| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by yellowgarri2(m): 5:45am On Feb 22, 2023 |
morinto:
There this new female lady who is a Nigeria that just got employ in my place of work in the UK. Omo this lady did not know the work very well because she is new and I have to cover for her so that the white people will nor use her to catch cruise because stylish racism is very common at my working place. So me and this girl vibe very well because we are Nigerian. After work this girl was going to my city and she drive unlike me that use public transport. So I told her to drop me in mycity base on say we are going to the same city. This girl told me that she can't carry me free and I have to drop 5 pounds and public bus dey carry me 2 pounds. Omo I told her say nor worry I go follow public motors.
Next day at work she want to get closer to me. Omo I just lock up. I nor send her again. When she was complaining that those oyinbo people are rude I just reply her saying what do u want me to do? I can't be saving your ass for place of work and u can't reciprocate the favour back. The thing she do me pain me die. How can u charge a person that is going to the same distinction with u and also the same person that help u at work?
Some people are just terrible. Am still in pain as I am typing because am feeling guilty of paying her back with evil but she force me to do that. Am not a wicked person but just have to do it. Kindly work on your Grammar please |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by Creativity22: 6:39am On Feb 22, 2023 |
gaby:
Na their way.
This isn't limited to just one gender.
Born idiots are generally resident-idiots.
I no even dey get their time if na me.
The way people get fixated and obsessed with money/material stuff over being humane and wonder why they still don't get enough of the money/material stuff to be happy or satiated beats my imagination. Bro, that bob marley quote really hit hard. Is so true 2 Likes |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by OwnMyself: 6:47am On Feb 22, 2023 |
morinto:
There this new female lady who is a Nigeria that just got employ in my place of work in the UK. Omo this lady did not know the work very well because she is new and I have to cover for her so that the white people will nor use her to catch cruise because stylish racism is very common at my working place. So me and this girl vibe very well because we are Nigerian. After work this girl was going to my city and she drive unlike me that use public transport. So I told her to drop me in mycity base on say we are going to the same city. This girl told me that she can't carry me free and I have to drop 5 pounds and public bus dey carry me 2 pounds. Omo I told her say nor worry I go follow public motors.
Next day at work she want to get closer to me. Omo I just lock up. I nor send her again. When she was complaining that those oyinbo people are rude I just reply her saying what do u want me to do? I can't be saving your ass for place of work and u can't reciprocate the favour back. The thing she do me pain me die. How can u charge a person that is going to the same distinction with u and also the same person that help u at work?
Some people are just terrible. Am still in pain as I am typing because am feeling guilty of paying her back with evil but she force me to do that. Am not a wicked person but just have to do it. You did the right thing comrade. Don't feel bad for her.. For her to foolishly refused to help you shows she's selfish.. Do away with her....omo if I were you nah to dey snub her on daily basis 😑 3 Likes |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by advanceDNA: 7:01am On Feb 22, 2023 |
morinto:
There this new female lady who is a Nigeria that just got employ in my place of work in the UK. Omo this lady did not know the work very well because she is new and I have to cover for her so that the white people will nor use her to catch cruise because stylish racism is very common at my working place. So me and this girl vibe very well because we are Nigerian. After work this girl was going to my city and she drive unlike me that use public transport. So I told her to drop me in mycity base on say we are going to the same city. This girl told me that she can't carry me free and I have to drop 5 pounds and public bus dey carry me 2 pounds. Omo I told her say nor worry I go follow public motors.
Next day at work she want to get closer to me. Omo I just lock up. I nor send her again. When she was complaining that those oyinbo people are rude I just reply her saying what do u want me to do? I can't be saving your ass for place of work and u can't reciprocate the favour back. The thing she do me pain me die. How can u charge a person that is going to the same distinction with u and also the same person that help u at work?
Some people are just terrible. Am still in pain as I am typing because am feeling guilty of paying her back with evil but she force me to do that. Am not a wicked person but just have to do it. Guy....u have done well...Dont apologize or feel bad for doing the right thing....she's not ur friend that will be doing favors...she made that clear So why u come dey feel bad for keeping her at arms length.... no go develop soft spot for babe like that ooo, she go use you tire.... leave am for her lane... 7 Likes |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by advanceDNA: 7:14am On Feb 22, 2023 |
easyflex:
I might be wrong, but I think you are taking this too personally. It's a rule of thumb that if you want to carpool, you should offer to chip in on the cost of gas. It's part of Oyibo culture. If I were in your shoes, I'd offer to pay her what you typically pay for bus ride. You should know that gas is expensive in the UK. You might be helping her today but she may save your life tomorrow.
