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Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by zyphr(op): 3:54pm On May 27, 2023

I might just be my experience, my dating life after the university has been more difficult than while I was in the university. In the university, there were a large pool of members of the opposite sex within my age group with shared experiences but this outside world is wild.

Guys, Do you all experience the same? Ladies, is dating also more difficult for you after school? Compared to while you were in school, do you notice a significant drop in the number of men who approach or develop interest in you?

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Nobody: 4:02pm On May 27, 2023

zyphr:
I might just be my experience, my dating life after the university has been more difficult than while I was in the university. In the university, there were a large pool of members of the opposite sex within my age group with shared experiences but this outside world is wild.

Guys, Do you all experience the same? Ladies, is dating also more difficult for you after school? Compared to while you were in school, do you notice a significant drop in the number of men who approach or develop interest in you?

Question.

After school everybody du find their own path...nobody too get your time again...if at all they have time for you it's either they date you with the intention of marrying you or you just satisfy yourselves sexually and go una way

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Nobody: 4:10pm On May 27, 2023*

You meet a lot of people in the Uni. You can easily chat people up, woo your classmates, or ask a friend to talk to a lady for you but outside unless you are completely shameless you can't just walk up to people on the street.
There is availability and proximity in University.

In the University, you don't have much to focus on. Your parents finance you but outside with bills piling up, the last thing you will think of is relationship.

In the Uni needs aren't much Feelings is enough, outside eyes don tear love is not enough

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Reminderz: 4:10pm On May 27, 2023

Rayban25:
Question.

After school everybody du find their own path...nobody too get your time again...if at all they have time for you it's either they date you with the intention of marrying you or you just satisfy yourselves sexually and go una way

exactly bro.. after school, reality sets it and everyone is just busy dealing with live issues especially for the men... women on the other hand now focus on getting someone who's going to marry them after most of them must have done the unthinkable during their university years...

the large number of men and women mixing together is what makes dating or getting a partner seems easy... when you're out of an environment like this, it gets more difficult and options are limited due to few number of people you come across daily, that's if you even make the approach..

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by VinnyBaba: 4:10pm On May 27, 2023

OP, because Guys are Thinking more of getting a Job, starting a Business and Securing their Future. sad

While Ladies, getting Married or Dating a Rich Man. 🤨

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Sonnobax15(m): 4:11pm On May 27, 2023

The commenter above me has just took the words out of my hands.

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by tensazangetsu20(m): 4:52pm On May 27, 2023

Actually got easier for me after the university but I am not interested. I enjoy being single.

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by AsomStructures: 5:17pm On May 27, 2023*

Persephone1:
You meet lot of people in the Uni. You can easy chat people up, woo your classmates, and ask a friend to talk to a lady for you but outside unless you are completely shameless you can't just walk up to people on the street.
There is availability and proximity in University.

In the University, you don't have much to focus on. Your parents finance you but outside with bills piling up, the last thing you will think of is relationship.

In the Uni needs aren't much Feelings is enough, outside eyes don tear love is not enough

You said it all bro

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Nemesis0147(m): 6:33pm On May 27, 2023

Na now I dy knack all my crush in secondary school and university sef….
Every mallam with him own kettle.

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Brownshoe: 6:35pm On May 27, 2023

This remind of R Kelly song" if I could turn back the hands of time"

Tope that use to cook for me I look her as not classy now she is married with kids,

Here I am still single, I wish there's something that could carry you back to Uni days, oh Lord! When?

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Jodha(f): 7:03pm On May 27, 2023

VinnyBaba:
OP, because Guys are Thinking more of getting a Job, starting a Business and Securing their Future.

While Ladies, getting Married or Dating a Rich Man. 🤨

Because ladies don't have future to secure? Or do jobs or start a business? Their whole lives is tied to men ....this is 2023

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Nobody: 7:09pm On May 27, 2023

Jodha:
Because ladies don't have future to secure? Or do jobs or start a business? Their whole lives is tied to men ....this is 2023

Why are you putting words in his mouth and arguing against what he didn't say?

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Nobody: 7:16pm On May 27, 2023

AsomStructures:
You said it all bro

Arghhhhhhh

I'm not a bro

Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Eunoiaa(f): 7:27pm On May 27, 2023

Persephone1:
Arghhhhhhh

I'm not a bro

Tough life. grin

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Jodha(f): 7:39pm On May 27, 2023

Rayban25:
Why are you putting words in his mouth and arguing against what he didn't say?

He insinuated it..and yhu know....

Some men just think a woman's life and destiny is tied to marriage....

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by havenz(m): 7:50pm On May 27, 2023

After university we struggle to get money to sponsor our future to come faster and brighter, so no time to chase opposite gender for relationship just like the bleeding gender.

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Jubrilv(m): 7:52pm On May 27, 2023

Eye don open, mouth don dey wider

Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Tboymessiah(m): 7:54pm On May 27, 2023

NasoLifeBe!!!

Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by karkinase(m): 7:55pm On May 27, 2023

The loyal girls you can find are during ur school days, outside is a jungle no love. 💔

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Tboymessiah(m): 7:56pm On May 27, 2023

I don even tied, last last na to find one surrogate mother to give me two children.

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by YOUTUBE9ja(m): 7:56pm On May 27, 2023

I pray this administration favors everyone . My advice for Nigerians is to start a YouTube channel on football and make money so you don’t cry during economic recession. Let me teach you how is been done , mention me if interested, hold your 1k o

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by isabi2lof: 7:57pm On May 27, 2023

Honestly, the thing tire person undecided

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Nobody: 7:58pm On May 27, 2023

Jodha:
He insinuated it..and yhu know....

Some men just think a woman's life and destiny is tied to marriage....

How you choose to interpret his statement is entirely up to you

He never said that

Neither did he say that women too dont have a future to secure but it dosent change the fact that theyll like to get married too.

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by SMARTMOTORS(m): 7:58pm On May 27, 2023

Ego! Ego Uwa!

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by VULCAN(m): 7:58pm On May 27, 2023

Most of them are overly sentimental

Rayban25:
Why are you putting words in his mouth and arguing against what he didn't say?

Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by yomi531(m): 7:59pm On May 27, 2023

Dbrother come and see what we discussed the other day. grin

Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by stevestifler(m): 8:01pm On May 27, 2023

It is only difficult if you don't get a job after university. Have money or plenty confidence!

I'd say I had better luck after I graduated cus I was an indigent student while in school but when I went back for Msc, I had better fún and it only got better after my masters.

I was unemployed for more than a year after MSc but I was doubledating even then.. Till got a job, switched jobs and got married.
Now I'm retired and focusing only on my wife.

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by ERCROSS(m): 8:02pm On May 27, 2023

Djdksjn

Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by Nobody: 8:05pm On May 27, 2023

Eunoiaa:
Tough life.

He is the second person I had to correct today.

I thought I'm over that already

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Re: Why Is Dating More Difficult After The University? by ItisWell22(f): 8:05pm On May 27, 2023

Brownshoe:
Tope that use to cook for me I look her as not classy now she is married with kids
Here I am still single, I wish there's something that could carry you back to Uni days, oh Lord! When?

🥱

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