zyphr:
I might just be my experience, my dating life after the university has been more difficult than while I was in the university. In the university, there were a large pool of members of the opposite sex within my age group with shared experiences but this outside world is wild.

Guys, Do you all experience the same? Ladies, is dating also more difficult for you after school? Compared to while you were in school, do you notice a significant drop in the number of men who approach or develop interest in you?

Rayban25:


Question.

After school everybody du find their own path...nobody too get your time again...if at all they have time for you it's either they date you with the intention of marrying you or you just satisfy yourselves sexually and go una way

Persephone1:
You meet lot of people in the Uni. You can easy chat people up, woo your classmates, and ask a friend to talk to a lady for you but outside unless you are completely shameless you can't just walk up to people on the street.
There is availability and proximity in University.

In the University, you don't have much to focus on. Your parents finance you but outside with bills piling up, the last thing you will think of is relationship.

In the Uni needs aren't much Feelings is enough, outside eyes don tear love is not enough

VinnyBaba:


OP, because Guys are Thinking more of getting a Job, starting a Business and Securing their Future.

While Ladies, getting Married or Dating a Rich Man. 🤨

Jodha:


Because ladies don't have future to secure? Or do jobs or start a business? Their whole lives is tied to men ....this is 2023

AsomStructures:


You said it all bro

Arghhhhhhh

I'm not a bro

Persephone1:
Arghhhhhhh

I'm not a bro

Rayban25:


Why are you putting words in his mouth and arguing against what he didn't say?

Jodha:


He insinuated it..and yhu know....

Some men just think a woman's life and destiny is tied to marriage....

Rayban25:


Why are you putting words in his mouth and arguing against what he didn't say?

Eunoiaa:


Tough life.

He is the second person I had to correct today.

I thought I'm over that already

Brownshoe:

Tope that use to cook for me I look her as not classy now she is married with kids
Here I am still single, I wish there's something that could carry you back to Uni days, oh Lord! When?

ItisWell22:


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