It's lways better to build bridges than to burn them. An eye for an eye and the whole world will go blind . Aspire to always be the bigger person. So she nor sabi build bridge ...?? Its also simple work place ethics to be nice to colleagues because u dont know when u will need each other...... The nigga has been nice to all along...he can keep his niceness for "tomorrow" too...just as u said she may save him "tomorrow" that may never come ... 5 Likes |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by lecowas: 7:38am On Feb 22, 2023 |
If she chop ur eye, u gat chop her eye too. Eye for an eye and nothing less  2 Likes |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by Slmgirldippussy: 7:45am On Feb 22, 2023 |
morinto:
There this new female lady who is a Nigeria that just got employ in my place of work in the UK. Omo this lady did not know the work very well because she is new and I have to cover for her so that the white people will nor use her to catch cruise because stylish racism is very common at my working place. So me and this girl vibe very well because we are Nigerian. After work this girl was going to my city and she drive unlike me that use public transport. So I told her to drop me in mycity base on say we are going to the same city. This girl told me that she can't carry me free and I have to drop 5 pounds and public bus dey carry me 2 pounds. Omo I told her say nor worry I go follow public motors.
Next day at work she want to get closer to me. Omo I just lock up. I nor send her again. When she was complaining that those oyinbo people are rude I just reply her saying what do u want me to do? I can't be saving your ass for place of work and u can't reciprocate the favour back. The thing she do me pain me die. How can u charge a person that is going to the same distinction with u and also the same person that help u at work?
Some people are just terrible. Am still in pain as I am typing because am feeling guilty of paying her back with evil but she force me to do that. Am not a wicked person but just have to do it. I am praying for U to be more wicked to her. Pls be reminded that as soon as she knows the job she will sabotage you. Please take note 3 Likes |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by DMCA: 8:14am On Feb 22, 2023 |
morinto:
There this new female lady who is a Nigeria that just got employ in my place of work in the UK. Omo this lady did not know the work very well because she is new and I have to cover for her so that the white people will nor use her to catch cruise because stylish racism is very common at my working place. So me and this girl vibe very well because we are Nigerian. After work this girl was going to my city and she drive unlike me that use public transport. So I told her to drop me in mycity base on say we are going to the same city. This girl told me that she can't carry me free and I have to drop 5 pounds and public bus dey carry me 2 pounds. Omo I told her say nor worry I go follow public motors.
Next day at work she want to get closer to me. Omo I just lock up. I nor send her again. When she was complaining that those oyinbo people are rude I just reply her saying what do u want me to do? I can't be saving your ass for place of work and u can't reciprocate the favour back. The thing she do me pain me die. How can u charge a person that is going to the same distinction with u and also the same person that help u at work?
Some people are just terrible. Am still in pain as I am typing because am feeling guilty of paying her back with evil but she force me to do that. Am not a wicked person but just have to do it. How were you able to pass IELTS to go there? Abeg give us update  1 Like |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by DMCA: 8:15am On Feb 22, 2023 |
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| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by siofra(f): 8:15am On Feb 22, 2023 |
I'll judge when I hear her side too.
I don't trust all these Nigerian men. 
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| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by DMCA: 8:17am On Feb 22, 2023 |
morinto:
It Is not gate. It is border. Bro,you can't identify a figure of speech?🙄 |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by odinga1of: 8:48am On Feb 22, 2023 |
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| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by CaveAdullam: 9:43am On Feb 22, 2023 |
1. Your rule for engagement when dealing with people: value for value.
It may be unequal, but it is necessary.
2. As humans, we border between altruism and selfishness - a higher percentage of selfishness, however.
3. You deal with people because you have something to gain. Or, you don't want to lose. No matter how much we think we're altruistic, selfish tendency flows in our veins. Being selfish may not be deliberate but it is there, a basic instinct controlling our daily actions and behaviors.
4. The people that'll appreciate you more are those you're in a symbiotic relationship with. There is an overlapping of competence, integrity, intelligence, accountability, and responsibility. Since there's an exchange, both parties will endeavor to play their parts effectively.
5. Women especially have a short-span memory when it comes to kindness. For it to last longer in their memory, you must constantly fill them with luxuries, love, and kindness. Once there's a default, previous kindness begins to fade into oblivion.
6. But things can't always be rosy. You'll waste away your life, energy, time, and resources in an adventure to satiate the vacillating sentiments of a woman.
