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On Twitter a few days ago, I saw a thread where a few guys claimed that it is so easy to know a promiscuous girl just from her looks and from interacting with her.

One of the guys said, "I laugh when people say you cannot tell that a girl bleeps different guys or is into hook-up business. There are always signs."

I wondered what these signs were myself.

I didn't want to start asking each of the guys individually on the thread, so I decided to come and ask here in the largest collection of Guys wey sabi.

What are the signs you see that immediately tell you that a lady is promiscuous or runs or hook-up?

I believe there are a ton of naive young men on this forum who would benefit from learning this information to know what to look out for in the future.

PS. Girls who want to comment against profiling or bring up exceptions to invalidate the men's contributions here should not bother to comment.

Pansophist, your insights will also be appreciated.

It is not appropriate or fair to label someone as "promiscuous" based solely on a conversation or interaction with them. Promiscuity is a subjective term that can carry negative connotations and is not a valid basis for judging someone's character.

When engaging in conversation with someone, focus on getting to know them as an individual rather than making assumptions or judgments based on their personal choices or behavior.

Some of the innocent looking modestly dressed ones do the worst behind closed doors. You better don't believe any woman is ever decent. So you can't tell by any physical signs, don't be deceived.

Wahala 🤣

I've seen very decent women codedly sleeping around ..

Leg chains.

Waist beads

Tatoo


Always online

She have plenty male friends.

She's into make wares- home delivery

She's a bank marketer/ insurance

She's bleaching/ tonig her skin

She's a single mom

Plenty plenty signs o


Open ya eyes o my guy

Loosed toto.

Even if she uses alum it would later slacken as the lady gets wet.

pansophist:
Generally speaking, If a young woman is not a virgin and has never being married, then your default assumption is that she is promiscuous. This may not be true twenty years ago. I'm referring to now. Today. 21st century.


If for example a promiscuous woman have profiled you as husband material, and start forming good girl for you, then time will expose her if you sheathe your sword and observe.

By sheathing your sword, I mean that you should come off as someone that is completely naive in the game. If they smell your naivety, then they become emboldened and drop the nail, hammer and cross you'll crucify her with

Generally speaking, Promiscuous ladies have one thing in common, and it's their "expertise" when dealing with men. Like specialist, you can always feel the vibe of their over-experience behaviour in every interaction.

You'll notice lots of inconsistencies in her words in topics relating to sex, since she is trying to maintain her good girl image. Sexual topics doesn't shy her and she has a point in sexual matters that can defended like it's her thesis.

Ask her how long a man should last, or what constitute good sex. This question is something a woman that is still sexually pure will not be able to answer and even if she does, her points will be shaky.

Interaction with her will appear well-doctored, lacks originality, spontaneity, filled with games and open-ended route to escape being held accountable in case you detect a lie.

If lying comes naturally to her, then the chance is very high that she is promiscuous. Men lie to create good image of themselves, while women lie to fake a good image.

Also expect lots of questions concerning your sexual prowess, and to know your opinion of what you think about promiscuous women. Because she wants to know which colour, length, and thickness of nail you'll hammer her with if you find out about her lifestyle.

Also watch her close friends. If they are promiscuous, then she is promiscuous. Also observe where she catches fun. If her idea of fun is clubbing constantly, and thirst trapping via revealing clothes, then also a hint.

If she is also secretive with her phone with password everywhere, that's also a hint. Promiscuity is like drugs, you have to be banged steady. So her phone will be more secured than the white house in the US.

Although many are smart. They will delete any clue during visits, or come with a different phone, so the phone password thingy might be stale. You can't catch some through that method.

But one thing that will never fail you is patience. Just wait, and observe. An unrighteous person trying to appear righteous will nail themselves with time. Time is something humans can't fight against, and exposes everyone and everything.

Also see if she has a very high taste, and compare if her income can afford it. If she dresses flashy with expensive gadget, while she obviously doesn't work or/and comes from a wealthy home, then her honeypot was the payment.

Lemme stop here. This should help.

Man, you are brilliant!

Gerrard59:
Man, you are brilliant!

Thank you

Women can pretend...I pity any man that thinks he can judge a lady from her actions..

1. The woman is a born Machiavellian. She can camouflage to protect or defend herself in the least forceful way.

2. Only a few people are skilled in understanding body language and can peep into the nature and character of a person by merely looking at them; making judgments through physique and appearance, looking at their faces and eyes.

3. To avoid wrong judgment when it comes to a skilled manipulative woman, you can know if she's promiscuous by elongating your communication with her.

During the discourse, don't act as a saint. Even if you're an angel, pretend to be like the average demon person who doesn't give a fvck about morals and values.

