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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by VicUkegbu(m): 10:50am On Jun 28, 2023
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Something like this
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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Chidolalar: 10:57am On Jun 28, 2023
theamazonguru:


I feel you bro.
I was in your shoes In 2018.

Mine was loosing over 10m in total to ponzi.
Then I had access to flow of cash. So I kept investing in millions and I kept loosing. In order to make up the loss from one platform I will invest in another.
All this happened in 2016-2017.
Then I made up my mind to run away from ponzi.
I did till I was introduced to another platform called Micheno Cooperative society in 2018. They claimed they were a cooperative society. We paid registration fee to join. So I joined their WhatsApp group and was watching proceeding for a whole year till I got convinced that they were genuine (so I thought).
But unfortunately, at that time I didn't have money to invest. So I foolishly took a loan of 2m from the loan sharks.
The same month I invested was the same month they crashed.
And I had to be doing monthly repayment of 224k for 18 months.

I kept working out my ass , even borrowed money to meet up the monthly repayment.

I became a shadow of myself as it was not easy meeting up.
I almost died.
I was suicidal.
I almost lost my sanity.
But thanks to God for a good wife and an understanding family. They kept encouraging me. And I readjusted my life style too. Reduced bills payments, feeding allowance, in fact changed church to a new place where I had zero financial commitment.

This is 5 years after.
I live in my own house. A duplex in a prime location in the state where I reside.
I have peace of mind.
Life is good and sweet abeg.

Don't ever give up.
Don't ever commit suicide.
There is hope.
Just keep pushing.
Believe in God and his Grace to see you through and help you.

No man can help you, only God can.
Hold unto him tight.

I thing I can tell you is this, you will come out stronger and better. Your failure should be a motivation for your eventual success. Don't less failure tie you to a spot. Keep trying.


Peace.
U didn't finish narrating your story.
How did u later pay up d loan u collected from loan sharks?
How did u later build your house you are living now and how did u make over 10m?

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Huracan(m): 10:59am On Jun 28, 2023
Ara21:


Same thing with me.
I wanted to make everyone happy that I will give up anything for them, sadly I just realised that they don't feel same about me they just want me to keep bringing whether I have it or not, they have forgotten all the sacrifices I made in the past not minding that I am a woman.

I feel your pain I did the same thing as a young dude, but what did I get in return?? Same as you
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by VicUkegbu(m): 11:00am On Jun 28, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


One of the easiest way to become wealthy is to be skilled, aunty. Have very valuable and sellable skills that can endear people to you. Especially in this part of the clime wey be say nothing for you if you no stretch. So many graduates out there working and living on peanuts. Shey na 200k job wan make you rich? Or what exactly is your definition of wealth?

Education will take you far, but your skills will take you further if not farthest.

Exactly 💯.

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:01am On Jun 28, 2023
Chidolalar:

I know waitress make tips from customers but not to d extent of making such a huge amount of money irrespective of how big and massive d club is in Nigeria.

My dear, what you don't know is bigger than you. Sometimes, when the likes of Davido or Jowizaza enter club, you know how much he dey tip us? No be naira. In dollars. Omo. Abeg. I once made about 1500$ in one night. Just from tips alone. I just can't go back to such jobs again.

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by VicUkegbu(m): 11:02am On Jun 28, 2023
Popeonah:
I did not start yahoo yahoo on time

Hope you're doing it now?
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by LeopardX: 11:09am On Jun 28, 2023
VicUkegbu:


I am preparing for my NYSC next month and I know how the country can be on graduates. I am a First class graduate but I conditioned my mindset on skill acquisition, I am a data analyst (although I haven't gotten a full time job with it) and after or during nysc I will pay to learn solar, cctv installation.

This life isn't for the weak, I'll use my certificate too but I focus mainly on skill acquisition.
......and you'll not have any cause for regrets. I wish you well bro. ✌️

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:15am On Jun 28, 2023
djoe21:


Gambling is worse.

I doubt. Except greed sets in. Greed is what makes people lose heavily.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by virginboy1(m): 11:17am On Jun 28, 2023
Shorty1980:
At 43 ,I regret getting married

Omo I almost got married 5 years ago.
To be frank, I would have regretted it ooo. sad

I can imagine your plight

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:18am On Jun 28, 2023
Yungmil:



How are you coping with your stuttern programs? Hope it's moving fine

How did you get the cubana club job and is it still lucrative? How can one apply?