A mature adult (woman) should be able to think and build with you if they/she are interested in any relationship with you.
7. It takes wise and intelligent people to stay with you in both good and bad times.
Dumb people flee when things go south. They never loved you, they are sycophants who wanted a taste of you. They are neither loyal nor competent. They are weak people capable of sabotage.
8. It's expensive living in the UK. But common sense should tell her that asking your colleague for transport fare payment because you drove him in your car just to offset some of her bills reeks a higher order of ignorance and foolishness.
She was thinking short-term, pursuing short monetary values. All of a sudden she forgot your past deeds. Her behavior is pathetic and parasitic.
9. You don't need to feel guilty man. It does happen though, empathic or good people always feel guilty when they go against their norms. However, this is necessary at a moment like this. If you don't go against the norm, you open yourself to being further manipulated and exploited.
10. Since she has turned help and kindness into a commodity to be traded, it is time to also place monetary value when rendering help. If you can't, completely ghost her. This is the way you treat dumb and myopic fellows.
11. This shouldn't stop you or anyone from assisting people in the future. But you must be able to identify the kind of people you're dealing with so that you'll not throw your pearls before ingrates and swine.
Thanks. 13 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by Starboytwo(m): 10:01am On Feb 22, 2023 |
CaveAdullam:
1. Your rule for engagement when dealing with people: value for value.
It may be unequal, but it is necessary.
2. As humans, we border between altruism and selfishness - a higher percentage of selfishness, however.
3. You deal with people because you have something to gain. Or, you don't want to lose. No matter how much we think we're altruistic, selfish tendency flows in our veins. Being selfish may not be deliberate but it is there, a basic instinct controlling our daily actions and behaviors.
4. The people that'll appreciate you more are those you're in a symbiotic relationship with. There is an overlapping of competence, integrity, intelligence, accountability, and responsibility. Since there's an exchange, both parties will endeavor to play their parts effectively.
5. Women especially have a short-span memory when it comes to kindness. For it to last longer in their memory, you must constantly fill them with luxuries, love, and kindness. Once there's a default, previous kindness begins to fade into oblivion.
6. But things can't always be rosy. You'll waste away your life, energy, time, and resources in an adventure to satiate the vacillating sentiments of a woman.
A mature adult (woman) should be able to think and build with you if they/she are interested in any relationship with you.
7. It takes wise and intelligent people to stay with you in both good and bad times.
Dumb people flee when things go south. They never loved you, they are sycophants who wanted a taste of you. They are neither loyal nor competent. They are weak people capable of sabotage.
8. It's expensive living in the UK. But common sense should tell her that asking your colleague for transport fare payment because you drove him in your car just to offset some of her bills reeks a higher order of ignorance and foolishness.
She was thinking short-term, pursuing short monetary values. All of a sudden she forgot your past deeds. Her behavior is pathetic and parasitic.
9. You don't need to feel guilty man. It does happen though, empathic or good people always feel guilty when they go against their norms. However, this is necessary at a moment like this. If you don't go against the norm, you open yourself to being further manipulated and exploited.
10. Since she has turned help and kindness into a commodity to be traded, it is time to also place monetary value when rendering help. If you can't, completely ghost her. This is the way you treat dumb and myopic fellows.
11. This shouldn't stop you or anyone from assisting people in the future. But you must be able to identify the kind of people you're dealing with so that you'll not throw your pearls before ingrates and swine.
Thanks. nuff said. Thank you sir. I’m learning everyday. 3 Likes |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by OKOATA(m): 11:37am On Feb 22, 2023 |
CaveAdullam:
Your rule for engagement when dealing with people: value for value.
10. Since she has turned help and kindness into a commodity to be traded, it is time to also place monetary value when rendering help. If you can't, completely ghost her. This is the way you treat dumb and myopic fellows.
Thanks. Astonishing, did you copy this or this was from your medulla oblongata? You try, although if na me I no go ever transact anything with her, make she hold her money. Highest na Hi and Hi everyday. 1 Like |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by Baronthecelebri: 11:56am On Feb 22, 2023 |
God bless you, you did the right thing. Don't fill bad, you have a reward 1 Like |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by Nobody: 12:41pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
Don't fucking feel any shit bad 1 Like |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by Zico777(m): 12:56pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
U did extremely well bro! That's how it should be. U need to teach her some sense. morinto:
There this new female lady who is a Nigeria that just got employ in my place of work in the UK. Omo this lady did not know the work very well because she is new and I have to cover for her so that the white people will nor use her to catch cruise because stylish racism is very common at my working place. So me and this girl vibe very well because we are Nigerian. After work this girl was going to my city and she drive unlike me that use public transport. So I told her to drop me in mycity base on say we are going to the same city. This girl told me that she can't carry me free and I have to drop 5 pounds and public bus dey carry me 2 pounds. Omo I told her say nor worry I go follow public motors.
