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I prefer having a baby mama rather than a legit wife because;
Baby mamas are nt ur wife they are just a mother to ur child, so they have no excuse for you not to bring another babe to ur house
It is very difficult to seperate from a wife, because her family will not want to see her marriage crash, but when a BABY MAMA misbehaves you send her away from your house and can be sending some cash to her and the child for upkeep
BABY MAMAS give you the chance of living a free life, but a WIFE will want you to get stuck to her alone and will nt want to give any chance to a stranger
once ur BABY MAMA breaksup with u, sincerely u will nt feel any heart break than to a wife whom u have spent $10000 for her bride price
If u want to be based in places like the U.S, it is advisable to have a babymama than to marry a wife with certificate, because if she decides to divorce you she is gonna go with half of your wealth and your property but a babymama has no access to your wealth because she is not legit

you've talked about the mere advantages of it, now talk about the disadvantages..

and true, in countries in the West like the US for example, marrying under the shackles of the law is totally unadvisable... the best in this case is to have a girlfriend living the position of a wife, just like the method Cristiano employed... this will put the power button into your hands as the man... she will try as much to be in her best character...

As much as a man is important in a child's life, the woman is also equally important... the marriage institution is corrupted and made unfavourable for men, until the conditions favours men who mostly does a lot to keep the marriage working and stable, people will avoid getting married or having a stable relationship...

Lol


Better delete this mentality very fast...

You need companion as you grow old

I don't think it's advisable to only have a baby mama, why?

1. As the child gets older, the baby mama may turn the child against you and make him or her feel like you're just nothing but a sperm donor... I've seen many cases like this.

2. She may take you to a children's court and demand that you pay more child support, I've seen cases whereby baby mamas would require their baby daddies to pay almost half of their monthly salaries for child support... They would deliberately take their children to expensive schools, private hospitals, salons or barber shops, and buy them expensive clothes so that they could be able to provide proof that their children deserve such an amount for child support.

3. Every child needs a father that's present in his or her life, you only paying child support while playing the role of a deadbeat father won't make your child love you... The child may end up being close to his or her stepfather.

4. I've seen a lot of men who had the same ideology as yours, but now they're old and all alone... Some of these men's children are doing very well in life, but they're busy spoiling their mothers and stepfathers... I know one man in my neighborhood... He used to change women anyhow he liked and wanted nothing to do with marriage... He's now in his old age alone and lonely while the children he had with his baby mamas are doing great for themselves and want nothing to do with him because they regard their stepfathers as their biological fathers.

5. Some of these baby mamas would demand for a higher child support so that they could use the other money to support the other children they had with other men... I've heard a case of a man complaining of how his baby mama is spending half of the child support he pays for his child on her other children, the children that are not his.

6. We are Africans and in some African tribes, the child is not considered yours until you get married to the mother.

7. And lastly, if you get married in a marriage out of community of property, your spouse wouldn't be able to claim anything from you upon divorce.

When baby mama carry ur pikin go sell to another man, na that time ur eyes go clear

Testiebobo:
I prefer having a baby mama rather than a legit wife because;
Baby mamas are nt ur wife they are just a mother to ur child, so they have no excuse for you not to bring another babe to ur house
It is very difficult to seperate from a wife, because her family will not want to see her marriage crash, but when a BABY MAMA misbehaves you send her away from your house and can be sending some cash to her and the child for upkeep
BABY MAMAS give you the chance of living a free life, but a WIFE will want you to get stuck to her alone and will nt want to give any chance to a stranger
once ur BABY MAMA breaksup with u, sincerely u will nt feel any heart break than to a wife whom u have spent $10000 for her bride price
If u want to be based in places like the U.S, it is advisable to have a babymama than to marry a wife with certificate, because if she decides to divorce you she is gonna go with half of your wealth and your property but a babymama has no access to your wealth because she is not legit

I bet Siofra is gonno show up any moment from now like touchlight to advise.......SIOFRA WHER THOU ARE U??

Sama, no woman will raise my son/daughter for me, i will take him or her necessary. So no take the matter go far.

So under which household will the child be under?

I will like to see and raise my child my self, instead of allowing one baby mama take another dick while they throw ur child somewhere

Testiebobo:
I prefer having a baby mama rather than a legit wife because;
Baby mamas are nt ur wife they are just a mother to ur child, so they have no excuse for you not to bring another babe to ur house
It is very difficult to seperate from a wife, because her family will not want to see her marriage crash, but when a BABY MAMA misbehaves you send her away from your house and can be sending some cash to her and the child for upkeep
BABY MAMAS give you the chance of living a free life, but a WIFE will want you to get stuck to her alone and will nt want to give any chance to a stranger
once ur BABY MAMA breaksup with u, sincerely u will nt feel any heart break than to a wife whom u have spent $10000 for her bride price
If u want to be based in places like the U.S, it is advisable to have a babymama than to marry a wife with certificate, because if she decides to divorce you she is gonna go with half of your wealth and your property but a babymama has no access to your wealth because she is not legit

I just weak as I read this post.

What you mean no woman will raise your child for you?

A child belongs with the mother, unless it's proven by the courts that she's incapable of taking good care of the child.

I find it funny that most of you men who take your children from their mothers would still look for another woman take care of the child for you when you could've just left the child with the mother...

talented321:
Sama, no woman will raise my son/daughter for me, i will take him or her necessary. So no take the matter go far.

Will you raise your child without any female assistance?

Or you'll constantly be dropping your child with different females to look after him or her on your behalf?

