@OP The fault is hers, not yours.. I can partially relate as women are naturally selfish beings (some are different tho.)..
There is this thing about mental health we don't pay attention to much.. you can cut off things or people that trigger memtal upset in you. It's very normal.

Since she wants money to render a service, then she doesn't deserve any assistance or help free of charge. It's as simple as that.

Kobicove:


It's only in Nigeria that someone can do this for you; no one will do it for you for free in the UK!

Unfortunalty, it's in that UK.
not once not twice, not one person.
perhaps it depends on relationship.

morinto:
There this new female lady who is a Nigeria that just got employ in my place of work in the UK. Omo this lady did not know the work very well because she is new and I have to cover for her so that the white people will nor use her to catch cruise because stylish racism is very common at my working place. So me and this girl vibe very well because we are Nigerian. After work this girl was going to my city and she drive unlike me that use public transport. So I told her to drop me in mycity base on say we are going to the same city. This girl told me that she can't carry me free and I have to drop 5 pounds and public bus dey carry me 2 pounds. Omo I told her say nor worry I go follow public motors.
Next day at work she want to get closer to me. Omo I just lock up. I nor send her again. When she was complaining that those oyinbo people are rude I just reply her saying what do u want me to do? I can't be saving your ass for place of work and u can't reciprocate the favour back. The thing she do me pain me die. How can u charge a person that is going to the same distinction with u and also the same person that help u at work?
Some people are just terrible. Am still in pain as I am typing because am feeling guilty of paying her back with evil but she force me to do that. Am not a wicked person but just have to do it.

Train Yourself not to be Regretful to Stupidities & Balderdash ....

You have helped in making her a Better Person which is

Humanities 101:

Dem No dey teach am for school Na for Street !