugar daddies.

I still believe that old age will only "favour" women in a Tinubu/Oluremi or Buhari/Aisha kind of relationship. Buhari is 80 years. Aisha is just 52. I won't consider Aisha's state an advantage or "favour." Have you imagined an 80 year old Aisha? You have to imagine a typical 80 year old woman to draw this conclusion.

We also can't use Tinubu's situation to draw any conclusion. Even after declaring a fraudulent age, Tinubu is still 10 years older than Remi. Remove the fraud and we are nearing a 20 year gap. These are no advantages in my own understanding. Both Buhari and Tinubu have lived and seen it all, they have been previously married to other women with kids here and there.

A woman of 60 plus is still rocking life, Acidosis. How many men of 60 plus can do that?
Here, I have seen 60 plus ladies and men. Women are favoured darling.
Some men can go for young babes but can they keep up. I can remember when ffk and his baby mama were logging it out. She said he never got it up even once. You are talking of vegetables tinubu and buhari
What's a man if his manhood is emasculated. His wife will look outside. That is my message. Besides, In naija setting, mama is busy junketeering from one state, country to the other visiting children for omugwo and even relatives that she represents as their mum having good time. How many of our men has that privilege unless well travelled and rich guys. Infact, as una age una think more of home.

A woman can also decide to tune up with cosmetic surgery. Its her choice. Chris jenner comes to mind. Ladies have less worries at later age than men. Men are looking for successors while ladies are busy training who will help take care of them. Weary them out.
See the difference?

cococandy:
Are the men exempt from making heaven?

Or does God have separate rules for them?

I feel like I should ask. How many 19 year olds almost became your step-moms ?

Seems you don't give up on arguments easily, so you're back.

Are Men exempt from making heaven Or does God have separate rules for them? Nope they arent exempt from making heaven. And the rules were slightly bent for them....in the last days, men are permitted to have more than one sexual partner. Isaiah 4v1.


How many 19yr olds became my stepmom? Zilch, Zero, None. Cos you don't date at that age to marry. You just pass time. Sugar daddies are for fun not marriage.

And if I may, I said 19-24yrs old. Why are you particularly hammering on 19yrs.

If the saint obi i knew couldn’t move one with his life because of a simple thing as a failed marriage then it is obvious he was a gold digger and relying on his wife for financial support. As a man strive to hold your own, in my family my wife knows too well of my financial prowess so she knows she is covered for life long as she remains loyal.

NtoAkwaIbom:
In essence divorce led to his quick death because he was a family man...
Elon musk n Bill gate n Bezoz Dem wey divorce nkor.

Moral lesson.

Don't be a family man, so you can always move on with life.

u dey mind the coward, it is very obvious the wife was the one feeding him and she got tired, baba went into hunger instantly.

cococandy:
But even the sisters are the ones releasing statements to say the wife isn’t responsible for his death. imagine if such lioness sisters can say that about her, why would I even have an opinion? me that doesn’t know them.

I think the only reason why I even commented on this issue is that I saw how scarily easy it is to create a narrative and have people jump on it and everyone begins to swear it’s the truth. This person that started the whole “she killed him” thing only said what Saint Obi allegedly told him before dying. Now Saint is dead who’s to verify that information? And just like that everyone ran with it saying she killed him. I’m like wow 🫠. It’s that easy to get people to believe anything?

I read in the post where it was stated he had about four surgeries. Surgeries for what ailment exactly?. Except there exist a surgery for heartbreaks, what killed him is known to his family.

I'm beginning to love you, old woman.

descarado:
A woman of 60 plus is still rocking life, Acidosis. How many men of 60 plus can do that?
Here, I have seen 60 plus ladies and men. Women are favoured darling.
Some men can go for young babes but can they keep up. I can remember when ffk and his baby mama were logging it out. She said he never got it up even once. You are talking of vegetables tinubu and buhari
What's a man if his manhood is emasculated. His wife will look outside. That is my message. Besides, In naija setting, mama is busy junketeering from one state, country to the other visiting children for omugwo and even relatives that she represents as their mum having good time. How many of our men has that privilege unless well travelled and rich guys. Infact, as una age una think more of home.

A woman can also decide to tune up with cosmetic surgery. Its her choice. Chris jenner comes to mind. Ladies have less worries at later age than men. Men are looking for successors while ladies are busy training who will help take care of them. Weary them out.
See the difference?

It's okay to say that women become less dependent as they age. I'll agree.

But to say that women look better as they age is flawed. No man will touch a 65 year-old woman with a long pole, except her husband and ritualists. Many simply retire to face their children.

DrOBD:
He had health challenges and non of his big men friend could help him?

He has gone to rest now, may God rest his soul, amen.

It wasn't about money.

Make we check well o. Who dey chop Linda Amobi work when she started getting problem with her late husband? Or who dey kgbensh am now.
Dem fit don p.oison Obi o.