Next day at work she want to get closer to me. Omo I just lock up. I nor send her again. When she was complaining that those oyinbo people are rude I just reply her saying what do u want me to do? I can't be saving your ass for place of work and u can't reciprocate the favour back. The thing she do me pain me die. How can u charge a person that is going to the same distinction with u and also the same person that help u at work?
Some people are just terrible. Am still in pain as I am typing because am feeling guilty of paying her back with evil but she force me to do that. Am not a wicked person but just have to do it. 2 Likes |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by Autobot05: 1:17pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
Ghosting will work well Ghosting is my own expertise comrade 1 Like |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by juman(m): 3:49pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
You are a wicked person.
You want free ride. That is wrong.
If you want to ride with her contribute to buy fuel for the journey. |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by SmellingAnus(m): 4:26pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
NomzyJust:
She owes you no favour. Grow up o, na abroad u dey. you are right, she owes him no Favour same way he owes her no favour... 2 Likes |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by jesmond3945: 5:04pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
morinto:
There this new female lady who is a Nigeria that just got employ in my place of work in the UK. Omo this lady did not know the work very well because she is new and I have to cover for her so that the white people will nor use her to catch cruise because stylish racism is very common at my working place. So me and this girl vibe very well because we are Nigerian. After work this girl was going to my city and she drive unlike me that use public transport. So I told her to drop me in mycity base on say we are going to the same city. This girl told me that she can't carry me free and I have to drop 5 pounds and public bus dey carry me 2 pounds. Omo I told her say nor worry I go follow public motors.
Next day at work she want to get closer to me. Omo I just lock up. I nor send her again. When she was complaining that those oyinbo people are rude I just reply her saying what do u want me to do? I can't be saving your ass for place of work and u can't reciprocate the favour back. The thing she do me pain me die. How can u charge a person that is going to the same distinction with u and also the same person that help u at work?
Some people are just terrible. Am still in pain as I am typing because am feeling guilty of paying her back with evil but she force me to do that. Am not a wicked person but just have to do it. My brother the same thing do me. I give this girl opportunites of money and what not. They give am bar. I come ask am make she look after my pikin make i go work when i come back i pick them, she no gree. I just dey wait for opportunity to pay am back. 1 Like |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by Eastcoastboy(m): 5:24pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
easyflex:
I might be wrong, but I think you are taking this too personally. It's a rule of thumb that if you want to carpool, you should offer to chip in on the cost of gas. It's part of Oyibo culture. If I were in your shoes, I'd offer to pay her what you typically pay for bus ride. You should know that gas is expensive in the UK. You might be helping her today but she may save your life tomorrow.
It's lways better to build bridges than to burn them. An eye for an eye and the whole world will go blind . Aspire to always be the bigger person. In this case let's all go blind. How does she helping him translates to burning extra gas? Or is it not the same gas she'll use to convey herself to her destination? Omoh! This is just basic logic/common sense. Except if she does not consider what he does for her as "help". 2 Likes |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by jesmond3945: 5:26pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
NomzyJust:
Do you buy fuel for her?
Do you know how much it costs to go from acquiring a driving license to getting a car and maintaining it in the UK?
Do you know if she has more bills and responsibilities than you?
What makes you think you are entitled to get a ride in her car for free?
Do you know how much stress she will save you by giving you a ride?
Both of you are going to work to earn income at the end so what's wrong if you invest £5 to your work? Probably you even earn more than her.
She can as well return the favour by covering you at work when you need when she gets used to the work. She's new, so give her a break. The more you teach her, the more you too learn. You were once new and someone had to cover for you at some point.
Ogbeni, keep catching the bus or buy a car.
Stop feeling entitled. She owes you no favour. Grow up o, na abroad u dey. You are right but what she would have done is to take him hime first. Thank him for all he is doing and offer to transport him with a little token. This would have made more sense to Op. |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by BenYeshua: 5:56pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
morinto:
It Is not gate. It is border. DAMN!!! SHOT FIRED |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by dochenaj: 5:57pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
morinto:
There this new female lady who is a Nigeria that just got employ in my place of work in the UK. Omo this lady did not know the work very well because she is new and I have to cover for her so that the white people will nor use her to catch cruise because stylish racism is very common at my working place. So me and this girl vibe very well because we are Nigerian. After work this girl was going to my city and she drive unlike me that use public transport. So I told her to drop me in mycity base on say we are going to the same city. This girl told me that she can't carry me free and I have to drop 5 pounds and public bus dey carry me 2 pounds. Omo I told her say nor worry I go follow public motors.
