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Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? - Family (6) - Nairaland

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by robosky02(op): 11:56am On Jul 18, 2023
folake4u:
I understand totally. grin grin grin
What do you understand
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by ShaqFu: 12:07pm On Jul 18, 2023
folake4u:
Oh my! Ishi, you're giving me ideas. 😂😂😂
Oh I can help you pen it down, my pen-is always available. 😁😁
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by EriMma1: 1:00pm On Jul 18, 2023
fof1:
You are Very Wrong...Married Couples do ask...You Can Demand for it at any time. But More importantly, Understand Urselves and ur Non Verbal Conversations...It is Children that do do it through Rough Play...Amateur Couples. Pls Free urself from any Guilt. You have All 3 or 4 Licenses to do Well...Except in Some Sick Conditions Pls.
Well for me, asking will make it too straightforward and unromantic. Na old school dem dey ask.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by DeGLORIOUS: 1:42pm On Jul 18, 2023
It's romantic if a woman ask for it.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by folake4u: 2:06pm On Jul 18, 2023
ShaqFu:
Oh I can help you pen it down, my pen-is always available. 😁😁
No Sir, you cannot use your pen in my office. wink
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by delishpot: 2:14pm On Jul 18, 2023
airsaylongcome:
Many wives would rather die than initiate it. And in the unlikely event that they do, and you dare decline, just know say e don be. Whereas men have consistently initiated it and been declined without the world falling. They will try again another day despite the rejection. But not women
Because men feel insecure if their wives are very active in za Oza room. You start hearing Hmn, this one that she always asks for it, can she hold body if I travel? Men are confused. They want women that don't value sex at the same time she should value sex only when they want it
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by FireUpNow(m): 2:36pm On Jul 18, 2023
enemyofprogress:
if I see person wey go even buy my prick, I dey ready to sell am sef. Who prick epp?
You dey lie bro! Fear go let you sell your prick? We know that things are hard but it's still needed.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Coolgent(m): 4:23pm On Jul 18, 2023
EriMma1:
I don't see any reason why I can't as a woman when I feel like it. I mean... We are now married. He's my property and I can use him anyhow and any time I like.

As a woman, if you need your man, just start playing some kind " rough" play with him or touch him in places that will suggest what you want and if he's a sharp guy he'll understand. You don't need to tell him you want it. Just play with him.

The only time you should respect yourself is when you touch him and he says no, Leave him alone and bounce out like you don't care.
Very responsible comment.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by ShaqFu: 7:19pm On Jul 18, 2023
folake4u:
No Sir, you cannot use your pen in my office. wink
perhaps I can use my pen where it's more private and cosy, remember my pen-is good. 🙂
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by folake4u: 7:24pm On Jul 18, 2023
ShaqFu:
perhaps I can use my pen where it's more private and cosy, remember my pen-is good. 🙂
No Sir. Find another office for your pen.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by GloriousGbola: 7:30pm On Jul 18, 2023
folake4u:
No Sir. Find another office for your pen.
Olodo lawyer

You mean orifice for your quill tongue
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by ShaqFu: 7:31pm On Jul 18, 2023
folake4u:
No Sir. Find another office for your pen.
okey dokey, you don't know what you're missing. 😁
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by folake4u: 7:54pm On Jul 18, 2023
GloriousGbola:
Olodo lawyer

You mean orifice for your quill tongue
Leave me alone. grin grin
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by folake4u: 7:55pm On Jul 18, 2023
ShaqFu:
okey dokey, you don't know what you're missing. 😁
I will miss nothing.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by ShaqFu: 10:40pm On Jul 18, 2023
folake4u:
I will miss nothing.
This is exactly what those who haven't eaten party jollof rice say, until they eat it. wink
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by folake4u: 12:19am On Jul 19, 2023
ShaqFu:
This is exactly what those who haven't eaten party jollof rice say, until they eat it. wink
I'm a fried rice person, sorry. cheesy
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by ShaqFu: 6:18am On Jul 19, 2023
folake4u:
I'm a fried rice person, sorry. cheesy
there's always a first time. wink
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by mrblessed(m): 7:43am On Jul 19, 2023
Soon you guys will idiotically ask if it's right to be a woman.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by folake4u: 7:50am On Jul 19, 2023
ShaqFu:
there's always a first time. wink
Thanks but no thanks. grin
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by ShaqFu: 8:59am On Jul 19, 2023
folake4u:
Thanks but no thanks. grin
Cheers.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by huntax(m): 7:51pm On Jul 19, 2023
AntiChristian:
That's haram in Islam!
Go and read about it... It's simply pre-intimacy.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by huntax(m): 7:52pm On Jul 19, 2023
AntiChristian:
That's haram in Islam!

Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by AntiChristian: 12:53pm On Jul 20, 2023
[quote author=huntax post=124528368][/quote]As per Orals, i agree some scholars deem it permissible and some deem it forbidden!

I go with those who said it is forbidden!

I see no morals in licking,/sucking the veejay/Pen despite the impurities that passed through that place!
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by AntiChristian: 12:55pm On Jul 20, 2023
huntax:
Go and read about it... It's simply pre-intimacy.
OK

Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by huntax(m): 6:14am On Jul 21, 2023
AntiChristian:
As per Orals, i agree some scholars deem it permissible and some deem it forbidden!

I go with those who said it is forbidden!

I see no morals in licking,/sucking the veejay/Pen despite the impurities that passed through that place!
On the contrary, the veejay is clean. It's the anu.s God and the prophet (S.A.W) warned us about,because he did cover everything in the Hadith. If it was wrong, you'd have seen it there. Stuff like sex during menses, ana.l sex, homosexuality and others were covered and prohibited. Also, dressing like the opposite sex too...

But orals with your spouse is definitely not Haram.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by AntiChristian: 3:03pm On Jul 21, 2023
huntax:
On the contrary, the veejay is clean. It's the anu.s God and the prophet (S.A.W) warned us about,because he did cover everything in the Hadith. If it was wrong, you'd have seen it there. Stuff like sex during menses, ana.l sex, homosexuality and others were covered and prohibited. Also, dressing like the opposite sex too...

But orals with your spouse is definitely not Haram.
That's to you!

To me it is forbidden!
It's even made popular by the west!
And who told you that the veejay/Pen is clean to lick or suck?
You are even at elevated risk to Gonorrhea, Chlamidia, Hepatitis B ,C and some other STI.

Abeg, it's yuck!
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by huntax(m): 9:43pm On Jul 21, 2023
AntiChristian:
That's to you!

To me it is forbidden!
It's even made popular by the west!
And who told you that the veejay/Pen is clean to lick or suck?
You are even at elevated risk to Gonorrhea, Chlamidia, Hepatitis B ,C and some other STI.

Abeg, it's yuck!
Remember, it's between you and your wife... Why are you stating all those hoe-ish diseases lol.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by robosky02(op): 4:15pm On Sep 26, 2023
folake4u:
No Sir, you cannot use your pen in my office. wink
Office.... Ok lol
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