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Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by Facelessforum1: 4:33pm On Jul 10, 2023
overdrive:


How can one contact you?

Here
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by Adgraced: 4:42pm On Jul 10, 2023
Pojomojo:
From DM
Go for IUI its cheaper, between 300K to 500K. Otherwise hope on God for a miracle. God still does wonders for those that believe!

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Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by donbenie(m): 4:51pm On Jul 10, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:
OP, 5 years and you're running out of patience.

Women should learn to be ruthless and selfish when it comes to taking several decisions like this one. Many men in this dispensation wouldn't take half of what you accept from them. If this man was the problem, the woman would have hung in there, stayed patient, prayed, and done whatever society expects of a good wife. Should we turn this table and demand the same measure from men, they will leave you in a heartbeat unapologetically.

Lest I digress, there are several invasive and alternative methods your wife's predicament can be treated which can make her tubes open. Leave IVF. Consider alternative and herbal methods as well.

As a couple who wants children, I would always advise not to leave caution to the wind after a year of trying for a baby. Problems are better solved from the infantile stage.

If you are reading this thread yourself and the thread originally belongs to you and not some ploy to garner comments from Rubyjade and friends, I'll implore you to follow @fertilitywarrior_withadesewa on Instagram. Send her a message and perhaps, if you like, you can book a session with her. I can assure you with my full chest that you'll carry your baby in your arms soon.

With the advent of natural herbs, alternative medicines and roots, and technology, infertility is a past worry. Don't despair. You'll have your child soon. My thoughts are with your wife. I can't imagine the pressure and worries she must be passing through.

Cheers.
If it's a man's fault,the woman would have gotten pregnant from outside and hang it on the man..
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by donbenie(m): 4:54pm On Jul 10, 2023
MrBrownJay1:
the important question here is: WHATS MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU?
A) is it the look of your friends/society on your marriage?
B) is it your wife and family?
C) is it to have a child by any means necessary?
or better yet, D) why did you get married to this woman?!

He got married because he wants children..
What's with all these guilt tripping?
Should he apologize because he wants children?
It's HIS LIFE and he doesn't owe you any apologies for his priorities.
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by donbenie(m): 4:55pm On Jul 10, 2023
Purvan:
Go for adoption or go the surrogate route
Person way not get money,dey do surrogacy?🤦
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by donbenie(m): 4:56pm On Jul 10, 2023
kelvindj98:
She is probably barren
Great realization, Sherlock..😂
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by donbenie(m): 5:00pm On Jul 10, 2023
Lannyjoe4u:
Patience
Indeed..
So,so easy to say when you are not the one wearing the shoe .
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by donbenie(m): 5:01pm On Jul 10, 2023
MindHacker9009:
With all the problems in this world why are people still so obsessed with bringing kids to this world. You are blessed when you have a woman that canot get pregnant as you don't have to buy condoms if both of you ae safe.
This is what happens when you use your life options to judge others..
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by achimendy(m): 5:01pm On Jul 10, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:
OP, 5 years and you're running out of patience.

Women should learn to be ruthless and selfish when it comes to taking several decisions like this one. Many men in this dispensation wouldn't take half of what you accept from them. If this man was the problem, the woman would have hung in there, stayed patient, prayed, and done whatever society expects of a good wife. Should we turn this table and demand the same measure from men, they will leave you in a heartbeat unapologetically.

Lest I digress, there are several invasive and alternative methods your wife's predicament can be treated which can make her tubes open. Leave IVF. Consider alternative and herbal methods as well.

As a couple who wants children, I would always advise not to leave caution to the wind after a year of trying for a baby. Problems are better solved from the infantile stage.

If you are reading this thread yourself and the thread originally belongs to you and not some ploy to garner comments from Rubyjade and friends, I'll implore you to follow @fertilitywarrior_withadesewa on Instagram. Send her a message and perhaps, if you like, you can book a session with her. I can assure you with my full chest that you'll carry your baby in your arms soon.

With the advent of natural herbs, alternative medicines and roots, and technology, infertility is a past worry. Don't despair. You'll have your child soon. My thoughts are with your wife. I can't imagine the pressure and worries she must be passing through.

Cheers.



As you're encouraging your fellow women to be ruthless in treating their husband's in situations like this, you should also encourage them to ruthlessly hustle and add value to their lives too. Just to balance up.



My opinion though.

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Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by donbenie(m): 5:02pm On Jul 10, 2023
MrBroke:
The Slaves of Society. So you got married to give birth to kids. Go and marry another wife and give birth to your children. I tell people everyday, if eventually i get married, it has to be somebody who thinks and live like me not a Society person who don't know what they want from life. I pity your wife sha.
He knows what he wants..
He WANTS children..
How you live your life,is not a yardstick for how others live THEIR LIVES..
Stop sounding daft..
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by donbenie(m): 5:07pm On Jul 10, 2023
oloriooko:
hello mr "am walking out of patience" some words for you:

1. did you marry the woman or baby manufacturing company
2. are you aware the lady is in more distress than you are about this condition?
3. are your friends good friends that laugh at their so called friend's misfortune
4. how are you taking care of your wife in this trying time? is it by walking out on her or sticking to her?
5. FYI marriage is first meant for companionship while kids are added
6. stop living for your friends, live for yourself (you + your wife)
7. you can get the kids and lose them all in one day (ask the parents of sosoliso air crash years ago, God console them!)
8. if you don't put your head right, you will destroy your future
9. and who told you she won't eventually conceive for you!

finally, i know of a couple childless for 30+yrs but are closest pallies
He wants children..
And he doesn't have to apologize for it, to you or any other..
Some couples don't want children,that is their business..
He wants children..
It's HIS LIFE..

