IconicR:
Her Cousin's husband oooo . So 😢 and the man is a renowned chronic womanizer . This aunty is the last person I expect such from. The thing is really disturbing me because the man's wife doesn't deserve this type of nonsense

It's possible that the lady is just playing him so she won't loose her job, since she is divorce she probably have children with hungry mouths to feed. Maybe she is just playing the man in other for her not to loose her job

IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.
They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.
Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex
Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms. Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.
What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't. Please how do I go about this?

Paragraphing is not your strong point.

Thermodynamics:


It's possible that the lady is just playing him so she won't loose her job, since she is divorce she probably have children with hungry mouths to feed. Maybe she is just playing the man in other for her not to loose her job

She won't lose her job because her cousin won't allow that, she's just with one child and the man wouldn't have done anything harsh if she rejected him. She was carried away by the small small assistance and chose the path of evil

TheBillyonaire:


Paragraphing is not your strong point.

Sorry, I no sabi write

IconicR:
You are the mumu for not knowing she could later succumb against her wish since they are always together and the pressure from the man isn't stopping any time soon which is all her fault for trying to play this devilish game

That man isn't the only man hitting on her, women always have men around trying to get under their panties.

In as much as you are concerned, you don't meddle into people's privacy.

Allow the wife to catch them herself, simple.

IconicR:
You are the mumu for not knowing she could later succumb against her wish since they are always together and the pressure from the man isn't stopping any time soon which is all her fault for trying to play this devilish game

If you are so concerned about catching cheats, break into your sisters, brothers or Relatives phones, you must surely catch one person cheating, report the person as well.

As na relationship and cheating police you don turn into.

IconicR:
Her Cousin's husband oooo . So 😢 and the man is a renowned chronic womanizer . This aunty is the last person I expect such from. The thing is really disturbing me because the man's wife doesn't deserve this type of nonsense

There is nothing bad in being a womanizer

SenatePresdo:


If you are so concerned about catching cheats, break into your sisters, brothers or Relatives phones, you must surely catch one person cheating, report the person as well.

As na relationship and cheating police you don turn into.

Why is nobody talking about the innocent wife who doesn't deserve all these devilish thing? Is the society this bad? One thing is I'll surely make sure this stupid affair ends. I'm just trying to get more suggestions on how to go about it. A useless man will not come and sow the seed of discord in that family, I'll not allow that

IconicR:
Keeping the secret is eating me up, I always feel I should do something to stop all these rubbish

Before you make any decision, pls consider/answer the following questions/facts:

1. It must be stated clearly that regardless of your motives, you have violated your Aunt's privacy. It would have been fine if you mistakenly read the message, but the extra mile you took, and even intend to take when you mentioned somewhere, (if I am not mistaking) that you intend to stylishly check her phone again, is completely wrong. This must be stated clearly and you should not proceed further on this.

2. You said he is a womanizer. What makes you think the wife is not aware of this fact about here husband. As a mater of fact, what makes you think the wife is not even aware of the situation right now. Don't say is not possible. Because even what you have just found out, you would have argued and probably State it as an impossibility. You said it yourself that you were shocked when you found out. You may be shocked further. Everything is not always as it seems. When it comes to marriage, you would be shocked to know what happens behind doors.

3. What do you think would come out of the revelation. That the man will change or what?.

4. What makes you feel obliged or compelled to 'do something' or not to mind your business?. Don't you think the wife who chose to marry whatever she chose to marry should be allowed to carry her cross. Consider this together with paragraph 2 above.

4. Is it possible that with your revelation, people will be more compelled to dwell on your indiscretion than even on the evil you are trying to address? An ability to keep things to yourself sometimes is maturity. Remember these are not intending couples, these are all matured adults who know right from wrong and know what they want and don't want.

Womanizer:


There is nothing bad in being a womanizer

see this proud one. It'll surely catch up with you if you don't repent

juri:


Before you make any decision, pls consider/answer the following questions/facts:

1. It must be stated clearly that regardless of your motives, you have violated your Aunt's privacy. It would have been fine if you mistakenly read the message, but the extra mile you took, and even intend to take when you mentioned somewhere, (if I am not mistaking) that you intend to stylishly check her phone again, is completely wrong. This must be stated clearly and you should not proceed further on this.

