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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by pansophist(m): 4:30pm On Jul 16, 2023
I wan start to repent.

Make I no talk wetin de my mind. grin
Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya: 5:06pm On Jul 16, 2023
pansophist:
I wan start to repent.

Make I no talk wetin de my mind. grin

Talk am cheesy grin

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Zigzagman: 8:09pm On Jul 16, 2023
pansophist:
I wan start to repent.

Make I no talk wetin de my mind. grin

nairaland members don't give advice they look for your mistakes and judge you according. If you don't have one, like typographical error they will always manufacture one psychologically to taunts you.
Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Nobody: 8:41pm On Jul 16, 2023
Dimaya:


Go and sit down, abeg. I resemble your mate? You need to take a chill pill, perhaps largactil?
bla bla bla bla tongue
Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Pussyassasin(m): 8:50pm On Jul 16, 2023
Purvan:
Only a simp will take a woman to restaurant or cinema on a date
where do you suggest we take them then? The moon?
You hardly see any amusement parks or gardens in this shithole(except in places like lag, abj e.t.c). Everything just hard for this country.

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Billgatessecond: 5:03am On Jul 17, 2023
Dimaya:
There are friends that will spend 200k on lunch with a woman they will sleep with probably just once without realising that they're ruining the girl for the next guy and also for herself because she will spend/waste the rest of her life looking for that same standard.


Let me burst your head brother..
I think it's the rich men that caused all this ..
Honestly I work in one of the biggest fine dine restaurant in Lagos .. I wouldn't like to mention the name most of our guest are usually expatriates and men of high calibre...
I can tell you I have seen sanwo Olu 5times , Tiwa savage and so on


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There was this day while I was working in the restaurant. A group of people had a little get together. One of the guest called me and told me to take a bottle of don periong that cost 564k on the restaurant menu to the girls table . I did so then they gave me their numbers to give the man ..

In my head I was like wtf ..

Honestly when girls like that tell they colleagues about there experience.. those ones to will be in search of a man with 90 billion dollars.. then the pressure from her fellow friends begin to rise so as hatred .. you know women are easily attracted to what they see and hear ..


So when you see a lady that is billing u on a first date don't be mad at her most of them just want to belong

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Billgatessecond: 5:04am On Jul 17, 2023
marlow1962:
Na poverty they cause am, chia e no go better for Nigerian politicians, especially apc ppl.


If Na poverty we men suppose day select cause Na we day face pass

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by femmoy(m): 5:40am On Jul 17, 2023
Zigzagman:


My take:
1. A lack of good job will definitely put you out of the dating selection pool

2. Women worldwide knows that he who pays the piper dictate the tunes. if you're or bucks'ed up, forget about chasing the box. grin

3. If as a man for any reason u earn less than ur dating partner, she will start looking for someone who earns more

4. If at the beginning u were earning more and somehow by twist of faith she begins to earn more, same rule applies, u will still loose ur spot in her life.

5. Women these days have equated submissiveness with u having to provide. know this and know peace.

6. Women are the same worldwide! If u think u will leave one because of the above reasons, I can tell u for free that u are a joker

Point number 5 is 100% correct. Even in marriage,not just dating relationship.

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by marlow1962(m): 8:45am On Jul 17, 2023
Billgatessecond:



If Na poverty we men suppose day select cause Na we day face pass
Nigerian men hardly get test, anything under skirt goes.
Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya: 4:35pm On Jul 17, 2023
Billgatessecond:



Let me burst your head brother..
I think it's the rich men that caused all this ..
Honestly I work in one of the biggest fine dine restaurant in Lagos .. I wouldn't like to mention the name most of our guest are usually expatriates and men of high calibre...
I can tell you I have seen sanwo Olu 5times , Tiwa savage and so on


Main story

There was this day while I was working in the restaurant. A group of people had a little get together. One of the guest called me and told me to take a bottle of don periong that cost 564k on the restaurant menu to the girls table . I did so then they gave me their numbers to give the man ..

In my head I was like wtf ..

Honestly when girls like that tell they colleagues about there experience.. those ones to will be in search of a man with 90 billion dollars.. then the pressure from her fellow friends begin to rise so as hatred .. you know women are easily attracted to what they see and hear ..


So when you see a lady that is billing u on a first date don't be mad at her most of them just want to belong

That's why a young girl will say confidently to an old man that she is not his mate.

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Zigzagman: 1:22pm On Jul 18, 2023
Dimaya:


That's why a young girl will say confidently to an old man that she is not his mate.

