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Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by patorial(m): 4:00pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
RoadMozart: So first cousins are far gone in your family tree? The girl is a first cousin to OP and the guy involved o. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Forrkke: 4:01pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Cloudflare: It was somebody else |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Xammie001(m): 4:02pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Thanks for bringing this story here and thanks for seeing us as KNOWLEDGEBLE to solve your family ISSUE. Now all the Lady needs to do is to GET the pastor she TOLD because we respect PASTORS alot in this part of the world because he's the only person that can save the situation on ground. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by patorial(m): 4:08pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Geovanni412: Too much movie is actually bad 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Geovanni412(m): 4:10pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
patorial: If he doesn't know....he should forget abt it |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by donhils: 4:30pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Forrkke:Don't mind him, he's trying to be funny in a st*pid way. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by donhils: 4:36pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
You said the girl told you everything as it happened; how are you so sure she didn't embellish it to appear innocent? The guy claimed she forced him, she told you it was done by mutual consent. How did you know she didn't force him truly and lied to you that they both agreed? Manipulation is real. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Kobojunkie: 4:45pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Forrkke:How old was your other cousin at the time the incident happened? Since your female cousin get job tell her to hire you so you go and investigate on her behalf. You can go on YouTube to find videos on how to make mini documentaries, ask your other cousin's aunt for an invitation to stay over at their place for a week or two and during which time you gather all evidence to prove her innocence. If you do a good job, you both could end up turning it in to a good business too. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Montaque(m): 4:48pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Don't take the advise of going for a swearing meeting before a deity. It will further complicate the matter. Same with Police, they will never solve the matter as long as their are different versions. These are never solutions to a family issue. The solution here is that you or someone in the family needs to call a meeting of all involved. I know this - Who forced who is not the issue, the deed has been done and both are guilty alike. IN this meeting, Let a respected man of God be present. The boy needs to bare his mind, so he will be able to clear his conscience. He is feeling guilt and needs forgiveness. I don't know how you all don't see that. Once he clears his conscience, he will be fine. The girl too will speak her version. Both of them needs to air their conscience. The end of it should be the elders advising them and forgiving them of their acts. And the Man of God praying for everyone. Then your cousin sister should stay far from the boy's family, and focus on her life and fiance. Youthful exuberance can be troubling, if not controlled. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by McLizbae: 5:02pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Wahala! Forrkke: |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Forrkke: 5:05pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
donhils:If manipulation is what she wanted, she could have easily lied that she was forced and not a case of mutual consent. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Forrkke: 5:05pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
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Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Streett: 5:40pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Forrkke: This matta no hard …..Your cousin sister gats go Traditional, Cuz na the only way weh she fit come Clean be that as the guy don mischievously rope her totally in all ways …. Make everybody gather round the gods make She & The Useless Guy swear 7days Life/Death swear on who dey lie and on who really initiate fvckk matta way back then … The Guy brain go run Hard factory reset ! Nigga a wussy 🤦🏿♂️ 9 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Mrsoft3(m): 5:56pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Shebi if I tell you say life is spiritual you go talk say we Dey reason blindly. I don tire to Dey talk to you, continue feeling ontop |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Kobojunkie: 5:58pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Mrsoft3:1. Get yourself mental health checkup and you will see that what you term "spiritual" is 99.999999% mental and behavioral. I am glad I did it when I did and since then, I can differentiate that which Jesus Christ in fact said of the Spirit from the spiritual bullsheet talk out there. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by younig59: 6:11pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:yes thats why I said some people can do anything to cover lies, even take oath and still lying that they dnt do the thing...only God can help. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by OdefaGirl(f): 6:45pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Thebadpolitican: The way you guys bundle every guilt upon women's shoulders is sickening. Can you for once remember that that guy knows very well that she's his cousin before telling her they should have sex... Was that right? Then trying to frame her of abusing him after 6/7yrs that they have moved on.... Was that also humane? No one will want to believe the girl cz she's made a grievous mistake previously.... and even agreeing that she was not forced to do it, doesn't make the weight of the matter lighter 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by babythug(f): 8:04pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I agree with the first statement! When you say “resolved” what can the lady do at this point? Offer monetary compensation? Apologise? As long as she continues to grant audience to the wagging tongues regarding this Matter , they’ll keep extending it. Besides it’s an error of years ago , and she’s being accused falsely 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by yemmit90: 8:11pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