Next day at work she want to get closer to me. Omo I just lock up. I nor send her again. When she was complaining that those oyinbo people are rude I just reply her saying what do u want me to do? I can't be saving your ass for place of work and u can't reciprocate the favour back. The thing she do me pain me die. How can u charge a person that is going to the same distinction with u and also the same person that help u at work?
Some people are just terrible. Am still in pain as I am typing because am feeling guilty of paying her back with evil but she force me to do that. Am not a wicked person but just have to do it. I wouldn't be surprised at "stylish racism" from your white colleagues, if how you write is same as you speak. |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by galantjoe(m): 6:30pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
That gal has entitled syndrome. Avoid her like plague. Na her type can implicate man for rape
Tit for tat. No one ho vex. It is better u measure one in her own cup. |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by Dzzzz: 7:28pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
Just let her be..The public transport no take anything from you..Just be good nothing spoil..Your reward is with God but don’t let her lose her job.. |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by MechanicMike: 9:49am On May 27, 2023 |
morinto:
There this new female lady who is a Nigeria that just got employ in my place of work in the UK. Omo this lady did not know the work very well because she is new and I have to cover for her so that the white people will nor use her to catch cruise because stylish racism is very common at my working place. So me and this girl vibe very well because we are Nigerian. After work this girl was going to my city and she drive unlike me that use public transport. So I told her to drop me in mycity base on say we are going to the same city. This girl told me that she can't carry me free and I have to drop 5 pounds and public bus dey carry me 2 pounds. Omo I told her say nor worry I go follow public motors.
Next day at work she want to get closer to me. Omo I just lock up. I nor send her again. When she was complaining that those oyinbo people are rude I just reply her saying what do u want me to do? I can't be saving your ass for place of work and u can't reciprocate the favour back. The thing she do me pain me die. How can u charge a person that is going to the same distinction with u and also the same person that help u at work?
Some people are just terrible. Am still in pain as I am typing because am feeling guilty of paying her back with evil but she force me to do that. Am not a wicked person but just have to do it. Kaiiiii....brother..ok so u looking for guys to fukkk Yor sister.... corrrrrrrect? Am available sir? . is she lightskin?(no offenscce) |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by Kobicove(m): 11:03am On May 27, 2023 |
morinto:
There this new female lady who is a Nigeria that just got employ in my place of work in the UK. Omo this lady did not know the work very well because she is new and I have to cover for her so that the white people will nor use her to catch cruise because stylish racism is very common at my working place. So me and this girl vibe very well because we are Nigerian. After work this girl was going to my city and she drive unlike me that use public transport. So I told her to drop me in mycity base on say we are going to the same city. This girl told me that she can't carry me free and I have to drop 5 pounds and public bus dey carry me 2 pounds. Omo I told her say nor worry I go follow public motors.
Next day at work she want to get closer to me. Omo I just lock up. I nor send her again. When she was complaining that those oyinbo people are rude I just reply her saying what do u want me to do? I can't be saving your ass for place of work and u can't reciprocate the favour back. The thing she do me pain me die. How can u charge a person that is going to the same distinction with u and also the same person that help u at work?
Some people are just terrible. Am still in pain as I am typing because am feeling guilty of paying her back with evil but she force me to do that. Am not a wicked person but just have to do it. Nothing is free in the UK and from what I know it is common practice to charge people even friends when you give them a ride in your car over there! |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by Kobicove(m): 11:13am On May 27, 2023 |
Collins4u1:
You did very well, that's the way to go.
meanwhile my oga dey carry me for car come drop me for my doorstep and start going home. even when I tell him to drop me at the road side so I can just trek in.
Press her neck more, and you should let her know why you're doing that. she won't beat you! It's only in Nigeria that someone can do this for you; no one will do it for you for free in the UK! |
| Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by toolate2fail(m): 11:40am On May 27, 2023 |
Bro call her and let her know u are not happy with her attitude that use do help her and expect her too to assist u in her own little way with TP that u will pay her 2 pond to support her make it plain and go ahead keep helping her that how the world goes round |
