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Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by duduade(m): 4:14am On Jul 17, 2023
Nollywood scripts by the way
LOOOOL


By the way it might look like the aunty is just using him
But she could succumb soon....

But you blowing the whistle I don't know o.... Just be careful
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by manmade(m): 4:26am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
Never had the intention but had to when the man's love messages came in while trying to take pictures with her phone. Curiosity got the better part of me because e shock me to my bone marrow
continue to give yourself headache over a matter that didn't concern you, this is obviously not your first time of prying into people fprivacy without permission, I will give my good advice that you should delete the messages and mind your business.
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by manmade(m): 4:31am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
Kai whenever I think of the shame that will befall her, it makes me hold back. I just want to monitor them and whenever I see that she's going soft with him in his love making request I'll quickly borrow courage and confront her so that it'll never happen. Hmmm I'm still so shocked
The same spirit of curiosity killed cat, stay away from things that doesn't concern you, it get why,l....
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by deewhydoski(m): 5:58am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
Thanks, good night
You are playing with fire which end results might lead to death. Be very careful how u trend on this matter, someone gave u two valid reasons why the lady may plot death against you if the whole thing come out. One guy has given you best advice and the best thing you could do is to use another sim card and threaten this lady that if she doesn't desist from the shameful act that you will expose her. Wisdom is profitable to direct aunty use your sense
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Osashalom: 6:46am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
From their chats she has strongly resisted all form of private meeting or physical romance aside their exchange of love chats, so I think her conscience is still working for now but that man is not backing down, he's hell bent on sleeping with her and the aunty told her that'll never be possible. I don't know when I'll recover from this shock because the aunty is someone I never expected such from.
What is wrong with you sef? That aunty is much more better than you. You have said this woman have resisted all private advances and made it clear she can't have sex with him. Yet you won't stop assassinating her personality. That aunty is better than you. Your type would have long cum under the man. That Man has more blame and evil in this matter. After the man is you who snooped on people's phone, then the aunty may come next .
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 6:54am On Jul 17, 2023
Osashalom:
What is wrong with you sef? That aunty is much more better than you. You have said this woman have resisted all private advances and made it clear she can't have sex with him. Yet you won't stop assassinating her personality. That aunty is better than you. Your type would have long cum under the man. That Man has more blame and evil in this matter. After the man is you who snooped on people's phone, then the aunty may come next .
If aunty had not agreed to his love request it won't have led to me finding out. How is she better than me? Wasn't it a coincidence that led to my seeing the love messages? These are people I know very well as a family, why are you guys not condemning the man and aunt and why is no one talking about the innocent wife who doesn't deserve all these from her so called big cousin. Hmm this world ehn
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 6:58am On Jul 17, 2023
luminouz:
I concur. I have never seen such uselessness in my life. You had the guts to export someone's chats? That's straight up thievery, and that makes such person as bad as bank robbers and politicians like Gandollar. She should be arrested and thrown to jail for breach of privacy, theft and slander. Then she should be sacked without a kobo paid for work done. Such a person can leak company's secrets. Tufiakwa!!!

I recommend that the judge gives the wîtch 30 years with hard labour.🙂🙂🙂🙂
You are evil and as such it's not strange that you support anything evil.
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody:
Talk to the aunty about it. Have a one on one conversation with her, that you saw the messages. Tell her to use her head and think about the consequences. She has break her marriage, she be not the one to break another person's marriage.

Avoid those who will tell you to mind your business. Satan is real.

IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.
They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.
Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex
Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms. Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.
What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't. Please how do I go about this?
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 7:25am On Jul 17, 2023
eDarlling:
Talk to the anty about it. Have a one on one conversation with her, that you saw the messages. Tell her to use her head and think about the consequences. She has break her marriage, she be not the one to break another person's marriage.

Avoid those who will tell you to mind your business.

Satan is real.
Thanks for this, I even believe it was God who made me saw those messages so I can stop the abomination that's looming. Unfortunately some people blame me for bumping into the message
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Thinktank02: 7:31am On Jul 17, 2023
I understand how you feel about this incestuous relationship the aunt is having with her cousin's husband but the truth is wisdom is profitable to direct like someone has quoted the Holy writ.

If you feel your conscience isn't at rest with these whole saga, make sure your identity isn't revealed while you confront the aunt, because the truth is you can't change or convict anyone to do the right thing.

Instead, they may gang up against you and work as a force to pull you down, and you will have regrets while you never minded your business in the first place.