I believe you have gotten and still getting help from people you don't even know or has ever help(think about this).

Please don't ignore my advice. Thank you ma

I got the job through someone that knew someone at the time. You can't just go there to apply and get it.

And yeah, my Stutern program is going on well, thank you.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Chidolalar: 11:27am On Jun 28, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


My dear, what you don't know is bigger than you. Sometimes, when the likes of Davido or Jowizaza enter club, you know how much he dey tip us? No be naira. In dollars. Omo. Abeg. I once made about 1500$ in one night. Just from tips alone. I just can't go back to such jobs again.
But davido and those rich celebs don't come to d club Everytime.
Where is d club located and why don't u want to go back again
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Masterdazhem: 11:27am On Jun 28, 2023
No regrets
Life is a b***t we all gonna die one way or the other.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:30am On Jun 28, 2023
Chidolalar:

But davido and those rich celebs don't come to d club Everytime.
Where is d club located and why don't u want to go back again

Na only Davido them get money? You have never seen rich men who aren't famous or what? Come, you never enter big clubs before like Quilox or Cubana? Go there and come back to tell me how far. You will understand that money is like paper to some people. Na you never just get am.

Also, I can't do such jobs anymore. As one ages, it's pertinent to have a befitting career.

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Pat081: 11:38am On Jun 28, 2023
Cassandraloius:


Well after 5 years one strange number called me, and was saying, it's me pls I'm sorry for everything I have done to you, I didn't hesitate to block him.
See now

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Idaytesj29(m): 11:38am On Jun 28, 2023
Slynation:
Make I go dey mine this PI o, I stopped long ago, but I still have some tangible amount of it with me...

Pls do. You have absolutely nothing to lose.
It's already 23 USD on some exchanges like Huobi, CMC etc but on futures.

We never can tell what the future holds for it. It's a sensible risk to be part of it.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by DCmaverick(m): 11:39am On Jun 28, 2023
Not deflowering Annietom wen she was begging me to do it, nw she don break up wit me

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by tonididdy(m): 11:42am On Jun 28, 2023
Chidolalar:

I know waitress make tips from customers but not to d extent of making such a huge amount of money irrespective of how big and massive d club is in Nigeria.

Lol u dunno nuttin then.
An elite club if you squeeze in 100k in the bill…the drunk payee has no time to check every item letter for letter.
There are so many ways to make money in such environment without anyone seeing the colors of her pant ( if that’s what’ you suspecting)

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by davidtuzy(m): 11:51am On Jun 28, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Na only Davido them get money? You have never seen rich men who aren't famous or what? Come, you never enter big clubs before like Quilox or Cubana? Go there and come back to tell me how far. You will understand that money is like paper to some people. Na you never just get am.

Also, I can't do such jobs anymore. As one ages, it's pertinent to have a befitting career.

∆∆∆ Have been reading all ur Comments and I Must Confess, U Sound really Intelligent and Inspiring °°° are U from Akwa-ibom State?..
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:55am On Jun 28, 2023
davidtuzy:


∆∆∆ Have been reading all ur Comments and I Must Confess, U Sound really Intelligent and Inspiring °°° are U from Akwa-ibom State?...
Hope to meet U Someday ∆∆

Thank you very much. Yes, I'm from AKS.

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:01pm On Jun 28, 2023
tonididdy:


Lol u dunno nuttin then.
An elite club if you squeeze in 100k in the bill…the drunk payee has no time to check every item letter for letter.
There are so many ways to make money in such environment without anyone seeing the colors of her pant ( if that’s what’ you suspecting)

Leave am. Make e dey ask me questions like lawyer. grin. Maybe he doesn't know who Cubana or what Cubana club looks like.

I don't blame him, people will always doubt what they haven't experienced. For example, Hennessy VS in wholesale shops could cost 70-100k but clubs go sell for over 300-400k, and with other special features, could cost more. Me wey dey sell fit add 50k or 100k. No time for questions. They WILL pay! 🤣

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Cassandraloius: 12:07pm On Jun 28, 2023
Banbanna:
Some people conscience dey stony sha. The thing no just dey prick at all. So the guy couldn't even find a way to make restitution to you. Well, Karma exists though. He must pay back in other ways but not necessarily to you.