DollarSigns: You arevj ust an empty boy who find pleasure in insulting people you don't know just because you have access to Internet without anything tangible in your brain to counter an argument. Don't ever quote me again idiot. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Kobojunkie: 8:28pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
babythug:1. She doesn't even have to pay any attention to them for the libel to continue. She has no reason to offer monetary compensation since she was herself also a minor when the incident supposedly took place. 2. It is an error of years ago that has come back to hunt her in such a way that should that boy continue to nosedive, failure-wise, his parents will continue to fault her for his sins in life. She can expose the boy for the manipulative eejit he is and at least gain some of those relatives to her side in the fight for her present and her future. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Thebadpolitican(m): 8:48pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
OdefaGirl: Society says women should close their legs, bible values a virgin this tells you the power nature gives to women when it comes to issues of sex Anything that goes wrong during sex, the woman should be blame that's where her power lies, According to the norms a man cannot be sexually harrased by a lady, if a woman accuse you for a rape it likely to be taken serious compare to the opposite situation So sex is everything for a woman She is basically a LovePeddler, I pity her man 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Ephatah: 9:00pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Smh, And people still view sex as ordinary and a game. Something dat can ruin an entire family. As for the case of your cousin. Is there an elder in the family that can be fair and hear both sides and judge fairly? So dat the truth can be known. She can also pray for God's vindication. I hope she the fiancee is aware of wots happening. B4 he hears a totally twisted story from someone else. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by OdefaGirl(f): 9:03pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Thebadpolitican: Which society apart from black man society please? Does your opinion justify the guy's actions? 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by ngmoses17(m): 9:27pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Where do you people get the words you used on one another here? Chaii |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by concho(m): 12:15am On Jun 08, 2023 |
Forrkke:Tribe ? |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by frozen70(f): 1:23am On Jun 08, 2023 |
Forrkke: That guy is getting mad and if care is not taking he may enter street Lady is very innocent of what is is happening to the guy The guy parents are fully aware that their son have problem So let them go tradition to cleans themselves to save the girls name from the show of Shame Dont be surprise the guy is on drugs 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Jacksparrow7(m): 2:11am On Jun 08, 2023 |
Getting pregnant at 16 is harsh, but can be handled. From here, that is all she did. But your family turned it to a big machine. You are asking us how one can lie without remorse against a family member? It is very possible, talking from experience, not someone told me. Adult lying against another Adult. Please your family is shameful, let the young woman have her peace. Sometimes things don't always go as planned. We try our best but some of it could still shake |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by tianshie(m): 5:30am On Jun 08, 2023 |
donbachi: So that what will happen? |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Ofadaman(m): 7:52am On Jun 08, 2023 |
Funny story but here's the deal, She should just deny it ,saying the guy has always made advances towards her which she refused cause of his age and she doesn't want her aunt to worry about his son, and that was why she left the house. Anyways, it was a wrong move to have kept the girl in same room with a teenager, women are dumb headed, she must have seen too d*CK and fantasized a lot, so it was easy to go with it when he suggested it |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Cloudflare: 9:09am On Jun 08, 2023 |
Forrkke: So what then are you saying again about your male cousin? Dude, that your female cousin is loose and wayward. She cannot control herself and it's obvious she might likely be the one that will even seduced that her male cousin to have sex with her. This is called manipulations! Noticed U said she gave in at once when the guy asked for sex. Question 1. Why didn't she resist the guy? 2. Why didn't she report to the boy's parents when they got back from travel? Dude, it's obvious that girl knew exactly what she was doing. She seduced the boy, this simply means she was the one that went and met him in his bed and asked him to fvck her. But instead she narrated that it was the boy who came to her (this is a lie bro). Na she go meet the boy for his own bed and then initiated the knacking mood. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Cloudflare: 9:11am On Jun 08, 2023 |
Ofadaman: I can bet my balls that it was the girl who suggested that they should both fvck. After everything, she manipulated and lied to the OP that it was the boy who came to her, whereas na she go meet the boy for his own bed. Girls are very good at lying and manipulations knowing fully well that the society will believe them |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Cloudflare: 9:22am On Jun 08, 2023 |
OdefaGirl: Madam, it was the girl that told the guy that they should have sex. Na she seduced and initiated the knacking mood. It was obvious she knew what she was doing back then. The girl is extremely loose, damage and highly wayward. She simply manipulated the OP into believing her. |
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