This makes her feel relaxed. She will find you comfortable and trustworthy, and open her well of dark secrets for you to see.
Make sure you throw jokes, smile, and laugh during the discourse. It eases tension. With good rapport, you'll get to know her better.

4. There are others you can predict their character from their mode of dressing, hair color, tattoos, multiple piercings, and spoken words.

However, judgment from this angle has more to do with cultural trends and what's acceptable by society. Notwithstanding, many ladies are guilty on this side of judgment.

5. The best way to discern with higher accuracy is the long form of communication and close contact.

Thanks.

Joblessness!

Women mata ..

I tire!

pansophist:
Generally speaking, If a young woman is not a virgin and has never been married, then your default assumption is that she is promiscuous. This may not be true twenty years ago. I'm referring to it now. Today. 21st century.


If for example a promiscuous woman has profiled you as husband material, and started forming a good girl for you, then time will expose her if you sheathe your sword and observe.

By sheathing your sword, I mean that you should come off as someone that is completely naive in the game. If they smell your naivety, then they become emboldened and drop the nail, hammer and cross you'll crucify her with

Generally speaking, Promiscuous ladies have one thing in common, and it's their "expertise" when dealing with men. Like a specialist, you can always feel the vibe of their over-experience behavior in every interaction.

You'll notice lots of inconsistencies in her words on topics relating to sex since she is trying to maintain her good-girl image. Sexual topics don't shy her and she has a point in sexual matters that can be defended like it's her thesis.

Depending on how she perceives you, she may reveal how she likes her deek long, her favorite position to be hammered, and what a guy can do to disappoint her sexually.

Ask her how long a man should last, or what constitutes good sex. This question is something a woman that is still sexually pure will not be able to answer and even if she does, her points will be shaky. But a promiscuous girl has answers.

Interaction with her will appear well-doctored, lacks originality, and spontaneity, filled with games and an open-ended route to escape being held accountable in case you detect a lie.

If lying comes naturally to her, then the chance is very high that she is promiscuous. Men lie to create a good image of themselves, while women lie to fake a good image.

Also, expect lots of questions concerning your sexual prowess, and to know your opinion of what you think about promiscuous women. Because she wants to know which color, length, and thickness of nail you'll hammer her with if you find out about her lifestyle.

Also, watch her close friends. If they are promiscuous, then she is promiscuous. Also, observe where she catches fun. If her idea of fun is clubbing constantly, and thirst trapping via revealing clothes, then also a hint.

If she is also secretive with her phone with passwords everywhere, that's also a hint. Promiscuity is like drugs, you have to be banged steady. So her phone will be more secure than the white house in the US.

Although many are smart. They will delete any clue during visits, or come with a different phone, so the phone password thingy might be stale. You can't catch some through that method.

But one thing that will never fail you is patience. Just wait, and observe. An unrighteous person trying to appear righteous will nail themselves with time. Time is something humans can't fight against, and exposes everyone and everything.

Also, see if she has a very high taste, and compare if her income can afford it. If she dresses flashy with expensive gadgets, while she obviously doesn't work or/and comes from a wealthy home, then her honeypot was the payment.

Lemme stop here. This should help.

Thank you for doing justice to this.

I love the point you made about time. I always liken it to a football game: No team can keep 100% possession for 90 mins. Possession in this case, is the facade of purity or innocence the promiscuous girls keep up.

CaveAdullam:
1. The woman is a born Machiavellian. She can camouflage to protect or defend herself in the least forceful way.

2. Only a few people are skilled in understanding body language and can peep into the nature and character of a person by merely looking at them; making judgments through physique and appearance, looking at their faces and eyes.

3. To avoid wrong judgment when it comes to a skilled manipulative woman, you can know if she's promiscuous by elongating your communication with her.

During the discourse, don't act as a saint. Even if you're an angel, pretend to be like the average demon person who doesn't give a fvck about morals and values.

This makes her feel relaxed. She will find you comfortable and trustworthy, and open her well of dark secrets for you to see.
Make sure you throw jokes, smile, and laugh during the discourse. It eases tension. With good rapport, you'll get to know her better.

4. There are others you can predict their character from their mode of dressing, hair color, tattoos, multiple piercings, and spoken words.

However, judgment from this angle has more to do with cultural trends and what's acceptable by society. Notwithstanding, many ladies are guilty on this side of judgment.

5. The best way to discern with higher accuracy is the long form of communication and close contact.

Thanks.

Awesome. Thank you for your contribution.

I like what you highlighted in point number 3. Acting like a saint makes them drop their guard around you. It's a common tactic that most guys wey sabi use.

Concerning point number 2, are there body language tells that you've observed are common to promiscuous girls?

nicerod:
Leg chains.

Waist beads

Tatoo


Always online

She have plenty male friends.