I cried and cursed him, it really pained me, after 5 years, on a good day, one strange number called me and was saying, he was the one, that I should forgive and forget, that things are tough for him, I blocked him at once.

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by davidtuzy(m): 12:15pm On Jun 28, 2023
Chidolalar:

But davido and those rich celebs don't come to d club Everytime.
Where is d club located and why don't u want to go back again

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∆∆ Try Out Dix Night Club's During Weekend's, Then U Will Understand that there are Thousands of Rich Nigga's in dix Country dat Aren't Famous™

°° Cubana - V.i & Ikeja
°° Rumors
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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by adewale2011(m): 12:17pm On Jun 28, 2023




Nothing





OkwuMajesty:
My regret: being too anxious and not assertive enough, I regret not coming out sooner. Wasted years worrying about it, worrying about pretty much everything. All the time,being too afraid to live.

I used to think my family can't survive without me, so I wasted enough time trying to be almost everything possible for them, but I was totally wrong.

What's yours
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by VicUkegbu(m): 12:22pm On Jun 28, 2023
1. Wanted to venture into a business around 2018, I had little knowledge about it so I optioned to use the capital and invest in crypto on a Nigerian owned exchange while I further study the business and make enquiries. I could only buy the coin through Peer 2 Peer transaction, I sent 85% of the capital to the buyer on the platform and that was how the money was gone.
2. Not fully engaging in tech in my 100L days in university, although I did at a latter stage.

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Chidolalar: 12:26pm On Jun 28, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Na only Davido them get money? You have never seen rich men who aren't famous or what? Come, you never enter big clubs before like Quilox or Cubana? Go there and come back to tell me how far. You will understand that money is like paper to some people. Na you never just get am.

Also, I can't do such jobs anymore. As one ages, it's pertinent to have a befitting career.
Ok. U did not tell me where d club is located after asking u in your last reply. I want to know where d club is located so as to apply there and make d tips u were making when u were working there. Or better still u can help me connect the person that connected u in getting d job.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by professore(m): 12:28pm On Jun 28, 2023
Nackzy:
37
Age has gone but don't let it bother you. Why? If it bothers you, you will unconsciously be chasing potential ladies away. In essence, smile and be genuinely happy. Also, be deliberate about your strategies, make efforts (but don't be desperate).

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by NBAjunior: 12:32pm On Jun 28, 2023
DaveHarry:
I will always say I curse the day I started gambling heavily. that is my no. 1 regret. No. 2 is not banging the pussies of oghale and Sandra thinking we would never separate. No. 3 been too kindhearted and having too much sympathy at d slightest plea; I dey dash out my rent money just to see that person happy again. No. 4 putting family needs above mine. Now nobody is here for me in my hard time. Those are my only regrets.

Where you dating the both of them?
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Divay22(f): 12:32pm On Jun 28, 2023
CalmElder:






I can but I hate it when I have to.

Nothing as liberating as being genuine
Yeah.. You're right..
You're just yourself too bad people take advantage of that

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by lollybizzu(m): 12:32pm On Jun 28, 2023
Aaaaarghmed:
she was very immatured,people easily confuse her,we fixed date for introduction more than 3 times and she kept postponing for no tangible reason,almost made me a laughing stock,my prayer is that someone will also lead her on and dump her at the final stage.

She's not ready. I hope you didn't spend much on her. Move on you'll find a better woman.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Chidolalar: 12:40pm On Jun 28, 2023
tonididdy:


Lol u dunno nuttin then.
An elite club if you squeeze in 100k in the bill…the drunk payee has no time to check every item letter for letter.
There are so many ways to make money in such environment without anyone seeing the colors of her pant ( if that’s what’ you suspecting)
Ok. Don't u think nemesis can catch up with d person someday and d management finds out. Or d payee makes investigation on d bill u are giving to him to know d true bill u presented to him. Is dat not sack and consequences befallen d person
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by DaveHarry(m): 12:41pm On Jun 28, 2023
NBAjunior:


Where you dating the both of them?
One at a time one before the other the former first
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by NBAjunior: 12:55pm On Jun 28, 2023
DaveHarry:

One at a time one before the other the former first

Hmmm, and they were not virgins oo? You just decided not to have sex with them?

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