Allisgud:
I will like to see and raise my child my self, instead of allowing one baby mama take another dick while they throw ur child somewhere

When you come up with terminal illness (God forbid) your baby mama will leave you to your fate. But there is that 50% chance that your wife will stand by you, although that's if you married your best friend, the bone of your bone. Just like the veteran rapper Idris abdulkarem, who needed a kidney transplant, and no way in the world he was going to afford one. The world people couldn't wait to write beautiful condolence message about his life. The wife came through and donated one of her's to him. It matched and now both of them are living happily. To her 'What am I leaving for if i allows my poor friend and husband to just die like that'. That's a priceless sacrifice no baby mama would offer. Different strokes for different folks, choose what suits your future plans and goals. What works for Mr A may not work for Mr B. You will experience hell on Earth if you also married wrongly. Not all wife's are home makers.

Samantha124:
Will you raise your child without any female assistance?

Or you'll constantly be dropping your child with different females to look after him or her on your behalf?

any other female not the baby mama

See one thing, like my first daughter is living with me she is 10yr old and we are living fine, every month i buy things that will sustain us for the month, you relationship with the single mom matters, and i don't believe any woman that born with me will drag my daughter or son with me because i know their weak point, l just don't why.

Samantha124:
What you mean no woman will raise your child for you?

A child belongs with the mother, unless it's proven by the courts that she's incapable of taking good care of the child.

I find it funny that most of you men who take your children from their mothers would still look for another woman take care of the child for you when you could've just left the child with the mother...

Then you'll not be raising the child yourself and why make another woman responsible for a child that's not hers when the mother is around and capable of taking care of the child

Allisgud:
any other female not the baby mama

Your life, your choices so long as the child is jointly provided for.

Testiebobo:
I prefer having a baby mama rather than a legit wife because;
Baby mamas are nt ur wife they are just a mother to ur child, so they have no excuse for you not to bring another babe to ur house
It is very difficult to seperate from a wife, because her family will not want to see her marriage crash, but when a BABY MAMA misbehaves you send her away from your house and can be sending some cash to her and the child for upkeep
BABY MAMAS give you the chance of living a free life, but a WIFE will want you to get stuck to her alone and will nt want to give any chance to a stranger
once ur BABY MAMA breaksup with u, sincerely u will nt feel any heart break than to a wife whom u have spent $10000 for her bride price
If u want to be based in places like the U.S, it is advisable to have a babymama than to marry a wife with certificate, because if she decides to divorce you she is gonna go with half of your wealth and your property but a babymama has no access to your wealth because she is not legit

😂 😂 😂..
it's like all the child support drama with baby mamas never enter una head.
Because you dey naija abi.. okay.. along as child has your DNA, somebori pikin can drag you to court.

Where's the mother and how does she feels about it?

talented321:
See one thing, like my first daughter is living with me she is 10yr old and we are living fine, every month i buy things that will sustain us for the month, you relationship with the single mom matters, and i don't believe any woman that born with me will drag my daughter or son with me because i know their weak point, l just don't why.

Shove it in ya d**k, why bring it to a public forum. I guess nairaland mod at work.

The mother dey sha, the mother is the woman of my young age so i don't play with her, she will join us soon. And the truth is i love bringing my children up my self because many women are too emotional,

Samantha124:
Where's the mother and how does she feels about it?

You claim that women are too emotional, yet you'll still need female assistance in raising those children...

Women have been emotional for thousands of years, but it doesn't change that only they have the talent to nurture and raise children... Your daughter needs her mother in her life in order to grow into a wonderful feminine young woman, else she might end up turning into a tomboy.

Even a son needs his mother in his life... It's those emotions that help women into becoming wonderful mothers.

Tell me this, were you raised only by your father?

talented321:
The mother dey sha, the mother is the woman of my young age so i don't play with her, she will join us soon. And the truth is i love bringing my children up my self because many women are too emotional,

My point is no woman will not raise my child without me present, i never said i don't want woman, why we are coming together is first she has try for me, i know what she went through when i do mistake in business and broke, beside she carry my child when she is 17 while i am 18 when we are in school. We have gone a long way and i don't want to disappoint her for that. Not because of daughter solely

Samantha124:
You claim that women are too emotional, yet you'll still need female assistance in raising those children...

Women have been emotional for thousands of years, but it doesn't change that only they have the talent to nurture and raise children... Your daughter needs her mother in her life in order to grow into a wonderful feminine young woman, else she might end up turning into a tomboy.

Even a son needs his mother in his life... It's those emotions that help women into becoming wonderful mothers.

Tell me this, were you raised only by your father?

My own way of dealing with my women might be different from others, i don't know why i can't easily believe women. I never want and will not rush into any marriage. As far my children are with me i am fine.

Samantha124:
You claim that women are too emotional, yet you'll still need female assistance in raising those children...

Women have been emotional for thousands of years, but it doesn't change that only they have the talent to nurture and raise children... Your daughter needs her mother in her life in order to grow into a wonderful feminine young woman, else she might end up turning into a tomboy.

Even a son needs his mother in his life... It's those emotions that help women into becoming wonderful mothers.

Tell me this, were you raised only by your father?

Naughty guy, what were you doing impregnating a girl at 18?

talented321:
My point is no woman will not raise my child without me present, i never said i don't want woman, why we are coming together is first she has try for me, i know what she went through when i do mistake in business and broke, beside she carry my child when she is 17 while i am 18 when we are in school. We have gone a long way and i don't want to disappoint her for that. Not because of daughter solely