2. You said he is a womanizer. What makes you think the wife is not aware of this fact about here husband. As a mater of fact, what makes you think the wife is not even aware of the situation right now. Don't say is not possible. Because even what you have just found out, you would have argued and probably State it as an impossibility. You said it yourself that you were shocked when you found out. You may be shocked further. Everything is not always as it seems. When it comes to marriage, you would be shocked to know what happens behind doors.

3. What do you think would come out of the revelation. That the man will change or what?.

4. What makes you feel obliged or compelled to 'do something' or not to mind your business?. Don't you think the wife who chose to marry whatever she chose to marry should be allowed to carry her cross. Consider this together with paragraph 2 above.

4. Is it possible that with your revelation, people will be more compelled to dwell on your indiscretion than even on the evil you are trying to address? An ability to keep things to yourself sometimes is maturity. Remember these are not intending couples, these are all matured adults who know right from wrong and know what they want and don't want.

I understand you but I can also tell you that marriage will break if the man's wife gets to find out and it will cause enmity in the family which is what I'm trying to prevent. Don't you also think it was God that made me see that message for a purpose? I can smell danger ahead and for the fact that I'm feeling so uneasy about it means God wants me to do something, I always know when God is talking to me.

IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.
They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.
Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex
Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms. Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.
What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't. Please how do I go about this?

Omo stay out of it. Mind Ur business if u no wan die untimely death. I say again, mind Ur business.

They only thing u go fit do know na to ensure u no get involve any of this messy situation. If na me I go dey pray make the wife by chance discover the hidden things about the husband, na where casala go burst be that.

IconicR:
Why is nobody talking about the innocent wife who doesn't deserve all these devilish thing? Is the society this bad? One thing is I'll surely make sure this stupid affair ends. I'm just trying to get more suggestions on how to go about it. A useless man will not come and sow the seed of discord in that family, I'll not allow that

I'm not saying you are wrong for being against cheating.

My concern is how you went about it, why break into someones privacy without their permission?

If you don't find any problem with that, make sure you continue breaking into the phones of peoples that are close to you, you will catch many cheating.

Endeavor to expose them.

IconicR:
Why is nobody talking about the innocent wife who doesn't deserve all these devilish thing? Is the society this bad? One thing is I'll surely make sure this stupid affair ends. I'm just trying to get more suggestions on how to go about it. A useless man will not come and sow the seed of discord in that family, I'll not allow that

Assuming you caught me in Hotel cheating with someone, and then decide to cast me, no problem.

But breaking into my phone to transfer data? Com on!

IconicR:
I understand you but I can also tell you that marriage will break if the man's wife gets to find out and it will cause enmity in the family which is what I'm trying to prevent. Don't you also think it was God that made me see that message for a purpose? I can smell danger ahead and for the fact that I'm feeling so uneasy about it means God wants me to do something, I always know when God is talking to me.

So, can you do something without revealing your level of awareness and involvement in the matter. And this should be done carefully. Again, To conceal your level of awareness by all means. Say for example, you tell your Aunt and the the man's wife together that you heard some people talking with surgestive comments about a relationship between your Aunt the this woman's husband, but before you could come around to see who they were, they were gone, and then advise that your Aunt put a transfer out of the husbands office to stop these 'unfounded rumours'.

You are the only one that can come up with a perfect scenerio for this kind of approach because you know them well. In my opinion, it has to be communicated to the both of them and possibly same time so the wife can be on her toes and the Aunt to take more decisive steps. But pls remember, it it critical that you consider all the possible questions that may arise from your narrative so as to conceal your level of knowledge and awareness.

NEVER EVER mentione the message you saw and what you did with it. If after this the relationship still continues and the wife is not wise and smart enough to her responsibility, you hands off.