Acidosis:
Old age favour women? This is really new considering the rate at which old men become sugar daddies.

I still believe that old age will only "favour" women in a Tinubu/Oluremi or Buhari/Aisha kind of relationship. Buhari is 80 years. Aisha is just 52. I won't consider Aisha's state an advantage or "favour." Have you imagined an 80 year old Aisha? You have to imagine a typical 80 year old woman to draw this conclusion.

We also can't use Tinubu's situation to draw any conclusion. Even after declaring a fraudulent age, Tinubu is still 10 years older than Remi. Remove the fraud and we are nearing a 20 year gap. These are no advantages in my own understanding. Both Buhari and Tinubu have lived and seen it all, they have been previously married to other women with kids here and there.

The favor I understand here is not sex related.

Old women get natural favour and help from the world. It is like she's 18 - 27 again.

Even Biblically, there is no emphasis on caring for widowers (who we assune would be older men) like there is for widows.

On this same NL and in the real world, men often complain how they are 'abandoned' in old age, not reaping the fruits of their labour while their wives are jetting from country to country doing omugwo.

Women also tend to build emotional relationships they can leverage on in old age.

Neddstark:
The is a case of women supporting their rich gender against their own blood brother. Fear Women. Men need to start helping themselves. RIP Obinna Nwafor.

You people should read to understand a passage please!

The accusation is on Saint Obi's wife and her siblings...Not Saint Obi's siblings.

Moniya4Real:
You definitely deserve a Gold medal for this apt and concise response bro. I ♥️It. More wisdom to your brainy head.

Educated illiterates who don't read to understand. Tueh!

Shame just leave you dey catch me for you.

Acidosis:
It's okay to say that women become less dependent as they age. I'll agree.

But to say that women look better as they age is flawed. No man will touch a 65 year-old woman with a long pole, except her husband and ritualists. Many simply retire to face their children.

Men don't look at a 65 yrs old woman because of the cultural tag attached to older woman and an old man is attracted by a younger girl solely because of financial protection and power.
An older woman don't care about marriage again, an older man may want marriage
An older woman has biological clock against her as regards giving birth which a makes a younger man look stupid courting her if he desires kids.

An average older woman don't really care in Nigeria, except enjoy life but I tell you, they fair better. And because they don't care, that's why you don't see them dressing up to kill. What am i saying, go to parties and see them balling. I will use where I live as an example, a 60yrs old single woman just want to be single. Yep, she is still courted and treated like a lady. You will hear statements like my mum's new boyfriend, etc and these ladies are old.

Leave naija stereotype. We demonised women to only live for their husbands and kids only thats why we think they have no life outside that setting and find it hard to believe an older woman will still be toasted like the younger ones. Black women are catching up now cos they no longer live for their kids. Check out youtube and see older men versus older women in action.
Even older male celebrities shine less than their female colleagues.

djon78:
You dey mind am

Even men in there 50s and 60s do still move on

One Prof I know moved on in his 60s when he couldn't tolerate the nonsense from his Doctor wife and remarried a younger woman

It all just depends on individual

This your story seems familiar.

Uniport?

ajakuai:
This your story seems familiar.

Uniport?

Something like that

descarado:
Men don't look at a 65 yrs old woman because of the cultural tag attached to older woman and an old man is attracted by a younger girl solely because of financial protection and power.
An older woman don't care about marriage again, an older man may want marriage
An older woman has biological clock against her as regards giving birth which a makes a younger man look stupid courting her if he desires kids.

An average older woman don't really care in Nigeria, except enjoy life but I tell you, they fair better. And because they don't care, that's why you don't see them dressing up to kill. What am i saying, go to parties and see them balling. I will use where I live as an example, a 60yrs old single woman just want to be single. Yep, she is still courted and treated like a lady. You will hear statements like my mum's new boyfriend, etc and these ladies are old.

Leave naija stereotype. We demonised women to only live for their husbands and kids only thats why we think they have no life outside that setting and find it hard to believe an older woman will still be toasted like the younger ones. Black women are catching up now cos they no longer live for their kids. Check out youtube and see older men versus older women in action.
Even older male celebrities shine less than their female colleagues.

I have close family relatives that are in this age range you are saying.

A 65 years old woman is already a Granny
Where she get time for Love? Where?
They don't even have time for sex again

But a 75 years old man healthy can still be very Hot and still attract even younger women

I am not even talking of 65 years old men here

The secret for every man is to begin early to take proper care of his health and body

Latest from 30s they should start eating Clean
Excercise regularly
Do regular medical check up

Anyone that does this will still be balling in his 70s

I learnt this from my Dad
He will be 80 in 2 years time
But has been sound physically
Not on any medication
You can take him for a 65 years old
Because of good choices he made from early years
Never seen him taking alcohol
Very choosy in eating

Even so much stronger than my mum who is early 70s
Infact my Dad is the one that takes care of her
Because all of us have left home
Except the Nanny that comes within the week to clean and Cook for them