She's into make wares- home delivery

She's a bank marketer/ insurance

She's bleaching/ tonig her skin

She's a single mom

Plenty plenty signs o


Open ya eyes o my guy

You hit all the signs.

I wonder why most of them like tattoos beneath their collar bone.

Charlex23:
It is not appropriate or fair to label someone as "promiscuous" based solely on a conversation or interaction with them.

I am not interested in what is "Appropriate or fair."
I am interested in what is pragmatic.

If I interact with a female who tells me she has slept with 10 guys in the last month, can I label her as promiscuous from the conversation?

Or would you prefer that I do not "judge" her by calling her promiscuous despite what she tells me?

Charlex23:
Promiscuity is a subjective term that can carry negative connotations and is not a valid basis for judging someone's character.

I'm sorry, I'm not interested.
Maybe you can preach this to guys who don't mind that the girl they want to commit to has slept with 20 men in the past?

Or guys who don't care that they want to commit exclusively to girls who have a schedule of sleeping with a different guy each week?

Thanks.

Jodha:
Women can pretend...I pity any man that thinks he can judge a lady from her actions..

Her actions is what will give her away.

Their hairline niqqa, their hairline.....
Now don't expect me to explain.

All these long seminar for nature ?
Every healthy H. Sapien is promiscious in nature.
Those days in secondary school, you will hear something like
'stop it, i don't like it, i dont.... stop, stooo, oooo, ohhhh , huuuum, aaaaaah , don't stop, harder, harder, aaaaah '

WackyJ1:
I am not interested in what is "Appropriate or fair."
I am interested in what is pragmatic.

If I interact with a female who tells me she has slept with 10 guys in the last month, can I label her as promiscuous from the conversation?

Or would you prefer that I do not "judge" her by calling her promiscuous despite what she tells me?


I'm sorry, I'm not interested.
Maybe you can preach this to guys who don't mind that the girl they want to commit to has slept with 20 men in the past?

Or guys who don't care that they want to commit exclusively to girls who have a schedule of sleeping with a different guy each week?

Thanks.

Rather than making assumptions or passing judgment, it's generally more productive to focus on open-mindedness, understanding, and treating others with kindness. People's sexual experiences and choices are personal, and it's not our place to label or categorize them.

If you find yourself in a situation where someone shares information about their sexual history, it's up to you how to respond. Instead of labeling them, you could choose to engage in a non-judgmental conversation, seek mutual understanding, or simply move on to other topics if you're not comfortable discussing it.

It's worth emphasizing that people's past actions do not define their worth or value as individuals. It's important to approach others with an open mind and recognize that everyone has unique experiences and perspectives.

Charlex23:
Rather than making assumptions or passing judgment, it's generally more productive to focus on open-mindedness, understanding, and treating others with kindness. People's sexual experiences and choices are personal, and it's not our place to label or categorize them.

If you find yourself in a situation where someone shares information about their sexual history, it's up to you how to respond. Instead of labeling them, you could choose to engage in a non-judgmental conversation, seek mutual understanding, or simply move on to other topics if you're not comfortable discussing it.

It's worth emphasizing that people's past actions do not define their worth or value as individuals. It's important to approach others with an open mind and recognize that everyone has unique experiences and perspectives.

Okay ChatGPT

Girls that have wide protruding maxilla are very promiscuous.

WackyJ1:
Okay ChatGPT

Nice catch 👍

WackyJ1:
On Twitter a few days ago, I saw a thread where a few guys claimed that it is so easy to know a promiscuous girl just from her looks and from interacting with her.

One of the guys said, "I laugh when people say you cannot tell that a girl bleeps different guys or is into hook-up business. There are always signs."

I wondered what these signs were myself.

I didn't want to start asking each of the guys individually on the thread, so I decided to come and ask here in the largest collection of Guys wey sabi.

What are the signs you see that immediately tell you that a lady is promiscuous or runs or hook-up?

I believe there are a ton of naive young men on this forum who would benefit from learning this information to know what to look out for in the future.

PS. Girls who want to comment against profiling or bring up exceptions to invalidate the men's contributions here should not bother to comment.

Pansophist, your insights will also be appreciated.

..once u see them wearing tight and big polo,the m go come raise the back up..forget am

WackyJ1:
On Twitter a few days ago, I saw a thread where a few guys claimed that it is so easy to know a promiscuous girl just from her looks and from interacting with her.

One of the guys said, "I laugh when people say you cannot tell that a girl bleeps different guys or is into hook-up business. There are always signs."

I wondered what these signs were myself.

I didn't want to start asking each of the guys individually on the thread, so I decided to come and ask here in the largest collection of Guys wey sabi.

What are the signs you see that immediately tell you that a lady is promiscuous or runs or hook-up?

