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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by felvick(m): 7:50am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Nobody told me to be careful and check every vuji milk or hollandia milk containers carefully before drinking them when your wife is pregnant....so you don't end up drinking her spit. 3 Likes |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by pekisdgee(m): 7:53am On Jul 15, 2023 |
datola:if your parent are still alive ask them if is a scam... that your old age you will understand |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by EriMma1: 7:55am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Suspect33: "Best thing to happen to women" my foot! Defense mechanisms kor defense organisms Nii.. Look, the stage I'm in now is called "maximizing your youth" and I'm taking full advantage of that cos I'll soon be married and give up the freedom that comes with being a youth till God knows when. Mr "defence mechanism", you don hia ram? |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Suspect33(m): 8:01am On Jul 15, 2023 |
EriMma1:oh, so it's no longer a cage again, I'd think any sensible human would avoid anything that seemed to be a 'cage', unless, maybe it's not a cage and they only termed it so as a means of coping with the fact that they don't have it "Cos I'll be married soon" no you won't , stop lying madam, anyone who will be married soon wouldn't give marriage a negative connotation, only those who've lost hope that they'd ever walk down that aisle 2 Likes |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by AlphaHakimi: 8:03am On Jul 15, 2023 |
maestro299: Initially, marriage was solely made to be a union where the man is the head of that union and the woman is the body of the union. Human beings are social in nature that is why we always want to belong to one group or another. However, marriage has continually evolved into a weapon subtly used by women to gain control of men. You want to sleep with a woman and she says "marry me first". What if you marry her today and after sleeping with her 2 or 3 times you divorce her. If women were in our shoes that's how they will treat us. Women are transactional in nature. There is nothing they give you without expecting something in return. In contrast, they expect men to give them something without expecting anything in return. Let me make you understand this, women complain that the can not go out on a date if the guy is not willing to spend. However, they don't understand that their pussy means to them what our money means to us. In essence, they want you to freely part with your money while placing conditions on their body. This is wrong. Must a man spend money on a date with you?. Why not split the check on your dates. This is why I talk about manipulation. Women want to manipulate men into doing their bidding. My advice to men is this, never be scared to negotiate from the onset. If you want sex from a girl, firmly make your intentions known. A woman that does not want to sleep with you should also not spend your money. Otherwise what do we gain from it?. You loose money and you get no sex??. Now women and SIMPs will attack me with the following -Don't you have mothers or sisters? -Everything you want is sex - Must you sleep with a girl because you took her on a date etc Please understand that women will try to do everything to make sex look like a bad thing so that once you mention sex, everyone thinks of you as a bad person. My brothers please NEVER look at sex as a bad thing. The urge for sex is natural and its just like the urge for food, the urge to take a drink, the urge to use the restroom, the urge to sleep. It's all part of nature so you should embrace it. Don't feel ashamed to ask for what you want. Shalom 16 Likes |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Iyajelili(f): 8:08am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Marrying wrong will be your worst mistake ever. |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Livingstone124: 8:11am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Zyxsc:Bros too much oil dey ur head 2 Likes |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Jeezuzpick(m): 8:18am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Zonefree: How do you know? |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Bluearrow: 8:20am On Jul 15, 2023 |
EriMma1:Yes it seems cool enjoying now till u get old with no one around, only then u will understand. Nothing anyone will tell u now that will make u understand. Old age for a single woman without a family is a very miserable one. 1 Like |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by DaRuud(m): 8:30am On Jul 15, 2023 |
May God bless all responsible men out there in this Renewed Hopeless Shege Era . Bills na shege House Rent Food Water Security bills Light bill Utility bills Cloth Shoes Furniture Gas Utensils Data Dstv Transportation Pampers SMA gold Nutribom Weekend stroll Suya Meat Eateries Birthday Pads School fees Lesson fees. Parents money Sibbling money In-law money Wife's friends Visitors Unexpected visitors Regular visitors Manson1: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by AlphaHakimi: 8:30am On Jul 15, 2023 |