By the way, I thought you mentioned that they were all in the same organization. You mean that rumours or body language haven't given the wife a hint all these while?.

juri:


So, can you do something without revealing your level of awareness and involvement in the matter. And this should be done carefully. Again, To conceal your level of awareness by all means. Say for example, you tell your Aunt and the the man's wife together that you heard some people talking with surgestive comments about a relationship between your Aunt the this woman's husband, but before you could come around to see who they were, they were gone, and then advise that your Aunt put a transfer out of the husbands office to stop these 'unfounded rumours'.

You are the only one that can come up with a perfect scenerio for this kind of approach because you know them well. In my opinion, it has to be communicated to the both of them and possibly same time so the wife can be on her toes and the Aunt to take more decisive steps. But pls remember, it it critical that you consider all the possible questions that may arise from your narrative so as to conceal your level of knowledge and awareness.

NEVER EVER mentione the message you saw and what you did with it. If after this the relationship still continues and the wife is not wise and smart enough to her responsibility, you hands off.

By the way, I thought you mentioned that they were all in the same organization. You mean that rumours or body language haven't given the wife a hint all these while?.

The wife will be the last person to ever suspect such thing from her big cousin. I like your suggestion and I'll go with it. Thanks

IconicR:
It is abominable if done with the wrong person

It is not! Or were you conceive out of abomination ?

lomprico:


It is not! Or were you conceive out of abomination ?

Dont you see anything wrong with it? Na WA oooooo

Nonsense plus rubbish story
The tales people come up with just for likes and views on nairaland of all places is just disappointing

IconicR:
Do you don't see anything wrong with it? Na WA oooooo

Sex is not an abominable act period!

NonsenseRubbish:
Nonsense plus rubbish story
The tales people come up with just for likes and views on nairaland of all places is just disappointing

How you came up with this is worrisome. Writing is not even my thing so take your rubbish away. I don't know if a faceless likes can be converted to money

IconicR:
When she was jobless, it was her cousin that talked to her husband to help her out, the man intentionally placed her in his office (I read this part in their chats) to have easy access to her but she's the last person I ever expect to play this devilish game. I'll never trust anyone ever again around my future spouse. The world is a wicked place

It is good you see the high level of wickedness. Very soon, both of them go start to fork. Constant forking.

IconicR:
How you came up with this is worrisome. Writing is not even my thing so take your rubbish away. I don't know if a faceless likes can be converted to money

get a life you jobless troll

IconicR:
She won't lose her job because her cousin won't allow that, she's just with one child and the man wouldn't have done anything harsh if she rejected him. She was carried away by the small small assistance and chose the path of evil

You think? You don't know how wicked some men can be when they want to sleep with a particular woman. He might find a way to sack her without his wife getting angry. Don't just get involved in something you know nothing about, the fact that the lady refuse to sleep with him should let you know that she might be playing him. I suggest you confront the lady and ask her what is really going on to know if she is just scared of loosing her job.

IconicR:
Why is nobody talking about the innocent wife who doesn't deserve all these devilish thing? Is the society this bad? One thing is I'll surely make sure this stupid affair ends. I'm just trying to get more suggestions on how to go about it. A useless man will not come and sow the seed of discord in that family, I'll not allow that

You may know the beginning of a war. You can never tell how it will turn out.
You're saying nobody is considering the innocent wife, but somebody already told you that if it blows up, it may eventually lead to divorce and the children will suffer. Isn't that considerate enough?
I doubt you are married. Marriage is all than this lovey-dovey you see on social media.

Somebody told you to send anonymous message but you don't want to listen.
Don't worry. Go ahead and confront her. You hear?
She can't do you anything abi? F.u.kc around and find out.

I'm not going to tell you to stop. Just go ahead. Do it today please.
The come back here and tell us the result.

Peace.

IconicR:
Her Cousin's husband oooo . So 😢 and the man is a renowned chronic womanizer . This aunty is the last person I expect such from. The thing is really disturbing me because the man's wife doesn't deserve this type of nonsense

You are so dramatic with equally dramatic people in your life.

Dating or fornicating?

Fear Woman

You too if possible chop and clean mouth. Who iif your cousin husband too dry flog another man babe. I bind every monitoring spirit from you

EXPOSE THEM!

But dem never do the do naw, why you dey para? Allow dem do the do fess

It will shock you that the cousin won't even care....and you will end up looking stupid