These ones are sneaking behind their loved one to fulfill their fantasy and you think you can stop them without giving a good fight so as to not let their secrets out. Then you must be deluded.

They turn everything against you and fight you till you blame yourself. So tread cautiously, I'd advise you turn the other face but if you think you need to challenge them do it without any traces to you.

You're a good person, but please don't get yourself burnt by your being too good.
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 7:32am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
Thanks for this, I even believe it was God who made me saw those messages so I can stop the abomination that's looming. Unfortunately some people blame me for bumping into the message
Avoid those who blame or told you to mind your business. They are useless to themself and to others.

Talk to anty about it. She may reframe and come to her senses.
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 7:35am On Jul 17, 2023
Thinktank02:
I understand how you feel about this incestuous relationship the aunt is having with her cousin's husband but the truth is wisdom is profitable to direct like someone has quoted the Holy writ.

If you feel your conscience isn't at rest with these whole saga, make sure your identity isn't revealed while you confront the aunt, because the truth is you can't change or convict anyone to do the right thing.

Instead, they may gang up against you and work as a force to pull you down, and you will have regrets while you never minded your business in the first place.

These ones are sneaking behind their loved one to fulfill their fantasy and you think you can stop them without giving a good fight so as to not let their secrets out. Then you must be deluded.

They turn everything against you and fight you till you blame yourself. So tread cautiously, I'd advise you turn the other face but if you think you need to challenge them do it without any traces to you.

You're a good person, but please don't get yourself burnt by your being too good.
She can't do me anything and she wouldn't even dare, I'm just shy to approach her because she's a big aunty and she'll lose her confidence before me. It's not easy seeing them together and keeping shut knowing fully what's secretly going on between her and the cousin's husband
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 7:38am On Jul 17, 2023
eDarlling:
Avoid those who blame or told you to mind your business. They are useless to themself and to others.

Talk to anty about it. She may reframe and come to her senses.
This is what I intend doing but each time I see her and she starts playing her big aunty role, I just weak. That devilish man is the cause of all these rubbish, I don't even know how his wife will react if this thing ever gets leaked, it won't be funny, a big betrayal.
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by lomprico(m): 7:40am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.
They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.
Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex
Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms. Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.
What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't. Please how do I go about this?
Point of correction, sex is not an abominable act. Take note
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody:
IconicR:
This is what I intend doing but each time I see her and she starts playing her big aunty role, I just weak. That devilish man is the cause of all these rubbish, I don't even know how his wife will react if this thing ever gets leaked, it won't be funny, a big betrayal.
To be a man you have to learn to be blunt and hurt people feelings with the truth. Man up and tell anty you saw many love message came into her phone from that man.

Let her feel ashamed. She may come to her senses. There are many fools on nairaland, just avoid them.
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 7:42am On Jul 17, 2023
lomprico:
Point of correction, sex is not an abominable act. Take note
It is abominable if done with the wrong person
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by IamtheTruth1(m): 7:42am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.
They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.
Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex
Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms. Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.
What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't. Please how do I go about this?
Have you ever thought that the woman is just playing along just to keep her job safe? You did mention that he gave her the job and you also mentioned where the woman said she will never do anything to hurt her cousin.


Please, what’s your deal ?

Learn to mind your business.


The older I got the more i understood that not all truths deserves to be told. If you doubt me, go ahead and cast them na… then watch how it plays out.
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 7:47am On Jul 17, 2023
eDarlling:
To be a man you have to learn to be blunt and hurt people feelings with the truth. Man up and tell anty you saw many love message came into her phone from that man.

Let her feel ashamed. She may come to her senses. There are many fools and devils on nairaland, avoid them.
The least I could do as at last week was stylishly gossiping and telling her how her boss is a chronic womanizer and sleeps with anything and she was responding well and even telling me how he has many girlfriends outside and I was just shaking and and boiling inside and I'm like she knew all these and still decide to be his victim? I fear humans the more sha. Hmmmm
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by PortHarcourtcit(m): 7:49am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
The aunty is in her early 40s while the man should be in his 50s
who are you to this aunty? A friend, her nephew, niece, house help? Family friend? Or you be witch or monitoring spirit? If you cause wetin go make that woman lose her job enhhh Ogun fit strike you...
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 7:51am On Jul 17, 2023
IamtheTruth1:
Have you ever thought that the woman is just playing along just to keep her job safe? You did mention that he gave her the job and you also mentioned where the woman said she will never do anything to hurt her cousin.


Please, what’s your deal ?

Learn to mind your business.