vickydevoka: My brother, The reason why I always say that this present day marriage does not favour men is because of VALUE. Now you may want to know what I mean by value. Value is the worth attached to something. Men do not marry a woman because she can provide. Men do not marry because a woman can protect. Men marry unconditionally. This is why men love unconditionally. This love is akin to the kind of Love Jesus has for us. It is an unconditional love. This is why a man can marry a poor, illiterate, village girl and bring her to the city and change her life and the life of her family forever without asking for anything in return. On the other hand, women marry on the condition that you provide something. You provide, protect, lead etc. If you're unable to do these things, they will say "he is not yet matured for marriage" Now as a man, as you age, your value as a marriage able man increases. On the other hand, as a woman ages, her value as a marriage able woman decreases. This is why women hate polygamy. They know that when you are ready to practice polygamy, they will no longer be among those you will truly want. This is why they are against polygamy. People may argue that women can also decide to practice polyandry but it will not favour them because once they clock 50yrs their husband's will look for someone younger. The only natural requirement for a man to get married according to nature is if he can impregnate a women. Women are the once attaching other things like provision, protection etc. So ask yourself this question, why would you stick with one woman when your value increases. Why stay in such bondage. When women had the womanly value, they had several partners and that was when they think the whole world revolves around them. But when it's your turn to have the whole world around your finger tip, women would now want you to be monogamous. The purest form of unconditional love you can ever get from a woman is that of your Mother. She is the only woman that can love you unconditionally and that is the kind of live men seek from their wives. Do not come here to tell me I have sisters or a mother. I JUST WANT TO REMIND YOU THAT YOUR MOTHER IS YOUR FATHERS WIFE AND HENCE SHE WILL MANIPULATE HIM BUT SHE WILL LOVE YOU. YOUR SISTERS WILL MANIPULATE THEIR HUSBANDS BUT THEY WILL LOVE YOU. SO THE TYPE OF MANIPULATION YOU WILL GET FROM WOMEN DEPENDS 100% ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM. 10 Likes |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Nobody: 8:32am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Marriage is nice when you meet a life long caring, humble, supportive and understanding partner. On the long run, marriage is a SCAM. 1 Like |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by EriMma1: 8:35am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Bluearrow:Tell that to your sisters. |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by wumi2017(f): 8:37am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Hunmmmm .noted |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Iyajelili(f): 8:49am On Jul 15, 2023 |
AlphaHakimi:No, it is geared at hating women and it is so sad seeing almost all men on this thread blaming women for everything wrong in a marriage whereas there are women genuinely being maltreated, disrespected and trampled on by their husbands. 1 Like |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by AlphaHakimi: 8:55am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Iyajelili: This is because men don't complain. Women are always the once complaining and taking sides. If my messages are not sweet to you, that's because I'm telling you the truth. The truth is always bitter. PLEASE NOTE THAT MY MESSAGES ARE NOT MISOGYNISTIC. BUT IF YOU TAKE IT THAT WAY, THEN ITS FINE. WHATEVER MAKES YOU SLEEP WELL AT NIGHT. 11 Likes |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by na2016: 9:02am On Jul 15, 2023 |
4) Your in-laws are not your friends. Relate with them with caution. OP: Could expand on this point please? |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Bluearrow: 9:09am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:12am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Zyxsc:This is so scary and is true 1 Like |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Babastrong(m): 9:12am On Jul 15, 2023 |
That/fu*king/the/breasts/is/sweeter/than/fu*king/the/kpekus/with/condom/when/you/are/avoiding/unplanned/pregnant. |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:13am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Cholls:Hahahhahahaha after you have her in your room 24/7 |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:13am On Jul 15, 2023 |
b3llo:Chai |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:14am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Celepope:100% |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by chccho(m): 9:15am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Zyxsc:40 is not to old for a man to marry ke!!! Wetin go remain for him body |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:15am On Jul 15, 2023 |
olisefom:Please you guys should stop scaring us |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:16am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Olarewaju89:This is scary what's the solution then? |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:17am On Jul 15, 2023 |
seanwilliam:Haha |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by MN07: 9:18am On Jul 15, 2023 |
You people complain and whine a lot. If you want to marry go ahead, if you don't want to fine, you rest. 1 Like |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:22am On Jul 15, 2023 |
AlphaHakimi: |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by gentlegenius(m): 9:23am On Jul 15, 2023 |
OBTOREPA:Partially married? |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:23am On Jul 15, 2023 |
JimD:Where is the writing? |
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:24am On Jul 15, 2023 |
abobote:Blood of Zachariah How is that possible? |
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