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If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by Pukkalolo: 9:42pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Right now, I want to ask you all this million dollar question: What does a MAN actually benefit from marriage? *cricket sounds* No response I thought as much... Well, let me help you answer it: A man benefits literally NOTHING from marriage. In reality, he actually 'lose' more. Now, you may argue that he gain kids and affection from marrying....Duh! Well, dickhead, he can as well get that from a baby mama or something. It turns out that many kids prefers their mother than their father. The man provide for the kids and pay their school fees and sort the bills.... Despite that, the kids still love their mum than their dad. Even you as a guy reading this now; Yes, YOU. I'm talking to you. I'm sure you love your mother more than your father. If there's a conflict between your mother and father, chances are that you will stand with your mum. But guess what, Karma is real. Your kids will also stand with their mum when you have a conflict with your wife despite all your effort in training the kids and giving them good life. So as we were saying: for men, there's no benefits from committing to a woman and getting married to her. I saw a comic in a newspaper... The man who was about to get married was telling his buddies, "I'm so happy because once I get married, I can have sex whenever I want." And the woman who was to marry the man was telling her females friends, "I'm so happy because once I get married, I'll never have to have sex again." It was intended for comic relief, but they were indirectly expressing the sad reality of many marriages... Many men are in a sexless marriage, and it's not even funny at all. Men and women love need sex...but women need sex in a different way than men do. The biggest problem is the unrealistic view women have about marriage. They view marriage as the final bustop. Once they finally wear the wedding rings, the Job is done. She feels she can now misbehave. Her misbehavior won't start immediately. After you marry her, in the first few months or years, the sex is always fantastic: she'll seemed very willing and receptive towards the sex. But sooner than you think, she'd start turning down the man sexual attempt for flimsy excuses like “i am tired” or “i dont have the mood now” or other very humiliating bullshit excuses. Here's the bitter truth most men won't want to swallow: Women don't respect a male commitment "after" she has gotten it. You can argue with me, get agitated and gnash your teeth over it...but that's just the bitter truth. Look, she gets bored with male commitment 'after' she has gotten it. She no longer feel the need to be at her best behavior because she has already gotten what she want most in the man--wedding ring. Basically, the moment you marry her is the very moment her attraction and desire for you begins to drop. The very thing makes the man appealing to a woman is the fact that she's working hard to get him to commit. It's the "uncertainty" and the not being sure if the man will put the ring on her finger is what makes him desirable to her. When the man finally marry her, he's no longer a challenge for her to keep working hard to impress....so she starts to lose desire for him. In her mind she's like, "Why should I keep working hard to impress him when the job is already done?" As a result, the woman's interest in sex gradual deline with time. She starts to feel bored with the sex. Women will NEVER admit this but that's the truth. Infact, don't listen to women on this subject. Men should stop being weak and sentimental. Marriage is the best gift a woman can get from you. You're doing her a BIG favor by marrying her, so getting sex from her is non-negotiable. If she refuse to give you sex for flimsy reasons, then withdraw your commitment immedately. Marriage has always been for women. Getting married to her is a huge sacrifice you are making for her... So If she get bored with giving you sex, you should also get bored with giving her your commitment. Stay blessed brothers. 53 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by thisisit: 10:31pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Hmmmmn.... |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by GingerbreadMen(m): 10:33pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
This guy is not lying. Women do have everything to gain from marriage, and women know this but will never admit it. Men on the other hand, have very little to gain from marriage. Someone would like to argue that children and commitment are things men would benefit from marriage but how is it a benefit if you can still have both of them when you aren't married. Also, when you consider the belief system of the type of females we have nowadays, you would realize that marriage might just be dead or a very bumpy ride at best 😤 It is very demotivating honesty! 17 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by TheFreshVanilla: 10:50pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
So what about our fore-fathers that married several women and did well? 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by thesicilian: 11:03pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
I read through your post 2 times to find fault in it but sadly enough I found none. 26 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:24pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
all what you wrote is the result of anyone being in a long term r/ship...whether married or not. it is completely normal for people to be lazy after they said "i do" (or after dating for a few yrs)... after marriage, many feel that they dont need to woo nor do anything to conquer their partner any longer, as they are already married, so after marriage, they stop going on dates, they stop doing fun things etc. THIS IS A MEN AND WOMEN issue, and certainly not solely a women issue... get real! many men get tired of their wife/gf after a few yrs and the sex/attraction/Affection aint the same. this is called LIFE!!!! and someone who values more than just the sexual part of their union, will work through it to find ways to spice their union, spice their bedroom activities, spice their life with fun things again....while the lazy disrespectful ones will just go and look for other people to satisfy their needs. BTW in Nigeria, i can find many benefit to marriage (for some men): - your parents wont give you headaches no more and whine everytime you visit about "when yu gonna get married and give them grandchildren" - your pastor wont look at you as a wasted seed - your friends and acquaintances wont be looking at you as a failure because you aint married.... yes in Nigeria, anyone who aint married with kids, is seen as a failure. as much as i dont believe in marriage, i understand that it makes sense to a lot of people out there... and to each their own! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by Aw6793: 11:30pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Na you and your papa want read this trash? 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by Tunde835(m): 11:35pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Nobody truly cares about you as a man till you die. 11 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by LikeAking: 12:04am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Pukkalolo: Oga , you are very correct.. Marriage on the other hand is for raising kids.. Not to make your wife perfect or even enjoy the marriage.. It's an institution humans created to make a better world.. Men too need to do some things that will make their women give them pussy steadily. 1. Aviod returning home very early always. Some days you have to be somewhere else. 2. Have other females, or act so.. Chat with those ya street girls very well, give them a lift, etc.. Make e pain ya wife. 3. Use a very good perfume, they love it.. 4. Go out steadily, it makes them suspecious. 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by Yhemzie(m): 1:25am On Jul 18, 2023 |
I guess this OP is above 50yrs, all he said is 100% fact. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by karkinase(m): 1:29am On Jul 18, 2023 |
LikeAking:You no lie 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by Nigerfine3: 2:07am On Jul 18, 2023 |
I salute your write up, straight up. Young men learn, let's save our future 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by dontrulee: 2:15am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Marriage na scam. |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by Omoawoke: 2:26am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Nairaland girls can’t deny the fact that marriage is the best gift they can get from a man |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by id4sho(m): 2:43am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by yetmao: 2:47am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Just as its happening to me right now. She locked up, me sef locked up. Nothing she can benefit from me again, I order foodstuff myself and its the best decision I made. We are just there for the kids. 10 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by crackhouse(m): 3:44am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Yeah. |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by RPG2020(m): 5:50am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Was the reason of getting married at the end you will lose everything |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by skj1377(m): 6:00am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Make her jealous. Dress like your going to a party with nice perfume 3 times a week and come home by 10pm. Watch her reaction.they hate competition yetmao: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by MrBroke(m): 7:46am On Jul 18, 2023 |
💯 true. You understand the game 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by Kevineleven(m): 7:51am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Just find love and marry the love of your life, she is out there believe me, you must learn to smoke out and cut off fake lovers in your journey. Oh blessed is the man that finds his missing rib, for he alone will know that marriage is the best thing that can happen to a man. 6 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by Starboytwo(m): 8:00am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Marry another wife or get sex where you can get it na. No time for play play. If you don’t wanna have sex, others wanna have. |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by yetmao: 8:49am On Jul 18, 2023 |
skj1377: The jealous plot will work on most women. But I have outgrown playing games with women. Once women didn't have their way, they use sex as ransom. It's either I get the sex elsewhere or self-service. Once she's done capping, she either quit the marriage or comport herself. 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by starpower(m): 9:02am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Kevineleven:when one loss out they have all this funny rules. Expectations damages things. If my wife doesn't want sex I don't imagine she is weaponising it. I try understanding the problem. Most of us are traumatized and also living with traumatized fellows. Can't try damaging yourself because of someone. If she is misbehaving, I wash everything washable and try to sleep. We all have alternatives. Who should spoil my wife if not me and I should be treated special too. Give without expecting. |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by BreconHills(m): 9:03am On Jul 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: It is not a relationship issue it is a brain issue. The brain saves processing power by only paying attention to what is new, novel or dangerous. Who meditates on the wonders of their route to work ? Unless the parties introduce newness into their relationship - it will become automated action. I know a woman who started picking up her husband during some of his lunch breaks to go have sex in different hotels - to everyone their own. But all usual actions are automated by the brain and this is hurtful to the feelings if others. |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by Quadribabaalagb: 9:25am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Omoh,Una don flog this topic tire. The topic no tire you. Either you marry or not,as long as you having sex,you need my herbs oooo. I sell herbs tho |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by ukaface(f): 9:36am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Nigerfine3:And your future is?? 1 Like |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by qtguru(m): 9:54am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Only he good ones suffer sexless marriages, based on observation. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by Kevineleven(m): 10:25am On Jul 18, 2023 |
starpower:Worded |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by Crownwhale(m): 10:27am On Jul 18, 2023 |
You are spiritually deluded |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by Nobody: 10:30am On Jul 18, 2023 |
They preach about marriage not being a benefit to men yet get married every weekend lol This topic must sha appear here at least once or twice every week to hoodwink dull ignorant fellows, I'm not surprised anyway, when they have a damaged upbringing where their father and mother didn't marry thereby breeding kids from different women, of course they will want to recruit more members to their damaged circle whitewashing it as good, who in turn breeds kids that become a nuisance to the society like these ones, lol. 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Refuse To Give You Sex, Do This Immediately by kingslj: 10:32am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Pukkalolo: |
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