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Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by donbenie(m): 5:11pm On Jul 10, 2023
SonofGod231:

What are even saying?!
Is this enough reason to dissolve the marriage?
In this age and time 🤔
Shey,this will fix the woman's problem?
It is enough reason to dissolve marriages..
A childless marriage can be a loveless union..
Why should you stick in a union devoid of love and happiness?
And what does 'this day and age' have to do with it?
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by MindHacker9009(m): 5:17pm On Jul 10, 2023
donbenie:
This is what happens when you use your life options to judge others..

I can feed you and all your generations.
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by VULCAN(m): 5:18pm On Jul 10, 2023
7am tmrw type in NSPPD on YouTube and join along in the prayer.

Sooner or later, your case will be mentioned and your wife will conceive like others before her.

Hospitals have turned IVF into virtual betting.

Therefore, The house ALWAYS wins

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Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by Teetee777: 5:26pm On Jul 10, 2023
odave:


I sent you an email, please respond. I have someone who needs the herb
I don't sell herbs or advertise any product but I just want to help the op, and I would have told him how to do the herbs by himself because I don't have time for herbs because of the nature of my job.
Check my post or topic my no is there.
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by MrBroke(m): 5:27pm On Jul 10, 2023
donbenie:
He knows what he wants..
He WANTS children..
How you live your life,is not a yardstick for how others live THEIR LIVES..
Stop sounding daft..

I told him to get another wife. You can't read or something. I ain't the solution to your problems so go bark elsewhere
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:28pm On Jul 10, 2023
prophetfire:
It's obvious he's jobless. Take him and give him work in your shop.

I will consider it.

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Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:34pm On Jul 10, 2023
Mitsurugi:




You don't seem serious. Aren't you the one that dropped a number on your signature for business?

Seem serious about what? He's not a potential customer. He's a troll.
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by haybhi1(m): 5:38pm On Jul 10, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. If you know how long I have known those monikers and watched “their” consistency, you won't be saying this.

I don't need unsolicited messages, please. They won't be attended to.

You're not bright. Just because of a few minutes star you want to have, you chased off a potential customer. You people and emotions sha
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:39pm On Jul 10, 2023
Ezyp:


Is it safe to write that you might also be one his monikers because from this statement you wrote "Attack yourself with one".

Probably you are attacking yourself now grin grin

Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:40pm On Jul 10, 2023
haybhi1:


You're not bright. Just because of a few minutes star you want to have, you chased off a potential customer. You people and emotions sha

Not bright? grin

I said he's not a potential customer. Even the message he claimed to send, I didn't see. Looks like you're new to the game. You can't recognize trolls when you see them. grin
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:42pm On Jul 10, 2023
Branduche:


Mehn that was one hell of a study. Took you few days?

Has been on for years.

If you are very familiar with “their” moniker, you'd understand. grin
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:44pm On Jul 10, 2023
001Lagos:

Shut up abeg , always quick to spew thrash . I pity any man that will marry you

Lol. Pity yourself first. cheesy
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:45pm On Jul 10, 2023
NeckingNgulping:


How are we sure you are not one of the people in Rubyjade's coven, devising means to garner traffic for their purpose just as you claim?

I'm saying this because of your last lines.

And what did my last lines say? Trying to cheer him and his wife up is “attention seeking”?
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:52pm On Jul 10, 2023
achimendy:




As you're encouraging your fellow women to be ruthless in treating their husband's in situations like this, you should also encourage them to ruthlessly hustle and add value to their lives too. Just to balance up.



My opinion though.



It would interest you to know that many women are the main financier of their homes. That it never gets to the ears of the public doesn't mean it doesn't happen. But then, let us pretend that men are the sole providers. 😃
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:53pm On Jul 10, 2023
donbenie:
If it's a man's fault,the woman would have gotten pregnant from outside and hang it on the man..

“Smear campaign”.
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:55pm On Jul 10, 2023
Oyerinde16:


She will definitely hang there when she isn't the one providing... Had it being she was feeding a full-grown man who can't perform, then she would know what the diff is... Someone's son will spend his life savings on a fellow man for 5yrs... Just eating and shitting... And you want him to hang on... What's the diff btw just throwing the money into the waste bin... Nothing... After all both don't produce anything... If that guy know what's good better look for a productive woman and move... Before pity will kill u... Don't worry, your friends kids and younger ones kids will soon start calling u brother, your eye go soon clear...

Children are not the sole purpose of marriage. They are one of the spices. If you people don't understand this, then leave it. Not like he has agreed to explore other methods to ameliorate the issue. Just this and he's out.

Women are trying.

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Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:56pm On Jul 10, 2023
maasoap:

Or, probably would have downloaded enough bastarrds for SIMPle man

Did it happen to you?
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by boxypane(m): 5:56pm On Jul 10, 2023
izonborn098:
One of the reasons i get only single moms.
Allow her to get pregnant or carry ur child before marriage, imagine u just feed her for 5 good years without any gain.
I don't have time to waste my cash on any useless woman in the name of wedding.
You define his wife as useless all because she has a medical issue that's not her fault in anyway?
Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by boxypane(m): 5:58pm On Jul 10, 2023
Rubyjade:
Yes, but there's no guarantees.
It works 90% of the time.

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Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by mkoabiola: 6:07pm On Jul 10, 2023
It can be very worrisome

My friend has been married for 9 years stil waiting

E no eazy

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Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by Olarewaju89: 6:16pm On Jul 10, 2023
fx45:
Una don play reach WhatsApp. Next the play go enter hotel room

You no get sense at all. Which hotel?
I'm a married man i don't do kind of rubbish.

Besides, how does it concerns you self

Amebo! undecided

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