The older I got the more i understood that not all truths deserves to be told. If you doubt me, go ahead and cast them na… then watch how it plays out.
She's cousin to his wife which is where my shock came from. If this thing eventually get leaked my conscience will never let me rest knowing fully well I could have done something to stop it which is why I came here for suggestions. That man must not sow the seed of discord in that family. You won't understand
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 7:53am On Jul 17, 2023
PortHarcourtcit:
who are you to this aunty? A friend, her nephew, niece, house help? Family friend? Or you be witch or monitoring spirit? If you cause wetin go make that woman lose her job enhhh Ogun fit strike you...
We are close family friend, very close. And what if the marriage breaks if it eventually get leaked? Sometimes minding one's business can cause a lot of damage. You won't understand
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 7:59am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
The least I could do as at last week was stylishly gossiping and telling her how her boss is a chronic womanizer and sleeps with anything and she was responding well and even telling me how he has many girlfriends outside and I was just shaking and and boiling inside and I'm like she knew all these and still decide to be his victim? I fear humans the more sha. Hmmmm
Women loves sexual attention even if the attention comes from the devils, they don't care.
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 8:04am On Jul 17, 2023
eDarlling:
Women loves sexual attention even if the attention comes from the devils, they don't care.
When she was jobless, it was her cousin that talked to her husband to help her out, the man intentionally placed her in his office (I read this part in their chats) to have easy access to her but she's the last person I ever expect to play this devilish game. I'll never trust anyone ever again around my future spouse. The world is a wicked place
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by PortHarcourtcit(m): 8:05am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
We are close family friend, very close. And what if the marriage breaks if it eventually get leaked? Sometimes minding one's business can cause a lot of damage. You won't understand
give me or anyone that is far from her ... If she notices that it is coming from you she will feel betrayed...
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by SenatePresdo(m): 8:20am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.
They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.
Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex
Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms. Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.
What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't. Please how do I go about this?
You mumu gan.

Couldn't you see that the hanty is trying to be easy with him so she doesn't get fired.

If she wanted to sleep with him, she would have done it long a go.

Understand women's game if you are not smart enough.
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 8:25am On Jul 17, 2023
SenatePresdo:
You mumu gan.

Couldn't you see that the hanty is trying to be easy with him so she doesn't get fired.

If she wanted to sleep with him, she would have done it long a go.

Understand women's game if you are not smart enough.
You are the mumu for not knowing she could later succumb against her wish since they are always together and the pressure from the man isn't stopping any time soon which is all her fault for trying to play this devilish game
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Osashalom: 8:34am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
If aunty had not agreed to his love request it won't have led to me finding out. How is she better than me? Wasn't it a coincidence that led to my seeing the love messages? These are people I know very well as a family, why are you guys not condemning the man and aunt and why is no one talking about the innocent wife who doesn't deserve all these from her so called big cousin. Hmm this world ehn
If think so, but you have an obligation to keep that secret. Yes telling the wife will do more harm than good . But you can find a wise way to get the woman not to do it.
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Dshocker(m): 8:35am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.
They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.
Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex
Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms. Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.
What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't. Please how do I go about this?
Make her understand that you know everything, and threaten to expose her.

She will retrace her step.
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 8:37am On Jul 17, 2023
Dshocker:
Make her understand that you know everything, and threaten to expose her.

She will retrace her step.
This was my initial plan but each time I see her my heart melt and I'm concerned how she'll feel afterwards. Aside this dirty game she's playing she's a very nice aunty
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 8:39am On Jul 17, 2023
Osashalom:
If think so, but you have an obligation to keep that secret. Yes telling the wife will do more harm than good . But you can find a wise way to get the woman not to do it.
Keeping the secret is eating me up, I always feel I should do something to stop all these rubbish
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Osashalom: 8:45am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
Keeping the secret is eating me up, I always feel I should do something to stop all these rubbish
Do something no doubt, but that secret must be kept even if it eats you down.....
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by IamtheTruth1(m): 9:19am On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
She's cousin to his wife which is where my shock came from. If this thing eventually get leaked my conscience will never let me rest knowing fully well I could have done something to stop it which is why I came here for suggestions. That man must not sow the seed of discord in that family. You won't understand
Trust me, I understand. Leaking it will cause more damage than good. That marriage will end. And you know who suffers divorce? The children.Please what is your relationship with all parties involved? Pardon me, if u said it and I missed it.


The best you can do is to approach either the lady or the man. Tell them you are aware and have been observing that you are just one minute from leaking it.
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