If she dey date senator, truly she no be your mate. You no hear say sanwooolu dey go that restaurant lipsrsealed

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Worldtaker: 1:24pm On Jul 18, 2023
Yeah, things are changing everywhere. Not only in Nigeria mehn. Even outside Nigeria. It is everywhere. But Nigeria situation is aggravated by poverty and greediness

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Zigzagman: 3:37pm On Jul 18, 2023
Worldtaker:
Yeah, things are changing everywhere. Not only in Nigeria mehn. Even outside Nigeria. It is everywhere. But Nigeria situation is aggravated by poverty and greediness

true

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Zigzagman: 10:07pm On Jul 18, 2023
everybody is looking for who will better their lives. nobody wants a burden.

and this applies to both men and women

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya: 5:46pm On Jul 19, 2023
Zigzagman:
everybody is looking for who will better their lives. nobody wants a burden.

and this applies to both men and women

No truer words have been said
Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Savedday2: 7:12pm On Jul 19, 2023
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya: 9:31pm On Jul 19, 2023
Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

Baba, why are you like this naw grin

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Karlifate: 7:34am On Jul 20, 2023
Billgatessecond:



Let me burst your head brother..
I think it's the rich men that caused all this ..
Honestly I work in one of the biggest fine dine restaurant in Lagos .. I wouldn't like to mention the name most of our guest are usually expatriates and men of high calibre...
I can tell you I have seen sanwo Olu 5times , Tiwa savage and so on


Main story

There was this day while I was working in the restaurant. A group of people had a little get together. One of the guest called me and told me to take a bottle of don periong that cost 564k on the restaurant menu to the girls table . I did so then they gave me their numbers to give the man ..

In my head I was like wtf ..

Honestly when girls like that tell they colleagues about there experience.. those ones to will be in search of a man with 90 billion dollars.. then the pressure from her fellow friends begin to rise so as hatred .. you know women are easily attracted to what they see and hear ..


So when you see a lady that is billing u on a first date don't be mad at her most of them just want to belong

Dimaya:


That's why a young girl will say confidently to an old man that she is not his mate.

This is why these women will keep sharing one man, as rich men are not much to go around.

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya: 10:57am On Jul 20, 2023
Exactly. When you hear a woman complain that no good men exist, she means no rich, handsome, young man whom other women would envy her being with.

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Jeffyblaq(m): 11:39pm On Jul 20, 2023
Dimaya:


That's why a young girl will say confidently to an old man that she is not his mate.
A Kenyan lady of 26 years of age has actually said dat shit to me in one of my outings.. Like WTF ☹️

Told her to correct herself and rephrase the word she used earlier or take a bounce for real.. POLITELY!

She said that I'm rude!IMAGINE 🤔Shits didn't go well with us as she left immediately..

No room for nonsense or to welcome any silly attitude. NO LIE!
Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Zigzagman: 12:17pm On Jul 21, 2023
Jeffyblaq:

A Kenyan lady of 26 years of age has actually said dat shit to me in one of my outings.. Like WTF ☹️

Told her to correct herself and rephrase the word she used earlier or take a bounce for real.. POLITELY!

She said that I'm rude!IMAGINE 🤔Shits didn't go well with us as she left immediately..

No room for nonsense or to welcome any silly attitude. NO LIE!

crazy mtf
Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by ideamonster: 12:48pm On Jul 21, 2023
Karlifate:




This is why these women will keep sharing one man, as rich men are not much to go around.

exactly
Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya: 9:15pm On Jul 21, 2023
Godoverevery:


Fools talks, coward stay silent and wise men listen.

Humpty dumpty keep bragging......lol

cheesy
Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya: 11:55am On Jul 22, 2023
No mind the chic
Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by ideamonster: 7:41pm On Jul 22, 2023
No truer words have been spoken here today. Very true.
Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya: 12:34pm On Jul 24, 2023
Jeffyblaq:

A Kenyan lady of 26 years of age has actually said dat shit to me in one of my outings.. Like WTF ☹️

Told her to correct herself and rephrase the word she used earlier or take a bounce for real.. POLITELY!

She said that I'm rude!IMAGINE 🤔Shits didn't go well with us as she left immediately..

No room for nonsense or to welcome any silly attitude. NO LIE!

It's called hoeflation

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by ideamonster: 4:44pm On Jul 24, 2023
Jeffyblaq:

A Kenyan lady of 26 years of age has actually said dat shit to me in one of my outings.. Like WTF ☹️

Told her to correct herself and rephrase the word she used earlier or take a bounce for real.. POLITELY!

She said that I'm rude!IMAGINE 🤔Shits didn't go well with us as she left immediately..

No room for nonsense or to welcome any silly attitude. NO LIE!

just leave such girls jejely alone. They're usually not worth it

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by ideamonster: 2:01pm On Jul 25, 2023
not worth it
Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Zigzagman: 1:43pm On Jul 26, 2023
At this point, ive just realised that nobody cares

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Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by ideamonster: 3:23pm On Jul 26, 2023
Zigzagman:
At this point, ive just realised that nobody cares

don't lose heart. it works well at the end of the day

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