I believe there are a ton of naive young men on this forum who would benefit from learning this information to know what to look out for in the future.

PS. Girls who want to comment against profiling or bring up exceptions to invalidate the men's contributions here should not bother to comment.

Pansophist, your insights will also be appreciated.

Sign? With Nature, I have gotten result!

Nigerian women are promiscuous. All of them.

She is always in men's faces

She gets too excited around other men

She has male bestie

She goes to girls' nights, parties, etc

Flashy dressing , light skinned , provocative dressing , very expensive human hair, expensive lifestyle no visible source of funding constant calls like a customer care agent. Many handsets or many phone lines. Staying in highbrow areas of a town. Travelling regularly at short notice, owns hairdressing saloon, owns a cloths store for women, her friends dress like her or similar pattern, posing in toilet of luxury hotels etc. Imagine a single lady working as a teller in a bank with a salary of N65,000 but paying a house rent of N3million? Some are part time , others are full time , some are married. The signs are many and it's written allover them if you know how to identify one or all of the above.

WackyJ1:
Okay ChatGPT

Show me an analyst—or even just someone who approaches life logically—who doesn't attempt to predict the future using information from the past. People only want you to act as though past information and details cannot be used to make predictions about the future when it comes to romantic relationships. I wonder how far we would have come as a civilization if we had managed every other aspect of life in the same way.

Humans are creatures of habit; years of programming and performing a specific action that the body has grown accustomed to cannot simply be erased by flicking a switch. A clean slate will always be better than betting your future on an outcome where the odds are not in your favour.

Time will reveal everything. No one can maintain a façade for very long. The best way to reduce the amount of time, though, is to equally put on your own facade if time is not a luxury you can easily afford. Keep your morals out of every conversation and situation by resisting the urge to bring them up.

In the same way that you read her, she is reading you as well. If she learns that you don't tolerate immorality and modern day degeneracy, she will take her game to new heights to maintain her good reputation. Similar to catching a mouse, you need to provide a secure environment where it feels free to emerge as well as something enjoyable in exchange for its presence.

Silence, absence, and food are used in the mouse's situation. You will benefit greatly from pretending to accept immorality, as well as from unhinged conversations and words of support in response to certain confessions.

pansophist:
Generally speaking, If a young woman is not a virgin and has never been married, then your default assumption is that she is promiscuous. This may not be true twenty years ago. I'm referring to it now. Today. 21st century.


If for example a promiscuous woman has profiled you as husband material, and started forming a good girl for you, then time will expose her if you sheathe your sword and observe.

By sheathing your sword, I mean that you should come off as someone that is completely naive in the game. If they smell your naivety, then they become emboldened and drop the nail, hammer and cross you'll crucify her with

Generally speaking, Promiscuous ladies have one thing in common, and it's their "expertise" when dealing with men. Like a specialist, you can always feel the vibe of their over-experience behavior in every interaction.

You'll notice lots of inconsistencies in her words on topics relating to sex since she is trying to maintain her good-girl image. Sexual topics don't shy her and she has a point in sexual matters that can be defended like it's her thesis.

Depending on how she perceives you, she may reveal how she likes her deek long, her favorite position to be hammered, and what a guy can do to disappoint her sexually.

Ask her how long a man should last, or what constitutes good sex. This question is something a woman that is still sexually pure will not be able to answer and even if she does, her points will be shaky. But a promiscuous girl has answers.

Interaction with her will appear well-doctored, lacks originality, and spontaneity, filled with games and an open-ended route to escape being held accountable in case you detect a lie.

If lying comes naturally to her, then the chance is very high that she is promiscuous. Men lie to create a good image of themselves, while women lie to fake a good image.

Also, expect lots of questions concerning your sexual prowess, and to know your opinion of what you think about promiscuous women. Because she wants to know which color, length, and thickness of nail you'll hammer her with if you find out about her lifestyle.

Also, watch her close friends. If they are promiscuous, then she is promiscuous. Also, observe where she catches fun. If her idea of fun is clubbing constantly, and thirst trapping via revealing clothes, then also a hint.

If she is also secretive with her phone with passwords everywhere, that's also a hint. Promiscuity is like drugs, you have to be banged steady. So her phone will be more secure than the white house in the US.

Although many are smart. They will delete any clue during visits, or come with a different phone, so the phone password thingy might be stale. You can't catch some through that method.

But one thing that will never fail you is patience. Just wait, and observe. An unrighteous person trying to appear righteous will nail themselves with time. Time is something humans can't fight against, and exposes everyone and everything.

Also, see if she has a very high taste, and compare if her income can afford it. If she dresses flashy with expensive gadgets, while she obviously doesn't work or/and comes from a wealthy home, then her honeypot was the payment.

Lemme stop here. This should help.

Word!